| @sn00p3r and Andrei: Thanks for the advice. Next time I will try to be brave and talk to a (even slightly podgy) girl..... and drink a lot beer beforehand! ^^ Andrei said: Confidence + Humor is my formula. Be a bit of a tease. Banter a lot. Use wit and playfulness to show you are secure in yourself and know how to have fun. Once you get the hang of it, you realize just how easy it is! *sigh* Man, that sounds as if a jet fighter pilot tells me: "Once you get the hang of it, a kid could fly this thing" ;) |
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*sigh* Man, that sounds as if a jet fighter pilot tells me: "Once you get the hang of it, a kid could fly this thing" ;) Oh, quit ya whinin' already! Just get out there, do it, and understand it through a process of trial and error. With that attitude, you'll NEVER get anywhere. Being a pilot takes technical expertise; flirting and dating only require sheer WILL, thoughtfulness, and a bit of strategy. Listen: I used to be really shy with women too. After my first girlfriend left me after a loooong relationship, I had completely forgot how to flirt with women, and I kept falling into the same traps time and time again. Then I realized something: why should I not be myself around people? Instead of being the shy, wussy guy in the corner, I decided to put MYSELF out there, showing people what I'm all about and realizing there is absolutely NO reason to hide myself from others. And once you quit acting "wussy" and hiding yourself in order to please (or avoid) others, you will be on the fast-track to finding love. |
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| okay....I got a problem my irl crush (who I met last saturday night) is: taller than me (he's about 5'9 - 6'1...I'm 5'5) he wears glasses (super turn-on for me) he has dark brown hair he has dark brown eyes I love his smile he has a really nice personaily (as far as I can tell) he's about 19-20 years old and I'm 22....which doesn't bother me.... but I don't know how to talk to him..........so I'm getting my best friend to talk to him...is this a good idea or bad idea...or should I just try to talk to him myself? I'm super shy and I never really asked someone out (I've always went out with friends....never someone I just met)....but I really like this guy. :[ |
taller than me (he's about 5'9 - 6'1...I'm 5'5) he wears glasses (super turn-on for me) he has dark brown hair he has dark brown eyes I love his smile he has a really nice personaily (as far as I can tell) he's about 19-20 years old and I'm 22....which doesn't bother me.... Ooooh, he sounds cute. I'd definitely check it. Talking to him is easy. YOU have to be the one to take initiative (although having your friend talking to him to can often be of advantage because it gives you an outlet for some "intelligence gathering", if you catch my drift...) How do you talk to women? How do you talk to your family? How do you talk to your male friends? You see, people make flirting and talking to attractive people harder than it really is. And if you're a girl, it's soooo much easier. Be a tease, be a challenge, be witty. You say your past relationships were with platonic friends originally: look back and think about how you turned them from friends to lovers. Surely there was something you did that was different from when you were originally meeting them. Think about that. |
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Andrei said: Ooooh, he sounds cute. I'd definitely check it. Talking to him is easy. YOU have to be the one to take initiative (although having your friend talking to him to can often be of advantage because it gives you an outlet for some "intelligence gathering", if you catch my drift...) How do you talk to women? How do you talk to your family? How do you talk to your male friends? You see, people make flirting and talking to attractive people harder than it really is. And if you're a girl, it's soooo much easier. Be a tease, be a challenge, be witty. You say your past relationships were with platonic friends originally: look back and think about how you turned them from friends to lovers. Surely there was something you did that was different from when you were originally meeting them. Think about that. thanks......I'm gonna give a go and see what happens (hopefully the outcome isn't gonna be bad.....and if we can't be lovers...hell we can be friends), .....I feel a whole lot better now. ^^ |
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sn00p3r said: I hate girls which send their friends to talk with the person they want... ;] :_: aww mans! this is was the first time i was gonna ask a friend to do something like that....... T_T on a much serious note.....I really thought about it....and I decided that I would rather talk to him than letting my best friend do it . I only asked her because she went to school with him....so she knows him better than I do. :] |
