Banana-san said: Major props & luv to all you 3 lesbians.<3 + the gay ones. Much respect to ya. Bisexuals and staight people might feel discriminated now :P But I'm glad someone shows some love to the people who are despiced by many others. |
MortemSep 25, 2008 8:12 AM
-Angel- said: Drybananna said: Major props & luv to all you 3 lesbians.<3 + the gay ones. Much respect to ya. how about me? ;_; you wuv me? XD Oi! Of course I luv you! xD *tackle hugs* @Mortem: I was just saying that it takes a lot to finally figure out everything and accept it and all that, so I respect them for it. xP All orientations are perfectly fine. ^^ |
| I'm glad there are people like you around *hug* |
Mortem said: Bisexuals and staight people might feel discriminated now :P Well we could always just argue that bisexuals have an "eclectic view on sexual orientation." |
| I love that word :P |
| lol. sakuko said: Mortem said: Bisexuals and staight people might feel discriminated now :P Well we could always just argue that bisexuals have an "eclectic view on sexual orientation." true, true. hey, for future reference, would you classify a straight girl dating another girl bi-curious? because i wouldn't really classify my friend like that... she is open-minded anyways. |
2Bfreeyumi said: hey, for future reference, would you classify a straight girl dating another girl bi-curious? because i wouldn't really classify my friend like that... she is open-minded anyways. Hm. Bi-curious makes sense to me. One thing is for certain: She's not straight. |
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Kikku said: 2Bfreeyumi said: hey, for future reference, would you classify a straight girl dating another girl bi-curious? because i wouldn't really classify my friend like that... she is open-minded anyways. Hm. Bi-curious makes sense to me. One thing is for certain: She's not straight. lol, in any case, this will be the only girl (or anyone) she ever chooses. she has an arranged marriage in the future; which is why i'm not sure they should even date when no there's future.... |
2Bfreeyumi said: Kikku said: 2Bfreeyumi said: hey, for future reference, would you classify a straight girl dating another girl bi-curious? because i wouldn't really classify my friend like that... she is open-minded anyways. Hm. Bi-curious makes sense to me. One thing is for certain: She's not straight. lol, in any case, this will be the only girl (or anyone) she ever chooses. she has an arranged marriage in the future; which is why i'm not sure they should even date when no there's future.... Though she may have an arranged marriage doesn't mean she might not be straight... O.o |
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| Ah... But it hardly matters, right? She's in an arranged marriage. It doesn't matter if she's straight. She's stuck, right? She's got no choice. I can't imagine... I mean, does she love the person she's engaged to? |
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-Angel- said: Though she may have an arranged marriage doesn't mean she might not be straight... O.o hmm, maybe. Kikku said: Ah... But it hardly matters, right? She's in an arranged marriage. It doesn't matter if she's straight. She's stuck, right? She's got no choice. I can't imagine... I mean, does she love the person she's engaged to? he's not picked out yet. she does get to date him and decide if he's "acceptable" though. |
| After several weeks of debate and getting to know myself I've come to the conclusion that I've progressed from being bi with female tendencies to being full out lesbian. XD |
| Give me yuri and I'm good to go. |
AmayaKurogane said: After several weeks of debate and getting to know myself I've come to the conclusion that I've progressed from being bi with female tendencies to being full out lesbian. XD Congratulations. ^_^ |
| Well, at least this marriage is only possible with the approval of both people if I read it correctly. Let's just hope the parents will except their opinion and not force them to anything. |
AmayaKurogane said: After several weeks of debate and getting to know myself I've come to the conclusion that I've progressed from being bi with female tendencies to being full out lesbian. XD yay! i still have bi tendencies for guys though. gotta sort that out... Mortem said: Well, at least this marriage is only possible with the approval of both people if I read it correctly. Let's just hope the parents will except their opinion and not force them to anything. actually, for an update, her relationship was found out by her parents and they tried to end it, but she says she won't allow them to. for the first time in her life, she's rebelling against her parents. she's even going to leave them and no go through with arranged marriage. i'm so proud of her! fight for love! lol. |
2Bfreeyumi said: AmayaKurogane said: After several weeks of debate and getting to know myself I've come to the conclusion that I've progressed from being bi with female tendencies to being full out lesbian. XD yay! i still have bi tendencies for guys though. gotta sort that out... Mortem said: Well, at least this marriage is only possible with the approval of both people if I read it correctly. Let's just hope the parents will except their opinion and not force them to anything. actually, for an update, her relationship was found out by her parents and they tried to end it, but she says she won't allow them to. for the first time in her life, she's rebelling against her parents. she's even going to leave them and no go through with arranged marriage. i'm so proud of her! fight for love! lol. yeah thats right! arranged marriage = LOSE. she is doing the right thing. Kudos to her! |
