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Sep 15, 2:26 PM

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How dare you insult us men of culture. Anime isn't weird
If any girl try tell me not to watch anime, she's getting choke slammed. I am only going to date someone who has watched as much anime as me

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Sep 15, 2:30 PM

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Are you sure it's not the scent of sweaty balls and rotting cheese that's putting them off?
 
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Sep 15, 2:35 PM

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you presuppose that anime is the cause of dislike
willing to bet that if the guy in question was handsome, charismatic, and rich, the dude's anime habit would be the last thing on her mind.
 
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Sep 15, 2:42 PM

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Probably because of the stereotypes that people has brought about geeks or weebs or whatever over the years. But I'm not entirely sure since I've never really met a girl who would dislike someone for watching anime.


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why do guys often think that every girls dislike guys who watch anime? and why do you think that someone who dislike something you like meaning that person is insulting you? "dislike" and "like" are just the two side of a same coin called affection.
why do you seems verily hungry for oh-so-much acceptance from people to accept what you love, in this context, anime?
by being faithful to what you love, is it not enough love for you?
why you only dated someone who has watched as much anime as yours? it would be better to date someone who has watched more than yours so you can get a new experiences, perspectives and new knowledge about your hobby.
yknow what. i think your character is more questionable than the question itself rn. and as a remainder, me questioning your character does not mean me insulting you, ok buddy? this also apply to me quite disliking the narrow-mindedness of your question ^-^
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I get more weird reactions from guys than from girls. The girls I've talked to about anime were pretty chill about it actually, probably because I just happened to mention it in passing or because the topic naturally arose and I didn't force it unto them just because. (Nice) people are open to hear about anyone's hobbies, if the one talking isn't too preachy or obnoxious about it.

Some of my guy friends on the other hand have already called me a pedo because of it. So I think it all just depends on the person, women being usually more accepting/less openly judgemental about others' hobbies, in my experience.
 
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It wouldn't surprise if there were more males than females who cared about that.
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You're associating with the wrong women, plenty of girls like anime.
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I'd like a guy more if he watched anime.
 
Sep 15, 4:00 PM

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youre wrong topic creator. i watch anime and my wifu loves me
 
Sep 15, 4:36 PM

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Anime fans, but mostly otaku/weeb type anime fans, have a reputation for being perverts. A person who thinks all anime fans are otaku/weeb types might think you're a pervert. I'd say the stereotype is partially true but not entirely.
 
Sep 15, 5:01 PM

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why would anyone even care if someone watches anime or not?
 
Sep 15, 7:15 PM

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Because spending too much time watching anime, playing video games or any otaku activity instead of trying to socialize with people is considered a bad thing from their point of view?

You can't expect people to like you after you literally said to their face to go fuck themselves.

It is not about the anime itself, everyone has watched anime at some point in their life. But when it comes to the typical hardcore otaku, I'm pretty sure you can use your brain to figure out some of the reasons why most girls dislike them.

That being said, you don't have to change your lifestyle because of that. Nobody can "tell you what to do". However, you can't tell others what to like either.
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Sep 15, 10:11 PM

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Iv'e never met a girl like that before, iv'e never meet anyone like that before. most people i find don't care what another persons hobbies are unless they are the same. Lots of girls watch anime too.
 
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the same way any addict or obsessive fan of any entertainment is rejected by girls
 
Sep 16, 12:24 AM

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Because they dislike a certain type of guys and not the anime.
Also "only dating, if they watch (as much) anime" is a superficial outlook imo. Do you want to join a fanclub or get into a relationship lol
 
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Literally found nobody in my entire life who even gave me a bad look for watching anime, and if I did, I don't think it would be limited to the opposite gender.
 
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BenRyan said:
If any girl try tell me not to watch anime, she's getting choke slammed.


Preach on, muh brotha. Them thots don't know nothin' what's comin' when the Undertaker slams them so hard they'd be dead before they even get the chance to say "DADDY".

