| someone with experience =] me and my gf broke up and am bak being friend.(very weird) and i'm not going to out out with anyone for a while.. taking a break |
lrock2musicJun 5, 2009 2:03 PM
| um, it depends...? dumping someone and then proceeding to immediately go out with someone else is one of the biggest dick moves in history, so i'd have to advise against doing that. |
| ask your bf/gf if he/she is interested in a 3some |
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| wont it be weird i ask them that lol comon i cant just ask my gf if they like some one else its like breakig up wit her. |
audiodoll said: um, it depends...? dumping someone and then proceeding to immediately go out with someone else is one of the biggest dick moves in history, so i'd have to advise against doing that. Indeed. 10indeeds. If the person you are currently with is someone who is obviously not the person for you, then leave them only and ONLY if the other person is a 100% improvement. Just keep in mind you will most likely make the person you dumped a very, very sad panda, especially if they were all over you and heard about you going out with someone out just after the break-up. Oh, and 'hiding' your relationship wont ever work, contrary to popular belief. |
 NOTE: I am a legitimate (meaning usually on-topic and polite) hit-and-run poster. Do not expect me to reply to your reply to my reply. |
| Its not like your gonna do something wrong....just going out wont hurt!!! Unless your . .....! |
You Know You Want My Muffin!  I Know U Do! |
audiodoll said: um, it depends...? dumping someone and then proceeding to immediately go out with someone else is one of the biggest dick moves in history, so i'd have to advise against doing that. yes thats a very good point there |
Peeping_Tom said: Its not like your gonna do something wrong....just going out wont hurt!!! Unless your . .....! you cant just play with ppl hearts like that. |
Amazing. |
| The very fact that you are pondering (out loud no less!) leaving your current girl means you're not 100% commited to her so you should end the relationship now because its gonna end sooner or later anyway. |
"I'm starting to think mal is run by Xinil generating electricity on a bicycle." - idklol |
hikky said: Amazing. she already knows....i have 1 otherwise ofcourse i would say that |
| Depends on who's asking? |
Beatnik said: Yeah that. If you don't like the person enough then there's no point staying with them because ultimately you're going to hurt yourself and them in the process.The very fact that you are pondering (out loud no less!) leaving your current girl means you're not 100% commited to her so you should end the relationship now because its gonna end sooner or later anyway. |
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khorven said: Depends on who's asking? if you go out with someone just cause of thier lookss you have a miserable life. |
| If you really are 16 and are even considering this other person then go for it. You are young and shouldn't worry too much about hardcore committment. Better to have fun in life then be tied down. You've got plenty of time later in life for that. GF/BF can come and go real quick. If you want to go out with them do it, don't worry about being a dick it happens all the time lol, they can get over it. |
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LolitaDecay said: Beatnik said: Yeah that. If you don't like the person enough then there's no point staying with them because ultimately you're going to hurt yourself and them in the process.The very fact that you are pondering (out loud no less!) leaving your current girl means you're not 100% commited to her so you should end the relationship now because its gonna end sooner or later anyway. LolitaDecay said: Beatnik said: Yeah that. If you don't like the person enough then there's no point staying with them because ultimately you're going to hurt yourself and them in the process.The very fact that you are pondering (out loud no less!) leaving your current girl means you're not 100% commited to her so you should end the relationship now because its gonna end sooner or later anyway. i do like my current gf. its just idk what to say to the other person. i mean she already knew we are going out, but still she told me she likes me i'm good friends with her, soo idk what to dooo |
| If you don't like her then say so :/ I never understood why it's so hard to say 'no'. |
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Cipro said: If you really are 16 and are even considering this other person then go for it. You are young and shouldn't worry too much about hardcore committment. Better to have fun in life then be tied down. You've got plenty of time later in life for that. GF/BF can come and go real quick. If you want to go out with them do it, don't worry about being a dick it happens all the time lol, they can get over it. it still fked up if i dont like anyone i rather be single then. why would i go with someone i dont like. i'm mean its pointless. i dont rly care what ppl think about me. i dont care if all my friend got and i dont. i dont want to be like them. just going out with someone you dont like |
| I'm 16 aswell and it's pretty goddamn obvious what you're meant to do. |
