Domestic na Kanojo Chapter 228 Discussion

May 10, 2019 11:38 AM

#51

hugedata

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TsukuyomiREKT said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

Von_Struth said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

He dismantled your bullshit with an actual argument. Get over it.

He really didn't though, he just went on a pointless rant based on assumption rather than tackling and questioning my view point which isn't a discussion and it's pointless engaging in. If he wanted a proper discussion I would of replied with something along the lines of this.

Your fallacy is believing I ship NatxRui when in fact I ship what's best for Rui and Kajita is most certainly not that character imo, chapter 227 and 228 are not the only times we've seen Kajita acting territory around Rui so don't play it off as comical relief and no I'm not referring to the mug scene, it happened it's part of his character growth arc, deal with it.

Also don't lie about the situation with the other cooks yes they said something inappropriate about a co work and friend but act as a civilized human being and tell the boss and respect Rui enough to tell her the situation rather than going of the rails like nut case and YES nut case if you resort to violence to solve your problem you're a pathetic human. Kajita should and would be fired and rightfully so.

Also lets no forget Kajita is using a conversation about the break up to his advantage, bring up she should be more self confident knowing that's her insecurity and using that to his advantage is slimly as hell

What the fuck are you talking about? You're acting like he's a monster or something. Lol. His reaction was understandable. Should he have gone straight to violence? Probably not. But it's not unreasonable considering the things they were saying. Most people would have reacted in a similar fashion. When someone is talking about your friend/someone you've grown close to like that, it's not easy to keep your emotions in check.

Also, how was he being disrespectful to Rui by doing that? If anything it's the exact opposite. You wouldn't normally punch someone for bad mouthing a person you didn't already respect.

I don't think he's doing that. Unlike what you believe in your own headcanon, he's not a bad guy, at least going off of what we've been shown so far. He's just being nice and encouraging a friend/coworker. He's not trying to manipulate her emotions.

Actually it doesn't seem like he was fighting them because they were disrespecting Rui. I mean they didn't do anything directly wrong to her. They were just talking sh*t between guys. I think he fought them because he was jealous that they might actually hit on Rui. And that is the problem. Like "How dare you say that about my girl!" It shows possessiveness and immaturity.

I really don't think that's the case, but you do you I guess. Also, you're really downplaying what they said. It was some pretty nasty shit. Not just joking between pals.

They said "I hear Japanese women are the most submissive of all Asians", and "I bet they give good head". Hardly the nastiest things that could have been said. And they were generalizing Japanese girls instead of talking directly about Rui.
In any case, it's just my opinion that his reaction was way too overboard. He could have talked it out with them instead of going psycho.

May 10, 2019 4:41 PM

#52

Kyouma_Sensei

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hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

Von_Struth said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

He dismantled your bullshit with an actual argument. Get over it.

He really didn't though, he just went on a pointless rant based on assumption rather than tackling and questioning my view point which isn't a discussion and it's pointless engaging in. If he wanted a proper discussion I would of replied with something along the lines of this.

Your fallacy is believing I ship NatxRui when in fact I ship what's best for Rui and Kajita is most certainly not that character imo, chapter 227 and 228 are not the only times we've seen Kajita acting territory around Rui so don't play it off as comical relief and no I'm not referring to the mug scene, it happened it's part of his character growth arc, deal with it.

Also don't lie about the situation with the other cooks yes they said something inappropriate about a co work and friend but act as a civilized human being and tell the boss and respect Rui enough to tell her the situation rather than going of the rails like nut case and YES nut case if you resort to violence to solve your problem you're a pathetic human. Kajita should and would be fired and rightfully so.

Also lets no forget Kajita is using a conversation about the break up to his advantage, bring up she should be more self confident knowing that's her insecurity and using that to his advantage is slimly as hell

What the fuck are you talking about? You're acting like he's a monster or something. Lol. His reaction was understandable. Should he have gone straight to violence? Probably not. But it's not unreasonable considering the things they were saying. Most people would have reacted in a similar fashion. When someone is talking about your friend/someone you've grown close to like that, it's not easy to keep your emotions in check.

Also, how was he being disrespectful to Rui by doing that? If anything it's the exact opposite. You wouldn't normally punch someone for bad mouthing a person you didn't already respect.

I don't think he's doing that. Unlike what you believe in your own headcanon, he's not a bad guy, at least going off of what we've been shown so far. He's just being nice and encouraging a friend/coworker. He's not trying to manipulate her emotions.

Actually it doesn't seem like he was fighting them because they were disrespecting Rui. I mean they didn't do anything directly wrong to her. They were just talking sh*t between guys. I think he fought them because he was jealous that they might actually hit on Rui. And that is the problem. Like "How dare you say that about my girl!" It shows possessiveness and immaturity.

I really don't think that's the case, but you do you I guess. Also, you're really downplaying what they said. It was some pretty nasty shit. Not just joking between pals.

