kano95 said: Sometimes it's good to guess.depend on the situation i guess...but for me its pretty lame i guess |
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| Depends on what you are crying about. -Crying about a true tragedy...acceptable -Crying about Clannad... no...just no... |
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-Miyu- said: I like guys that express their emotions. It might be annoying if they cry ALL the time, but it's also annoying when guys try to act tough and pretend they don't care. What if they're tsundere? |
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Hyack said: Depends on the situation. This. If you crying because a family member passed away, then let it out. But if you're crying because you stubbed your toe... dude |
BloodRequiem said: Depends on what you are crying about. -Crying about a true tragedy...acceptable -Crying about Clannad... no...just no... Dont read my earlier posts. |
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BloodRequiem said: But Clannad is a true tragedy...Depends on what you are crying about. -Crying about a true tragedy...acceptable -Crying about Clannad... no...just no... |
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Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. |
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| Girls as the above poster said love to screw with you and confuse you with the shit they are saying. No they don't prefer men that are sentimental and cry and show their feminine side, they might think it's cute but only as a pet kind of thing. If you do such things before you even establish an erotic relationship you are gonna get friend-zoned for just being cute and not someone who can fuck their brains out like they really want. Of course that doesn't mean you can never cry and shit just don't cry over easy stuff. If your friend or relative died and you want to cry do it(not making sounds though like a little housewife that lost her husband) but don't go crying in-frond of her because you had a small fight and you got your feelings hurt, over little sentimental presents or movies and shit. Basically just never do anything that makes you look like a sissy. |
MonadJan 11, 2013 1:06 AM
| theres nothing wrong with crying, girl are emotional charactors and they want to know there not invested in a relationship with a heartless beast, they also dont want a sissy so crying under the right cercumstances is fine but dont go haveing a monthly sob fest in hopes of proving you have a 'feminine' side |
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| Depends on the girl and the reason he's crying. In general, though, no, I don't think it's "lame". (although I still believe it depends on why he's crying) Not to sound like a preachy feminist - but the whole idea that "men aren't supposed to cry" is sexist, and not only towards men. The belief that "men aren't supposed to cry" also implies that it's okay if you're a woman, because women are emotionally weak. If you instead said "women can cry because they're emotionally weaker than men", I'm sure those same women who would insist that men can't cry would throw a hissy fit. |
23nv1 said: Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. Even then a man should do his mourning in private. People will respect you for showing strength in sad times and not burdening them with your troubles. |
AnnoKano said: Yes, it is very important to assert your masculinity in front of women at every opportunity and never show any signs of weakness. You shed a tear in front of her once, and before you know it she'll be pegging you whilst she wears one of your business suits. B...But...I want that to happen. |
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Monad said: Girls as the above poster said love to screw with you and confuse you with the shit they are saying. No they don't prefer men that are sentimental and cry and show their feminine side, they might think it's cute but only as a pet kind of thing. If you do such things before you even establish an erotic relationship you are gonna get friend-zoned for just being cute and not someone who can fuck their brains out like they really want. Of course that doesn't mean you can never cry and shit just don't cry over easy stuff. If your friend or relative died and you want to cry do it(not making sounds though like a little housewife that lost her husband) but don't go crying in-frond of her because you had a small fight and you got your feelings hurt, over little sentimental presents or movies and shit. Basically just never do anything that makes you look like a sissy. And this is coming from someone who doesn't think the patriarchy really exists. The irony is killing me. |
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Niko-kun said: Fixed.The insecurity in this thread are mind-ripping. OP: If you're in a situation where you're going to cry anyways, just do it, whether you're in front of a girl or not. Don't try to act like a tough guy or try to look like a sensitive emo pussy and cry in front of a girl. Just be your natural self. If you're afraid that your natural self would look weak, then fix that. Don't put up a front and lie to yourself and the girl. She will know eventually anyways. |
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| Well, I'm a girl, and I'd probably think of it as a problem. Well, it's all depends from situation. If he cries because of bad mark, or somthing, than yeah, it's pretty lame. To be honest I don't understand girls who think that it's cute or something. But when it comes to extreme situations, like Mufasa from Lion King dying, then manly tears are ok, I think :) Well, still, man should protect girl, hug her or something. If he starts crying himself, it doesn't work fine, I guess. |
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Monad said: Girls as the above poster said love to screw with you and confuse you with the shit they are saying. No they don't prefer men that are sentimental and cry and show their feminine side, they might think it's cute but only as a pet kind of thing. If you do such things before you even establish an erotic relationship you are gonna get friend-zoned for just being cute and not someone who can fuck their brains out like they really want. Of course that doesn't mean you can never cry and shit just don't cry over easy stuff. If your friend or relative died and you want to cry do it(not making sounds though like a little housewife that lost her husband) but don't go crying in-frond of her because you had a small fight and you got your feelings hurt, over little sentimental presents or movies and shit. Basically just never do anything that makes you look like a sissy. You're such an expert. |
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| Are there any men here who actually go straight into a flippin sissy cry when something happens? By which I mean moaning crying and all that shiz... I think thats just over the top. I've hardly been put in the situation where I need to cry but whenever I have and I feel a tear coming I just wipe my eye before anything happens and no one finds out, yeh they may see the watery eye but thats ok :P |
