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Jul 7, 2008 9:46 AM
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Boy/Girl; Girl/Girl; Boy/Boy; Internet Relationship; Telephone Relationship; Mail Relationship. What is your opinion which is right and which is wrong? What knid of relationship would you like to have?

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Jul 7, 2008 1:59 PM
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I had two 'distant' relationships. Of course in the end is everything pink, but the break is more sorrowful, then normal. I definitely won't offer anyone to have such relationship...
I'm against it. First was the distance 200 km, then about 2000 km, if there will be a next time will it be 20000 km?? O.O No thanks... ^^
Jul 7, 2008 2:02 PM
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Well Firstly I Like GirlxBoy Love Cause Im A Girl
BoyxBoy Is Interesting And Heartwarming Also VERY HAWT
GirlxGirl Really Turns Me Off Put If It's In Anime I Might Be Intesrested If The Story Line Is Good
And I Supose Internet Love Might Be Interesting...(:
- Hikari (:
Jul 7, 2008 2:19 PM
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well i like girl/boy relationship for myself but other have there on opinion on that and I have had internet relationships and met 3 oof my best boyfriends off the internet so i appove of that.
Jul 8, 2008 12:48 AM
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I never had an internet or some other kind of remote relationship. I like Boy/Girl and Boy/many Girls ^_^ :P relationship but I don't have anything against the other Girl/Girl; Boy/Boy.

Jul 8, 2008 4:35 AM
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the best is Boy\Girl, i think.

i dont really like Girl/Girl

i like Boy/Boy in anime or manga, but not really in real life. Am not against it x3

im not against Internet Relationship because i have a relationship like dat :D

dunno about Telephone Relationship..

i dont really like Mail Relationship, because it takes ages to get the mail..
Jul 8, 2008 1:18 PM
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Jul 8, 2008 11:52 PM
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Anzela "im not against Internet Relationship because i have a relationship like dat :D"
I think internet relationship is a bit strange for me...

  1. You can't go out on a date
  2. You can't kiss each other
  3. You can't have sex


So what do you like about that relationship Anzela?

Jul 9, 2008 1:08 AM
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I would like to have...Boy&Girl relationship. Well...I wouldn't have relationship like Girl/Girl but I'm not homophobic, i have friends that have that relationship. Sorry, but I dislike Boy/Boy.

In my opinion, I don't believe in the thing about interent relationship because it's just talk, people can just make up things about how they love you and stuff, and it's somewhat weird to me having an online relationship O__o I had it before but yeah...

Telephone Relationship? hrmms...never thought about it lols, besides, I'm not the type of person that likes to hold the phone and talk for hours><" I prefer talking to someone in person.

Mail Relationship...I don't think so? unless, I was with that person and suddenly, he moved and therefore, had to use mail then i think it's fine?



Jul 9, 2008 1:23 AM

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I agree with icecreeaamm. I couldn't do with a relationship that is anything other than in person. Internet/ phone/ mail relationships = FAIL. It won't work. The end.

As far as girl/guy girl/girl boy/boy or whatever... It doesn't really matter to me. Love is genderless.
Jul 9, 2008 2:07 PM

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Kikku said:
As far as girl/guy girl/girl boy/boy or whatever... It doesn't really matter to me. Love is genderless.


*Sigh* and that is why i do love you my kikku neko!

Anywayy, i like relationships in person because i like kissies and cuddles and doing fun things with them! However! I have started a relationship on the internet that did turn into a rlf thing! That was fun ^ ^
Jul 9, 2008 11:40 PM

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no relationship is wrong in my book. love is love, everything else phails in comparison. love knows no gender, age, or distance. that's what i think.
Jul 10, 2008 12:42 AM

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Boy/Girl i like this cos am a girl :)

Girl/Girl; Boy/Boy i don't object on them but its not me :)

Internet Relationship : i am the caring type of girls so it really does not matter how did i meet my man :)

Telephone Relationship i had that kind its fun but it does not last :(

What is your opinion which is right and which is wrong?
all love relations are admirable by me cos love should be respected for its own

What kind of relationship would you like to have?
it really does not matter as long as its LOVE
:)
Jul 10, 2008 12:55 AM

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Ok let me ask this:
How can you love someone who you don't know personally? I don't understand this...

