| Hi, I know someone who doesn't have any friends. Ive made some threads for advice before but now Im looking for straight forward answers for this. He wants to find friends, where can he find some to keep him company? Just to note a few things: He's not the type of guy who goes to clubs or bars, he'd prefer if he could find people to share interests with, and would also prefer to meet friends of the opposite gender (perhaps friends with benefits as well?). - Don't really know but please help out, he's hasn't had the best of moods lately. |
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| like i said on your other thread that was gone now i think try getting a pet like a cute dog to walk around the streets with and you will attract other people to have small talks with and that may spark a bigger friendship later on plus if you are really clinically mentally sick (depression you have implied) then pet therapy can help especially loneliness |
| at school or at work or doing sports or playing games but u need to look for ppl close to u else u cant be close friends if u dont konw eachother irl |
| Well if you have no problem going out the obvious thing is meeting people in places related to those interests. |
| if he's in college or school, clubs that relate to his interests. even just talking to someone in your class will get you friends, if you're not totally weird about it. you can just be like, "hey, i like [insert thing about outfit or something relevant]" and/or ask a question to facilitate conversation. people like compliments and talking about themselves or their interests. if he's not in school, look online to see if there's anything local that pertains to his interests. conventions and organized meetups are great places to meet new people. also, tell him he shouldn't be down on himself if an attempt fails or the person shrugs it off. stuff like that happens, but every chance not taken is an opportunity missed, and he'll get results no matter what if he keeps it up. |
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| get discord or something idk p.s are you sure you're not talking about yourself lul? friends with benefits is a bad concept you goofball xd are you being for real? |
heg said: It seems to me that you'll be posting this exact same thing few more times. It is just a matter of time before op drops this thread and makes the same one again.like i said on your other thread that was gone now i think try getting a pet like a cute dog to walk around the streets with and you will attract other people to have small talks with and that may spark a bigger friendship later on plus if you are really clinically mentally sick (depression you have implied) then pet therapy can help especially loneliness |
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Luchse said: heg said: It seems to me that you'll be posting this exact same thing few more times. It is just a matter of time before op drops this thread and makes the same one again.like i said on your other thread that was gone now i think try getting a pet like a cute dog to walk around the streets with and you will attract other people to have small talks with and that may spark a bigger friendship later on plus if you are really clinically mentally sick (depression you have implied) then pet therapy can help especially loneliness yep i now remember OP is like that in the past too here on CD forum section, he always post that he needs a (girl)friend |
| mmm i kind of feel like this should be common sense, but there's no specific place that you can make friends in/at. because you can make friends literally anywhere. you just have to be a little open, and also accommodating enough that the reciprocating party can appeal to you and you should be able to strike up some semblance of a meaningful conversation that could potentially lead to a good friendship. maybe try to frequent places that you consider close to your own interests and start from there. if you happen to meet someone who catches your eye then try to be friendly and sincere and hopefully they'll be able to do the same as well. good luck op !! |
| It's not a matter of where, it's a matter of how and it starts with not talking about yourself in third person. |
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| Ask him to watch grave of fireflies if he haven't. I think volunteering activity, going to gym or participating in any gathering like symposium, conference etc. But hey real life people likes to talk about real life stuff so anime cannot mix well unfortunately, at least around where I'm from. |
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