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Oct 16, 2021 11:12 AM
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Sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place, I don't even know if I can post this here, first time with an account. That's the question, does someone have any advice? And please don't judge me, I'm already going through some bad stuff in life. Thanks!

The reason if anyone wants to know:
So, I had a challenge with a friend where we had to watch (complete) a random anime chosen by the other, and he chose Your Lie in April to me. At the beginning of it I was like "this is so boring, what am I watching", but suddenly I started liking the characters, mainly because I felt related to Kousei. And then the ending. I cried for the first time in my life, I mean, of course I had cried before, after getting beaten up by my father for example, but like, out of nothing I saw my eyes melting in tears for something that wasn't harming me. To conclude, now I'm somewhat regretting my shitty life and I wanna change it. Simple as that.

Sorry for the english, not my first language
Oct 16, 2021 11:28 AM
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low effort post TMDNWU

Rethink yourself. Thats my advice
Oct 16, 2021 11:48 AM
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Just watch more slice of life stuff to continue "cleansing your palate". Try Toradora next
Oct 16, 2021 3:57 PM
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So porn/hentai is there because of your libido, aka sex drive, gives you urges. After you pass puberty, mostly everybody got one. Some has a higher sex drive than others. People express it in different ways as well, but most commonly nowadays porn is used to get "rid" of it, somewhat.

The problem is, most likely, you're lacking sexual stimulation in real life. AKA, you don't have a relationship, you have no person to actually express your sexuality with, and porn is just a very easy and accessible medium to do so.
This isn't to say, the solution is "just get a girlfriend/boyfriend". In fact, it shouldn't be considered a problem either. It's normal to have libido, and it's normal to release your sexual tension if you have nowhere to release it to. It is a problem if you are addicted or spend too much of your time on it.

Porn also very easily activates your pleasure centre and gives you a sense of feeling good with little to no effort involved. Lots of people watch porn because they're simply bored and it gives them an easy fix for dopamine release.

Honestly, I don't know anything about you other than the blurb you wrote here. But having meaningful relationships, meaningful activities you enjoy doing, and you will find you end up spending significantly less time on porn. As for how to start meaningful relationships and find meaningful activities, there's ton of self-help videos, books, that's a decent starting spot. ('How to win friends and influence people' is a common rec.)
TachiiOct 16, 2021 4:03 PM
Oct 16, 2021 4:33 PM
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Well if you like hentai maybe you can learn how to draw, so you can do something better and draw hentai instead of pleasuring yourself to it.
Oct 16, 2021 4:37 PM
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Just stop and try to do other things when you think of watching hentai. You're also wasting your time watching animated characters fucking each other. What's the benefits of that? None. You'll only feel pleasure for a short amount of time and after that, you will be guilty of what you've done.
Oct 16, 2021 6:31 PM
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Thank you so much for the answers! I just hope to get out of this asap. Never imagined something would change my life so drastically. Anyway, thanks!
Oct 16, 2021 6:34 PM
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>How to stop watching hentai?

Ez question. You just have to read them instead.

everyone knows hmanga > hanime







Oct 16, 2021 10:53 PM
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Just stop watching porn. Workout at gym and travel. Keep yourself busy and you will stop watching porn.

If you are a friend. Visit my profile to recommend me something to watch ( ^▽^)ψ__
Oct 17, 2021 4:17 AM

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Get into the eroge hellhole
I never looked back on hentai again.
Oct 17, 2021 3:50 PM

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you don't. don't stop watching hentai.
Oct 17, 2021 4:36 PM
Oct 18, 2021 10:17 PM

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How do you stop watching Hentai?

You finish the Wank off and move on... Simples

Oct 24, 2021 11:19 PM

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Just go outside and try to talk with some random girl and ask her to go something with you.Don't really know cause I never watched hentai if I watched I could've dropped it anytime cause it looks and sounds boring
Oct 24, 2021 11:27 PM

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just go to the top right corner and press 'x' and close the tab! duhh

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