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Apr 23, 2019 11:57 AM

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So people want the population of the world to decline but I can only assume its on the condition sex continues (the main process of reproduction) cause there is constantly interests in the idea of more virgins in younger generations. They seem more against the idea. Interesting, I wonder how abortion and higher-ed fits in this too..

LoneWolf said:
incisorr said:
blame girls for being so hard to get

unlucky

Sad to say, but sometimes virtual waifus and shit feel more real than the real thing.
People in love with love, their own expectations and societal ideals--who aren't suited for (ready to handle) long-intimate relationships with another being anyways imo.
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Apr 23, 2019 12:27 PM

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Aside from wanting children, I hate those things, I can fully relate with the bloke in the video. When it comes to sex and relationships, I don't understand what all the fuss is about to be honest. There's a plethora of more important and fulfilling things in life that I can devote my time and energy towards. I'm not asexual, just... apathetic.
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Apr 23, 2019 12:32 PM

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LoneWolf said:
incisorr said:
blame girls for being so hard to get

unlucky


I know you're mostly trolling, but dude its the tinder age, casual sex is easier to get now more than ever. Not to mention escorts and other services.

Tbh sounds like they just have better alternatives... real talk is sex is all they wanted they would use a service... there are plenty in Japan. They want something more... they want something real. Sad to say, but sometimes virtual waifus and shit feel more real than the real thing.


imagine thinking tinder is the same everywhere

i can't get anyone on tinder, in fact i doubt theres even 10 girls in my town using tinder actively or at least the same time as i am
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Apr 23, 2019 12:41 PM
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@NthDegree It is not my opinion or baseless thoughts, it is just what is happening to society. If this doesn't satisfy you, well, I just failed to prove my point them.



@deg As I already said, society as a whole decided to walk this path (feminism, gender equality), and yes times have changed and people are adapting to it.
Apr 23, 2019 12:44 PM

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Silverstorm said:
So people want the population of the world to decline but I can only assume its on the condition sex continues (the main process of reproduction) cause there is constantly interests in the idea of more virgins in younger generations. They seem more against the idea. Interesting, I wonder how abortion and higher-ed fits in this too..

LoneWolf said:

Sad to say, but sometimes virtual waifus and shit feel more real than the real thing.
People in love with love, their own expectations and societal ideals--who aren't suited for (ready to handle) long-intimate relationships with another being anyways imo.


Oddly enough I agree, I don't even think most ppl in relationships really have realistic expectations considering the amount of cheating and arguing and general dissatisfaction I see in most relationships... at least from ppl my age.

I think media is heavily to blame for giving us unrealistic expectations of what "love" is supposed to be. Also for the idea that a relationship should be so desirable. I've gotten a lot more materialistic and spiritual and definitely in terms of how long they last out of friendships.

@incisorr

If you're that serious about getting laid move to a large metropolitan city... or you know just visit for a weekend or something. I'm not gonna pretend like women are not the gatekeepers of sex, but if you're not even trying than you're the one to blame.

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Apr 23, 2019 1:19 PM

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I actually relate with the guy on the video a lot. I've never really understood the significance of having a relationship. I had people who were close to me enough that it'd make sense if I started having feelings for them but I never did. I can't help but feel like it's too much of a hassle and requires too much emotional investment which just looks tiresome. I'm content having friends honestly. Am I the odd one out lol?
Apr 23, 2019 1:20 PM

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Hey-no sex-no children. No wonder the population of japan is decreasing so rapidly.
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Apr 23, 2019 1:33 PM

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I feel quite sympathetic to this sort of growing trend. I do have interest in girls but my preferences simply narrow it down quite a bit. I've only ever been interested in 3 people- one of whom I asked out and was rejected - and the other 2 I simply didn't ask out due to purely practical reasons (living in another city for example and no long distance relationships don't always work). It's this sort of lack of practicality that probably leads people (guys and girls) to not find partners since the fast-paced world doesn't grant enough time for a lot of people. It sort of demotivates me in trying to find a partner especially since I prioritize work and friends exactly the same way the guy in the video does. I never feel desperate though since I get fulfillment from such activities.
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