| I feel like this isn't really a black and white "Yes/No" question. Probability wise? I would probably not date a pregnant woman (impregnated by someone i didn't know). However, you never really know what is going to happen in life so... would i say it would be impossible for it to happen? No. Its certainly POSSIBLE that i might end up dating a pregnant woman sometime in my life. Its also POSSIBLE that i'd get struck by lightning. FrozenWhiskers said: I dont really get why anyone wouldnt Im a girl so i cant really understand the point of view of a man but i think that excuse of "no, because the child is not mine" is very selfish. What if the girl is very nice and sweet? If she was the nicest, sweetest person in the world, i'd certainly keep an open mind about it. However i tend to look at things from a more practical perspective and i certainly wouldn't dive into such a complicated relationship without being absolutely sure something like that would work out. Its also a matter of resources, Do i have the income to support myself? Do i have the income to support a SO + 1? If not, then i have no business dating a pregnant woman. There is also the responsibility of taking care of a child, which is hard enough even when it is your own child. |
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| If (I was a man and) I loved her or liked her, it wouldn't matter, unless she got herself pregnant on purpose to fuck with the other dude or something because then she would just be a screwed up person not worth it. So I guess it would depend on the circumstances. But looking at this thread no wonder there are so many children still in foster care... xrockxz89 said: 98.3% chance i would not, just cause that would be crazy, to take on a woman's firstborn child by another man. Who would do that?!? But I'd date a woman with a child, theoretically yeah NP ^_^ A lot of men do.... |
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| Why would I? Why should I? Unless I'm the father. |
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| I have a fetish for having sex with a pregnant women, so yes. |
| absolutely not no never negative nah nay under no circumstances no way Jose |
| Not that likely to happen. It would be awkard. |
Jelmazmo said: If (I was a man and) I loved her or liked her, it wouldn't matter, unless she got herself pregnant on purpose to fuck with the other dude or something because then she would just be a screwed up person not worth it. So I guess it would depend on the circumstances. But looking at this thread no wonder there are so many children still in foster care... xrockxz89 said: 98.3% chance i would not, just cause that would be crazy, to take on a woman's firstborn child by another man. Who would do that?!? But I'd date a woman with a child, theoretically yeah NP ^_^ A lot of men do.... Jelmazmo said: If (I was a man and) I loved her or liked her, it wouldn't matter, unless she got herself pregnant on purpose to fuck with the other dude or something because then she would just be a screwed up person not worth it. So I guess it would depend on the circumstances. But looking at this thread no wonder there are so many children still in foster care... xrockxz89 said: 98.3% chance i would not, just cause that would be crazy, to take on a woman's firstborn child by another man. Who would do that?!? But I'd date a woman with a child, theoretically yeah NP ^_^ A lot of men do.... well chances are it would be a fucked up situation, however this is all hypothetical, of course you could potentially find love in any situation. |
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xrockxz89 said: well chances are it would be a fucked up situation, however this is all hypothetical, of course you could potentially find love in any situation. And what is "fucked up" to you? Because I don't think merely being pregnant is a problem... |
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Jelmazmo said: xrockxz89 said: well chances are it would be a fucked up situation, however this is all hypothetical, of course you could potentially find love in any situation. And what is "fucked up" to you? Because I don't think merely being pregnant is a problem... i mean that's classically fucked up... if a guy gets a girl pregnant, then leaves her. Like, uh oh. I'm not saying i'd abandon her. Maybe best to just be there for a girl at a time like that. |
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| You guys are overthinking this. Dating =/= marriage. A pregnant girl is still a person and isn't necessarily going to force deeper meaning into dates just because she's pregnant. Also, girls are horny when they're pregnant and it's super easy to make them orgasm like crazy. |
NeoVolt said: You guys are overthinking this. Dating =/= marriage. A pregnant girl is still a person and isn't necessarily going to force deeper meaning into dates just because she's pregnant. Also, girls are horny when they're pregnant and it's super easy to make them orgasm like crazy. I couldn't stop laughing reading this and I'm not entirely sure why. haha +1 xrockxz89 said: i mean that's classically fucked up... if a guy gets a girl pregnant, then leaves her. Like, uh oh. I'm not saying i'd abandon her. Maybe best to just be there for a girl at a time like that. Ah, okay, okay. I thought you meant something else by the "well chances are it would be a fucked up situation" part. |
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| This thread was a magnificently subtle way of detecting cucks. Of course I wouldn't, because: nibiko said: Any girl that would just get pregnant like that would not be the type of person I would be looking for a relationship with |