Jul 10, 2008 1:00 AM

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sn00p3r said:
Ok let me ask this:
How can you love someone who you don't know personally? I don't understand this...


:)
i believe you get to know the ppl
when you have talked to them for a while
and maybe you get to meet if you guys were really in love
:)
but i love love itself
which means i love the feeling of being in love
this way i wont get hurt
:)
Jul 10, 2008 1:17 AM

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I have never been in love LOLxD

Jul 10, 2008 3:13 AM

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I have to agree with sn00p3r, I don't think you can have a real relationship, or can find ral love only through the internet. It's too risky. One of my friends found a boyfriend for herself from the net, they were lovey-dovey at first, but later on she found out that the guy lied to her over the net about some important things :/

So I'm very carefull with things like that. Maybe that's why I like to meet the people I met online after a couple of weeks in real life too :) Well it's not really possible here on MAL :D but I don't do distant relationships anyway :D
Jul 10, 2008 4:37 AM

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For me - Girl/Boy, and Girl/Girl is hawt!
For others - whatever floats your boat.

I once met a girl on the net and we talked for ages and got really close, eventually we agreed that we loved eachother, we always meant to meet eachother as soon as we could and stuff, but we lived too far away and it was too hard, eventually we grew apart and moved on. I never thought that type of thing would happen to me, it just kinda did, so whatever, an internet relationship is fine, but i don't think it can last long unless you take it further, meet them and stuff.

:D

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Jul 10, 2008 3:51 PM

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foe me its girl/boy and girl/girl beacause i like and that it but i would rather choose girl/boy out of the 2 if i had to choose
Jul 10, 2008 3:57 PM

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hmm, its interesting. I think you can fall in love with someone's internet personality but thats complicated stuff. Loving the real person is a different story. Generally people are not "themselves" on the internet, intentionally or unintentionally. You say things here differently you express yourselves differently and even then the reader is left to interpret those things how they want to since its only really words you're working with. People read the message in a way thats ideal to them, so yes, you can have someone you feel for on the internet, but that relationship will never really leave cyberspace. If it comes to fruition in real life then there is more involved there. But I'd say 9 out of 10 times I think this is how things happen.
Jul 10, 2008 3:57 PM
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As long as it's a real relationship. Gay, straight, whatever gets you off, as long as there is genuine love for one another. Which is why I reject the idea of online or other forms of long distance relationships as superficial at best; you cannot really be with someone who's as good as non-existent to you.
Jul 10, 2008 6:38 PM

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I have to say that people can be their true selves on the internet or entirely different but to see that person you love and treasure in the flesh is so much better.
Jul 10, 2008 8:48 PM

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for me: girl/girl and girl/boy relationships. I couldn't do the whole long-distant/internet relationship.....I like my hugs on the spot.

for others: i don't knock what's not mines to begin with :]
Jul 12, 2008 8:06 PM

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[x] Boy/Girl

[ ] Internet relationship: I personally would have to disagree with it. Don't get me wrong, I don't think it's completely pathetic. I'm currently very fond of someone I spend most of my time talking on the internet. However, I prefer to keep that as an online acquaintance no matter how great of a personality/looks he has. In the long wrong, I don't see it going no where, so what's the point?

[ ] Telephone relationship: Count me out on that. I hate having my ear pressed against a phone. *sigh*

There is really no right and wrong. It's all how you go about doing it, and what makes you happy.
I prefer keeping my relationships with guys that are within reasonable distance away. A girl needs physical affection some times, and online it only makes one anxious and overwhelmed... always wondering what will happen next, and when you will see one another.



Jul 14, 2008 5:03 AM

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relationship are very up and down imo. everyone needs companionship and its hard to find the right person. i remeber one girl broke my heart back in uni. eversince then i have completely shut anyone any girl that comes near me now. i mean i did have girlfriends and so but i cant seem to share anything with them *shrugs*

these days u can have a skype internet relationship lol so kills 2 birds with one stone if your into that.

i always wanted to have scene like in a movie or anime i seen where somehow i meet the right person in a situation. sounds ghey hey? haha
Jul 16, 2008 3:06 PM

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lol. I just saw this, and I think it's pretty relevant to the thread. lol
So I thought I'd share. I think it's funny. ^_^

