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Feb 18, 2011 9:57 PM

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jkun said:
I am a loner because I choose to be. Most people are annoying and I just want to be left alone to do my own thing.


the pretty much is me as well
"So my jagan eye might not be natural, but it does give me exactly what I need!"
"I have the power to pull you into oblivion, I assume just my right arm will do."
"You should have never insulted the Jagan eye because you see in a way it has its own mind and loathes disrespect, resisting it is not something I would do."
"You know it's impossible to control it completely, once I release it I have no say."

*Raises Right Arm*

"DRAGON OF THE DARKNESS FLAME!!!"
Feb 18, 2011 11:11 PM

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I do have friends, but I'm pretty antisocial overall.

Social interaction is tiring.
Feb 19, 2011 12:40 AM

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nah not really I have a few close friends and we hang out quite often
Feb 28, 2011 5:14 PM

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well sometimes.
sometimes people are just too much and you rather be alone but...
sometimes its nice to be with people too, say if they are good and likable :)

Mar 1, 2011 6:25 PM

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No, cause i´m married :). We like to go to concerts and headbang our heads with our friends, we love to be in home watching movies, anime, listening music and all that stuff but we give each other some time alone. For example, sometimes i´m watching anime and he is in the living room listening music. Sometimes he is watching a movie and i´m in our room listening music, or playing or watching anime.

People needs their own space.
Mar 1, 2011 8:26 PM

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I'm a paradox. One day I'm the most social guy at school and the next it's a "get the fuck away from me" kinda day.
Mar 1, 2011 8:27 PM
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I have quite a few of friends.

Best- best friends: Maybe two people belong in this category. They're my best friends amongst my best friends.

Best friends: if you seclude to best- best, then there are four.

Close friends: Maybe two?

Good friends: Around three or four of these.

Friends: Ones that I actually consider friends that I'd hang out with or text etc .. maybe around seven?

Acquaintances: uncountable.

Enemies: I literally don't know if anyone doesn't like me. Most likely, but I don't know who.

I'm not popular by any means, but I do have a lot of people that I enjoy talking to. I can honestly say that I trust my good friends and up (except for one girl...) with literally everything. I can even trust most of my friends with everything. I don't necessarily believe someone has to have a lot of friends, because having a lot of friends doesn't make you happier. It's the quality of the friendship over the quantity. Luckily my friends are so cool. Me and one girl in my top friends watch anime and the others are really accepting. I play 'nerdy' video games, they're accepting. We do things that some people wouldn't be caught dead doing, basically. Not in a bad way, but I literally don't care what people think. My friends differ a lot in social status, I guess you'd say, too. I'm friends with many people who don't have much friends, but one of my really close friends is probably one of the most popular girls in the school.

I'm not the leader of the pack either, lol. Nor am I a follower. We're all just... there.

"It's just...a bad dream! Wake up, wake up...!"
Mar 2, 2011 1:11 PM

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People in my classes think I am since I'm so quiet. But no, I do have friends. They just rarely get put in the same classes as me. And when I'm with them, I'm not so quiet. :P
Mar 2, 2011 2:04 PM

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Loner! I'm quite introverted especially around ppl who i'm not close with. Have like 3 close friends and 2 of them live hours away so i don't get to see them much. I'd like to have more close friends but then i don't put in enough initiative to establish and maintain those kinds of relationships i guess....so to some degree i both enjoy and dislike my introversion :) ..... >.<
Mar 2, 2011 4:59 PM

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I wanna b a loner but the society wont fkin let me its frustrating i know, all this responsibility, uni, job, have to be social to climb up in society and shape ur mask so that it looks pretty.

I will live on no matter what... so I can meet you once again.
Mar 2, 2011 6:35 PM

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Yeap most of the time and I enjoy it.
Mar 3, 2011 3:46 PM

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I had a cousin who used to call me a loner nearly 10 years ago because I didn't really fit in with her and her group of friends (who she tried to get me to hang out with in middle school). But being a loner means you want to be alone and don't want anything to do with anyone. I just had trouble getting along with people because I didn't have much self-confidence and my cousin...is extremely overconfident -_-.

But there are times when I do want to be a loner because people frustrate me and do honestly seem like more trouble than they're worth :P
Mar 4, 2011 12:14 AM

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not_a_peep said:
I had a cousin who used to call me a loner nearly 10 years ago because I didn't really fit in with her and her group of friends (who she tried to get me to hang out with in middle school). But being a loner means you want to be alone and don't want anything to do with anyone. I just had trouble getting along with people because I didn't have much self-confidence and my cousin...is extremely overconfident -_-.

But there are times when I do want to be a loner because people frustrate me and do honestly seem like more trouble than they're worth :P


Introverted seems like a better way to put it, thats what I would consider myself personally
Mar 4, 2011 11:35 PM

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I might have to consider myself a lone wolf due to the fact that I can never trust anyone around me. There have been times when I would open myself up to people and family, then out of nowhere they all just leave me behind wandering in the dark by myself. They all consider me stupid, uptight, and strange. For that I couldn't forgive them. But there are times when I don't want to be alone, the only problem is that I have yet to find true friends. Where I live is impossible to find people who actually truely accepts me for who I am. Since I'm stuck here for the time being, I consider myself a lone wolf til further notice.
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Mar 4, 2011 11:49 PM

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I believe there are 4 kinds of people:
Those who lead.
Those who follow.
Those who don't want to lead but people follow them anyway.
And those who neither lead nor follow.

