Sethniisan said: If you're hot you can sell your nudes online. People pay big time for a good time. Just saying.Hello I need help with earning income. Anyone PLEASE give me ways to earn income in the UK and online especially for someone who can't work. |
iAmAileenCom said: deimos96 said: Need advice, I think i'm experiencing Quarter Life Crisis. Warning: sorry if i sound naggy about life but i just felt like sharing and maybe if any others are experiencing something similar, we can share thoughts? So i quit my job as an architect more than half a year ago. i didn't feel satisfied doing what i did. I felt like i didn't learn much about architecture in design during my 11 month tenure other than learning to cope with stress and deadlines, plus the pay sucked. Now i'm making a living out of flipping items online lol, i actually started while i was still working as an energy-efficient side hustle but i've gotten good at it to the point i can stand on my own feet just flipping stuff and tbh i am actually making more than my previous job. But the tough part is just living this kind of life, i feels so static. I'm not meeting new people. I mostly stay at home all the time just playing games, watching anime, youtube, and netflix. It sounds great but being like this for more than half a year isn't healthy (sorry fellow weebs, but being a NEET is bad). The only community i got is playing csgo online with my college or high school buddies. I probably go out just 1-2 times a month other than going out to the minimart. Heck i'm turning to dating apps which i used to hate so hopefully i can get a romantic life lmao, yea its a longshot. I actually graduated from a pretty good college in my country, although my grades were just average, but i feel that society (especially my family) is pressuring me to continue my profession because of my background. But the working culture is just sooo bad and it'll take years before i am able to handle my own projects and I don't wanna waste so much time struggling in one industry when i know there are greener pastures, don't get me wrong tho its not like i hate designing or anything but the industry just sucks right now. Yeah flipping items is doing good for me financially. I've even grown a passion for entrepreneurship while i'm at it, hopefully if i have enough savings i can open a business. Oh btw staying at home all the time can also save you so much money compared to living alone. But damnnnn its boring and depressing, especially when i feel like no one is supporting me, my family is the typical conservative type where pride and titles means a lot. Ofc i don't wanna spend my life just flipping stuff, but i can't see myself back in architecture. Maybe i should get a job in another more general field like a bank or some startup... I know i'm not alone in this quarter life thingy but bruh this is so frustrating. Sorry for the long rant MAL. i just felt like sharing and this is the most comfortable place for me lmao, thanks. Ooh, I understand what you mean! We have similarities: I quit my job to work online because I hated the 9-to-5 grind and the whole toxic culture that surrounds it. I did web and graphic design at first — but then transitioned to online entrepreneurship and being an ~influencer~ (lol which I didn't even intend to do at first, it's just fun). Anyway, at the start, I was like you. Since my job involved staying at home to work online, I didn't go out as much. No social life, etc. Things only started to make a turn for the better when I did the blogging thing because I got to travel and do projects etc. — but also because I found out some ways to expose me to more people. And this was where I realized that spreading out your network really helps. First up: I suggest you sign up for some events or get-togethers in your area. I think the app 'meetup' is great for that so you can meet like-minded people. Through that way you can socialize and you can even bounce ideas too (eventually you might even find another kind of business that you will enjoy and that can bring you more financial security, like I did). When you get to secure a more stable income, to answer the social problem part, I suggest signing up for a coworking space so that you're not always holed at home. Coworking spaces are so good for promoting productivity but also for meeting new people (and being in a similar setting like an office but without the toxicity lol). Anyway, what I'm just saying is: hang in there bro. These are just bumps on the road (for now). You'll find a way to get through this! Thank you for the insight! Yeah i will hang in there. I'll try and join some events that i've previously thought of joining but never really end up joining. It's a gathering of online entrepreneurs that my marketplace organizes and maybe find other events. Again, thank for the advice and inspiration:) PS: never thought of talking to an influencer in this forum haha |
Wiffur said: I'm going down the hole again. I feel so lonely. I feel like I have no one to talk to, and it hurts so much. I don't want to post this here, but I feel like I have nowhere else to talk about my feelings. I don't want to burden anyone either. go join a discord community based around something you enjoy, talk there a bit, make some friends and you'll have someone to talk to. |
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cluclu said: how do i get a boyfriend that loves me I'm sure you'll be fine. It's easy "(´• ω •)ﾉ devours pocky and left over cummies uwaaa~" oh well, nevermind |
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| holy frick. feeling sad. i look into the abyss and the abyss looks back. nietzche was right when he said this. just when i thought i started to figure it all out, everything begins to fall apart. the idea of being perfect/complete always eludes me. |
p0ckyyJan 18, 2020 11:33 PM
| I suppose it depends entirely upon the exact circumstances unique to your relationship. You not 'being ready' could mean all sorts. |