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Sep 16, 1:43 AM

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Because guys have shit taste in anime :P
 
Sep 16, 2:30 AM

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They don't.

Maybe you dislike yourself and you're just projecting.
 
Sep 16, 4:14 AM
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Tbh even if they did, what's the problem? I am sure there are plenty of things for which you wouldn't want to associate with others that they might find petty.
 
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its literally the exact opposite idk what yall on
 
Sep 16, 7:18 AM
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The problem isn't watching anime. It's your attitude
 
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Are you sure that girls dislike you just because you like anime and not because of some other trait?
I'd definitely consider it a plus if a guy watches anime specially since I live in a country where anime isn't much popular and still gets associated with kid's cartoons. Also I wouldn't consider the amount of anime someone has watched as long as they like 'anime'. I might be pushing my luck too hard if I try to find a guy who has watched 700+ anime in my country after all (they do exist though).
 
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As a woman who watches anime together with her boyfriend, I must join the people saying that it's probably not the anime that puts them off.
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I do not dislike a man who watches anime, but i'd like it if we'd have a similar taste for mature themed (psychological/Philosophical...) anime and hilarious comedies.
Well if he watches cute stuff i wouldn't mind.
However, i'd dislike it if they were into lewding lolis, watching hentai and ecchi harems. I'd be abhorred lol
If it was for other people, i wouldn't judge it nor care, but it is smtg i find quite off-putting in a partner.
 
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I always preferred (and still do) watching stuff by myself, so, I don't know how people find it fun watching stuff or playing games with somebody.

I believe that watching Anime, reading Manga, playing games or doing your other hobbies is something personal and intimate, it kills the mood when someone is staying beside you.

I actually respect those, who value their personal hobbies more than anyone or anything. Disruptors, be gone!
 
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Scud said:
Are you sure it's not the scent of sweaty balls and rotting cheese that's putting them off?

Lol i am circumcised man which mean no cheese ew also my ball aren't fat to get sweaty
 
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< knows girls who like and watch anime and am friends with several of them.... you need to go out more and spend less time on forum "GIRLS" who might not even be girls but other 30 year old men crying in there basements.


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cope, women hate every guy who isnt a chad doesnt matter if you like anime or not

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The girls who like anime like the guys who like anime. Makes sense, right?
Don't take anything seriously.
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Because guys have shit taste in anime :P

You don't know how right you are.
I barely met guys, who appreciate some stuff that wasn't pure actions, lolis or harems. And the other ones came off a little bit as elitists ehh... I don't like their attitude.
Conversations often go like. "You like anime? Me too."
"Yeah...?" :D
"I like Dragonball and One Piece and... those *insert ecchi*"
"Oh..."
I mean, that's okay, as long as it isn't someone obsessed with it or a loli-dude... then I don't care so much, but I only have a few male friends or guys I know I can talk to about anime. My ex boyfriend likes similar stuff like me or stuff that goes into the similar direction. Tbh, I believe that your taste tells at least a little bit about you and he's pretty compassionate (otherwise, he wouldn't have been my boyfriend tho, so...), so he likes stuff that reflects that trait, not only in anime.
 
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I don't think it's the anime that's putting the ladies off. A wild guess, but it's probably the threats of choke-slamming.
 
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BallistikJuice said:
I always preferred (and still do) watching stuff by myself, so, I don't know how people find it fun watching stuff or playing games with somebody.

I believe that watching Anime, reading Manga, playing games or doing your other hobbies is something personal and intimate, it kills the mood when someone is staying beside you.

I actually respect those, who value their personal hobbies more than anyone or anything. Disruptors, be gone!


I'm with you on watching movies/anime alone. I don't stand the discussions/talk while I watch the shows. in the end either everyone is quiet and watches the show (so watching the show with someone is pointless anyway) or you have continous distraction because the people have the urgent need to discuss every scene. Thus I always watch shows alone and discuss it later on with others.