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| if you're actually contemplating if the grass is greener on the other side, then there's no point in sticking with your current girlfriend because she's obviously not keeping you interested enough. however, I agree with the people who say that going from one girl to the next would be a bad move. give it a few weeks and if she really is interested in you, she'll wait. just think how you would react if your girlfriend suddenly dumped you and started dating another guy the next day. |
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| Sometimes you go out with someone and find out that you do/don't like them. Tell this other person that you are involved with someone you like and I'm sure they can understand if they care about you that much. |
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LolitaDecay said: If you don't like her then say so :/ I never understood why it's so hard to say 'no'. o\ LolitaDecay said: If you don't like her then say so :/ I never understood why it's so hard to say 'no'. okay say you already have a bf you like. and one of your other close guy friends told you that he liked you and want to go out with you knowing that you already have a bf you like. for you he's a rly good friend and you guys hang out a lot so wut would you do?? |
| Say 'no'. If the guy cared about me enough as a friend then he wouldn't just stop being friends with me because I didn't want a relationship. |
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| okay i know what to do now. thnx everyone who helped =] |
| Make sure you have your arm around your girl when you say "No" to the other girl. For maximum effect. Pics too please. |
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chinlamp said: Orbitzz83 said: just think how you would react if your girlfriend suddenly dumped you and started dating another guy the next day. Yeah, it hurts when stuff like that happens. I asked a girl I really liked to go out with me once, she rejected me. She and my best friend started dating by the end of the day. FML ouch. i kinda know how you feel. like in 7thgrade i liked this girl but my best friend told me he liked her. so i always lied to him saying i dont like her. |
| Sorry to break up heartbreak central but if they were really your 'best friend' why would they date the girl you liked? |
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| well he told me first that he liked her. so i never told him that i liked the same person as him. its like the same thing with girls u noe how u never go out with ur friends x thats how it is in the movies =P |
| I asked this girl out once. She rejected me saying that she was a lesbian. The next week I found her in bed with my brother. He's 5 years younger than me. FML |
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Saito-sama said: I asked this girl out once. She rejected me saying that she was a lesbian. The next week I found her in bed with my brother. He's 5 years younger than me. FML lol thats funny and sad. |
chinlamp said: Oh sucks.It's not so much a betrayal as it is the realization that all my friends are better looking and more interesting than I am. Again, FML /pats |
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| lol you guys are rly funny |
LolitaDecay said: Say 'no'. If the guy cared about me enough as a friend then he wouldn't just stop being friends with me because I didn't want a relationship. Being friendzoned sucks. Balls. |
Monkey-D-Luffy said: And where the hell did I say looks?khorven said: Depends on who's asking? if you go out with someone just cause of thier lookss you have a miserable life. That's some thing you assume, oh Freud. Besides, 100% commitment is as stupid as 100% blind faith. |
| Well... School Days taught me that this kind of situation must be handled delicately or people might end up with their heads cut off. |
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| NoBadsign said: Well... School Days taught me that this kind of situation must be handled delicately or people might end up with their heads cut off. |
Music is from the soul~ ♥ |
| Poligamy is a beautiful thing. |
 Waratte Oemashou Sore ha Chiisana Inori |
| If you have to ask, then you might not like your b/f or g/f, it's what it seems to be... |
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ladyxzeus said: I praefer nilgamy though.Poligamy is a beautiful thing. Polygamy: Being committed to multiple people. Monogamy: Being committed to one person. Nilgamy: Being committed to none at all. Commitment really ruins any thing that's still left as beautiful to affectional and physical attraction. It's really true that a lot of 'couples' spend a lot of time together out of pressure because they 'have to' as they are 'committed' to each other rather than truly wanting to. |
| I've been through this once in my life. It was a very mind conflicting experience. See, the bf I was going out with (10 months) was already on the rocks. I wasn't really happy with the relationship but I still was in it. A friend of mine who liked me for a while asked me out during this time but I didn't give an answer straight away. Forward a week later I decided I'd go out with him. A couple days after that I broke up with my bf. I guess in my situation it was ok to do that. Amirite? |
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