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Andrei said: Any suggestions how to recognize the beauty of chubby german girls? o.O What's wrong with some thickness? I love some curves to my girls. I'm not talkin' FAT chicks, I'm talk THICK chicks... A nice, thick, curvy German girl? Sounds delicious. Every time a thick girl tells me "you are so cute, I could eat you up" (...happend three times so far), I....well.....I believe her. *scared* ;) Andrei said: Listen: I used to be really shy with women too. .... ....Then I realized something: why should I not be myself around people? Instead of being the shy, wussy guy in the corner, I decided to put MYSELF out there, showing people what I'm all about and realizing there is absolutely NO reason to hide myself from others. And once you quit acting "wussy" and hiding yourself in order to please (or avoid) others, you will be on the fast-track to finding love. May I ask you what happened that actually made you move? I mean, as far as I have experienced it in my life, people dont change their personality because they just want to. Normally there is something extraordinary they see, hear or feel that trigger something as drastic as a change of lifestyle. And this is what I am missing, I guess. I need something that "rips me out" of my current life. Interesting. Maybe thats why Im watching anime all the time. Very often in this shows the main character has to abandon his normal life and deal with a completely new situation. *envious* ;) |
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Every time a thick girl tells me "you are so cute, I could eat you up" (...happend three times so far), I....well.....I believe her. *scared* ;) Hahahaha. Seriously though, thick chicks can be fun. This current girl I'm going for- she's this curvy Greek girl with a medium-sized waist, some very small love-handles, but with thickness in all the right places. Mmmm. May I ask you what happened that actually made you move? I think it really began in late 2004 when my 2nd girlfriend broke up with me. I was utterly confused on why she left me, and over the course of a year I kept getting rejected again and again by female acquaintances- I kept getting put in THE FRIEND ZONE (screams!!!) and it was killing me. Desperate, I did something I thought I would never do: I starting looking across THE INTERWEBS for dating advice. I stumbled upon this website (which also has the epic "I Am a Japanese School Teacher" stories on it- true stories of an African-American dude teaching high school in Japan): http://www.outpostnine.com/editorials/ Read "The Friend Zone", "Mating Rituals II", and one of my favorites: "Multi-Dating" (which I do- it's a bit expensive and time consuming, but it gives you a lot of options). They really helped me realize what women (and men!) want in a relationship, why nice girls always go for "the jerks", and why being yourself is the key to being a good flirt and a great potential mate. Read and learn, my man! |
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| ALSO, interesting update on this one girl... this isn't really an answer to anyone's question, it's more of some thoughts that might open some topics for discussion. So I found out that this girl I've been getting closer to is a virgin. Now, usually I'm like "Uggggggh, I've already taken up 3 V-cards already, I don't really want to do another!" (not to mention even many of the non-virgins I've been with were rather unexperienced- maybe 1-2 partners before me). I usually want a "real woman". My point-of-view has somewhat changed with this girl... I've been with 3 women (and "fooled around" with 1 guy) in the past year, but lately it's seemed so empty- like I think I've said before, holding a fuckbuddy in your arms feels NOTHING like holding someone you love in your arms... and I haven't felt that in ages ;_; I think I'm excited about this prospect though, because I feel it's going to be a real test for me; with this girl, I'm going to have to take it reaaaal slow, and most definitely be celibate for a while *DUM DUM DUMMMMM!*... It's gonna be a test, because it seems to me all 21 year-old guys tend to have psychotically-active libidos... but at the end of the day, I'm sick of "pussy"- it's time for some LOVE. |
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Andrei said: Read "The Friend Zone", "Mating Rituals II", and one of my favorites: "Multi-Dating". Read and learn, my man! o.O ....... O.O ........ *stunned* *taking a bow to Andrei* I have read everything you recommend as well as "Death of a Nice Guy". And I am quite suprised that my own experiences in that case were somehow nothing unusual. I really learned something (...and laughed a lot). Really nice to read. ^^ PS: ...if you are "Multi-Dating" how do you find time for anime or the internet in general? |
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| I've been following this thread for quite a while now, and i've kept quiet, not because of something derogatory i have to say, but that i genuinely haven't wanted to add my thoughts and feelings, but i feel that now the time is right. You mention "the friend zone". Have you read this Andrei? www.laddertheory.com/ It's basically a more elaborate explanation, it's quite interesting and pretty funny. I'm not sure i agree with EVERYTHING that the guy says, but a lot of it makes some sort of sense. I just don't think it's quite as simple as he makes out, but of course, it is a generalisation on women as a whole. Anyway, onto my situation. I'm not gonna lie. I haven't been that successful with women in the past. There have been girls, but i always seem to attract the girls i don't really like, or reject ones which i later regret. Anyway, my current situation. I lived with 2 