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| No. That's just weird. I would suggest abortion if it's still early enough, but I still don't like that option. |
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| No. I'd have to know her prior and even then I'd be iffy. I don't really do dates as it is, plus I don't want kids ~_~ So... accepting someone with kids... Plus I'd worry (assuming that pregnancy is natural and not from implement) a bit about their views. Could of been some woman who did it and got pregnant purposely to lockdown the man but it backfired. I don't really want someone with that mentality. Plus, I'm not after sex. I'd wait for marriage or at least a long faithful relationship has to be formed. |
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| What if I am a pregnant girl? Would that mean I can date myself? |
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| maybe depending if i liked her.. and her backstory ..and stuff ....wait.. wat.. O.0 wat did i just say am still to young to be thinking about pregnant girls .. oh... wait ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) wait .. how old is this pregnant girl ? .. date.. maybe/sure... marry?? idk.... NeoVolt said: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) well u learn somthing everyday ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) girls are horny when they're pregnant and it's super easy to make them orgasm like crazy. |
TheDiabolicEsperMay 3, 2016 11:24 AM
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| Gut reactions says no. But there are a lot of factors to take account of. How long has she been pregnant, what's the relation with the supposed father, what's her financial future looking like, all that on top of the normal relationship factors. So while it is a longshot that I personally would say yes, 97% of the time I'd probably say no. |
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| If she had the ability to support herself financially and I was head over heels in love with her I would consider it. But in most cases, no. |
| Hell yeah! Pregnant bellies are my number 1 fetish! |
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| Not a chance in hell, because there will always be that psychological barrier and you can't give 100% to her |
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| I would have no problem to date a woman who is pregnant. If the date will turn into something more I would accept the foreign child, too. |
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| (Update) You know, I've been actually rethinking this whole situation. First time i was thinking about it, the anwser "no" would be the most fitting, but If You think about it more, than You might ask Yourself is it ok to say her definitive "no" to her, maybe she isn't that bad person after all. Of course what she have done was bad, but everyone makes bad decisions. If I would say her no, and leave, I would have feel really bad about leaving it like so. What i would do now, is actually also saying "no" but untill the child is born and able to understand his/her family situation, IF i would find that girl somewhat attractive. Until then I would try beeing best friends, helping her out in a difficult moments. Not all the times, because point of this is to see how much does she try to give good life to that child. If she is doing bad than I wouldn't see her as a partner because heck, if she can't raise this child, than she wouldn't be able to rasie mine dammit xD, but if i would see that she is giving the best she can, than I guess i would find it attractive :P In the meantime I would also look for other girls, because here we are talking about yeaars of beeing friends, and i wouldn't dedicated my life to someone i would be unsure of. If she would find someone, than great! I would feel reliefed that i helped her out and +1 for my good grief meter :3 If i would find someone, i would still try to hold up contact with her so that maybe, maybe in the far future, if i wouldn't get along, we could start closer relationship :P If either of those happend, than I would take into account how am i going along with that child. It is a really important factor for me. Because if i don't, that me dating her mother and he/she hating me would be really bad idea. But If we both get along, and he/she doesn't mind me beeing in close relationship with her mother, than finally i would date her. Taking those into account it still can be considered same "no" as before, but here it is more visible that the chances of it happen are really small. |
| Probably not because I hate kids but I still keep in mind the wise words my uncle once told me..... Just because she's pregnant doesn't mean you can't do it.... It just means she's experienced |
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| I'm a girl and I understand that boys would give an immediate "NO" when asked this especially if the question is presented in that way. :P But OP could try to give a more specific situation like say: What if you're dating a gorgeous woman (you've known her for years and liked for the longest time because she's perfect for you in looks and personality) for 2 months―she's already pregnant but isn't showing yet. She loves you and you love her too. But then she just finds out that she actually got pregnant from an ex or some other guy she was with before dating you but she doesn't wanna get rid of it because she doesn't believe in abortion. They might actually stop and consider things first before spouting their (exaggerated) disgust as if that situation is the most ridiculous thing in the world. xP Also this situation isn't uncommon. It's similar to that of a guy dating a woman who already has a child from another guy except that the kid isn't born yet and that's already a common occurrence everywhere. |