I belong to that 3rd category. I prefer being alone, but people refuse to leave me alone.
So I guess no, I'm not a loner.
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Mar 5, 2011 7:39 PM

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yeah i'm a loner.

when ever i try to make friends and at first it good with a group of 3 or 4 and i chat and laugh with them, i'm always a follower but then it gradually turns to outcast where i just follow them around any they don't converse with me.

i'm terrible at making friends so i prefer just to live in solitude.
Mar 5, 2011 11:40 PM
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Mar 6, 2011 2:07 AM

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^
then i'm the 4th or 2nd category...
i hate following others but sometimes you can't avoid that and being a leader is much more of a hassle than being a follower

and no... i'm not a loner i hate crowded place and like being alone but i'm not a loner
Mar 6, 2011 7:17 AM

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Vinter said:
I believe there are 4 kinds of people:
Those who lead.
Those who follow.
Those who don't want to lead but people follow them anyway.
And those who neither lead nor follow.

Those who lead and follow.
Those who can't lead but want to and end up following.
Mar 6, 2011 7:42 AM

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Idk I defiantly prefer to be alone but i have my group of friends i hang out with. But only have like 2 people i can actually talk about anime and manga with but i really don't care i like finding things for myself.
Mar 6, 2011 11:26 AM

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prismheart said:
Vinter said:
I believe there are 4 kinds of people:
Those who lead.
Those who follow.
Those who don't want to lead but people follow them anyway.
And those who neither lead nor follow.

Those who lead and follow.
Those who can't lead but want to and end up following.


Desire doesn't enter into the equation. But sure, I guess there are the rare occasions where someone who follows also has people following them.
Never seen this though.

I could rephrase the third option to remove any illusion of desire.
"Those who don't lead, yet are still followed" is better.
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Mar 7, 2011 2:43 AM

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natural loner so much that it wound not bother me to be alone and stay alone,

but i also enjoy being with people but get annoyed after being with them for to long...

:likes her space:
My parents always taught me not to talk to strangers............Well, that went well didnt it?
Mar 7, 2011 3:08 AM

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yeah i am .......
Mar 7, 2011 4:21 AM
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Intresting.
I wonder why most of Anime fans are "loners". I wonder if there is a connection between the two.
Giving a pretty bad image for Anime fans, no wonder everyone think we are fucked up or something.

Also most of Anime fans, for some reason ,depressed.
Is this whats "cool" now?

Anyway, no im not a loner.
Mar 7, 2011 8:06 AM

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I'm a loner by choice, because I like being alone and society exhaust me. But I don't hate the society. I have lot of friends, but I prefer to be alone. I'm quite type of person who don't like hang out with too much people. Some of my friends call me anti-social, but I'm not. Also in reality I don't like introducing new people because I'm too shy.
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Mar 7, 2011 12:16 PM

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Oh yes, very much so.
Mar 7, 2011 12:18 PM

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PandaCubCup said:
Oh believe me, I was anti-social even before I discovered anime ^^
Mar 8, 2011 2:52 AM

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PandaCubCup said:
Intresting.
I wonder why most of Anime fans are "loners". I wonder if there is a connection between the two.
Giving a pretty bad image for Anime fans, no wonder everyone think we are fucked up or something.

Also most of Anime fans, for some reason ,depressed.
Is this whats "cool" now?

Anyway, no im not a loner.


I think many people who have "problems" in life tend to spend their time with things like anime. I mean, who would spend his or her entire free time with anime, if they have an ordinary good life? Of course, there are exceptions, too.

I am stuck with anime, because there is just nothing else left for me to do.
Mar 8, 2011 2:53 AM

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PandaCubCup said:
Intresting.
I wonder why most of Anime fans are "loners". I wonder if there is a connection between the two.
Giving a pretty bad image for Anime fans, no wonder everyone think we are fucked up or something.

Also most of Anime fans, for some reason ,depressed.
Is this whats "cool" now?

Anyway, no im not a loner.


I think many people who have "problems" in life tend to spend their time with things like anime. I mean, who would spend his or her entire free time with anime, if they have an ordinary good life? Of course, there are exceptions, too.

I am stuck with anime, because there is just nothing else left for me to do.
Mar 8, 2011 3:16 AM

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yea im #1 loner

GG
Apr 7, 2011 11:20 AM

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I don't think of myself as a loner because there are times when I just want/need time alone without the company of others. I have a specific group of close friends who I usually hang out with and then a bunch of others who I converse with occasionally.
Apr 7, 2011 11:36 AM
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I guess I'm more of a wannabe loner than I'd give myself credit for. The truth is, my temper keeps on getting in the way, and I ended up becoming seemingly a loner. I'm obviously no loner, having my postage here being probably the most around these parts of MAL. But there's always that bad friend of mine, the temper, chasing off my friends and ended up making me this so-called 'loner.'

But it does have its benefits that I recognize. Loneliness, that is. Indifference means there's no hatred. No love. Just... yourself. You can't be bothered. 'Harm' or 'Hurt' were really only there because I was used to having friends for a while, and the lack of them would work like a drug. An addiction to companionship. If people hadn't been there in the first place, and I'm only by myself, alone, there wouldn't be 'dreams,' or 'aspirations.' All those fairy tales about princesses 'dreaming' to go to the outside world, they only 'dreamed' because there's 'something' out there instead of 'nothing.'

Yeah. Pretty much my pov.
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