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Mar 5, 2021 7:45 PM
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this pretty much sums it all up, also it doesn't have to be one, it can be multiple ๐Ÿ˜—

MAl conversations be like :

person 1 : "Hey thanks for the fr! :)" or "hey thanks for accepting my friend request!"

person 2 : "no problem! :D"

Conversation ends, and they never talk again




*person sends random friend request*

*I accept*

me 20 minutes later : wtf? you gon send a friend request to me and not even talk to me?

then I wait 1 week later and they never talk to me -_-


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“๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ต ๐“ธ๐“ฏ ๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฌ๐“ฎ, ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช, ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐”‚๐“ธ๐“พ ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ญ.” – ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช ๐“๐“ฒ๐“ผ๐“ช๐“ด๐“ช


Mar 5, 2021 7:45 PM
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Everything about them just literally everything nuff said.

Mar 5, 2021 7:47 PM
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Crow_Black said:
Everything about them just literally everything nuff said.


nuff? who the hell is nuff? i dont him/her ._.


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“๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ต ๐“ธ๐“ฏ ๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฌ๐“ฎ, ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช, ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐”‚๐“ธ๐“พ ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ญ.” – ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช ๐“๐“ฒ๐“ผ๐“ช๐“ด๐“ช


Mar 5, 2021 7:48 PM
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hellicey said:
Crow_Black said:
Everything about them just literally everything nuff said.


nuff? who the hell is nuff? i dont him/her ._.


It is the slang term for ennough said.

Mar 5, 2021 7:51 PM
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Crow_Black said:
hellicey said:


nuff? who the hell is nuff? i dont him/her ._.


It is the slang term for ennough said.


you have MAL friends though, do you hate everything about your MAL friends?


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“๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ต ๐“ธ๐“ฏ ๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฌ๐“ฎ, ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช, ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐”‚๐“ธ๐“พ ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ญ.” – ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช ๐“๐“ฒ๐“ผ๐“ช๐“ด๐“ช


Mar 5, 2021 7:53 PM
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hellicey said:
Crow_Black said:


It is the slang term for ennough said.


you have MAL friends though, do you hate everything about your MAL friends?


I'm a misanthorpe its my nature to hate everyone including myself equally.

Mar 5, 2021 7:53 PM
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some people are so intense for no reason and cannot tell im joking EVER this site is filled with people who have no sense of tone and it bothers me so
Mar 5, 2021 7:54 PM
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Crow_Black said:
hellicey said:


you have MAL friends though, do you hate everything about your MAL friends?


I'm a misanthorpe its my nature to hate everyone including myself equally.


I have a question, why are you so edgy Crow black?


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“๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ต ๐“ธ๐“ฏ ๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฌ๐“ฎ, ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช, ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐”‚๐“ธ๐“พ ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ญ.” – ๐“ฃ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ฐ๐“ช ๐“๐“ฒ๐“ผ๐“ช๐“ด๐“ช


Mar 5, 2021 7:55 PM
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Those losers that make threads talking about depressed they are.
Like stfu.
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hellicey said:
Crow_Black said:


I'm a misanthorpe its my nature to hate everyone including myself equally.


I have a question, why are you so edgy Crow black?


When is it that i am i not edgy thats the question you should ask?

Mar 5, 2021 8:54 PM
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A lot of them just obnoxious, heavily opinionated, and talk a lot with long ass texts๐Ÿ˜ (I don't like people like that IRL)
Mar 6, 2021 1:41 AM

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Theonewhorules said:
some people are so intense for no reason and cannot tell im joking EVER this site is filled with people who have no sense of tone and it bothers me so
agreed as fuck, everybody cries about everything


Mar 6, 2021 2:00 AM

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One thing I frequently see is MAL users writing they're "anti-social" but correct term is "asocial" even then they contradict themselves by actually being social on MAL, having huge ass friends list and comment section.

Mar 6, 2021 2:17 AM

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Some MAL users will hate me for is writing long ass replies/comments.They would think "WTF this user is a n00b for writing a massive essay. ^_^

The reason I do it is because I used to write anime reviews and i like to give a insight thinking. Back in my younger days, I do write a two line sentence and a few wanted me to go in depth. Yes, I could of write a sentence or two but I feel its more of a broad answer and I am not telepathy to think what is on the person's mind and vice versa

For example: User1: Why do you like this character?
Answer1: She is funny and hard worker, trying her best to improve herself.