For games it is quite different. You don't need to listen or use your brain cells much so you can talk, drink, or w/e during gaming. I enjoy hanging out with bros playing games together.

edit: on topic: never seen any girl disliking the guy because he is watching anime. Idk where you get that from OP.
 
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RandomFriday said:
BallistikJuice said:
I always preferred (and still do) watching stuff by myself, so, I don't know how people find it fun watching stuff or playing games with somebody.

I believe that watching Anime, reading Manga, playing games or doing your other hobbies is something personal and intimate, it kills the mood when someone is staying beside you.

I actually respect those, who value their personal hobbies more than anyone or anything. Disruptors, be gone!


I'm with you on watching movies/anime alone. I don't stand the discussions/talk while I watch the shows. in the end either everyone is quiet and watches the show (so watching the show with someone is pointless anyway) or you have continous distraction because the people have the urgent need to discuss every scene. Thus I always watch shows alone and discuss it later on with others.

For games it is quite different. You don't need to listen or use your brain cells much so you can talk, drink, or w/e during gaming. I enjoy hanging out with bros playing games together.

edit: on topic: never seen any girl disliking the guy because he is watching anime. Idk where you get that from OP.


Depends on the games, I guess. I don't like co-op/online games, so, I can't see myself playing something like "Pathfinder: Kingmaker" or some long Turn-based strategy game with someone over my shoulder, that would be annoying and I would ask them to leave.
 
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With some types of animals, it's the females that have bigger dicks than the males.

In other words: Girls are the bigger nerds, at least in my experience.
 
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Maybe if most weeks you find in the wild didn’t smell like a dumpster maybe women would like them more. Or hoes be shallow, women can be just as mean and shallow as men so who knows.
 
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The fact that this thread exists at all tells me it's probably not the fact you like anime which puts women off. I'd also like the point out that lots of chicks like anime, and if you're not having luck with any "normal" girls, you should try to find someone who shares your interests.
 
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Hardcore weebs tend to be ugly and shitty people so I don't really blame them lmao
 
Sep 17, 12:31 PM

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I also dislike people who watch anime because their taste is not as good as mine. Ha
 
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Wait, they do?

If anything then, you could say the same for disliking a girl who is into anime. It's the anime aspect, not gender. Maybe girls are more finicky, who knows.
 
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more guys dislike me because i watch anime than girls to be honest XD

hell, the girl i'm getting with mainly likes me because i like anime anyway lol
 
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Maneki-Mew said:
HeruruMeruru said:
Because guys have shit taste in anime :P

You don't know how right you are.
I barely met guys, who appreciate some stuff that wasn't pure actions, lolis or harems. And the other ones came off a little bit as elitists ehh... I don't like their attitude.
Conversations often go like. "You like anime? Me too."
"Yeah...?" :D
"I like Dragonball and One Piece and... those *insert ecchi*"
"Oh..."
I mean, that's okay, as long as it isn't someone obsessed with it or a loli-dude... then I don't care so much, but I only have a few male friends or guys I know I can talk to about anime. My ex boyfriend likes similar stuff like me or stuff that goes into the similar direction. Tbh, I believe that your taste tells at least a little bit about you and he's pretty compassionate (otherwise, he wouldn't have been my boyfriend tho, so...), so he likes stuff that reflects that trait, not only in anime.


Yea, there was this girl at my Uni who liked anime (there are actually a lot of girls who like anime) and she was intrigued when I said I liked anime, but when I told her that I loved Kaichou wa Maid-sama or Nana, she looked at me as if I was some sort of a creep who fantasizes about love all the damn time. Needless to say, she yeeted the fuck outta the group.

