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Aug 9, 2019 1:57 PM
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Have you been kicked out of the house before if so what did you do?
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Aug 9, 2019 1:59 PM
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I remember when I was 13 and I was drunk out of my mind and my uncle was pissed cuz he knew I stole his booze and he beat me and threw me out while my sister was out working a job I didn't know about at the time. I came back after a day with a mean hangover. Won't forget that shit.
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Aug 9, 2019 2:22 PM
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4 times. I just walked out, with nothing in my hands, and just sat on some road here and there thinking about a strategy to overcome it when my brother would find me and tell me to just play it cool and I would fall for it because I don't want to be like my dad and make emotional decisions.

Incidentally, got disowned by my dad for the 3rd time today, but Mom always manages to prolong the agony. Doesn't matter to me at all, uni is starting on the 19th and I'll be back in the world where I belong.
Aug 9, 2019 4:43 PM
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Never liked going out to the park and play like all the other kids. Well that was enough of a reason for my father to kick me out so I can make friends and socialise or something.
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Aug 9, 2019 4:59 PM
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Nope. Thank God I never got kicked out of the house
Aug 9, 2019 5:36 PM
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Yes, but I was already an adult (19) at the time so I just got an apt with a friend of mine and lived there for awhile.
Aug 9, 2019 5:46 PM
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No, I was a good boy. Mommy and daddy loved me.
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Aug 9, 2019 6:40 PM
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Thanakos said:
4 times. I just walked out, with nothing in my hands, and just sat on some road here and there thinking about a strategy to overcome it when my brother would find me and tell me to just play it cool and I would fall for it because I don't want to be like my dad and make emotional decisions.

Incidentally, got disowned by my dad for the 3rd time today, but Mom always manages to prolong the agony. Doesn't matter to me at all, uni is starting on the 19th and I'll be back in the world where I belong.


Cool that you got a brother and a mom that have your back. And you got ambition. That's more than I can say for a lot of kids here with rough family lives. Just fucking wallowing away like I used to. Hell, I still can't pull myself together. Man, we fucking do this to ourselves.
Aug 9, 2019 8:08 PM
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nope, my parents arent like that. They dealt with us when we acted up LOL

sometimes they did threaten us to drop us off at my aunts house. (she's a retired veteran so she can be strict)
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Aug 9, 2019 8:08 PM

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No, I haven't done anything that would get me kicked out.
Aug 9, 2019 8:17 PM

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Quite the contrary. I was never allowed to leave.
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Aug 10, 2019 4:13 AM
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Nope, I was never kicked out of the house. I did run away a few times, but just for a couple of hours and then returned back because I was getting hungry.
Aug 10, 2019 4:23 AM
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No not really I haven't done anything that would warrant such severe punishment.
Aug 10, 2019 6:36 AM

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Well, there was that one time dad locked me out of the house when I was about 8 or so because I was making too much noise whilst he was trying to tidy up. I was forced to sit outside for hours, it was pissing it down and the bastard didn't even give me a coat or a brolly. Mum was furious when she returned home in the evening and found out. He never did that again.

I've never been thrown out as in "get out of this house and don't come back!" and I'm pretty confident that my parents were never the kind of people to even contemplate that sort of thing. We hadn't even heard of the concept of 'grounding'.
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Aug 10, 2019 6:41 AM

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no never but i got grounded several times either for misbehaving or having low scores on my final exams
Aug 10, 2019 8:31 AM
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I got asked to leave the house so many times when I was a teenager I've lost count. Usually over disputes my parents and I would get into. You see, I was an arrogant little shit back then, who would rebel against any type of discipline. Basically, I was unteachable.

Thankfully I grew up. But not without going through a lot of fire in my life.
Aug 10, 2019 8:16 PM

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SuguChan said:
I got asked to leave the house so many times when I was a teenager I've lost count. Usually over disputes my parents and I would get into. You see, I was an arrogant little shit back then, who would rebel against any type of discipline. Basically, I was unteachable.

Thankfully I grew up. But not without going through a lot of fire in my life.
cant say it better so i wont

my dad always wanted me out
my mom always wanted me to stay
i left many times
rebelled all the time, still do
don't live at home anymore but still find ways to rebel even though im working full time and will be at college in january
(tattoos, not going to church, etc)
nothing like the ways i rebelled when I was younger
(drinking, smoking, sex, etc)
i come from a very catholic vietnamese family
very strict
now i do whatever i want :D
but i've chosen to get my life on track as to not disappoint anymore
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Aug 10, 2019 8:23 PM

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Aug 10, 2019 9:22 PM
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No. I don't do anything to warrant getting kicked out.
My brother has been kicked out before though, but he usually cries his way back in the next day and my mom caves in. And then he never learns anything and goes right back to doing all the things he got kicked out for. Repeat.

