| It depends. Sometimes I can forgive easily, and other times I have a hard time not to be angry all the time about the situation. I can hold a grudge for a long, long time if the person really hurted me in the past. |
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| With effort yes, though I may not necessarily continue talking with the person. No hard feelings but doesn't mean they need to be in my life anymore. |
  "...fatih, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love." "I began to trust the world [...] to give unforeseen goods and pleasures that I had not thought to want." |
lordhiei said: + hey! If you want to talk about it or talk feel free to message me or DM me (: Also seems like your supervisor isn't cut for his job. Also something similar happened to me. Trauma isn't excuse to hurt people. I don't get why people blame their problems on people. If he knows what he is doing is wrong then He should get help. If he doesn't get help he will probably keep doing it. Talking from experience. Also I'm sorry you have to go through that. Cheers, appreciate your comment. I have quit my job and its the best thing I have done. If I had more support from him and he was someone a bit more trustworhy then I may have stayed. He gave me his pers mobile but f*** calling him lol. Think he was hired because his brother in law is the director of the company. Sometimes his mood changes, he can be nice and at times when hes pissed he will just take his anger management at me. He isnt the type that will listen to someone below him and not afraid to shout at boss. Bad atitude. Nothing worse than when he expects me to work extra hours (no lifing) and not get paid for over time. Hes using Covid as a excuse because of high unemployment. I dont take crap like that. |
 "Don't give up after failing just twice. We'll be able to do it next time. Failure is the stepping stone to success." |
| Of course -Miku_Meister- said: of course man, I'm happy you quit your job maybe it was for the best. I don't know where you live but hopefully when COVID is over where you live, you find a job that doesn't pull the same sh*t off. You deserve better. you seem like a hard working person. Also the fact that he knew he was wrong and realised his mistake and never owned up to it. he will never change His bad attitude unless he talks to someone. Also again feel free to talk to me I'm always open to talk to youlordhiei said: + hey! If you want to talk about it or talk feel free to message me or DM me (: Also seems like your supervisor isn't cut for his job. Also something similar happened to me. Trauma isn't excuse to hurt people. I don't get why people blame their problems on people. If he knows what he is doing is wrong then He should get help. If he doesn't get help he will probably keep doing it. Talking from experience. Also I'm sorry you have to go through that. Cheers, appreciate your comment. I have quit my job and its the best thing I have done. If I had more support from him and he was someone a bit more trustworhy then I may have stayed. He gave me his pers mobile but f*** calling him lol. Think he was hired because his brother in law is the director of the company. Sometimes his mood changes, he can be nice and at times when hes pissed he will just take his anger management at me. He isnt the type that will listen to someone below him and not afraid to shout at boss. Bad atitude. Nothing worse than when he expects me to work extra hours (no lifing) and not get paid for over time. Hes using Covid as a excuse because of high unemployment. I dont take crap like that. |
| @lordhiei, Thanks its always nice for someone to listen and your comemnt. Yeah he has a strong atitude and he sticks by it. If I told him something like how to do a few times , he thinks I am outsmarting him *shrugs*.I think of it as a team. "Also something similar happened to me. " - if you don't mind maybe you can express your reason? :) |
| "Don't give up after failing just twice. We'll be able to do it next time. Failure is the stepping stone to success." |
| Depends on what they did, but Im usually forgiving and i dont dwell on it often, the thing is I get over things very very easily, today I could be very sad about something, the next day I'm already over it. |
_korone_Mar 7, 2021 12:23 PM
   ♥๏ธ ๐๐ท๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ ♥๏ธ “๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ธ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ต๐ ๐ช๐ท๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ป๐ธ๐ถ๐ช๐ท๐ฌ๐ฎ, ๐ฃ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ช, ๐๐ฒ๐ต๐ต ๐ต๐ฎ๐ท๐ญ ๐๐ธ๐พ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ช๐ฒ๐ญ.” – ๐ฃ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ช ๐๐ฒ๐ผ๐ช๐ด๐ช |
-Miku_Meister- said: sorrry for the late reply! And ofc! (: it’s not really important since it happened a couple months ago I’m not sure if you want to know. It isn’t really a big deal.@lordhiei, Thanks its always nice for someone to listen and your comemnt. Yeah he has a strong atitude and he sticks by it. If I told him something like how to do a few times , he thinks I am outsmarting him *shrugs*.I think of it as a team. "Also something similar happened to me. " - if you don't mind maybe you can express your reason? :) |
| I can forgive not forget I usually forgive most things tbh |
lordhiei said: sorrry for the late reply! And ofc! (: it’s not really important since it happened a couple months ago I’m not sure if you want to know. It isn’t really a big deal.[/quote]"Also something similar happened to me. " - if you don't mind maybe you can express your reason? :) Ahh fair enough and its okay . Different time zone . If you feel stressed or concern then let me know and I will try to comfort you ;) |
| "Don't give up after failing just twice. We'll be able to do it next time. Failure is the stepping stone to success." |
-Miku_Meister- said: lordhiei said: sorrry for the late reply! And ofc! (: it’s not really important since it happened a couple months ago I’m not sure if you want to know. It isn’t really a big deal."Also something similar happened to me. " - if you don't mind maybe you can express your reason? :) Ahh fair enough and its okay . Different time zone . If you feel stressed or concern then let me know and I will try to comfort you ;)[/quote] thank you I appreciate it<3 and same goes for me if you feel any stress or concern I will also try to comfort you (: |
| I have several times in the past, and probably will in the future, however I tend to forgive way too easily which is something I need to work on, |
| ... ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐จ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ง๐ญ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด ฦธฬตฬกำฬตฬฬจฦท |
| grudges are pointless what's that saying? it's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die? |
| i'll prob never forgive those fg people. |
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