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fr-fgbPgWnw&feature=user
Jul 16, 2008 4:24 PM

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LOL love it Rita! Especially when they're speaking over the internet that's brilliant!
Jul 18, 2008 5:28 PM
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well....I had a few distance relationship, but it ddin't work out really well.
One was in Georgia, and the other is in North Carolina. I have to totally agree with everyone on this. Sometimes, Love can work, but most of the time, it can't!
2 years ago, I was in 2 relationship. The 1st one broke my heart and I nearly died in my sleep on that same night. I was really in love with her, until she broke up with me to go out with someone else. I almost commited suicide a week later, but my friends was there to help stop me from killing myself. The second didn't work too well, cause I lived in Brooklyn, and she lived in Long Island, and I didn't had no job at the time being with her.
Other than that, Love can be real, as long you can trust that person you want to be with, and vice-versa!
On the real, as of now, I'm in love with someone, but I can't say who.
Hikari/Yami Kyuto "Prince of Light & Darkness"
Jul 21, 2008 7:22 PM

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I'm currently very fond of someone I spend most of my time talking on the internet. However, I prefer to keep that as an online acquaintance no matter how great of a personality/looks he has. In the long wrong, I don't see it going no where, so what's the point?


I'm in the same boat (and agree with you) as you, Rita. I do see her, but it's been about a year now since I last saw her... It's too bad she lives 6 hours away. Oh, cruel fate!

Though who knows what may happen when I'll be up in her area...
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Jul 22, 2008 4:01 PM

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Kettricken said:
LOL love it Rita! Especially when they're speaking over the internet that's brilliant!


lol yeah.
Jul 30, 2008 11:04 PM
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boyxgirl for myself, but as I'm a yaoi fangurl, i don't mind a good hot bishie fest of boyxboy love. :p

I think anime has twisted my perception of relationships in general. They are filled with angst and then some deep love and triumph, etc. My personal relationships have never worked out that way.

I have done a couple of internet relationships. I stopped after I ended up hurtingthe other guy really bad because my life at home was pulling me away from who i use to be and even my time on the net.

I hate the phone, but my longest relationship was a long distance one. I don't need constant attention (very low maintenance girlfriend) and that particular guy understood that and we made the effort to meet once in awhile. We talked all the time, but he definately became my best friend, and still is to this day. :)
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love is love no matter who you are. it transcends genders.

other than that, i don't really know how long-distance things survive.
i rely-prob too much- on my people-reading skills (intuition?), and i'm pretty in tune with reading people's feelings, and because of that i'm able to know when things are off in a person's emotional psyche. all i want to do is be a good comforter and source of support, and it would kill me not to be able to see how the other person was doing, or if they actually meant what they said. i need to see for myself how they are doing. besides, i'm a pretty affectionate person, so if i love someone it would kill me not to have them an arm's reach away.

however, i commend those who are able to make those kinds of things work.
....huh?
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hmm I think if you love someone is fine and it doesnt matter what gender you are but as for online/mail/long distance relationships its crap its never gonna work and its pointless in my opinion

edit: Okay I change my mind I still think love is love no matter the two peoples gender.. but how I feel about online, mail, long distance has changed xD

I think they could work out if in the long run you's actually end up living close or near eachother but if it stays long distance and only see eachother like once a month or once everylittle while it wont work... unless you's are madly in love with eachother and could handle he stress of it xD
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sn00p3r said:
I never had an internet or some other kind of remote relationship. I like Boy/Girl and Boy/many Girls ^_^ :P relationship but I don't have anything against the other Girl/Girl; Boy/Boy.
I like the part with the Boy/Many girls...reminds me of Ichigo 100% :D
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hhmmm... Relationship as friends, i hav no problem wit boy/boy n girl/girl
Sorry. But if it is more than friends i still couldnt accept it ^-^;

I prefer the boy/girl relationship either as friends or lover.
I am a girl. N i think boys are better at keeping secret since they dont gossip (most of them) ^^

Internet Relationship. I am fine with that. But for me, i think it's juz for fun except if I really found someone who matches me.
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internet relationship is realy hard, you can keep it for a time, but you must be sure there is a chance to escalate it soon or you're done in, believe me :) I prefer Boy/Girl relationship, but i don't mind others...
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