Big problem is he just does whatever he wants to do with disregard to anyone else. Or in some cases, he won't do whatever he doesn't want to do (like washing his own dishes, flushing the toilet, etc).

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Aug 11, 2019 10:59 AM

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HungryForQuality said:
Thanakos said:
4 times. I just walked out, with nothing in my hands, and just sat on some road here and there thinking about a strategy to overcome it when my brother would find me and tell me to just play it cool and I would fall for it because I don't want to be like my dad and make emotional decisions.

Incidentally, got disowned by my dad for the 3rd time today, but Mom always manages to prolong the agony. Doesn't matter to me at all, uni is starting on the 19th and I'll be back in the world where I belong.


Cool that you got a brother and a mom that have your back. And you got ambition. That's more than I can say for a lot of kids here with rough family lives. Just fucking wallowing away like I used to. Hell, I still can't pull myself together. Man, we fucking do this to ourselves.


How do they manage to wallow away? Knowing I've got no safety net keeps me on my toes not make me lay on my back. But I guess those people don't want a better life strongly enough.
Aug 11, 2019 11:12 AM

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Not in the permanent sense. When I was much younger, my mom used to drop us off down the street (we lived in the woods), so in the middle of the forest at night, and tell us to stay there until she finishes her shit as a punishment for crying or being noisy.

Luckily there were no wolves or kidnappers in all the half hours that we were there. As I grew older, if my mom ever kicked me out, I don't think I would be back. I don't know what I'd do, and I know that living out is rough. I was a pretty honed shoplifter as a teenager, so there's that.
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Aug 11, 2019 11:17 AM

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I'm kicked out of my room by my roommate when I spend too much time inside, does that count?
Aug 11, 2019 2:41 PM
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uh no I get along just fine with my family, thanks
Aug 11, 2019 4:42 PM

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amagirinomikoto said:
one time it was cuz i didn't say hi to her when i came home from school, and i can't remember what happened the other time


What happens if you don't say goodnight to her?
Aug 12, 2019 10:30 PM

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Two incidents happened when i was 6 months old.

My father threw me into the dustbin in the middle of the night because i wont stop crying.

His friend had 2 daughters and no son so he asked if he would like to give 'me' when i was a 6 month old to him.

And im not even kidding.

My mother told me this tale while laughing and i confirmed it from my grandfather. I heard my dad was scolded by my both of them later on. He was 18 when he got arranged married to my mother, had to drop school and started working so i guess he was not ready to accept responsibility and have anger issues till this date. I didnt experienced any hardship while growing up, no money issues or anything i got whatever i wanted so i guess its ok.

Aug 14, 2019 1:32 PM

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I got dragged forcefully into the garden by my arm by both of my parents many times, and they had no resistance with it so they went rough.
Many times it was raining and cold and occasionally they dragged me out there without wearing anything. Once, I was even dragged out in public wearing nothing because I was too weak to stand up and they got annoyed that I took too much time. Then for the rest of the day, I had to cope by trying to cover myself and quickly put whatever I could on before they dragged me out. All I was able to wear at the end of it was a dressing gown, but walking barefooted the entire duration was extremely painful. I felt embarrassed and ashamed. I was young but damn they were not understanding at all.

And they would constantly threaten me, saying and doing things that could've lead to hospitalizing me. Many days they would starve me and avoid me as if they just began to not seem to want to care for me anymore. And I wasn't a greedy child, nor did I beg for anything, yet they still would not even give me food. Sometimes, I would go 1-2 days without eating and they didn't seem to care at all. I wasn't old enough to buy my own food, and not like they gave me pocket money or would allow me outside at all to get some anyway.

Chinese burns were the major problem, and that was the only threat that they seemed to so commonly do. And mainly due to that I grew up being quite a masochist, and even injuring an opposite limb whenever one got hurt, accident or not, for "equality". I began to get careless of myself and began to lose all of my positive interests because my father shamed and judged them. Helping out myself never mattered because it solved nothing but made my life feel like a lie.

Most of the time it was caused because I would forget to say "please", thank you", etc. and because of that, excluding that I wasn't in the wrong in the first place or barely was, that was their sole reason to "teach" me. But of course, that only made me more afraid to want to say some petty words, because my siblings can do the most horrible of things and get away with it, all because they say "thank you" on a daily basis and such which apparently makes them more trustworthy. It's really petty.
I'll say it, but I shouldn't be shouted at and physically assaulted if I forget to. Because most of the time, it's not even a "please" kind of question and I'd get yelled at. Once I asked my mother where a drink was and I got complained to for not saying please and then was called rude... but, that's not-

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