Answer2: She is funny because the way she smiles it reminds me of a yandere face and laughs like Yagami Light.In one of the scenes....... and so on.


Sometimes I don't even realise it until I notice their comment section has a massive essay lol

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Mar 6, 2021 2:32 AM
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This forum is in a sense an echo chamber for stereotypical weeb behaviour, sometimes it's like oddly political vibes and sometimes it's "i'm not like other gurlz" vibes. Overall people tend to take themselves too seriously on forums like this one, it seems to be anime & PC games specifically that create a weird forum atmosphere tbh.
Mar 6, 2021 4:02 AM

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lots of things but people are people, I can understand that, real life is a pain
Mar 6, 2021 4:14 AM

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BallistikJuice said:
A lot of them just obnoxious, heavily opinionated, and talk a lot with long ass texts๐Ÿ˜ (I don't like people like that IRL)

LOOL, actually that's one of the things I love about MAL (users), that they are opinionated & they aren't afraid to have heated discussions & so they are more willing to have more (civil to an extent) discussion even if they may be close-mined sometimes. Which makes me feel more comfortable about expressing any unpopular opinions & it just makes interacting with them much more interesting.

However, I don't know what other sites are like & if MAL is that different since I don't really use any other sites. Except for YouTube & Discord. I've actually just started interacting with people online. If you have any other website recommendations tell me guys.
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14061998 said:
One thing I frequently see is MAL users writing they're "anti-social" but correct term is "asocial" even then they contradict themselves by actually being social on MAL, having huge ass friends list and comment section.


LOOL There's a huge difference between socialising with your face & voice and socialising anonymously through text online, for example if you tend to be awkward irl that will hardly come through in text & you also have all the time in the world to make a well constructed reply.
Mar 6, 2021 4:25 AM

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-Miku_Meister- said:
Some MAL users will hate me for is writing long ass replies/comments.They would think "WTF this user is a n00b for writing a massive essay. ^_^

The reason I do it is because I used to write anime reviews and i like to give a insight thinking. Back in my younger days, I do write a two line sentence and a few wanted me to go in depth. Yes, I could of write a sentence or two but I feel its more of a broad answer and I am not telepathy to think what is on the person's mind and vice versa

For example: User1: Why do you like this character?
Answer1: She is funny and hard worker, trying her best to improve herself.

Answer2: She is funny because the way she smiles it reminds me of a yandere face and laughs like Yagami Light.In one of the scenes....... and so on.


Sometimes I don't even realise it until I notice their comment section has a massive essay lol

Honestly, I hate when users reply with one line & don't even try to keep the convo going, so I love long replies, maybe we should be friends...

although I can understand that some people struggle with conversing. I have gone through & still go through this in real life with people in general, but since this a website full of otakus & it's online, things are much easier.
Mar 6, 2021 4:29 AM

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Ikan1a said:
14061998 said:
One thing I frequently see is MAL users writing they're "anti-social" but correct term is "asocial" even then they contradict themselves by actually being social on MAL, having huge ass friends list and comment section.


LOOL There's a huge difference between socialising with your face & voice and socialising anonymously through text online, for example if you tend to be awkward irl that will hardly come through in text & you also have all the time in the world to make a well constructed reply.


That's still called "socialising" is it not?
Can't call yourself asocial if you're seeking to interact with people whether be it irl or online.

Mar 6, 2021 4:49 AM

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The fact that so many people don't know what "adding to a conversation" means.
You can ask a question on AD like "What is an anime you like", one person will say "One Piece", a second person will add "One Piece sucks".
Like you didn't add shit to the conversation, what was the point of your reply.
And if you tell them they're not being useful they'll say you're an asshole or a crybaby for whining about it.
Mar 6, 2021 6:08 AM

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To answer the OP, I would say:

1) The fact that the trending forum threads are almost always negative

2) The fact that MAL users don't seem to care for more interesting/unique thread topics & only the threads with the same reoccurring topics/are more ordinary will receive lots of replies. And then they complain about how the forums are boring -__-
For example this thread I made hardly got any replies or even votes (which should be easier to obtain):
https://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1877983

But I think part of it is probably that I'm not very good at coming up with thread ideas.
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@Ikan1a, I suppose its not that bad at times lol. sometimes you could be spending some hours replying to replies. Time really flies when your replying to all comments haha.

