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Apr 22, 2019 2:13 PM

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Satyr_icon said:
You say that doesn't exist because you're completely ignoring the way people usually apply the word in favour of your own definition, which, frankly, isn't very popular. Unless I missed someone else, only you and Manaban seems to have a problem with this definition of self-insertion in this particular thread. It's the first time I myself have seen someone with this kind of gripe, because self-insertion is a very well defined word in any community. You're taking the term literally when it is meant to be taken figuratively.
Don't see the point in having a figurative meaning when you should have a correct meaning for a subject. That way what you say actually makes sense and isn't incorrect when looking at the facts like it is here
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I don't see how it is different. I mean, I think we can at least agree that Dating Sims have self-insertion features, and that a character having a bit of independent personality (in RPGs, for instance — even the Persona MCs have some bit of personality outside the player's decisions, especially since a load of decisions doesn't really make any difference, sometimes not even different lines of dialogue) doesn't really take the self-insertion aspect away from him. So, how is it that just adapting a Dating Sim into an anime would automatically sever its self-insertion aspects? My point is that it wouldn't.
Ive never played a Dating Sim so I wouldn't know honestly so I'm sorry but I can't comment as it would be from ignorance and I don't want to be incorrect here

As for why the intention of the staff and what the audience actually does isn't related. Its not the same since what the audience does is completely separate and not fully controllable from what the creators can provoke in them. For all we know the staff might hate the work they are adapting and don't try to evoke any kind of response in the viewer yet the viewers is reacting however they are be it positive or negative when seeing it
Satyr_icon said:
That...didn't make a lot of sense. Besides, I don't know why you're saying that to me, since I neither ignored you nor assumed I was right from the start. I thought we were having a normal discussion.
Is just an example of the larger issue since its not the first time we've had this issue in the forums and I'm thinking about it here since you're arguing for the validity of this assumption on fans.
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I don't see how assuming that I like to self-insert or that I actually have no opinion of my own and am only repeating third-party assumptions will add to the discussion...but no, because as I said (and you quoted), you can very well consume anime with self-insertion elements (or whatever elements) without feeling the need to immerse yourself into it. You can very well enjoy a power fantasy story for other aspects that's not it being a power fantasy. I say that because self-insertion is actually a thing in fiction, and even if your meaning is also right, it doesn't mean the way other people are using it is wrong.
Im not trying to assume, Im simply asking because trying to have greater grasp on your angle here so sorry if I sounded assumptious
Satyr_icon said:
I can see how the way the OP put it ticked you guys off, but I don't see your problem with the term self-insertion. Isekai main characters are always defined as self-insert and I've never seen anyone having a problem with that.
I don't do that. I don't assume any character is a self insert from the start regardless of what kind of show. This the problem Im talking about. Its assuming something and then sticking with that regardless of the facts down the road
Apr 22, 2019 2:15 PM
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I dont think I've ever self inserted my self into any anime I watch, I watch purely for entertainment and because I'm super easily entertained i dont mind harem and trashy anime.
Apr 22, 2019 4:06 PM

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Deknijff said:
Don't see the point in having a figurative meaning when you should have a correct meaning for a subject. That way what you say actually makes sense and isn't incorrect when looking at the facts like it is here


That makes absolutely no sense. Just because it is figurative doesn't mean it's incorrect. I have no idea how you reached such a conclusion.

Deknijff said:
Ive never played a Dating Sim so I wouldn't know honestly so I'm sorry but I can't comment as it would be from ignorance and I don't want to be incorrect here


Neither have I (unless you count Doki Doki), but I know the mechanics. It's exactly what the name implies, there's no big secret behind it.

Deknijff said:
As for why the intention of the staff and what the audience actually does isn't related. Its not the same since what the audience does is completely separate and not fully controllable from what the creators can provoke in them. For all we know the staff might hate the work they are adapting and don't try to evoke any kind of response in the viewer yet the viewers is reacting however they are be it positive or negative when seeing it


And why exactly does any of that matters in the question at hand? For all we know, Pupa could have been intended as a serious look at the human condition. What the creators originally intended doesn't matter if they utterly fail at it.

Deknijff said:
Im not trying to assume, Im simply asking because trying to have greater grasp on your angle here so sorry if I sounded assumptious


When I and others use the word "self-insert" it's not that we think people will look at Rimuru and think "well I always wanted to be a Slime". What matters is the situation the MC finds themselves in, even if the viewers can't connect directly with the MC. It's the reason so many of those anime take place in RPG worlds and high school: because it's a familiar setting to the audience. A perfect example of that is Tatami Galaxy, which is one of my favourite anime. The main character can very easily act as a self-insert character for 20 somethings that find themselves in the same situation as him (I mean, even the guy's name is simply "watashi").

