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Oct 19, 6:00 PM

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Answer the question above with the best of your knowledge.
Recently I've had my cruel mood swings though I make sure to apologize for my wrong doings sooner or later and make sure not to do the same sadistic behaviors to that individual again.


Edit: I posted in the wrong section, my bad. @fancyjasper please move it to Casual Discussion when ya get a chance, thank you in advance and gomenasai.
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Oct 19, 6:07 PM
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Pretty damn nice, if I may say so myself. Woah, would you look at that. I could say so myself. How nice of me.


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I am very opinionated and can be very blunt about those opinions to an extent where some people might think I'm rude. Sometimes I say things by accident that people think are rude because I can be a bit too honest. I really don't ever try to be rude to someone unless they are rude to me first though. In real life I'm pretty laid back and easy going. If people look past my initial awkwardness and opinionated nature, a lot of them have said I'm really easy to talk to. I may be opinionated but unless someone holds those opinions against me and attacks me for them, I generally accept people and will be friends with them no matter what their opinions are.
 
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Oct 19, 7:00 PM
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nice when i have to be rude when i have to be. definitely not too much of a nice soyboy. more like the slightly rude but deep down nice handsome badass male character.
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Oct 19, 7:17 PM

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Definetly a nice person irl, but I want to change so I can be overall nice but rude when I need to be rude.
 
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Oct 19, 7:18 PM
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Nicer than I used to be (since I rather not get banned since I give the site $3 a month for no good reason other than "just because"), but can still be an asshole when the opportunity arises.
 
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Oct 19, 7:26 PM
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i try to be nice as much as possible i view myself like a lesser evil because i got intrusive thoughts alone that are fucking evil

so like Ryu in Street Fighter Zero anime movie said "i fight myself since myself is the greatest enemy" the inner demon that is Evil Ryu
 
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Oct 19, 8:33 PM
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I'm a pretty nice person, probably too nice actually. If I'm angry I tend to hold it in, so everyone who knows me tells me I shouldn't be scared to tell people off. If I'm rude, it's never intentional.
 
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Oct 20, 10:45 AM

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I find it difficult to be rude even when I have to lol. I kinda feel bad about the other person even when they are the as~hole.

 
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I'm probably too nice but that's how I make money, so it's a far trade if you ask me.
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Never thought of how nice or rude I would become after growing up, but I think things turned out pretty well.
 
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For as long as I've known of my existence I've been a really nice and kind person but that's until I'm not.


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FacelessVixen said:
Nicer than I used to be (since I rather not get banned since I give the site $3 a month for no good reason other than "just because"), but can still be an asshole when the opportunity arises.
I haven't seen ya be an asshole other than prob sacrificing someone at that one ''you can only save 1 person'' thread eehee..

 
Oct 21, 7:48 PM
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I'm the nicest person there is and there will ever be.
 
Oct 21, 8:27 PM
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My friends and people around me tells me Im too frank with my words and actions so to a degree maybe Im still a dick lol. Im not really good with sugar coating my words.
 
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I've been pretty non-confrontational for a lot of my life.

In the last maybe three years, I've become a lot more outspoken, sassy, and frank. Like, I'd say what I'd need to say without too much regard for other people's feelings.

Recently, I've realized that my behavior has been hurting people and serves no one. In one instance, the last thing someone got from me before they died was just a pissy attitude... and I only learned about it after, but they were really hurting before they died.

I've been going about things differently. You can say what you need to say and not be downright mean and unapproachable while doing it. I've never considered myself to be an edgelord, but you can be an edgelord and still be a nice person too.

I'm still growing.

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Nice to people I consider family/friends/acquaintences, quiet and reserved to normies, a proud asshole online
 
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-Stray said:
My friends and people around me tells me Im too frank with my words and actions so to a degree maybe Im still a dick lol. Im not really good with sugar coating my words.


Swiggy said:
I've been pretty non-confrontational for a lot of my life.

In the last maybe three years, I've become a lot more outspoken, sassy, and frank. Like, I'd say what I'd need to say without too much regard for other people's feelings.

Recently, I've realized that my behavior has been hurting people and serves no one. In one instance, the last thing someone got from me before they died was just a pissy attitude... and I only learned about it after, but they were really hurting before they died.

I've been going about things differently. You can say what you need to say and not be downright mean and unapproachable while doing it. I've never considered myself to be an edgelord, but you can be an edgelord and still be a nice person too.

I'm still growing.


I think the three of us are in a similar position as far as this goes.

