| Having good looks is not as nice as you think |
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| Amen, brother! These beta cucks don't even know! Tucker Carlson is right! |
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| I get by pretty easily being an ugly foul-smelling bastard. |
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Scud said: I get by pretty easily being an ugly foul-smelling bastard. I'd rather spend a day hanging out with your fun ugly ass than spend a minute with that sad reality-pilled crying bitch over there, even without looking at either of you. Strangely enough, I'm pretty sure most of us work that way, whatever our gender is... ;p |
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Angularity said: philtecturophy said: Having good looks is not as nice as you think Elaborate, how so? Read my post again. My looks is above average (my photos in my MAL blog), was voted the cutest boy in my school, but my social skill is really bad (extremely shy, especially during my school years), was bullied, no gf. My friends who bullied me were ugly bastards, but they have gf and have lots of friends. Most of my mid school years were hell, after I decided to move to another school, where I totally change my appearance and force myself to be more social, then everything was a bit better. College was much better also, coz I have better knowledge on how I should look and behave to gain more friends, and to be more approachable In the end, its more about your social skill, how you dress, how you smell, character, skills (able to play sports and musical instruments), and street smart, rather than literally how you look (tall, handsome etc.) |
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| Dude, shut up please Did you seriously just write a whole essay on this bullshit? lol Angularity said: There are people that were born attractive, tall, rich, into a loving family. They traveled the world with their families at a young age, experiencing a dozen different countries and cultures by the time they are done with finished with high school. They go onto a private university and graduate with no debt, getting a job that their father had connections with. They will fly around the world, visit friends in different countries, party in Europe, go to the beaches in Australia during their homeland’s winter. They will have validation from dozens of girls a week. They will be happy, healthy, and enjoying life. They don’t have to worry about how they will pay their next utility bill or rent. They don’t have to check their bank account after they went out for dinner with a friend. Their lives will be set; parents setting up multi-million dollar trust funds. /// Its funny how you associate a loving family and being rich with being attractive, how do you even begin to make that connection? Is this because you think that attractive people will have positive relationships with their families? or because every attractive person is born with raw talent? Angularity said: mprove your looks and you will improve your reality. Your whole world will get better. Girls starting to pay more attention to you, your co-workers showing you more respect, random people start to do things they’ve never done, holding the door open for an extra second, smiling at you as you walk past them. /// More like your misery about your looks may make you resentful, appear depressed and moody, and therefore unapproachable. Also, not everybody is hell bent on the idea that their sole way to happiness is getting into a relationship, because they dont take relationships as a joke like you do, if youre constantly hyperfocused on wanting to get into one, it probably means you dont really value relationships in general. If you did you would understand that being a sefl-deprecating, low self-esteem basement dweller isnt going to help you maintain a healthy or even enjoyable relationships. Angularity said: Remember boyos, everything stems from lookism: racism, sexism, bullying, etc. Being good looking surpass it all. /// Ahh yes, now we just need to wait for rapists to realise that the beauty of their targets actually heightens their urge to respect them, sexism from the opposite gender can totally be stopped so long as she's attractive, because then men would totally be able to empathise with her more by admiring her outer mask. And bullies to appreciate attractive individuals should be their idols instead of people who make them seethe with jealousy and resentment every time they see them. |
Hydre_ItoApr 26, 2022 7:07 AM
| I feel like you're partially right. In fact, I've noticed it myself. I've been able to socialize a lot more ever since trimming down and giving a fuck about my physical appearance. People treat you better to a certain extent. However, once you get past that stage, it comes down to your personality and opinions...so I feel like you're overrating its importance a tad bit. It's essential to pass the screening test, but once you're done with that, other factors come into play. |
Angularity said: Moonspeak said: I'd rather spend a day hanging out with your fun ugly ass than spend a minute with that sad reality-pilled crying bitch over there, even without looking at either of you. Strangely enough, I'm pretty sure most of us work that way, whatever our gender is... ;p Holy shit this weeb incel cant stop barking for me, i literally made a motivation thread for people here to improve their looks yet somehow your offended?! You really thought this was a motivation thread? kindly please stop bullshitting |