As I see it, yours and Manaban's arguments is that a character can't be a self-insert if they has a will of their own, but that line of thinking can easily be stretched for all the genres he mentioned (that are literally self-insert genres) because, save for tabletop RPGs, none of them features actual choices made by the audience. There's a set of pre-existent choices open for you (or in POV porn, there's not even a choice), that gives you an illusion of choice, but that still isn't your character: you're just following it. Rather than a puppeteer, you're just being led by the puppet and giving it a push now and then. How is that so different from anime characters?

Deknijff said:
I don't do that. I don't assume any character is a self insert from the start regardless of what kind of show. This the problem Im talking about. Its assuming something and then sticking with that regardless of the facts down the road


Yes, assuming a character is a self-insert without even watching the show is wrong, sure, but there's nothing wrong with doing after the show. However, yours and Manaban's like of thinking indicates that there can be no such thing as a self-insert character in genres like harem and isekai when the character has a will of their own, and about that, I can't see any reason to agree.

I'm not saying that ALL harem are definitely self-insert like the OP, or that everyone who watches these shows does do for self-insertion, but it's a fact that some of them are and some of the audience does. Just that.
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Apr 22, 2019 4:56 PM

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Satyr_icon said:
Deknijff said:
Don't see the point in having a figurative meaning when you should have a correct meaning for a subject. That way what you say actually makes sense and isn't incorrect when looking at the facts like it is here
That makes absolutely no sense. Just because it is figurative doesn't mean it's incorrect. I have no idea how you reached such a conclusion.
and I don't see any conclusion as to why you need to water down a words meaning to fit your needs like here
Satyr_icon said:
And why exactly does any of that matters in the question at hand? For all we know, Pupa could have been intended as a serious look at the human condition. What the creators originally intended doesn't matter if they utterly fail at it.
Im just saying that what the staff is supposedly doing is unrelated towards what viewers are supposedly doing
Satyr_icon said:
When I and others use the word "self-insert" it's not that we think people will look at Rimuru and think "well I always wanted to be a Slime". What matters is the situation the MC finds themselves in, even if the viewers can't connect directly with the MC. It's the reason so many of those anime take place in RPG worlds and high school: because it's a familiar setting to the audience. A perfect example of that is Tatami Galaxy, which is one of my favourite anime. The main character can very easily act as a self-insert character for 20 somethings that find themselves in the same situation as him (I mean, even the guy's name is simply "watashi").
You're still saying simply because fans can identify things they are familiar with its self inserting which is a giant leap though
I wouldn't say someone saying or thinking it would be cool to be in those shoes is self inserting either. Is simply saying what if. Sure that can happen but its not self insertion as you aren't pretending to be a character as you are watching the show and trying to argue it is despite not being the case is just bending words for no good reason.
Satyr_icon said:
As I see it, yours and Manaban's arguments is that a character can't be a self-insert if they has a will of their own, but that line of thinking can easily be stretched for all the genres he mentioned (that are literally self-insert genres) because, save for tabletop RPGs, none of them features actual choices made by the audience. There's a set of pre-existent choices open for you (or in POV porn, there's not even a choice), that gives you an illusion of choice, but that still isn't your character: you're just following it. Rather than a puppeteer, you're just being led by the puppet and giving it a push now and then. How is that so different from anime characters?
Again I don't play those kinds of games or watch POV porn actually so I can't have an opinion on it and anything I say on the matter would be worthless at best. I can't compare anime characters to something I know nothing about so its better to discuss that with @Manaban once he decides to come back to the thread since he made the point and I trust his knowledge is better than mine on it
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Deknijff said:
I don't do that. I don't assume any character is a self insert from the start regardless of what kind of show. This the problem Im talking about. Its assuming something and then sticking with that regardless of the facts down the road
Yes, assuming a character is a self-insert without even watching the show is wrong, sure, but there's nothing wrong with doing after the show. However, yours and Manaban's like of thinking indicates that there can be no such thing as a self-insert character in genres like harem and isekai when the character has a will of their own, and about that, I can't see any reason to agree.

I'm not saying that ALL harem are definitely self-insert like the OP, or that everyone who watches these shows does do for self-insertion, but it's a fact that some of them are and some of the audience does. Just that.
But you said always defined which would imply a preconception from the start and simply sticking with it

I wouldn't say no such thing exists. But its so rare when actually discussing harem MCs it practically never comes up when we fans talk about what characters we like or dislike
Apr 22, 2019 5:22 PM

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Deknijff said:
and I don't see any conclusion as to why you need to water down a words meaning to fit your needs like here


I'm not "watering" anything down. I don't think you know what figuratively means.