The main reason why I do it even if some people think it makes me rude is because I think it will help people to be desensitized to opinions that deeply contrast with their own. You can only get shocked by an opinion so many times before it sounds relatively normal and doesn't make much of an impression on you anymore. I think if you are shocked by certain opinions, that's inherently a bad thing and you should learn not to be. Once opinions no longer shock you, you either learn to engage the people who have them more rationally, or you simply learn to ignore it. But it is when people are shocked by certain opinions and are afraid of hearing them that they behave maliciously towards those who have them.
 
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I've definitely become too nice because I'm afraid of people and have resting bitch face so I try to be overly nice to compensate. Once people figure it out they walk allllll over me. I literally have people who think I'm their best friend, yet I can't stand them because I'm afraid to say no to hanging out with them and making them feel bad. (I only dislike them becausr they're mean to others and have "I can never be wrong" syndrome. Its not even because I just find them annoying) meanwhile growing up I was a massive bitch and thought I was the shit lol.
I'm totally non confrentational and when people insult me I kind of just take it because I'm afraid they'll be upset.
I literally don't even dislike YouTube videos because I'm afraid to hurt the uploaders feelings. Its either I like or don't interact
 
Oct 21, 11:14 PM

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Im generally a nice person but I really love making stupid people feel more stupid. Cause I hate them. Ugh, now I seem like a real asshole.
 
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Well I think I still have the ability to communicate with people effectively and create connections of the heart soo overall I'm a super nice guy :D

Not that I don't have my rude side, or that I'm not an all original rudeboy skanker ;)
 
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Ryuk9428 said:
-Stray said:
My friends and people around me tells me Im too frank with my words and actions so to a degree maybe Im still a dick lol. Im not really good with sugar coating my words.


Swiggy said:
I've been pretty non-confrontational for a lot of my life.

In the last maybe three years, I've become a lot more outspoken, sassy, and frank. Like, I'd say what I'd need to say without too much regard for other people's feelings.

Recently, I've realized that my behavior has been hurting people and serves no one. In one instance, the last thing someone got from me before they died was just a pissy attitude... and I only learned about it after, but they were really hurting before they died.

I've been going about things differently. You can say what you need to say and not be downright mean and unapproachable while doing it. I've never considered myself to be an edgelord, but you can be an edgelord and still be a nice person too.

I'm still growing.


I think the three of us are in a similar position as far as this goes.

The main reason why I do it even if some people think it makes me rude is because I think it will help people to be desensitized to opinions that deeply contrast with their own. You can only get shocked by an opinion so many times before it sounds relatively normal and doesn't make much of an impression on you anymore. I think if you are shocked by certain opinions, that's inherently a bad thing and you should learn not to be. Once opinions no longer shock you, you either learn to engage the people who have them more rationally, or you simply learn to ignore it. But it is when people are shocked by certain opinions and are afraid of hearing them that they behave maliciously towards those who have them.

Not that there aren't people who will fly off the handle just because someone has a different opinion than them, but I feel like a large part of the 'folks thinking others are rude for their opinions' thing might come from how the opinion is being stated as well. Also time and place. At least I feel that's why I can come off as rude.

I'm all for people learning about opinions outside of their comfort zone. Some people can't fathom the idea of multiple perspectives existing because they've only been surrounded by whatever the majority opinion is within their environment.

However, I don't think one can expect to tame humans to react the way one wants them to. We can hope people will react in a rational and calm manner to whatever it is we say or do, but we really can't control that no matter how much we've tried to desensitize them.
Still, if you feel that it works for you or makes an impact then hey, keep at it!

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I've definitely become too nice because I'm afraid of people and have resting bitch face so I try to be overly nice to compensate. Once people figure it out they walk allllll over me. I literally have people who think I'm their best friend, yet I can't stand them because I'm afraid to say no to hanging out with them and making them feel bad. (I only dislike them becausr they're mean to others and have "I can never be wrong" syndrome. Its not even because I just find them annoying) meanwhile growing up I was a massive bitch and thought I was the shit lol.
I'm totally non confrentational and when people insult me I kind of just take it because I'm afraid they'll be upset.
I literally don't even dislike YouTube videos because I'm afraid to hurt the uploaders feelings. Its either I like or don't interact
Oh shoot. Except for the "I was a massive bitch and thought I was the shit " part, your current self sounds a lot like my past self.;; Like, right down to the "people who think I'm their best friend, yet I can't stand them" part.
Just be careful. Don't be afraid to set some boundaries. You can do so without burning bridges, it just takes some thought sometimes!
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