It is nice to see someone who shares a similar writing as mines and I am happy to discuss with you. Back in the MAL days, it was full of essays comments.

For those that know me, Please be yourself and don't expect me to ask you to write loads just write as your usually do :)

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We'll be able to do it next time.
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Mar 6, 2021 7:45 AM
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The guys who make relationship and talk sex thread. Stop lying for real.

Whiny little fags who use the threads like it's their Girl Tech Password Journal.

MrFlyingbison said:
Those losers that make threads talking about depressed they are.
Like stfu.


That too.
Mar 6, 2021 7:54 AM

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Those who always talk about how anti-social, depressed and introvert they are.Like damn dude, exercise a bit
Bragging be like "My mom said she was worried about me while I was watching anime so I slapped that bitch epic weeb moment"
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Mar 6, 2021 8:15 AM

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I hate when they deliberately show ugly pictures (like the disgusting drawings from Oyasumi Punpun) in their profile or on the forum.
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Mar 6, 2021 8:23 AM
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That they discuss not to understand but to win.
Mar 6, 2021 9:57 AM

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Hate is a strong word so let's go with find annoying or irksome instead. What I'm 'bout to say isn't limited to MAL, but it still works 'cause there are users like this.

People who are so insecure they feel a need to make others feel bad. By making other people look and feel bad they think that they will look better and feel better because someone else is worse off than they are. They want everyone to feel as unhappy as they do. *Fish kid from Spongebob voice* Laaaaaaaame!

I know I make fun of the gimmick a lot, but it gets to the point of not being funny anymore, it's just pitiful and sad.

operationvalkyri said:
That they discuss not to understand but to win.
Ah yeah, I agree, this is annoying too. It's one of the reasons I don't even bother anymore (especially on the internet). I get that there is no way someone will agree with every person they meet, but the impression I get is they're not discussing with good intentions, but to win or one-up by being "right" and proving someone "wrong".

To me, if you're not talking to someone with the intent on listening, getting a better understanding of a different viewpoint, trying to see where the other person is coming from, or entertain the thought you could be wrong or missed the mark, what's the point? In spite of differing points of view, you can still find common ground and talk things out in a civil and respectful way. Disagreement doesn't have to be unpleasant, it can be educational at times.

But I feel someone would have to be emotionally mature to have those kind of thoughts
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Mar 6, 2021 11:02 AM

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random friend requests i guess, i mean, i only friend people i know personally
Mar 6, 2021 11:18 AM

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When people act like you're a shitty person for liking certain content. Seriously, just because you're fine with something in fictional media doesn't mean you approve of it in real life.
Mar 6, 2021 2:54 PM
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From my experience of reading the forums, a lot of them tend to lack any sort of humility. Anonymity I'm sure has a lot to do with this fact, but sometimes it's exhausting dealing with narcissistic personalities.
Mar 6, 2021 5:47 PM
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the ones that take things too seriously and create a LONG-ASS flaming war on the "current events" section. LOL.

It's all good when there are decent points and facts that enlighten the situation or bring new perspectives, but it always devolves into childish mud-flinging.

This is why it's better to just stick with the forum games and messing around to have fun. I don't come online to write an academic report with APA source formatting to convince a bunch of people. That's waaay too much work and I don't get paid for it. So it's poo-poo-pee-pee jokes for me.
Mar 6, 2021 5:55 PM

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I hate how I am one with them and that I have friended them
Mar 6, 2021 6:13 PM

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MustDestroy said:
I'm getting pretty annoyed with all the self deprecation and "I'm a depressed antisocial weeb" talk from some users here. I don't know why they feel the need to tell us how much of a loser they are.