Deknijff said:
Im just saying that what the staff is supposedly doing is unrelated towards what viewers are supposedly doing


...so? What's your point? I don't get it.

Deknijff said:
You're still saying simply because fans can identify things they are familiar with its self inserting which is a giant leap though
I wouldn't say someone saying or thinking it would be cool to be in those shoes is self inserting either. Is simply saying what if. Sure that can happen but its not self insertion as you aren't pretending to be a character as you are watching the show and trying to argue it is despite not being the case is just bending words for no good reason.


So it's just a matter that you're not using the word as people usually do, and still, you keep insisting that YOUR meaning should be the only one there is.
That's why we simply can't agree. You say I'm "bending words", but for me, you're the one doing it. You can't expect to suddenly come up with a definition that's not universally agreed upon and then be shocked that people don't agree with you.

Deknijff said:
But you said always defined which would imply a preconception from the start and simply sticking with it


A word of advice: don't take everything to the letter.
Apr 22, 2019 5:39 PM

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Satyr_icon said:
...so? What's your point? I don't get it.
I don't know how better explain it to you I'm sorry
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Deknijff said:
You're still saying simply because fans can identify things they are familiar with its self inserting which is a giant leap though
I wouldn't say someone saying or thinking it would be cool to be in those shoes is self inserting either. Is simply saying what if. Sure that can happen but its not self insertion as you aren't pretending to be a character as you are watching the show and trying to argue it is despite not being the case is just bending words for no good reason.
So it's just a matter that you're not using the word as people usually do, and still, you keep insisting that YOUR meaning should be the only one there is.
That's why we simply can't agree. You say I'm "bending words", but for me, you're the one doing it. You can't expect to suddenly come up with a definition that's not universally agreed upon and then be shocked that people don't agree with you.
But you already admitted that the meaning that me and @Manaban used was correct
Satyr_icon said:
It's not that your meaning is wrong, of course, but if you're gonna ignore the way other people use it, there's no way we can ever talk on the same wavelength.
So Im not bending the word. You even admitted your use of the word is simply figurative
Satyr_icon said:
You're taking the term literally when it is meant to be taken figuratively.
Which takes on something else less factual to what actually happens and is broad enough in this context to mean anything can fall under it which makes the word meaningless in terms of our discussion
Apr 22, 2019 5:55 PM

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I dislike harem too but I have decide to watch Monogatari anyway.I watched it for its animation,then I fell in love with Nadeko and Oikura.They don't love the MC:Nadeko stopped feeling something towards him and Oikura always hated him for not helping her.They acted more like real person unlike other female characters and I love it.
Ps:At the start I also loved Kanbaru and Senjougahara but later they've changed.
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Apr 22, 2019 6:10 PM

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Deknijff said:
But you already admitted that the meaning that me and @Manaban used was correct


I said that your meaning is correct as well as mine, which you seem to have conveniently ignored. Luckily I'm here to remind you.

Deknijff said:
So Im not bending the word. You even admitted your use of the word is simply figurative


And here I am still wondering if you know what figurative means...

Deknijff said:
Which takes on something else less factual to what actually happens and is broad enough in this context to mean anything can fall under it which makes the word meaningless in terms of our discussion


...but after that, I guess I have my answer.

sigh, let me try giving an example. If someone says: "I'm dying of hunger", they can mean either: 1. literally: they are on the brink of starvation; 2. figuratively: they are very hungry. The figurative meaning isn't "less factual" than the literal one, it just has another meaning altogether. And it's not "broad enough", because I'm stating exactly what it means, and if that matters, I already demonstrated that your meaning can be just as broad, in case you also forgot that. It's that simple.

Really, let's just drop that word before this turns even more into a discussion about semantics. That shouldn't even have been the focus here.
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I like the cut of your jib, OP. I can always appreciate an articulate way to say "fuck harems".

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Harem/Ecchi anime are definitely my guilty pleasure, but I don't watch them to self insert. I have a rule, and that is that I have to watch a normal anime alongside of any harem style anime to offset my lewdness (lol). I'll watch a plot heavy anime on my TV or when I get home from work, but I'll throw on a harem anime before bed on my tablet for one or two episodes of mindless fun.
Apr 24, 2019 11:58 AM
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You should just avoid watching that genre if you can't watch it in the first place. In my case, I turn off my brain when watching that kind of anime. I'm just in it for the art, fan service, and for laughs too.