guys and a girl in a house at university last year, and will be living with them again next year. I knew these guys in my first year too, we lived on the same corridor. Now i've never really been attracted to the girl i live with, she's just a good friend. But towards the end of last term we started to get closer, and there were a few occasions when we... fooled about, or whatever the kids call it these days. Anyway, after every time we "fooled about", i REALLY regretted it, partly because i'm not THAT attracted to her, and partly because i don't want it to turn into something more because i don't feel it would last and i might hurt her... OK, so term ends, and it's summer, we go our seperate ways and i forget about it. A few weeks later we meet up again to go to a music festival (3 of us from the house). the night before she's at my house, and... it happens again. Again i don't let it go to far, and regret it. Argh, i just dunno what i feel. I'm pretty sure i DON'T want anything with her. I think i'm just frustrated and the fact that she's into me makes me go along with it because there hasn't been anyone else in a while. But there's just little moments when i do want more. God damn it! Why can't the girls i really want be the ones who want me! Also, i'm worried that sometimes i become more hostile and distant from her just because i don't want to be too nice and close because i don't want it to happen again. Hmm. Well, there's still like 9 more weeks til i have to live with them again. Maybe i'll find someone else by then, but probably not! Anyway, this has become an uber long post, so i won't say anymore. I'm interested in your response. xD |
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You mention "the friend zone". Have you read this Andrei? www.laddertheory.com/ It's basically a more elaborate explanation, it's quite interesting and pretty funny. I'm not sure i agree with EVERYTHING that the guy says, but a lot of it makes some sort of sense. I just don't think it's quite as simple as he makes out, but of course, it is a generalisation on women as a whole. The Ladder Theory is one-sided, mechanical, sexist and stupid. It claims that most women are dishonest and manipulative (when they are no more than men are), it gives a simplistic and linear view of how human relations work, and idiotically declares that women and men can never be friends- only lovers/sexual partners. Frankly the Ladder Theory seems to have been developed by some bitter douchebag that wanted to justify being an asshole to women in order to get laid. Argh, i just dunno what i feel. I'm pretty sure i DON'T want anything with her. I think i'm just frustrated and the fact that she's into me makes me go along with it because there hasn't been anyone else in a while. But there's just little moments when i do want more. God damn it! Why can't the girls i really want be the ones who want me Self-control. It helps. And don't give me that "but I'm a man- I can't help it cuz the hormones get to my head". No, no, no. It's hard at first, and I too have been guilty of compulsive sexual behavior- but trust me, in the end having self-control will keep you from destructive situations and will actually make you seem more like a "real man"- thus attracting the girls that you WANT to attract. Also: you don't have to be abrupt in ending your encounters. I've been in sexual relationships with female friends and sometimes they just... fade away, unspoken. If she asks, tell her gently that you're no longer interested in it and that you have other priorities, but that it doesn't make her any less important in your life. NOTE TO ALL PATIENTS: DR. LOVE WILL BE OUT OF HIS OFFICE FOR THE NEXT 2 WEEKS DUE TO A TRIP TO SCANDINAVIA. HE WILL BE ATTENDING A CONFERENCE WITH THE SWEDISH PLEASUREMAN GUNTHER AS WELL AS VARIOUS "WORKSHOPS" AND LECTURES WITH VARIOUS SWEDISH BLONDS. WE APOLOGIZE FOR ANY INCONVENIENCE. Also, while I'm gone, learn from this man: http://www.myspace.com/gunthermusic |
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| Lol. I do agree with you on the ladder theory thing. It's definitely one sided and sexist. and he's definitely bitter, but i do find it quite entertaining and funny, and it makes SOME valid points, amoungst all the cheuvenistic crap. And of course, what he says about men and women never being able to be friends is complete crap. i have many female friends, but i do think it's harder and more complicated. I don't think self-control is the issue. It's that when i'm in that moment, at that precise time, i feel like it's right. If i didn't have any self control i'd have slept with her by now. But maybe i do need more of it. And yeh, the encounters didn't end abruptly, i have more sense than that, maybe. I'm not a complete moron! :P I reckon i'll just see how it goes next term, try and avoid any confrontations. I mean, i could quite easily just get with her, but i don't want to be with someone unless i 100% want to. And i don't. So it has to stop! |
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| Interesting ;] but I agree that Boys and Girls can't be friends! |
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sn00p3r said: Interesting ;] but I agree that Boys and Girls can't be friends! Really? I'm friends with a couple girls. I am slightly attracted to them, very slightly. I do not "like" them though that way. I wouldn't want to begin a romantic relationship with them. What now? |
