Angel_Rosenkreuz said: All this hate against Touma is really intriguing me. For those who say he's selfish, pushy, and manipulative...he didn't come across that way to me...Imagine if someone you are going out with used to have strong feelings for some one else (and they're hanging out together still) ... it would be understandable that you would feel very paranoid, pushy, and possessive. It's a nightmare. I respect everyone's opinion but I can't see anyone acting any other way. Kou even acts like that when Futaba and Touma are dating. I mean, she IS dating someone.
Well, I think I am reading a different manga. I don't quite get any of what you said.
To start, they were not even dating when Touma started with his jealousy fits. I mean, that was the whole reason he end up pushing her to date him. The nice and sweet guy who cares for her feelings couldn't wait anymore. And don't tell me he didn't push her to date him cause he said it himself. And just to avoid me the trouble of explaining why it was his jealousy, just read that chapter again and you will see again that he got jealous when he saw them talking in the classroom and later on that day he mysteriously said he couldn't wait anymore.
Ok, She is dating someone, but isn't it even worse that Touma knew she loved someone, but still push her to date him. She agreed to date him, but that didn't mean that her feelings were going to change.
From what I understood, you are implying Kou has been jealous. Well, just take a good look of his jealousy and compared it to Touma's jealousy. Kou is trying to take her back cause he knows she still loves him or at least he is still hoping she still loves him. Don't just take my words, just reread this chapter, he asked her if there is really nothing left of him in her. He has made it clear, it will be Futaba's choice at the end and he will respect it. On the other hand, Touma's jealousy, he get jealous of stupid things cause he fears she still loves Kou, and unlike Kou he has never said it will be her choice, but rather he will win cause he is better. I mean, in the chapter he admitted he had been a bit pushy, why wouldn't that nice guy who cares for her feelings give her break to sort out her feelings (Sure the stolen kiss and bear hug was clearly the best choice).
Angel_Rosenkreuz said:
He shouldn't be making her feel guilty either or trying to STEAL her back when she's dating someone that makes her happy. That's selfish. It just pushes her farther away from him. It depresses her. Kou does seem manipulative most of the time when Touma and Futaba are dating. He is the one really being selfish. He trying to take back someone he straight out rejected and cast aside.
Let's see,
To start, is she really happy with Touma??..... Ever since they started dating all I have seem is Futaba trying to make him happy, but not the other way around. Touma has been way too busy, starting and losing arguments with Kou. The only happy moments of Touma and Futaba, stolen kisses and bear hugs, how nice and sweet.
Ok, so Kou is making her feel guilty and depress because she can't love the other guy and is still in love with him. Yeah, you are right, that must be a serious crime, he should get the dead penalty.
Touma, on the other hand, by forcing her to date him and keeping that relationship, he is making her feel guilty/depress of not loving him back , but he must be rewarded, and she must still be with him regardless.
So taking back a girl that loves you is bad, but not letting go of a girl that doesn't love you is good, interesting........
Angel_Rosenkreuz said:
...AND He's so good for her self-esteem too-
hilarious that you mention that, but Touma is the one who needs it the most I would think. I mean the guy knows she is still loves the other guy, but doesn't care as long as she is with him.
And actually, sure Futaba needs some self esteem, and she should think a little more about what she really wants instead of keep trying to be the good girlfriend out of obligation.
Anyway, I could go on and on............But whatever......
Actually, for those who like Touma, aren't you guys neglecting Kominato, he is basically the same, but not pushy. It would be hilarious, if you prefer Kou's brother instead of him. |