^^Marriage lol its sweet bond and wouldn't echo about good things and bad things I've seen.
Tho what I think about the tradition, school of thought about marriage AT MY PLACE, I am strictly against it. I have witnessed the brainwashing situation, manipulation how people, parents, society try to drag you into it forcefully and you are left with no choice. YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR CHOICE, YOU CAN'T RAISE QUESTIONS, you just can't go against it. They are just injecting worst things into your brain without thinking of what you think or what you want. They don't care if you are self dependent or not, they don't give a shit about things. Plus not to mention caste-ism, political cases, and so many things they are just willing to sacrifice you.
Cause again the school of thought about it, the generation, their legacy. Its not about your will, its about people's will. They will try their best to steal your identity and choice. And the majority of case I still witness, by chance, if you want to do inter-caste marriage omg!! you mean inter-caste???? LMAO still considered taboo. Not to mention what if I say, inter-religion marriage you might get murdered. often dangerous.
I do not even want to write the worst things like ........Dowry deaths, honor killings, and domestic violence are not just "unfortunate incidents" they are systemic. A deeply ingrained rot masked as tradition. Women are treated as property, their worth measured in what they bring, in how well they obey, in how silent they remain. If she resists? THEY ERASE PEOPLE. Literally.
And the worst part? Society looks away. FAMILIES TRY TO COVER IT UP. Laws exist, but enforcement is weak. The blame shifts to the woman "She must have done something." Even in death, she is not given justice. It’s sickening. And yet, it continues. Because to change it would mean questioning too much......................................................................too many customs, too many beliefs, too many egos. (not advocating only about females, I've seen all the genders going through it).
And the waste of wealth in this specific ceremony? what can I even say about your mentality..!
All I want is marriage shouldn't be compulsory. But its about understanding and growth between two people which is very sweet and its about individual choice of life god! can't you understand the simple fact??
(but again who even cares...)
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