| Although I agree with Snoop-dogg here, crude name calling is uncalled for in my office. Super-chill, y'all! |
Reverend Andrei Mazenov  92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Thankyou. I agree that experience helps. But i was just suggesting that it's not everything. But anyway. Lets leave it. |
 " It takes an idiot to do cool things. That's why it's cool." |
| I didn't mean to offend anyone. Just both words are too close to each other and I made a little mistake so please forgive me for not reading/writing your name properly ;]~ |
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| I'm not offended. Not by someone who doesn't even know me. It was just unnecessary. xD |
" It takes an idiot to do cool things. That's why it's cool." |
| I'm glad that I don't know you ;]~ |
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Cabeloe said: Thankyou. I agree that experience helps. But i was just suggesting that it's not everything. But anyway. Lets leave it. Indeed, it's not everything- that's why I said that Tinyazyn is more than welcome to contribute his opinions and thoughts in this thread; but to become an actual "assistant" to me requires some experience. What I would like is a female assistant with some experience to balance things out with a different viewpoint. Any ladies here up for that challenge? Qualifications: Must have experience in at least 1 serious OFFLINE relationship; more than 1 relationship preferred; non-virgin (or some sexual experience) also preferred but not necessary. |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Oh God, this thread is almost off the first page. BUMP THE FUCK UUUUUUUUP |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Quick notice: I suddenly found more meaning in my life, since "Spice and Wolf Season 2" has just been announced! Besides "meeting the dream girl of my life" this is another event Im really looking forward too. Im happy beyond words. *sobbing* |
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| You are happy just for this reasons... LOL |
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| So guess what guys? 4th night with this one girl and things are going AWESOME! Got the kiss, got the cuddling, and got her always picking up when I call/calling me on her own will... I think Dr. Love may have some love goin'! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| I thought you guys cared about me and would be happy for me =( |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| *looks around surreptitiously* This may sound stupid or pathetic, but how do I make friends IRL? I seriously don't get it. I'm am totally shy IRL, and I can never seem to meet anyone decently intelligent or interesting. To be honest, my three best friends now I all met through an online game(I do plan to meet up with one of them this next year, though)... I'm not a hikikomori or anti-social or anything, but for some reason the best I have IRL are acquaintances whom I doubt really care about me. |
ShiChelleOct 21, 2008 8:43 PM
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wtfyourface said: MistaCloudStrife said: OVER 9000!!!From 100-1000, how much do you love LWL? |
| OH MY GOD, IT'S... GOD!!! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| OH MY GOD, IT'S... LUCIFER!!! ShiChelle said: I'm not a hikikomori or anti-social or anything, but for some reason the best I have IRL are acquaintances whom I doubt really care about me. *patting ShiChelle on the back* I know exactly what you mean. ;) |
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*looks around surreptitiously* This may sound stupid or pathetic, but how do I make friends IRL? I seriously don't get it. I'm am totally shy IRL, and I can never seem to meet anyone decently intelligent or interesting. To be honest, my three best friends now I all met through an online game(I do plan to meet up with one of them this next year, though)... I'm not a hikikomori or anti-social or anything, but for some reason the best I have IRL are acquaintances whom I doubt really care about me. Hmmm, this is a hard question for me to answer, because I've always had a very outgoing and extroverted person with a lot of friends... and yet, I seem to be good at making friends with shy, introverted people (I've noticed that I feel a lot of empathy and make good friends with Aspergers people). Sooo, let me give this a shot: A lot of people that are shy often have anxieties that become self-fulfilling prophecies. Look at my earlier formula concerning relationships: Insecurity---->Lack of confidence to approach guys/girls---->Not taking action---->Further loneliness and frustration---->MORE INSECURITY. Although I formulated this for relationships, I think that it can also be applied to interacting with people in general. I also empathize with your feeling of doubts of whether or not the people around you truly caring about you. Struggling with bipolar disorder across my life, my understanding of the real life has always been very jilted, and distrust of people around me and even my closest friends pervaded my psyche... I was secretly resentful to my friends, convinced that one day they would betray or abandon me. However, only when I truly came into a time of crisis- I had a nervous breakdown and tried to commit suicide, and when my friends found out they were utterly crushed; some of my friends were crying their eyes out for nights afterwards because they were so thankful I was alive. It was only then I realized that people around me- even my casual acquaintances- truly cared about me and that I was important to this world. Be patient with yourself, dear. Don't fear the world, and do not fear people. Just be who you are, find the right environments, and the right kind of people WILL come to you. |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
