ohh i know that job, i saw it on a reality show (yeah i watch reality shows.. not the proundest thing i do lol) from usa. still cowboy-ish :P
eeh im a pretty damn normal person, maybe a little weird.. and nosy..
anyway you saw the other replies from 20+ ... club, right? i posted the link below. with internet it's sooo easy to talk to people with same interests or from other countries you know, i never saw a person who dislikes random profile comments lol and everybody does it because, well, they can :D though i understand you want some real life company. well good luck on that. i cant know your surroundings and ur situation after all but i think you will be fine :) just bear with those people who are on a different wave length than you. also people who are good with children and eldery will definitely be even better with someone smilar or someone same age.
welll maybe while talking you are thinking to yourself too much and not voicing your thoughts enough so it sounds random or lacking to other people, if you voice your thinking process a bit more it wont sound random?
nahhh everybody is kind of boring, dont worry about being boring and if you look bored people might feel self conscious, like am i boring this guy?
hmm you sound normal online--
ooo congratulations on your job. so arent you like a cowboy now? ;D :P you should get pumped too. well old farts are humans too :P
lol why do you think some small talk is awkward? well since im a girl it's easy for me to randomly talk to other girls when shopping like "this brand of yogurts are the best ones, forget about the other one!" or on the bus "oh i love your bag, where did you buy it?" etc :P nobody gave me a strange gaze in my whole life because of some small talk, instead they always chatted me kindly while smilling. tho im never chatting up some angry looking chick lol.
did you find a job yet?
your welcome ^^ well there are wonderful people everywhere but usually they dont show their concern because people might think they are being busybodies and meddlesome, most wont really try to befriend you unless you show them you are open. everybody sometimes fail and has insecurities, people who think they are special are just delusional, we are equal and dont mind the mean words you hear, words and such are just not more important than you.
btw if you are too deppressed you also give the impression you are self-centered, like you dont care about anybody but only care about yourself and whine, avoid it. ask people more about themselves and listen.
@your comment at the 20+ vi...s : well i think you should worry about getting a job and cleaning your image in your family's and other people's eyes instead of getting girls because you wont be able to trust anybody who (you think) thinks bad about you. i think you lost your confidence somewhere and you should gain it back. the thing is people will get more and more corrupted while they age so you should trust even less people, that's a fact. but it doesnt mean you wont be able to find true friendship and love. generally adults tend to befriend people who are better than them or equal to them to climp through society and will abondon them when they feel confident enough. then they will befriend people inferior to them just to feel good. that happens if you are innocent and dont know how to work your way but if you are smart and fun it wont happen instead you will grow into them, they will start to like you. btw not everyone is that sordid but a lot of people are like that. maybe you should find/join some therapy group, some clup, some community. even otakus are a community. :D well you must have some hobby. btw internet friendships from other countries are the most innocent and honest ones because people just wont gain anything behind your back (unless you are dump) and since there is no society pressure on them thay are more honest. you should start small but "start".
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eeh im a pretty damn normal person, maybe a little weird.. and nosy..
anyway you saw the other replies from 20+ ... club, right? i posted the link below. with internet it's sooo easy to talk to people with same interests or from other countries you know, i never saw a person who dislikes random profile comments lol and everybody does it because, well, they can :D though i understand you want some real life company. well good luck on that. i cant know your surroundings and ur situation after all but i think you will be fine :) just bear with those people who are on a different wave length than you. also people who are good with children and eldery will definitely be even better with someone smilar or someone same age.
http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=682543&show=160
nahhh everybody is kind of boring, dont worry about being boring and if you look bored people might feel self conscious, like am i boring this guy?
hmm you sound normal online--
ooo congratulations on your job. so arent you like a cowboy now? ;D :P you should get pumped too. well old farts are humans too :P
did you find a job yet?
btw if you are too deppressed you also give the impression you are self-centered, like you dont care about anybody but only care about yourself and whine, avoid it. ask people more about themselves and listen.
here a nice to meet you gift:
http://thenicestplaceontheinter.net/