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| lol, and she was the prefer daughter too. she never defied her parents. she was so angry when she was telling me about her family's argument, thinking, "don't you dare talk about her like that!" of course if she said that, they'd sent her back to india on the next flight. only a few more months then graduation and she can live with her girl. if she wants to go to college, she can get a scholarship. she's smarter than me. last year she was number 3 out of 500 students.... all of her friends, including me, are all sticking up for her, so if they need a place to meet i volunteered my place. |
| Fights suck, but I guess it will be better if she can be with the person she loves. I hope things will go alright with her ... |
| yep. and she's dating the girl i like, so if things go bad... but they're perfect for each other. *sigh* if i hadn't introduced them... well, it's better this way. |
geyik said: now, do we have a love triangle here? :P anyways,i'm glad that she could state who she is :) ... lol. i thought i'd have a chance after the summer, but then suddenly they were going out. that's what happens when you don't keep in contact for two months... well i'm just happy if she pays attention to me, because she usually won't if.... ok, it'd be so much easier to use names. they won't know.... right, Saran (pronounced Suran) is hindu, and she's the one with the strict family. the other, Am (short for Amarinth, her middle name), has been through a lot in her life. she has two kids, if that says anything. anyways, i like Am, but she just sees me as her friend >.< well, if Am pays attention to me, then i'm happy. she usually doesn't when Saran is near her. |
| Well I hope you find your own happiness too. I think that, because you can see they are made for eachother, can get over it soon. ((I don't have the right to say so but OK XD)) And if you love Am, you want her to be happy, and she is now, with Saran. |
Mortem said: Well I hope you find your own happiness too. I think that, because you can see they are made for eachother, can get over it soon. ((I don't have the right to say so but OK XD)) And if you love Am, you want her to be happy, and she is now, with Saran. yep, that's why i support them now. actually, there was another girl i liked at the same time as Am: Melanie. but she's straight. i confessed to her a few days ago, but i didn't bother go ask her out. she's open-minded but it'll work. guys are the only ones for her >.< |
| I'm cursed to like straight people too ((the guys I meant :P)) and yeah, it sucks. And the girls I like are so out of my reach so I've been single now for over 1.5 year >,< but I've only confessed to one person in that period, but she said it wouldn't work out. You've been unlucky in love too :( *pats 2BfreeYumi-chan* |
Mortem said: I'm cursed to like straight people too ((the guys I meant :P)) and yeah, it sucks. And the girls I like are so out of my reach so I've been single now for over 1.5 year >,< but I've only confessed to one person in that period, but she said it wouldn't work out. You've been unlucky in love too :( *pats 2BfreeYumi-chan* lol, yep. it's nice to know that not everyone gets a happy ending. makes you feel hopeless, you know. oh, but you've only been single "1.5" year, my chances have slipped my whole life-- well, from 9th grade on. before that doesn't count. ....not to sound depressing though. just stating facts... ^.^ |
| Well I can understand how you feel, my previous and only relation was for 2 months, and she wanted to get gid of me after les then one month, but a friend of hers made her try if it would work out. We had an "Arranged dating" Cause we were hooked up by our friends against our will. ((Yeah I'm a pushover)) So I sometimes wish I was like you ... I never got in that. |
| Straight but very open minded. |
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| um...bi only towards anime guys tho, i culd neva look at sum real guy and want him like that. yea my anime guys fantasy is shipuuden sasuke and non-shipuuden neji...2getha... |
[Hentai!] [/Hentai!] Damn...it didn't work |
| at the same time...rape?...me on the bad end... |
| [Hentai!] [/Hentai!] Damn...it didn't work |
| Strait-but open minded |
| if you like the same thing i do , talk PLEASE FEED MY PET!!  |
| bi, but like 75-25 for guys |
induce said: Totally straight. I'm pretty open-minded and I'm sure I'd be able to do bi and gay 'stuff' but it wouldn't arouse me the least. I'm all for girls... I guess. That's me... but i have to change the part of "gay 'stuff' " to lesbian 'stuff' and "I'm all for girls" to I'm all for boys... |
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| I'm totally straight. I love guys I found them hot, especially skinny tall guys :) I believe everyone has right to live freely as they want and I get angry at people who behaves badly or gossip about them!They have no right to judge.. I don't have any friend of gay,bi or lesbian (or I don't know). I'd be very happy to be friend, no problem.. |
geyik said: well, now that just because you like boys doesn't mean you don't like girls, does it? ;) unutmadan, hoşgeldin ^^ nope, I definitely don't like girls! if I did, I should have found out that till now :) teşekkürleeeeer geyik :) |