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| Hoho... I cried in front of the girl I "liked". Note: Past tense Is it really lame? If it is... Oh! I'm lame. |
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sweetmilk said: Hoho... I cried in front of the girl I "liked". Note: Past tense Is it really lame? If it is... Oh! I'm lame. Depends on the reason, the guys who are saying its "lame" all the time etc are just plain wrong. |
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NicoleB said: sweetmilk said: Hoho... I cried in front of the girl I "liked". Note: Past tense Is it really lame? If it is... Oh! I'm lame. Depends on the reason, the guys who are saying its "lame" all the time etc are just plain wrong. It's a very long story... I'll summarize it. Our conversation was talking about our past. We haven't talked for months. We had a school project and we will present a play and she was my partner. This is an opportunity to clear things up with her. She said all I did was fool her and my love for her was not real. That's when I cried in front of her and her friends. |
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sweetmilk said: You fucked up. Like, fucked up pretty bad. Borderline pathetic. No, very pathetic.NicoleB said: sweetmilk said: Hoho... I cried in front of the girl I "liked". Note: Past tense Is it really lame? If it is... Oh! I'm lame. Depends on the reason, the guys who are saying its "lame" all the time etc are just plain wrong. It's a very long story... I'll summarize it. Our conversation was talking about our past. We haven't talked for months. We had a school project and we will present a play and she was my partner. This is an opportunity to clear things up with her. She said all I did was fool her and my love for her was not real. That's when I cried in front of her and her friends. |
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sweetmilk said: NicoleB said: sweetmilk said: Hoho... I cried in front of the girl I "liked". Note: Past tense Is it really lame? If it is... Oh! I'm lame. Depends on the reason, the guys who are saying its "lame" all the time etc are just plain wrong. It's a very long story... I'll summarize it. Our conversation was talking about our past. We haven't talked for months. We had a school project and we will present a play and she was my partner. This is an opportunity to clear things up with her. She said all I did was fool her and my love for her was not real. That's when I cried in front of her and her friends. Mmm, I wouldn't say that was a good time to of cried in front of her, that isn't showing her she was wrong. |
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| 95% of the men on this planet are assholes. I don't give a damn if they cry or not. I don't care if they breath or not. I just can't figure out why so many women put up with assholes so much and for so long. Are most women secretly masochists? |
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Lesley_Roberta said: 95% of the men on this planet are assholes. Why do you think that? I've met quite a few horrible guys, but I've met more nice ones than not, I'm not so sure this is true. |
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Lesley_Roberta said: 95% of the men on this planet are assholes. I don't give a damn if they cry or not. I don't care if they breath or not. I just can't figure out why so many women put up with assholes so much and for so long. Are most women secretly masochists? That's a pretty big generalization you're making. |
Boocake said: 23nv1 said: Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. Even then a man should do his mourning in private. People will respect you for showing strength in sad times and not burdening them with your troubles. So don't agree with this. If a guy I know won't cry while seeing his friend being lowered into the ground, I'd be pretty disappointed in the guy and wondering how much he really cared. It's silly to say that half the population, because they're guys, shouldn't mourn in public. Oh god, I'm tearing up dredging up memories right now. |
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Lesley_Roberta said: Maybe the reason most men are assholes to you is because you come off as an immature, selfish bitch.95% of the men on this planet are assholes. I don't give a damn if they cry or not. I don't care if they breath or not. I just can't figure out why so many women put up with assholes so much and for so long. Are most women secretly masochists? |
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Lesley_Roberta said: Because you guys want to have the assholes. I know plenty of fucking saints who have never had a girlfriend. You put yourselves through shit, and then have the audacity to generalize and call a vast majority of men assholes. Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please.95% of the men on this planet are assholes. I don't give a damn if they cry or not. I don't care if they breath or not. I just can't figure out why so many women put up with assholes so much and for so long. Are most women secretly masochists? |
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Waffocopter said: Boocake said: 23nv1 said: Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. Even then a man should do his mourning in private. People will respect you for showing strength in sad times and not burdening them with your troubles. So don't agree with this. If a guy I know won't cry while seeing his friend being lowered into the ground, I'd be pretty disappointed in the guy and wondering how much he really cared. It's silly to say that half the population, because they're guys, shouldn't mourn in public. Oh god, I'm tearing up dredging up memories right now. it is not uncommon for a man not to cry at a funeral, even if it's the funeral of someone he absolutely loved. crying or not crying has nothing to do about caring for the person. i didnt cry at my grandfather's funeral (he was the closest person to me who has passed away so far). the last time i cried was when i was 5 years old. yet i consider myself very compassionate. on the other hand, ive seen some screwed up, manipulative, twisted women who would cry at the drop of the pin all that said, if a man feels like crying, i think he should cry. just do what you want |
Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... |
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Lesley_Roberta said: 95% of the men on this planet are assholes. I don't give a damn if they cry or not. I don't care if they breath or not. I just can't figure out why so many women put up with assholes so much and for so long. Are most women secretly masochists? Looks like we have a negative nancy here. |