Angularity said: philtecturophy said: My looks is above average (my photos in my MAL blog), was voted the cutest boy in my school, but my social skill is really bad (extremely shy, especially during my school years), was bullied, no gf. My friends who bullied me were ugly bastards, but they have gf and have lots of friends. Most of my mid school years were hell, after I decided to move to another school, where I totally change my appearance and force myself to be more social, then everything was a bit better. College was much better also, coz I have better knowledge on how I should look and behave to gain more friends, and to be more approachable In the end, its more about your social skill, how you dress, how you smell, character, skills (able to play sports and musical instruments), and street smart, rather than literally how you look (tall, handsome etc.) show pics or larp, its mostly looks, physical attraction is derived from looks Its more about style and how you behave that makes you handsome |
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| Is this another one of those threads where the moral is that a thick neck is the secret to eternal youth? |
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| idk if it’s the same thing but i notice that the world seems kinder whenever i lose 30 pounds. its an unfortunate reality that being more attractive makes life a lot easier. |
| I mean you are right. People absolutely treat me better the periods I workout. If you feel society is worth all the trouble of changing yourself do it. |
| What are you trying to sell me and how much does it cost? |
| Stuff in the streets, Stuff with drip in the sheets |
| But what if you’re good looking and don’t like or care about parties and clubs and you are religious like me? I’m sure that there are other good looking people who choose not to partake for their own reasons if not for the same reasons. |
| I feel sorry for people who genuinely buy into this kind of ideology. I was an ugly kid who had spent most of their time playing videogames. As an adult I put effort into myself and got out there, partied and lived life. But like I got hurt doing that. Alot of people don't understand that living that kind of lifestyle comes at a certain risk. That and I dunno you can find happiness and contentment from just staying at home and playing videogames too. I am happier now focusing on my hobbies instead of partying, doing drugs and having sex. Maybe I feel this way because I know I am safer doing this as opposed to what I was doing before. My point being is live the life you want and make your own happiness based on what you enjoy doing. |
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Yeah. Me too. People who have this perspective will find themselves in the company of similar people. They deserve each other. GenshinRosaria said: I’m sure that there are other good looking people who choose not to partake for their own reasons if not for the same reasons. The blurb is copied from a community that focused on picking up chicks in bars clubs that was popular 10 yrs ago. For them, clubs & the party lifestyle were peak existence and anyone who didn't want to participate were outside of their scope. |
| Calling bullshit on this. Looks mean nothing if you don't have the social skills or self confidence to talk and casually associate with others. I'm a pretty decent looking guy that's physically fit and checks pretty much all the boxes but never had any success in school socially. They can help, sure, but you need to at least start by being comfortable |
Erg_Orgy said: Is this another one of those threads where the moral is that a thick neck is the secret to eternal youth? Thick neck and a hairy chest. But of course we don't need to tell you that, Mr. Reynolds. |
| They say fear of death is the most potent visceral psychological tool to be used on narcissists. Short of actual disfigurement and death. Eh, this thread for some reason reminds me of a discussion I had with a Gf about prosthetics. In which she would see herself as a lee than whole mutilated freak and I was, like, getting custom ghost flame paint jobs for mine. |
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| My friends looks are all below me, seriously much below, and they lead successful lives. They know how to dress, how to socialize, know how to approach females etc, good with sports, good street smart. They looked awesome, much better than me, whose now having low self esteem, and consider myself a loser due to my chronic tailbone pain My ex dumped me, I cried and heartbroken, and she looked for a bf that is not even half looked good as me. But her current bf is bad boy, smoking, tattoo, adventurous, and fun. She is happy with him now So your opinion on this (goodlooking - tall, handsome mostly lead a good life), is totally wrong. Some users here also have answered your questions based on their experience |
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Soverign said: They say fear of death is the most potent visceral psychological tool to be used on narcissists. Sup, edgelord, narcissist here. I happen to believe Camus' theory on the subject, which is that you can die for the very idea of yourself ;) So, which part of vanity should prevail ? Would you like us to play a bit with knives with each other to see ? ;p Edit : @Soverign Mmm... Answering Camus with some comics, you're from the US alright... Would you mind telling me which state, city, etc ? ;p I may give you a chance to experiment your own marvelous thesis, I'm in a traveling mood these days ;) It's funny, even if I know I'm not invicible I'm pretty certain I can kick your ass real quick. |
MoonspeakApr 26, 2022 11:07 PM