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| You should definitely talk things out with her. Find out why she thinks you’re not ready for a relationship and try to improve yourself so that you are ready for a relationship. If she has unrealistic demands or if you find that there isn’t much love between you maybe it’s time you breakup, you can still be friends and it will sting but if it’s a toxic relationship it will be better in the long run if you breakup. Either way definitely talk to her and figure out what you both want out of each other, how either of you can improve yourself for the other or if you should continue to pursue a romantic relationship together. |
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| Mate, if she told you that it means she has already decided to break up imho |
| My advice was just to prepare yourself as usually when your partner tells you this kind of things he/she has already taken a decision |
| If she does break up with you, please do not chase after her; we women do not like that. I once had a guy stalk me for SIX MONTHS even though we only went on two dates. It was horrible. He would not leave me alone. So please be a good guy and respect her decision, okay? |
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Chiibi said: If she does break up with you, please do not chase after her; we women do not like that. I once had a guy stalk me for SIX MONTHS even though we only went on two dates. It was horrible. He would not leave me alone. So please be a good guy and respect her decision, okay? It's a crime, it isn't about women not liking that lol |
She doesn't know what she's talking about if she hasn't seen your avatar here yet. *Thinks of you and your gf as Touka* Gomenasai. 1:05-1:44 |
 サディスティックな考え "JUST KILL ME." サディスティックマインド |
| She probably found your MAL profile and is displeased with your list |
| are you losing her or is she losing you? stay strong champ  |
| Tell her you don't care because she was "an ugly bitch" and her pussy smells like "egg fu yung" Guaranteed to break down any girl's self esteem while giving you enough plausible deniability to not slit your wrists in a warm bath. |
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CodeBr0t said: Bobby2Hands said: Tell her you don't care because she was "an ugly bitch" and her pussy smells like "egg fu yung" Guaranteed to break down any girl's self esteem while giving you enough plausible deniability to not slit your wrists in a warm bath. are you speaking of expirience or what? I don't like to call it experience but...yes. |
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| What's the best site to look for anime fanarts, wallpapers or lockscreen? |
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| @white_hollow have you tried pixiv? deviantart and zerochan are also pretty good options for finding art. |
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| @excuses i've tried deviantart and zerochan but haven't tried searching on pixiv yet. Thanks for the advice ^^) |
Wandering Witch is the best light novel ever! |
White_Hollow said: @excuses i've tried deviantart and zerochan but haven't tried searching on pixiv yet. Thanks for the advice ^^) Try alphacoders its where i look up specific wallpapers reso |
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-Lei said: White_Hollow said: @excuses i've tried deviantart and zerochan but haven't tried searching on pixiv yet. Thanks for the advice ^^) Try alphacoders its where i look up specific wallpapers reso It's only good if i'm looking for an hd resolution. But if i'm looking for a spesific series or characters it is more likely that i won't find many. |
Wandering Witch is the best light novel ever! |
White_Hollow said: have you even try looking in it. Some of this site might help. If not best bet to lookup in pixiv-Lei said: Try alphacoders its where i look up specific wallpapers reso It's only good if i'm looking for an hd resolution. But if i'm looking for a spesific series or characters it is more likely that i won't find many. anime.reactor.cc Wallhere |
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White_Hollow said: glad I could introduce you to something new. Although I'm not too sure if you will find the character you want, you many need to do some long, hard searching.@excuses i've tried deviantart and zerochan but haven't tried searching on pixiv yet. Thanks for the advice ^^) Pixiv is different to deviantart and zerochan, there is mainly original art posted on it @hugfal05 I always thought it was just 'a-kuh-day-me-uh' but I know some people pronounce academia like 'a-kuh-dee-me-uh' so I think either one is fine. |
ImmuneFeb 8, 2020 4:04 PM
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| So hello everyone, I hope you are doing well I know I am not stupid but I often do stupid things.... I still procrastinate alot... don't eat even if I am hungry and sometimes forget things from time to time.... I have time to study but still don't and have also failed exams two times, I know I can do it ...but don't have the motivation to do so.... it feels I am losing control of my life... any suggestions what to do... at times I just sit for hours wondering what I should do and then realize that I wasted my time and get depressed again, masturbation seems at times a solution but I know deep inside that it is not. I think some thing is wrong with me. It's like at times I don't have any motivation to actually try to live but then get depressed when I see others trying and achieving so much more. any suggestions on how to keep on trying.... before I was good at hiding my emotions now I am getting those comments as to why are you like this right now Any suggestions will help |
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shirakawa_megumi said: Have you tried to have sex with female? If not, then do it many times. Do you have job? If not, find one. Do you have any goal in life? If not, thing of some. Are you disappointed in some part of you which can be easily changed like haircut or being little too fat? If yes, change that. i don't think someone who lacks motivation has the drive to do those things, speakin from personal experience >.> |
| Hey, everyone, I'm new to this thread but had a quick question on cosplay. I am going to a convention soon and am too lazy to make my cosplay this year. Does anyone know of a good place to buy cosplay online other than EZ Cosplay? I would love any recommendations. Thanks! |