They said "I hear Japanese women are the most submissive of all Asians", and "I bet they give good head". Hardly the nastiest things that could have been said. And they were generalizing Japanese girls instead of talking directly about Rui.
In any case, it's just my opinion that his reaction was way too overboard. He could have talked it out with them instead of going psycho.

THIS attitude is a huge issue! The "locker room talk" and "just talking sh*t between guys" acceptance of the sexist and womanizing attitude is unacceptable. I find Kajita creepy, but he is an honorable kind of creepy. Guys talking down Asian women, women in general, and especially Japanese women are disgusting. To have them saying disgusting things about someone he respects and might be attracted to would make an honorable man extremely upset.

May 10, 2019 4:56 PM

#53

TsukuyomiREKT

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hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

Von_Struth said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

He dismantled your bullshit with an actual argument. Get over it.

He really didn't though, he just went on a pointless rant based on assumption rather than tackling and questioning my view point which isn't a discussion and it's pointless engaging in. If he wanted a proper discussion I would of replied with something along the lines of this.

Your fallacy is believing I ship NatxRui when in fact I ship what's best for Rui and Kajita is most certainly not that character imo, chapter 227 and 228 are not the only times we've seen Kajita acting territory around Rui so don't play it off as comical relief and no I'm not referring to the mug scene, it happened it's part of his character growth arc, deal with it.

Also don't lie about the situation with the other cooks yes they said something inappropriate about a co work and friend but act as a civilized human being and tell the boss and respect Rui enough to tell her the situation rather than going of the rails like nut case and YES nut case if you resort to violence to solve your problem you're a pathetic human. Kajita should and would be fired and rightfully so.

Also lets no forget Kajita is using a conversation about the break up to his advantage, bring up she should be more self confident knowing that's her insecurity and using that to his advantage is slimly as hell

What the fuck are you talking about? You're acting like he's a monster or something. Lol. His reaction was understandable. Should he have gone straight to violence? Probably not. But it's not unreasonable considering the things they were saying. Most people would have reacted in a similar fashion. When someone is talking about your friend/someone you've grown close to like that, it's not easy to keep your emotions in check.

Also, how was he being disrespectful to Rui by doing that? If anything it's the exact opposite. You wouldn't normally punch someone for bad mouthing a person you didn't already respect.

I don't think he's doing that. Unlike what you believe in your own headcanon, he's not a bad guy, at least going off of what we've been shown so far. He's just being nice and encouraging a friend/coworker. He's not trying to manipulate her emotions.

Actually it doesn't seem like he was fighting them because they were disrespecting Rui. I mean they didn't do anything directly wrong to her. They were just talking sh*t between guys. I think he fought them because he was jealous that they might actually hit on Rui. And that is the problem. Like "How dare you say that about my girl!" It shows possessiveness and immaturity.

I really don't think that's the case, but you do you I guess. Also, you're really downplaying what they said. It was some pretty nasty shit. Not just joking between pals.

They said "I hear Japanese women are the most submissive of all Asians", and "I bet they give good head". Hardly the nastiest things that could have been said. And they were generalizing Japanese girls instead of talking directly about Rui.
In any case, it's just my opinion that his reaction was way too overboard. He could have talked it out with them instead of going psycho.

I mean yeah, they could have said worse shit, but they were still being complete assholes. Also (and this is just my personal interpretation) they looked like they might be the type of dudes that would actually attempt to do something to her. In my opinion, Kajita did nothing wrong. They deserved it.

May 10, 2019 5:21 PM

#54

Swag_Akatsuki

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Oh man, this is really going downhill now lol. Unlike Gotoubun and Kaguya-sama which keep improving with each new chapter

May 10, 2019 9:15 PM

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hugedata

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55Chevee said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

Von_Struth said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

He dismantled your bullshit with an actual argument. Get over it.

He really didn't though, he just went on a pointless rant based on assumption rather than tackling and questioning my view point which isn't a discussion and it's pointless engaging in. If he wanted a proper discussion I would of replied with something along the lines of this.

Your fallacy is believing I ship NatxRui when in fact I ship what's best for Rui and Kajita is most certainly not that character imo, chapter 227 and 228 are not the only times we've seen Kajita acting territory around Rui so don't play it off as comical relief and no I'm not referring to the mug scene, it happened it's part of his character growth arc, deal with it.

Also don't lie about the situation with the other cooks yes they said something inappropriate about a co work and friend but act as a civilized human being and tell the boss and respect Rui enough to tell her the situation rather than going of the rails like nut case and YES nut case if you resort to violence to solve your problem you're a pathetic human. Kajita should and would be fired and rightfully so.

Also lets no forget Kajita is using a conversation about the break up to his advantage, bring up she should be more self confident knowing that's her insecurity and using that to his advantage is slimly as hell

What the fuck are you talking about? You're acting like he's a monster or something. Lol. His reaction was understandable. Should he have gone straight to violence? Probably not. But it's not unreasonable considering the things they were saying. Most people would have reacted in a similar fashion. When someone is talking about your friend/someone you've grown close to like that, it's not easy to keep your emotions in check.