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| Unless the father has presented reasons for me to say NO, I don't see why not. Seeing as if I'm already in the position to think about the answer to this question, I'm already too far gone in terms of how I feel towards this pregnant woman. So, unless the father is crazy and is in jail and out to get her and the child, then I don't see why not. I was raised by my step-dad ever since I was 4 so I guess paternal bonds don't really need to be from your real dad as long as a father figure is there. |
raenydays said: What if you're dating a gorgeous woman (you've known her for years and liked for the longest time because she's perfect for you in looks and personality) for 2 months―she's already pregnant but isn't showing yet. She loves you and you love her too. But then she just finds out that she actually got pregnant from an ex or some other guy she was with before dating you Stop right there. You're assuming that the guy in question has liked a woman and continued to pursue her while she's been dating other men (and possibly for years too). That's ridiculous. raenydays said: But then she just finds out that she actually got pregnant from an ex or some other guy she was with before dating you but she doesn't wanna get rid of it because she doesn't believe in abortion. I'd try to help her get back with that guy and look elsewhere for someone whom I can have a healthy relationship with. |
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| could she take care of the baby on her own? is she about to be a single mother based on a conscious decision or did something unfortunate happen? if not, does she frequently act so irresponsibly? I don't have an issue with dating someone with a child, but I don't like stupid people. |
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Caelidesu said: Stop right there. You're assuming that the guy in question has liked a woman and continued to pursue her while she's been dating other men (and possibly for years too). That's ridiculous. "What if―" so I was assuming. I was giving an example scenario...? o_o nibiko said: no, that is completely different. If someone already has a kid then that means they know how to take care of it, don't need your help and stuff. However if the woman is pregnant and you were dating her, it'd just end up rushing your relationship, where you would have to start feeling like a married couple. And then you'd watch the birth, which honestly is a very personal thing and no one could feel genuinely personal and attached to someone after such a short amount of time. And then after the kid is born it would seriously put a strain on your relationship, and having not developed much of a relationship at that point, (most likely) your relationship would start to fall apart. How is it "completely different"? It's still basically another human being, the only difference is one is in the open and the other is still inside another person's uterus. Also it is true that it's common for people to date women even if they are pregnant with another guy's child OR with women who already have kids. Obviously you're not gonna be one of those judging from your reply but it is true that other people do that. |
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| Hentai says yes, brain says no. I'll stick with the latter for now. |
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| Probably not, but it depends of course. Love, lust or infatuation isn't a fickle thing. |
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| odd how dating a woman with a child and one with a fetus are completely different situations but yeah, Id date one with a child or two but now an unborn |
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| Yes I would but only if she was getting an abortion like straight way, hell if she's got a coathanger I'd do it for free |
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| So much work ... especially if it isn't my own baby |
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| No because I'm heterosexual sorry :/ |
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| Nope too much work especially at the start the relationship. |
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raenydays said: Caelidesu said: Stop right there. You're assuming that the guy in question has liked a woman and continued to pursue her while she's been dating other men (and possibly for years too). That's ridiculous. "What if―" so I was assuming. I was giving an example scenario...? o_o I phrased that too confrontationally. Sorry about that. The point I was making is that the example's premise is unrealistic, because no self-respecting man spends so long pursuing a woman who's already taken. Even if the man was in love with her at first, he'd move on and find someone else in that time. Either way, if I was in that example I wouldn't date her after finding out she had another man's child because I have too much self-respect for that, and that's how most people would sensibly react. |
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| Wow I'm really not a social justice warrior or feminist but these comments are disgusting. Y'all act like the woman is something you own and is something that only belongs to you. if you both fall in love with each other but you won't pursue a relationship with her just because you want to feel superior over the other man that's just your own insecurity? |
| It depend if she allowed me to make a sandiwch with the baby :/ |
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