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| i have sooo many rivals (TT__TT) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can i know her feelings about me? and i always tease her is there any chance or hope that she likes me? |
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| Ares545 you said that you are attracted to them, it doesn't matter slightly or not. It is a fact that you're attracted by the girls and want to have a romantic relationship with them although they are your "friends". Are they really your friends or you are getting close to them only to find a way to jump into their beds? ;] ryosuke_yamada you won't know until you ask her! Just go to her and tell her how you feel... ;] |
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sn00p3r said: Ares545 you said that you are attracted to them, it doesn't matter slightly or not. It is a fact that you're attracted by the girls and want to have a romantic relationship with them although they are your "friends". Are they really your friends or you are getting close to them only to find a way to jump into their beds? ;] ryosuke_yamada you won't know until you ask her! Just go to her and tell her how you feel... ;] You can be attracted to something and not want to have a romantic relationship with them. People just have different personality types, and I don't find them sexy or anything. |
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| DR. LOVE IS BACK AND READY TO TAKE YOUR QUESTIONS!!! Interesting ;] but I agree that Boys and Girls can't be friends! Nah, that's just silly. Of course girls and guys can be "just friends". I have female friends that I love and care for, but could never be attracted to in "that way". Of course, there are some that I wouldn't go out of my way to have sex with, but... sometimes... it's not a matter of whether you WANT to or not, but whether it's your GOOD CHRISTIAN DUTY to do it or not. i have sooo many rivals (TT__TT) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can i know her feelings about me? and i always tease her is there any chance or hope that she likes me? Just go with the flow, man. Keep being a tease, being a flirt, and just be yourself. You'll figure it out soon enough. However... ryosuke_yamada you won't know until you ask her! Just go to her and tell her how you feel... ;] NOOOOOOOO!!!! Whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do NOT confess your feelings outright to her. It puts her on the spot, and I personally think that groveling for a person's love makes you either seem CREEPY or DESPERATE... and nobody wants that in a person. That is one of the biggest mistakes that a lot of guys make that lands them in the "Friend Zone" (often when they are pretty close to getting the girl!). |
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| xD Now I don't think confessing feelings could be right or wrong ;] some girls like confessions and some don't it depends on the person... And about the girl/boy friendship I keep my opinion that there can not be friendship between girls/boys except the girl is ugly or fat ;] then there could be friendship! Its natural for a boy to want to have sex with a beautiful woman! (and sometimes if you are drunk enough it even doesn't matter if the girl is fat, ugly or both) xD |
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| my crush he likes someone else and then a few months l8r he says he likes someone else. and my bff she says he likes me. and she also says i need to flirt a little less with him cause i adimit it i do kind flirt with him. and on the last day of school he put his arm around me. so HELP >/////< PLLLLLZZZZ |
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| i think that confessing your feelings is sometimes alright, as long as it isn't put in a way that makes you sound groveling and pathetic. which i guess is hard, and yeh, it does depend on the person, no matter how easy it is to generalise, everyone is different. that's what makes the world so fun xD and sn00p3r, shame on you. i think that it can be harder to have a friendship with attractive girls, for obvious reasons, but it's not impossible to be unattracted sexually to girls who aren't in any way ugly or fat, but are just, not your type, or whatever. unless of course you are just a complete man whore who will sleep with any good looking girl. but i do agree with the drunk thing. beer goggles. a curse or a blessing... |
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| animegirlxo95 I hate to say it but I'm just like your crush... Sometimes I even hate myself for the pain I've caused to the girls I've been with, but most of the time its fun :) don't think I'm a bad person! I think the girl has the responsibility to keep me interested in her and when she can't do it I just move to the next one... But there were periods in my life when I wanted to have as much girls as I could! Yesterday I've watched the anime School Days and I decided to end that practice of mine. I can't believe it myself this is the first time I'm thinking about changing my lifestyle because of an anime!!! And my advice to you is GET RID OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM! I'm sure you will find a nice and loving guy but if you get together with that guy you won't get love but you'll get your heart broken ;) You are the one who will make the final decision so think carefully about it... Cabeloe It seems you don't understand me ;] sometimes a man just needs to have some sex! And if you are not gay you should understand what I mean... |