Point is, if you already liked that guy then you would also like the fact that he enjoys whatever anime he does. Girls usually don't have their preferences straight. If I say I like girls who like action anime, then I'm gonna nerd the fuck out with the first girl, I don't care how ugly or creepy, who pops up and says 'hey I love action anime'. But if there's a girl who says 'I like guys who are into romance' then you bet your ass she's gonna run some RNG in her head and decide how to respond to a guy who's into romance based on that RNG.
 
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Thanakos said:
Maneki-Mew said:

You don't know how right you are.
I barely met guys, who appreciate some stuff that wasn't pure actions, lolis or harems. And the other ones came off a little bit as elitists ehh... I don't like their attitude.
Conversations often go like. "You like anime? Me too."
"Yeah...?" :D
"I like Dragonball and One Piece and... those *insert ecchi*"
"Oh..."
I mean, that's okay, as long as it isn't someone obsessed with it or a loli-dude... then I don't care so much, but I only have a few male friends or guys I know I can talk to about anime. My ex boyfriend likes similar stuff like me or stuff that goes into the similar direction. Tbh, I believe that your taste tells at least a little bit about you and he's pretty compassionate (otherwise, he wouldn't have been my boyfriend tho, so...), so he likes stuff that reflects that trait, not only in anime.


Yea, there was this girl at my Uni who liked anime (there are actually a lot of girls who like anime) and she was intrigued when I said I liked anime, but when I told her that I loved Kaichou wa Maid-sama or Nana, she looked at me as if I was some sort of a creep who fantasizes about love all the damn time. Needless to say, she yeeted the fuck outta the group.

Point is, if you already liked that guy then you would also like the fact that he enjoys whatever anime he does. Girls usually don't have their preferences straight. If I say I like girls who like action anime, then I'm gonna nerd the fuck out with the first girl, I don't care how ugly or creepy, who pops up and says 'hey I love action anime'. But if there's a girl who says 'I like guys who are into romance' then you bet your ass she's gonna run some RNG in her head and decide how to respond to a guy who's into romance based on that RNG.

No, actually that's cute. I mean, Maid-sama somehow bored me after a few episodes and all, but that doesn't matter.
My sympathy for someone automatically decreases a little bit, when they say stuff like "I don't like that anime or that character, who whines too much (*describes a situation, where I would someone expect to be desperated*)" or "I don't like that romance, because it was too harsh. I only like pure romance" or something. It's not like a red flag or THAT much of a big deal, but for example a friend said: "I didn't like the anime you recommended me, that Natsume... he is a crybaby, haha made fun of him." Of course, he is still a good friend, but he's little bit like that to real people as well and emotionally, I can get along with other kind of people much better and I relate to them more. It's about the values their opinions about some anime hold... if that makes sense?
My ex was also into (character) drama too and on the other side, also more into fantasy and action too. Everyone I had a crush on or similar, was very caring, interested in others, intelligent and all.
Haha and then he (heterosexual man) told me that he likes a few gay ships / couples / romances as well, next to some straight and lesbian couples. We talked about Evangelion there and my mind automatically yells at these guys: "Might be an emotionally intelligent and open-minded human being."
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Why do you think they do?

I know way more girls who are into anime than guys. Anime was even a part of getting to know them better in some cases. Tho it's more often than not just part of a general interest in animation, which makes it even better because I don't really get along with japan-obsessed weeaboos who hate everything that isn't anime.

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such wise words op. anyone less than the 100 mark is not dateable for me. 100+ and ur all set to go
 
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Usually people just think of social awkwardness and unhealthy habits when they hear anime or gaming. The longer someone knows you, the less likely he or she is to judge you by any hobby of yours.
 
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Girls? Wait, what? Y'all have perfect waifu(s) and yet you whining about an incompetence and ugly being?



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That's not true though? How insecure can you to think that's true lmfao
 
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They don't dislike the guy who watches anime. They dislike that the guy prefers the ultimately superior girls in anime. Someone should invent cross-dimensional procreation so that we can leave behind our mortal, imperfect, 3D realm tbh smh lmao real talk straight up.
 
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