Also, how was he being disrespectful to Rui by doing that? If anything it's the exact opposite. You wouldn't normally punch someone for bad mouthing a person you didn't already respect.

I don't think he's doing that. Unlike what you believe in your own headcanon, he's not a bad guy, at least going off of what we've been shown so far. He's just being nice and encouraging a friend/coworker. He's not trying to manipulate her emotions.

Actually it doesn't seem like he was fighting them because they were disrespecting Rui. I mean they didn't do anything directly wrong to her. They were just talking sh*t between guys. I think he fought them because he was jealous that they might actually hit on Rui. And that is the problem. Like "How dare you say that about my girl!" It shows possessiveness and immaturity.

I really don't think that's the case, but you do you I guess. Also, you're really downplaying what they said. It was some pretty nasty shit. Not just joking between pals.

They said "I hear Japanese women are the most submissive of all Asians", and "I bet they give good head". Hardly the nastiest things that could have been said. And they were generalizing Japanese girls instead of talking directly about Rui.
In any case, it's just my opinion that his reaction was way too overboard. He could have talked it out with them instead of going psycho.

THIS attitude is a huge issue! The "locker room talk" and "just talking sh*t between guys" acceptance of the sexist and womanizing attitude is unacceptable. I find Kajita creepy, but he is an honorable kind of creepy. Guys talking down Asian women, women in general, and especially Japanese women are disgusting. To have them saying disgusting things about someone he respects and might be attracted to would make an honorable man extremely upset.

I understand "social justice" is important to some people and I apologize for triggering you. If you feel that violence is justified anytime someone says something you don't like, then more power to you.

May 11, 2019 12:47 AM

#56

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55Chevee said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

hugedata said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

Von_Struth said:

TsukuyomiREKT said:

He dismantled your bullshit with an actual argument. Get over it.

He really didn't though, he just went on a pointless rant based on assumption rather than tackling and questioning my view point which isn't a discussion and it's pointless engaging in. If he wanted a proper discussion I would of replied with something along the lines of this.

Your fallacy is believing I ship NatxRui when in fact I ship what's best for Rui and Kajita is most certainly not that character imo, chapter 227 and 228 are not the only times we've seen Kajita acting territory around Rui so don't play it off as comical relief and no I'm not referring to the mug scene, it happened it's part of his character growth arc, deal with it.

Also don't lie about the situation with the other cooks yes they said something inappropriate about a co work and friend but act as a civilized human being and tell the boss and respect Rui enough to tell her the situation rather than going of the rails like nut case and YES nut case if you resort to violence to solve your problem you're a pathetic human. Kajita should and would be fired and rightfully so.

Also lets no forget Kajita is using a conversation about the break up to his advantage, bring up she should be more self confident knowing that's her insecurity and using that to his advantage is slimly as hell

What the fuck are you talking about? You're acting like he's a monster or something. Lol. His reaction was understandable. Should he have gone straight to violence? Probably not. But it's not unreasonable considering the things they were saying. Most people would have reacted in a similar fashion. When someone is talking about your friend/someone you've grown close to like that, it's not easy to keep your emotions in check.

Also, how was he being disrespectful to Rui by doing that? If anything it's the exact opposite. You wouldn't normally punch someone for bad mouthing a person you didn't already respect.

I don't think he's doing that. Unlike what you believe in your own headcanon, he's not a bad guy, at least going off of what we've been shown so far. He's just being nice and encouraging a friend/coworker. He's not trying to manipulate her emotions.

Actually it doesn't seem like he was fighting them because they were disrespecting Rui. I mean they didn't do anything directly wrong to her. They were just talking sh*t between guys. I think he fought them because he was jealous that they might actually hit on Rui. And that is the problem. Like "How dare you say that about my girl!" It shows possessiveness and immaturity.

I really don't think that's the case, but you do you I guess. Also, you're really downplaying what they said. It was some pretty nasty shit. Not just joking between pals.

They said "I hear Japanese women are the most submissive of all Asians", and "I bet they give good head". Hardly the nastiest things that could have been said. And they were generalizing Japanese girls instead of talking directly about Rui.
In any case, it's just my opinion that his reaction was way too overboard. He could have talked it out with them instead of going psycho.

THIS attitude is a huge issue! The "locker room talk" and "just talking sh*t between guys" acceptance of the sexist and womanizing attitude is unacceptable. I find Kajita creepy, but he is an honorable kind of creepy. Guys talking down Asian women, women in general, and especially Japanese women are disgusting. To have them saying disgusting things about someone he respects and might be attracted to would make an honorable man extremely upset.

You don't believe women say the exact same thing LOL inappropriate specially at work but lets not pretend it's a huge deal, there's nothing honourable about punching someone, pathetic and sad are more accurate.

May 11, 2019 2:45 AM

#57

ErolEslaf

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Next chapter: Chefboy is going to get fired and Rui will feel guilty about it.
Also his reaction to that “guy-talking”... immature. Don’t skip high school kids (^｡^)

May 11, 2019 5:10 AM

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