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| sn00p3r you've completely missed my point. of course i understand that. and wow, it must be a good anime! |
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| thanks i guess your right. like if i do get together with him then i might get my heart broken. and i dont want that to happen. so i maybe just see what happens. thanks for both of your advice. and about school days mokoto just wanted to have fun. and i still dont like him!!! im glad he died lol |
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| You should use spoiler button because there may be people who want to watch it and you just ruined their fun... ;] |
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| I don't think that just because I want to have sex with a friend that that means we can't be "just friends". I've had sex with a few of my female platonic friends, but that doesn't mean that I was necessarily romantically attracted to them or that we couldn't remain friends after our "fling" ended (except one time, but that was my fault... but you live, you learn). |
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Andrei said: ...I've had sex with a few of my female platonic friends, but that doesn't mean that I was necessarily romantically attracted to them or that we couldn't remain friends after our "fling" ended... O.O Well, everyone is different. Personally I could NEVER EVER have sex with a girl that is "just a friend" to me. For me sexuality is very special and I dont want to share it too easily. |
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| I understand that sentiment... I am actually tired of flings now, actually. I actually want LOVE now... and I realized that about a month ago when I was in bed with a friend of mine, and I was holding her in my arms, but I realized how EMPTY it felt, and that I've forgotten how it feels to hold a person that you LOVE in your arms ;___; I'm actually gonna keep it into my pants until I get into a serious relationship for now... casual sex is definitely fun, but after a while it just feels empty. |
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| Situation: Two guys one girl. She is nice to both, but seems to prefer one. The other one understands and backs out. Two months later. Absurdly enough, the "couple" still says that they are not together (although his WII, DVD Collection etc. are at her place). In addition to that both are calling "guy number one" all the time in order to hang out together. Guy number one has no idea what to do, since he likes both and feels like standing in the way. Question: What the hell are they thinking? |
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| It's called they're just fucking (and/or they're too big of pussies to actually take the dive). Trust me, I've been there. Oh, and they're clueless to how Guy #1 feels. If you, FTGT, are Guy #1, I would look out her for indecisiveness and cluelessness (or her trying to rub it all in your face). Stay friends with them (unless it becomes obvious that they're just pushing your buttons), but look for someone else. |
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| I was in almost the same situation, but in my case the girl just wanted to have sex with both of us (my best friend and me). They were the couple and I just fucked~ her. If its you in this situation FTGT my advice is: Get a girfriend then you can exchange girlfriends with your friend. It is a lot of fun ;] |
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| @Andrei: Yes, Im Guy #1. But Guy #2 knows exactly how I feel about her. And I am pretty sure she also knows that Im interested (girls just sense this kind of stuff). So I have another theorie: Guy #2 just left his former girlfriend (they were together 5 years) in order to be with the new girl (by the way, they are colleagues at work). But he would never admit that. Maybe they dont want to spread around that they are together since this would make things too obvious. They want to wait until the situation "cools down". But in order to introduce her to our circle of friends, they try to use me as an "adapter". ;) A lot of people in our circle of friends say that she is a "man-eater" (the devil herself) and did seduce Guy #2 just because it was fun. But personally I cant agree. Well, Im anxious how this will turn out. ^^ @snoop3r: 0_0 *shaking head* Im the kind of "boring" guy who wants to have only "one girl for life" and thinks nothing of silly sex games, leading only to envy, hate and loneliness. |
