BL yoai recomendations & recomendations from a female prospective

BL Anime:

Sasaki to Miyano

Given

Mo Dao Zu Shi (Chinese donghua. Based on a Chinese BL webnovel. Highly censored though since homosexuality isn't allowed in Chinese media. They did slip little hints in here and there and I think they really did a good job conveying the relationship between the two and their love for one another even without actually being up front about it. Has three seasons, the first two of which you can find in Japanese if Mandarin isn't your thing. Story is complete)

Heaven Official's Blessing (Chinese donghua. By the creator of Mo Dao Zu Shi. Also based on a Chinese BL webnovel. Also highly censored and the second season is currently ongoing. First season has an English dub if Mandarin isn't your thing. They're also dubbing the second season, but only 2 of the 4 current episodes have been dubbed in English)

BL Manga:

Only the Flower Knows

Rutta to Kodama

Only Serious About You

To Be or Not to Be (Chinese Manhua)

First of all: I'm sorry for your loss!

I'd share most of Duchessliz' Recommendations.
I haven't seen/read all of them but Sasaki to Miyano is really cute and I enjoyed MDZS and TGCF too ^^
Only the Flower knows is really cute aswell and I enjoyed another work by the same artist too: https://myanimelist.net/manga/9296/Seven_Days
Finally I'd like to recommend this movie: https://myanimelist.net/anime/40615/Umibe_no_%C3%89tranger
Can't say anything about the manga since I haven't read it.
I hope you'll enjoy some of these