OH MY GOD, IT'S... LUCIFER!!! Actually, that's more appropriate for me... |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
Andrei said: OH MY GOD, IT'S... LUCIFER!!! Actually, that's more appropriate for me... So you are also singing strange songs while wearing tight leather trousers? o.O |
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| No, I meant the fact that I'm a LaVeyan Satanist XD |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| LOL ;]~ I believe only in the power of the vagina hahaha I think I shoud create a new religion, maybe something like "Vaginism" and we will worship vaginas hahaha |
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| http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yoni The Hindus have been doing it for at least 3,500 years. |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Speaking of vagina worship, I would like to take a big risk and do something very very interesting: Does anybody need any SEX advice from Dr. Love? Don't be embarrassed, I'm here to help! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
Andrei said: Does anybody need any SEX advice from Dr. Love? Don't be embarrassed, I'm here to help! *blush and leaving the thread gigglingly* |
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Andrei said: Speaking of vagina worship, I would like to take a big risk and do something very very interesting: Does anybody need any SEX advice from Dr. Love? Don't be embarrassed, I'm here to help! erm... where do i put it?... lol. |
" It takes an idiot to do cool things. That's why it's cool." |
| Depends on the gender and preferences of the individual! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| hahahahaha LOLxD... OWNED!!! |
sn00p3rOct 29, 2008 12:58 AM
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| What a good thread to have Id like some advice, sorry its not about sex just a love dilemma. I am not at the age of 21, and I have finished school and working fulltime at the office. my last GF would be 3 years ago, I wasnt really into anime at that point and I was pretty much a general guy.At that time I got approached by a very sweet girl and we started some kind of relationship. she was very sweet and we had like a school affair. well To make things short she was very depressed at that time and I was ther to help her. When things in life brighten up a little for her she said to me shes not in love with me anymore. Well at that time I was head over heels and was pretty much broken down when she said that. Although this sounds cheesy after that I have given up on love and never again fell in love. at the same time I began my anime live which was at that point at Naruto/bleach level. Now I really enjoy my life, The free time I have I spend in anime/manga or hanging out with my friends. I am no longer interested in girls who doesnt have the same hobby's as me. and atm I dont have a girl in my direct surrounding who likes Anime. I honestly wonder.. were can I meet a girl who lives in the same country as me and has the same interest as me? Its not like I have a big chance meeting them by going out...and after my last gf and the previous 2 girls before (who cheated on me) I really am afraid to get hurt once more so the engaging part is a bit hard to do as well. Can u help me out doc? :) |
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Hello Valashu. Im very sorry, but "Doc Love" seems to be absent right now. ;) However, fear not my friend. As his apprentice I will try to give you good advice as well (although you could argue that this would be like "a blind leading a blind"). :P *putting on a lab coat and a stethoscope* Valashu said: I honestly wonder.. were can I meet a girl who lives in the same country as me and has the same interest as me? You can find her very likely in YOUR country! (I know, that helps A LOT.... no need to thank me. Im just doing my job). Valashu said: Its not like I have a big chance meeting them by going out... That depends on where you go. If you i.e. go out to an anime convention and stumble into the "yaoi & shonen ai" section, you will find more "anime/manga addicted" girls, than you have ever imagined. Then they will look at you as if you (as a man) would have commited a serious crime, walking into that area. So you desperately try to blend into the scene by taking a random yaoi-manga and pretending to read. Unfortunately NOW they think that you are gay. At this point it becomes rather tricky. So you.... *harrumph*... ohh, I seem to wander from the subject. Enough about my experiences. :P Valashu said: ...and after my last gf and the previous 2 girls before (who cheated on me) I really am