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Moonspeak said: Soverign said: They say fear of death is the most potent visceral psychological tool to be used on narcissists. Sup, edgelord, narcissist here. I happen to believe Camus' theory on the subject, which is that you can die for the very idea of yourself ;) So, which part of vanity should prevail ? Would you like us to play a bit with knives with each other to see ? ;p Lol. The average person fears death because they don’t know where they’ll go at the end of their life, or they are afraid of the pain they’ll endure beforehand. The reality is that most people do not want to die, and it is never a topic that is discussed with joy. The narcissist, on the other hand, fears death because it reminds them that they are not invincible, and their high sense of self-worth was merely a delusion. When they die, everything they lived for dies with them. Which means all their efforts while alive was pointless. https://thenarcissisticlife.com/how-to-make-a-narcissist-fear-you/#:~:text=The%20narcissist%2C%20on%20the%20other%20hand%2C%20fears%20death,means%20all%20their%20efforts%20while%20alive%20was%20pointless. See fig above. The narcissist is now attempting to exert superiority over me psychologically. https://www.grammarphobia.com/blog/2018/05/wolf-tickets.html#:~:text=A%3A%20To%20%E2%80%9Csell%20wolf%20tickets%2C%E2%80%9D%20an%20expression%20that%E2%80%99s,its%20use%20by%20Black%20gang%20members%20in%20Chicago. : To “sell wolf tickets,” an expression that’s about 60 years old, is to oversell yourself—to spread boasts or threats that you can’t (or won’t) back up. The usage was first recorded in writing in 1963, when sociologists noted its use by Black gang members in Chicago. The sociologists had reported it two years before in a speech, and it was undoubtedly used on the streets even earlier than that. Some commentators have suggested that the expression comes from “to cry wolf” (to bluff or raise a false alarm). But a more likely theory is that the “wolf” here was originally “woof” and was intended to mean a bark without a bite. |
SoverignApr 26, 2022 11:13 PM
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| I'm all for self-care, just feeling comfortable with my body makes me feel better overall for anything, so whatever makes people happy, if people are happy partying let them party. I don't see any problem with things described here, there is nothing wrong with traveling, working out, and partying, let alone flirting at parties. I like parties while at the same time having a few friends over for homemade food and play some games. You can balance your activities, it's possible. |
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Angularity said: Don't care. If I can't see or experience change in real life why should I believe a videoCrack said: Calling bullshit on this. Looks mean nothing if you don't have the social skills or self confidence to talk and casually associate with others. I'm a pretty decent looking guy that's physically fit and checks pretty much all the boxes but never had any success in school socially. They can help, sure, but you need to at least start by being comfortable watch the fucking youtube videos dumbass read on the halo effect |
| The only reason you need for looking good is posting your pictures on an anime forum and flexing your looks over the ugly weebs. Then you may proceed to cry about your depressing life while still feeling superior. |
| I cannot improve what is already perfect. |
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| The term "looksmax" is cringe af but I'm in all support of men and women improving themselves and their appearance. |
| Wait this is not an ad for beauty pills... |
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Milzol said: it all comes down to status. i see alot of women on the net obsess over benedict cumberbatch. the guy looks weird. if he weren't a famous actor, they wouldn't be interested in him. these women don't want to admit that it is his career that makes him interesting (perhaps not even to themselves), so they say talk about his cheek bones. the people who get the most sex are not gymbros. teenage girls have crushes on their teachers. when they get older, they crush on the teaching assisstant or professor. when they have a job they get interested in their boss. if they want to become scientists, they sleep with the editors of the journals. you greatly overestimate looks. Status has influence but it's also because you usually don't hear from the other opposing opinions unless they are real strong so it gives a false impression of large agreeance. Girls tend to have a relatively wide variation on what they find physically attractive individual to individual. Anyway yes Cumberbach from certain angles looks like a lizard person and others looks attractive so you could say he looks weird but weird can also be appealing because it's different. From an evolutionary perspective it represents genetic diversity. Of course someone cant look too different or that gives off signals of thinking subconsciously they have a genetic disease. But it's not just looks and status. Status doesn't matter to everyone consciously or subconsciously. It can also be down to overall character and level of chemistry with that person. If someone has a good personality and connection their physical appearance is perceived differently and vice versa to a lesser or greater degree depending on the individual. |
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| I prefer looking a little dumpy. Keeps my natural Latin sexiness from causing mass chaos wherever I go. What? I'm not delusional. Shut up! Don't look at me! |
FanofAction said: I prefer looking a little dumpy. Keeps my natural Latin sexiness from causing mass chaos wherever I go. What? I'm not delusional. Shut up! Don't look at me! Nah, I get you pal, don't worry ;p The idgaf-almost-homeless look actually is pretty powerful when you're confident enough to pull it off ^^ Edit : @FanofAction noice, same here ;p Just put some intensity in your eyes, a little sun for the tan, and you're good to go ;) |
MoonspeakApr 30, 2022 12:32 AM
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Moonspeak said: FanofAction said: I prefer looking a little dumpy. Keeps my natural Latin sexiness from causing mass chaos wherever I go. What? I'm not delusional. Shut up! Don't look at me! Nah, I get you pal, don't worry ;p The idgaf-almost-homeless look actually is pretty powerful when you're confident enough to pull it off ^^ I defininately got some of that going on. Literally haven't cut my hair in months. |
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