| What a nice club this is! :) As for me, I'm extremely bi-curious. I have a huge crush on one of my girlfriends (Sara) and I would die if she were my first kiss with a girl. *___* Yet our friendship is still in semi-begginer stages and I don't know how she feels about the whole thing in general. But we always act like we're a couple and our friends and new friends are like WTF haha. This one time one of our friends brought his friend to hang out and she reached out to hold my hand and of course I go along with it. He's all like, "Are you guys...going out? I mean, I'm cool with it and all." I wanted to say yes in a playful manner but I didn't wanna freak Sara out but she says "Yes!" That guy probably had things running through his head. Meanwhile I was shocked. *sigh* Handholding, feeding each other, waiting on line for a concert while I hold her, sometimes she gets in a really close and backs me up in a corner while our friends are "O___O" /ramble |
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| Well I'll be damned you're right. I haven't mentioned anyhting about guys. But as far as lesbian/bi things go, I only feel this way for her and not other girls at all. For the most part I do lean more towards guys than girls apparently. |
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PandaPuff said: What a nice club this is! :) As for me, I'm extremely bi-curious. I have a huge crush on one of my girlfriends (Sara) and I would die if she were my first kiss with a girl. *___* Yet our friendship is still in semi-begginer stages and I don't know how she feels about the whole thing in general. But we always act like we're a couple and our friends and new friends are like WTF haha. This one time one of our friends brought his friend to hang out and she reached out to hold my hand and of course I go along with it. He's all like, "Are you guys...going out? I mean, I'm cool with it and all." I wanted to say yes in a playful manner but I didn't wanna freak Sara out but she says "Yes!" That guy probably had things running through his head. Meanwhile I was shocked. *sigh* Handholding, feeding each other, waiting on line for a concert while I hold her, sometimes she gets in a really close and backs me up in a corner while our friends are "O___O" /ramble lucky girl! wish i could say the same. it'd make my world ^.^ geyik said: lol you are not bi-curious, you are bi (if not lesbian xD ) or maybe a lesbian curious about males? sorry if i offended you, but you haven't mentioned anything about guys =D true, she didn't say anything about them. that shows priority, right? not even mentioning guys. PandaPuff said: Well I'll be damned you're right. I haven't mentioned anything about guys. But as far as lesbian/bi things go, I only feel this way for her and not other girls at all. For the most part I do lean more towards guys than girls apparently. that's what i thought in 9th grade, but then a year later, i started to notice all the guys. after you like one, i think you start to notice others that are your type. |
PandaPuff said: *sigh* Handholding, feeding each other, waiting on line for a concert while I hold her, sometimes she gets in a really close and backs me up in a corner while our friends are "O___O" /ramble It seems your friend is giving you all the hints necessary to move forward but you don't want to. Everything you mentioned there is what I would do with my partner and is certainly past the "girls being silly" routine. Not me to judge and I don't know everything about your situation, but you might want to consider some contemplation on the matter. If you're not interested in a romantic relationship with her and lean more towards men, like you said, you may need to draw out some boundaries for yourself so you don't hurt her feelings and lose her as a friend. Like I said, I don't know everything about you. But that is just what I understand from the information given. In a way, I feel sorry for your friend if she is serious. |
| Well like I said I don't know how she feels about the whole situation. I don't "flirt" with her all the time and keep my distance but she does it too. I'm also paranoid too even bring up the subject to her but I will sooner or later. I don't want something like this to ruin the friendship. Arg. |
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Mortem said: I know someone who might be way more of a pan than you :P She fucks everything in her way XD What do you mean "fucks everything in her way"? I'm not a slut. I just can't relate to people who make gender a criteria for who they date.>.< |
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| I'm straight, but I'm really open-minded..... |
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| To me it doesnt matter if its a boy or girl as long as you love the person for who they are. |
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| Quite a few straight people. We need more lesbians, where are my reinforcements? |
sakuko said: Quite a few straight people. We need more lesbians, where are my reinforcements? Half-lesbian doesn't count? ;-; (Funny, I almost typed 'count' without the 'o'...) |
| hi Im new to the club and Im bi-curious |
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| Gah. I've never really understood or actively pursued sexuality, but I can remain open to all concepts as long as I'm comfortable and if I have good reason to engage in something, for instance, the purposes of relaxation and the like. |
| I don't like the word. But yeah, uhh, lesbian. |
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