afraid to get hurt once more so the engaging part is a bit hard to do as well. Can u help me out doc? :) Sincere condolences. Well, there is a phrase in german which says "time heals all wounds". So I would suggest that you take your time until you feel confident enough to approach girls again. Valashu said: .... I am no longer interested in girls who doesnt have the same hobby's as me. and atm I dont have a girl in my direct surrounding who likes Anime. The exact same problem I have to face as well. Personally I try to visit anime conventions and manga shops frequently and have a nice chat with the girls there. Interestingly enough, a lot of the girls are just dragged there by their boyfriends and are not really interested in the japanese art. But that gives a nice discussion as well... especially at that time when the boyfriend returns and asks you what business you have with his girlfriend *sigh*. Always a bummer... :P |
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| *steps into his office* Sorry about being a bit late to reply, I've been recovering the past few days from getting immensely fucked-up on Halloween and have a date later this afternoon, but I have a few minutes so let me see what I can do! When things in life brighten up a little for her she said to me shes not in love with me anymore. Well at that time I was head over heels and was pretty much broken down when she said that. Lesson to learn: A lot of times depressed girls are just there to use you to fill a void in their lives. Try to be with people that will bring you up, not people you want to "fix". Now I really enjoy my life... Great! That actually shows you're in a decent position to start looking for love again. were can I meet a girl who lives in the same country as me and has the same interest as me? My knowledge of Dutch social life is shaky at best (hahahaha), but for me, I just keep a look out around my university, at anime conventions, at bookshops... Also, make sure to not keep yourself exclusively to otaku girls! There are plenty of hot girls with quirky/geeky hobbies and interests that aren't otakus but are probably very compatible with you. Just don't get a girlfriend that's the complete opposite of you and mocks you/complaints to you when you watch anime/read manga because it's "just a dumb fantasy world". I got one of those once and it SUCKED. Listen: much of the knowledge you're looking for is in the first 6 pages of this thread. There is a LOT of information from me and a lot of the other members of this club and it's PLENTY to learn from. Peace! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Ty to both the assistant and docter. AndreiListen: said: much of the knowledge you're looking for is in the first 6 pages of this thread. There is a LOT of information from me and a lot of the other members of this club and it's PLENTY to learn from. You can't be serious! so basicly when you were a psycholigist and people would come to youre office with well known problems you just hand out the phone numbers of youre early customers? Youre so cruel...:( BUT I do thank you for taking the time to sincerley reply! Instead of preparing for youre date and spending hours in front of the mirror you actually helped me out instead ;). Andrei said: My knowledge of Dutch social life is shaky at best (hahahaha), but for me, I just keep a look out around my university, at anime conventions, at bookshops... Also, make sure to not keep yourself exclusively to otaku girls! There are plenty of hot girls with quirky/geeky hobbies and interests that aren't otakus but are probably very compatible with you. I have been to the animecon this year for the first time, Ill keep it up! ;) Yours, Valashu |
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BUT I do thank you for taking the time to sincerley reply! Instead of preparing for youre date and spending hours in front of the mirror you actually helped me out instead ;). Actually, last night got canceled because her father- who is a prominent member of their VERY fundamentalist church- forced her to go to their Sunday evening service to hear a horrible sermon on how voting for Obama is sinful. However, we got to talk on the phone for a good bit and besides I had seen her Thursday anyway. ...I had forgotten how nice it is to hold a girl so close to you... |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
.....I had forgotten how envy I can feel about you master ....... :P |
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| Don't feel envy, just emulate! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Andrei: ...I had forgotten how nice it is to hold a girl so close to you... It's even better if you hold her in your bed :P~ |
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| Hello there... eto~ i pot is short, i dont get allong with boys, meany of them in my area are to childish and i dont want to babysit them, so i dont like the situation it is now. And i havent the change to get away from my little villiage to see some new faces ... so wath should i do, without lerning someone from the i-net?? |