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Waffocopter said: Boocake said: 23nv1 said: Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. Even then a man should do his mourning in private. People will respect you for showing strength in sad times and not burdening them with your troubles. So don't agree with this. If a guy I know won't cry while seeing his friend being lowered into the ground, I'd be pretty disappointed in the guy and wondering how much he really cared. It's silly to say that half the population, because they're guys, shouldn't mourn in public. Oh god, I'm tearing up dredging up memories right now. I'm with this, frankly I'd question whether or not I'd want to be with this guy in that situation. |
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NicoleB said: Quite aware of that. She comes off as one, so I said that. If you really want me be correct myself, "take your sexist bullshit elsewhere please."Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... |
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| Madeline, there is no need for that. |
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Holybaptiser said: NicoleB said: Quite aware of that. She comes off as one, so I said that. If you really want me be correct myself, "take your sexist bullshit elsewhere please."Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... How does she come off as one? I regularly get called a feminist on these forums and I don't remember ever saying anything remotely similar to that |
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NicoleB said: Gut feeling.Holybaptiser said: NicoleB said: Quite aware of that. She comes off as one, so I said that. If you really want me be correct myself, "take your sexist bullshit elsewhere please."Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... How does she come off as one? I regularly get called a feminist on these forums and I don't remember ever saying anything remotely similar to that |
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RandomChampion said: Waffocopter said: Boocake said: 23nv1 said: Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. Even then a man should do his mourning in private. People will respect you for showing strength in sad times and not burdening them with your troubles. So don't agree with this. If a guy I know won't cry while seeing his friend being lowered into the ground, I'd be pretty disappointed in the guy and wondering how much he really cared. It's silly to say that half the population, because they're guys, shouldn't mourn in public. Oh god, I'm tearing up dredging up memories right now. it is not uncommon for a man not to cry at a funeral, even if it's the funeral of someone he absolutely loved. crying or not crying has nothing to do about caring for the person. i didnt cry at my grandfather's funeral (he was the closest person to me who has passed away so far). the last time i cried was when i was 5 years old. yet i consider myself very compassionate. on the other hand, ive seen some screwed up, manipulative, twisted women who would cry at the drop of the pin all that said, if a man feels like crying, i think he should cry. just do what you want I agree with both of the bolded. I didn't cry when I had to go to my Grandmother's funeral when I was 11 or so. I cared about my Grandma, but I told myself not to cry, because that was my Dad's Mother, and I was worried that letting him see me cry would make him feel worse. People have their reasons for not crying at funerals. |
RandomChampion said: NicoleB said: Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... actually, that is pretty much what feminism is at its essence. no its not at all anything even remotely similar... |
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NicoleB said: +1RandomChampion said: NicoleB said: Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... actually, that is pretty much what feminism is at its essence. no its not at all anything even remotely similar... |
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NicoleB said: Waffocopter said: Boocake said: 23nv1 said: Danielcook said: I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute. Thoughts? They say one thing and do another. Unless somebody died, don't cry in front of a girl. They will lose respect for you. Even then a man should do his mourning in private. People will respect you for showing strength in sad times and not burdening them with your troubles. So don't agree with this. If a guy I know won't cry while seeing his friend being lowered into the ground, I'd be pretty disappointed in the guy and wondering how much he really cared. It's silly to say that half the population, because they're guys, shouldn't mourn in public. Oh god, I'm tearing up dredging up memories right now. I'm with this, frankly I'd question whether or not I'd want to be with this guy in that situation. that's quite judgmental |
NicoleB said: Holybaptiser said: NicoleB said: Quite aware of that. She comes off as one, so I said that. If you really want me be correct myself, "take your sexist bullshit elsewhere please."Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... How does she come off as one? I regularly get called a feminist on these forums and I don't remember ever saying anything remotely similar to that Many people assume most feminists become feminists because they actually hate men. Also the anti-men feminists tend to be the loudest, so they seem like the majority. |
NicoleB said: Madeline, there is no need for that. ??? |
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| Come on guys admit it already. At first sight crying for the eyes of a girl is pretty embarrassing. Unless you best friend / family member dies |
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NicoleB said: RandomChampion said: NicoleB said: Holybaptiser said: Take your feminist bullshit elsewhere please. None of what Lesley just said has anything to do with feminism at all... actually, that is pretty much what feminism is at its essence. no its not at all anything even remotely similar... lol yea i didnt mean to post that. i was going write something a bit similar but i just deleted that what i was going to say was that feminism fights for the equal rights of women in the face of a "man's world". it can be implicated that this man's world oppresses the women "victims" this is why many feminists are like leslie and take it to the extreme |
| I'm getting sick of reading this shit about people dying is the only good reason for a man to cry. There are plenty of other valid reasons. Death of a close one isn't the only thing that will emotionally wreck a guy. Women will understand it and other men will understand it, and the odds are they won't think of you as "cute" for crying, but try to sympathize with you. |
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| Oh yeah, forgot to address in my last post that I don't think guys crying is "cute". When someone's crying, they're unhappy. I do not think someone's unhappiness is cute or adorable in any way. |
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