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Guy #2 just left his former girlfriend (they were together 5 years) in order to be with the new girl (by the way, they are colleagues at work). Oooh, that doesn't sound very kosher. If that's his main reason for leaving his former girl, then I think this girl needs to look out... But in order to introduce her to our circle of friends, they try to use me as an "adapter". ;) A lot of people in our circle of friends say that she is a "man-eater" (the devil herself) and did seduce Guy #2 just because it was fun. But personally I cant agree. Yeah, key word use... and frankly, if people are saying she's a man-eater (which, given some other small bits of evidence, might be true)... I would keep both of them at an arm's length... cuz this shit could get tricky reaaaally easily (on one side or another). I was in almost the same situation, but in my case the girl just wanted to have sex with both of us (my best friend and me). They were the couple and I just fucked~ her. I had a drunken threesome with my best friend and his fiancee about 6 months back. It was hilarious, but I could never be an accomplice in cheating. Well... okay... yeah, I was a couple months ago, but she didn't tell me they were still dating... Ah well, the guy she's dating is a douche that I hate, so I consider it my own bit of revenge. >=3 |
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| ChandraNalaar feel fee to ask your questions here... ;] |
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| Lol, you guys make me chuckle. Keep up the good work. ;P Chandra, this is all hypothetical in our eyes. We neither know you, or them, so what difference does it make? Unless the other person(s) uses this site/forum. But keep it to yourself if you want. xD |
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| Dr. love (aka Andrei) can i be assiticant? |
| What are you qualifications, Tinyazyn? |
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| i wouldn't kno. i don't know what the qualifications are. ........btw, what do you mean by qualifications? |
| Let me put it for this way: do you have enough romantic/sexual experience to act as an apt assistant? |
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| .......*thinking*....... exp... no... hmm... i've watched enough anime to know most situations though... (at least i think most) |
| Anime has nothing to do with the real world/love/sex... ;] LOL The best example for this is that you don't have any sex/love exp |
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sn00p3r said: Anime has nothing to do with the real world/love/sex... ;] LOL The best example for this is that you don't have any sex/love exp I disagree. Anime is based on human relationships, and although it is usually idealised and not always realistic, it is still a representation of the real world. In a way. And just because you don't have sex/love experience, it doesn't mean you don't have the right to give advice or the ability to give good advice. |
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| If your driving teacher can't drive a car how will he teach you to drive Cameltoe? |
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| Tinyazyn: I am sorry to say but simply watching a lot of romantic anime is not enough experience for being an assistant to Dr. Love. However, that doesn't mean you can't still contribute your own ideas, advice, and viewpoints in this thread as much as you want! I'd like to take some time however to re-post some very good replies to the MatchMaker thread by FTGT here, who seems to be "getting it": Well well.... unfortunately that seems to be the wrong approach for getting a girlfriend. If you desperately look for a girl, telling everyone around how lonely you are, no female will come to rescue you. The reason is simple: The girls want to be rescued (well, most of them)....not the other way around. So the best thing you can do is: Get comfortable with yourself and your life. If you are happy and tell your friends and foes that you dont need any girlfriend in your life because that would just mean less freedom and stress, the girls will come after you like bees after honey. They want to share your happiness. ^^ and my own post when the subject of perfume and presenting oneself when trying to attract people: I never use cologne, and I think I am better off because of it. I think it's lame and gives off the "I'm desperate so I'll try to smell good for you." I also enjoy the natural scent of a woman, not some abrasive, odorous chemical which masks the true nature of her. Just stay clean, keep your nails trimmed and your face well-shaved, keep your hair looking immaculate, and your clothes sharp (no faded anime/metal shirts, flannel, and torn blue jeans every day!!!) and you will be on your way. Personally, on dates I prefer to wear black slacks or one of my kilts, and a nice silk button-up shirt- preferably logo-less- with a necklace and my long hair down during the spring/summer. During the fall/winter (my peak mating season), I prefer black turtlenecks, black long sleeve t-shirts, or thin black sweaters with black slacks and a necklace (preferably an ankh or a Sigil of Baphomet- it depends on how much I want to "reveal" about myself). Let's face it: clothes do make the man (or woman), and it is very important to have an appearance of respectability when meeting a potential mate. So, in short, good clothing >>>> good cologne/perfume. |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| That's a completely irrelevant analogy. And Cameltoe? Mature. Although i should have expected it from someone who's avatar is "Error: too sexy to display" :P Anyway, lets not argue, this is a happy place. |
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