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| That's a tough one, and I've been in that situation before; I used to live in a suburb of Atlanta called Snellville and there was NOBODY out there that was on the same level as me... Unfortunately, all you can really do is wait and/or just keep looking. In the end, getting out into a bigger city and a different area is the only way to truly find people. |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| hi I miss you Andrei! |
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| where is Andrei by the way? I haven't heard of him for a long time... |
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| ....maybe honeymoon? |
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| Busy wrappin' up final exams, that's what! But it's almost over... Phew, am I tired. I've also been at a summit in Europe with Dr. Iichan, Gunther the Pleasureman, Dr. Dick, and Tarkan concerning the ways of love. It was very informative! |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Guys, we have a couple of guests today with a very special message about a very serious issue that men and women both face in terms of love... Everyone, give it up to my fellow Atlantans, Ludacris and T-Pain: DON'T DRINK AND DATE. |
| Reverend Andrei Mazenov 92% OF TEENS DON'T THINK RAP IS REAL MUSIC. IF YOU ARE PART OF THE 8% WHO AIN'T A PUNK-ASS FOOL, COPY AND PASTE THIS INTO YOUR SIGNATURE. |
| Alright Doc take a crack at this one, I'm 25 male, into anime and music, and pretty much a hopeless romantic, havnt had a GF havnt been on date etc, you name it I pretty much havnt. And to top it off i work pretty much full time at a studio. Now here's the kicker. I suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder (btw the initials spell sad..how messed up is that) and guess what that means? i cant go to bars or other social gatherings if theres more than like 9 or 10 people. So needless to say "going out and meeting people" is a bit of a problem. |
| "There has to be a closer country where love can live near me I've got to find it because right now I'm not seeing clearly" - He Is Legend - http://www.anivide.com/user/PariahGlass - complete MAL Goal: 100 Completed TV Type - current MAL Goal:   |
| That is a serious problem, but I have few suggestions how you could possibly overcome your SAD. I think when you talk to people which you don't know the thing you are afraid the most is the moment when you don't know what to say or how to continue the conversation then you start blushing and sweating. I'm sure you have friends, explain the situation to your friends and ask them to go out with you. If you have someone you know with you its much more easier to overcome the anxiety from people you don't know and if you get stuck in a conversation with a person you don't know and get nervous your friend will notice that and can pull you out of the situation. Now the big question "Where should I go out?" You shouldn't think about clubs and bars at the beginning. Imo you should go to places you like or you are interested in. For example: You like anime and music go to an anime convention you'll meet a lot of new people there and the most important thing, people who like the same things as you do. The fact that the people there like the same things as you has other benefits as well, you won't realize in one moment of your conversation that you don't have anything else to talk about. You can always talk about different animes, mangas and cosplayers (there are always cosplayers at convents) Trying to make new friends there will be a great success the more friends you have the closer you get to overcoming your SAD. This is a long process and it won't be easy but I'm sure you can overcome your SAD Can I become your friend? :) |
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| Heh i appreciate the advice, yeah i actually looked for conventions after you mentioned that unfortunately the only ones i could find are four plus hours drive. unfortunately the closest thing my town has to anime is a couple of comic book stores, and the occasional book store with a manga section. But yeah the anxiety isnt as much feeling nervous about what others think or feeling awkward, its more like claustrophobia where just being in the area is overwhelming and causes me to kinda space out, heh actually lost two jobs from it (cubicle phone jobs...dont know what i was thinking there). But yes please you and others from club, send friend requests, messages, the whole lot. I like talking with people alot since i dont get the chance to do it often enough. |
| "There has to be a closer country where love can live near me I've got to find it because right now I'm not seeing clearly" - He Is Legend - http://www.anivide.com/user/PariahGlass - complete MAL Goal: 100 Completed TV Type - current MAL Goal: |
| Im a love doctor aswell!:O so mind if i help people out sometimes? |
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| Everyone can try helping, if people were helping each other this world would be a better place to live in.... |
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| Oh...Hello? ..I need some advice here, but I think this thread is..DEAD? |
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| Nope its not as long as I'm alive it won't be, I'm here and ready to help :) |
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