Gotta agree. Harem series shouldn't be analyzed as some epic, innovative anime. They are there to make you laugh.

Personally, I enjoy these series as a de-stresser, where I don't have to think too hard on the plot and characters.
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Yeah! Harem anime can be great for writing interesting characters and exploring what makes each of them tick. The World God Only Knows and Ouran High School Host Club jump out as a good examples by not only showing interesting and complex characters, but by also having an interesting and unique protagonist. But unfortunately not a lot of harem anime fufill the conditions to go past that kind of basic, self-fulfillment enjoyment.
Apr 24, 2019 12:18 PM

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I like some harem anime for the characters. The same holds true for most romance anime. The comedy can also be a reason why I continue watching a harem or the story in rare cases like with The World God only Knows.
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Where to start...

For starters, who says the only entertainment a person can get from a harem is inserting themselves in the main characters shoes? Perhaps some people do that, but others may find entertainment from the characters, their interactions, the comedy, action, or whatever other subgenre it may be. It also seems like your massively generalising harem anime, and I'm under the impression that you see them all like, say, Infinite Stratos, where the MC is dumb and bland, yet has all the girls going after him, along with a kind of thin plot to loosely push things along, whilst the main point is the harem hijinks. This is not all harems.

Second, people tend to liken light novels to the young adult genre, where demographics are concerned. If that really is the case, then I get why self-inserts would be a big thing with harems (although, I can't say for sure how many are light novel based, rather than manga based, but even then they'd probably have the same young adult demographic). Mary Sues/Gary Stus are popular amongst young adults because they want that easy escapism, and to believe that one day everything could inexplicably just happen to go their way, that they'd be stupidly powerful, and they'd be supremely popular with the girls, or guys, or whatever. Is that sad? I mean, on some level, maybe. But who really cares? Who's it hurting, besides the spirit of good writing?

Third, this seems like an issue of personal taste, and I don't understand the necessity of this topic. We all have types of shows that are our least favourites for various reasons, but we're all (hopefully) aware that just because there are aspects we don't really like from certain genres, that doesn't mean other people don't like those aspects. Just because we may not like a certain genre, that doesn't make them "pointless," and it's ridiculous to even insinuate that.
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Weird you say that, but have a lot of harems rated highly. According to you, most are 7/10(i.e Oran, Yona of the Dawn, fruits basket(2001), Nisekoi, Clannad, and Chobits). In fact, the only harem we share that you rated poorly was The Familiar of Zero with a 4/10. The rest, Rosario and SAO a 5/10.

Do you not consider those shows harems?
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Self inserting? Isn't that what is usually done in very intimate moments?
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Apr 24, 2019 3:48 PM
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From my experience, I've never heard anyone say they enjoy harem stuff because they self-insert into the MC. Well self-inserting is really impossible in anime/manga/LN as every character is given their own personality(whether they are interesting or likable or vice versa is irrelevant, they are personalities regardless) and no blank slates exist(unless you count One Room). The closest thing would be relating to or identifying with the main character, which is its own separate thing altogether.

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I watch them when I want a series to just laugh at and enjoy art/fanservice instead of something more serious like action. I actually like the genre a lot
Apr 24, 2019 10:35 PM

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Wtf would project themselves into a digital world consist of pixel lmao fuckin loser get a life lol they aren't real
Apr 25, 2019 1:16 AM

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Even Evangelion is a self insert harem anime under the right lens. :)
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Apr 25, 2019 6:01 AM

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Harem could be interesting if the MC wouldnt always be asexual and the girls appear to be brainwashed.

The harem of the one dude in Gundam Iron blooded orphans worked pretty well. Granted he was not a MC.
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Apr 25, 2019 8:56 AM

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You're not wrong, OP.

Most harem seem to be tailor-made for just this purpose. It's the reason that harem MC's can usually be summed up as 'nice' and 'dumb'. Having few distinct characteristics and a complete lack of anything that would make them stand out from the crowd makes them easier for self-insert purposes, even if it both makes them a a more boring character and also begs the question of how someone this boring and unimpressive manages to have 3+ women fighting over him.

The only harem I can think of that actually had a somewhat interesting MC and a purpose beyond wank-fodder are Bakemonogatari and Ouran High School Host Club. I'm somewhat hesitant in recommending Bakemonogatari, since it has a bit of sexualization of children, but the uniqueness of the visual and concept and the strength of the characterization make it a hell of a lot more interesting than most harem. Ouran being a shoujo and reverse harem, the emphasis is less on fan-service then on comedy. And not 'isn't watching a guy trip and accidentally touch boobs for the fifteen millionth time hilarious?' comedy. Actual comedy.
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