| How do you motivate yourself to do something? I haven't left my bed all day and am trying to force myself to do anything really. I have been pretty fucked in the head recently and have been trying to entertain myself but can't bring myself to do anything. How do you guys do it? |
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FlowersInTheRain said: CodeBr0t said: what should I do, she says I am not ready for an relationship and I am gonna talk to her on Saturady (its an long distance relationship so i have to drive w/ the train to her..) So what happened in the end? Alpha_Trans said: How do you motivate yourself to do something? I haven't left my bed all day and am trying to force myself to do anything really. I have been pretty fucked in the head recently and have been trying to entertain myself but can't bring myself to do anything. How do you guys do it? You just got a new place so you deserve a break anyway. You will be motivated again when there is a sense of urgency, excitement or anticipation. True, I just got very very depressed for like a week. Got out of that funk honestly faster than I thought. Just ended up having alot going on so quickly overwhelmed me. Thanks for this reply though, it does help. |
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Korishi said: I can only think of 3 situations in which that would happen, In America I'm not so sure about the laws elsewhere.does anyone know whether you can be forced to stay in a psychiatric hospital against your will? if so, what are the conditions and what is the maximum duration you will be kept there? 1. A court mandated stay 2. Being a minor 3. Being under a conservatorship But I'm no legal expert and you should probably consult with one if this is happening to you or someone you know |
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| let me help you, dont make friends 2D anime Waifus are all you will ever need |
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| I wouldn't consider myself a master at conversation but oh man, I'm starting to feel quite sorry for you, man. Especially because you seem to be expressing yourself okay on your posts. Getting in a group conversation is hard if like it's at like the University Canteen. If your uni has any credentials or certificates you can go get/apply to they're really the best place to make friends. One is forced to make conversation in an environment like an improv classes, public speaking, digital marketing or movie appreciation certificate course (lol) the class is generally small too (barely 25 people in my film club-thing) and you'll have a consistent crew of people to work with. You're bound to get to know someone there. You'll find similar activities outside of University - Dance classes or places for like Jiving is a great place to meet people and they'll be of a different set of age groups so some will be quite patient too. If you have none of those options. Get on a dating app and explicitly state you'd like to make some friends on your profile. My sister says it works. I don't know how bad you are but you could practice some conversation starters on MAL. Go comment on someone's profile, someone nice or responsive. If you're nervous about that explicitly state you're practicing maybe. If you meet a "Talker" just keep asking questions. Listen and respond appropriately, I guess. Be observant. If something catches your interest and it's not too personal ask someone about it. Feel free to add me and practice with me even. I can dissapear from MAL sometimes and get caught up with work but I'll be glad to help. |
HappyPicnicFeb 27, 2020 5:29 AM
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| Ehh... idk. Mostly i just talk with them. If they like it, we become friends and if they don't.... well... maybe we will but it takes time. Sharing the same interests or topic is one of the best way to make friends. If you have an interest that's different from others... well i can only say, good luck! And best regards. Sometimes you need to go out of your own box if you want to blend in society. Not a hard thing nor the bad thing to do. But, just... scary and uncertain. But you know... that's just how life is. Taking one step to change wouldn't be so bad... find out what they like and don't just watch from afar and eavesdropping. SynthwaveCrusade said: let me help you, dont make friends 2D anime Waifus are all you will ever need |
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| You don't just go out and make friends. All you need are supplies from which you are getting attention from. Such people are easy to find and replaceable if needed. |
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| A lot of really solid advice on here. I'm in the same boat where talking to people that don't share the same interests as me are super hard to talk to. Try to find an environment where people have the same interests as you. When I'm at a skatepark or at the local game store I find it so easy to talk to people, throw me in some bar and I have no idea what to say. Even if that environment is on forums like these that's fine, I have met people online that I'd go as far to say they are family to me. |
Peepin said: A lot of really solid advice on here. I'm in the same boat where talking to people that don't share the same interests as me are super hard to talk to. Try to find an environment where people have the same interests as you. When I'm at a skatepark or at the local game store I find it so easy to talk to people, throw me in some bar and I have no idea what to say. Even if that environment is on forums like these that's fine, I have met people online that I'd go as far to say they are family to me. Yeah I already know this stuff but I don't know where I would find people I could connect with around me. I live in a dead suburb where you need a car to get to places. I am still working on getting my license but when i get it i still won't be able to afford a car I am a poorfag. If i had a license and car or if public transportation was good and worth a shit where I am I can get to the city ezpz and do shit but I am stuck with a soulless suburb.  |
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