I was about to comment the same thing! The amount of "boohoo I'm sad" threads are such a downer.
Mar 6, 2021 6:31 PM

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barely anyone actually USES the rating system. like, man, cmon. 7 good, 6 fine, 4 bad. it has the word right next to the number. just use what's there. god damn.
Mar 6, 2021 7:08 PM

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i’m not going to type just one thing cause i’m a rebel *gasp*
ahem,
1. lolicon
2. 90% of this forum cause they’re homophobic/transphobic to some extent srry babes
3. cishet men who are like ‘omg gl is so hot n sexy’ and then projectile vomit when they see two guys kiss
Mar 6, 2021 7:17 PM

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Theonewhorules said:
some people are so intense for no reason and cannot tell im joking EVER this site is filled with people who have no sense of tone and it bothers me so

tbf tone can easily be misinterpreted with just text based interaction (because you don't have things like facial expressions and change in pitch and whatnot), that's why you gotta slap a 'lol' at the end to let them know it's meant to be a more positive one........lol
Mar 6, 2021 7:42 PM

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hating people on the internet zzz
i think its a waste of time
Mar 6, 2021 7:50 PM

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Judevin said:
The fact that so many people don't know what "adding to a conversation" means.
You can ask a question on AD like "What is an anime you like", one person will say "One Piece", a second person will add "One Piece sucks".
Like you didn't add shit to the conversation, what was the point of your reply.
And if you tell them they're not being useful they'll say you're an asshole or a crybaby for whining about it.

Wow, you're still on about other's for not agreeing with you?
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What are being friends for again?
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Honestly, I think everything I have against MAL users is all in my head - I am convinced that for some reason that makes no sense everyone who is in any community that I am a part of has some kind of Agenda against me being part of it.

I know I am being paranoid but my brain just constantly thinks there's a conspiracy to ruin what I love for me and everyone is involved in some weird way.

Apart from that, I have no issue with anyone

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Starchaser said:
Hate is a strong word so let's go with find annoying or irksome instead. What I'm 'bout to say isn't limited to MAL, but it still works 'cause there are users like this.

People who are so insecure they feel a need to make others feel bad. By making other people look and feel bad they think that they will look better and feel better because someone else is worse off than they are. They want everyone to feel as unhappy as they do. *Fish kid from Spongebob voice* Laaaaaaaame!

I know I make fun of the gimmick a lot, but it gets to the point of not being funny anymore, it's just pitiful and sad.

operationvalkyri said:
That they discuss not to understand but to win.
Ah yeah, I agree, this is annoying too. It's one of the reasons I don't even bother anymore (especially on the internet). I get that there is no way someone will agree with every person they meet, but the impression I get is they're not discussing with good intentions, but to win or one-up by being "right" and proving someone "wrong".

To me, if you're not talking to someone with the intent on listening, getting a better understanding of a different viewpoint, trying to see where the other person is coming from, or entertain the thought you could be wrong or missed the mark, what's the point? In spite of differing points of view, you can still find common ground and talk things out in a civil and respectful way. Disagreement doesn't have to be unpleasant, it can be educational at times.

But I feel someone would have to be emotionally mature to have those kind of thoughts


Well guess what? hate is actually a really good thing and honestly its better to be hateful than it is to be falling for a sweet lovely lie.

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Tropisch said:
Judevin said:
The fact that so many people don't know what "adding to a conversation" means.
You can ask a question on AD like "What is an anime you like", one person will say "One Piece", a second person will add "One Piece sucks".
Like you didn't add shit to the conversation, what was the point of your reply.
And if you tell them they're not being useful they'll say you're an asshole or a crybaby for whining about it.

Wow, you're still on about other's for not agreeing with you?
What are you talking about?
It's not really about agreement or disagreement.
I mean I can have disagreements with people, it's just people that don't add anything to a conversation that piss me off.
Know what I mean?
Like if person 1 said they liked One Piece, person 2 said they don't like it but then stated what anime they did like instead of One Piece, that's adding to the conversation, I disagree with people all the time here, that's part of the experience, it's just people who do nothing but disagree. Like you're adding nothing to the conversation whatsoever. Feel free to agree/disagree but at least add to the conversation.
Also I thought you had me blocked, man. What's up.
Mar 7, 2021 10:36 PM

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People who loves BGS than monogatari series and loves franxx than evangelion is a literal sign of permanent brain damage
Mar 8, 2021 4:57 AM

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that one guy who sends milk and abs pisses me off.
Mar 8, 2021 1:47 PM

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political-bait threads and people seeing bait threads and being like: "I am fish" (it's not as bad as other boards i'm on but still)

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