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Oct 7, 2018 5:03 AM

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Oh God this is blatantly M-2-M! BLERGH! revolting...
Damn! this is on the same level as Boku no Pico!
5/5.
 
Oct 7, 2018 5:23 AM

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Bit rapey but I love Saijou's VA, sticking around purely for him.
ED dancing is always nice.

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I watched the first episode to make this as my first shounen-ai/yaoi anime, but it gave me a bad impression. Horrible characters.


Definitely a bad choice for first, tho honestly I can't think of any full consent anime apart from the Kono Danshi series.
 
Oct 7, 2018 5:32 AM

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It was less than decent, psycho fan getting after his idol.
 
Oct 7, 2018 7:53 AM

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Oh, oh. This was so awkward and a bit fast-paced. Well, I didn't expect much from this anyway so it's still watchable. I hope there won't be too much cliche scenes though.

 
Oct 7, 2018 8:35 AM

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Is this how 12 year old girls think gay relationships/sex works? :/


This is exactly what I thought. I just...I can't.

That dude didn't even say "yes". Apparently borderline rape is okay when it comes to BL, who knows why that's a thing.
Will try watching episode 2 just for the hell of it, but so far it wasn't particularly good...or new in terms of BL (yaoi, specifically) for that matter...
 
Oct 7, 2018 10:33 AM
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Thank god I have yaoi this season, I missed it!
 
Oct 7, 2018 11:02 AM
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Instead of Number One Man I Want to Hug, it really should be Number One Sexiest Man. But go off CR.

It really sucks that this is the kind of BL that is popular with women when there are actually good BL manga out there that deserve an adaption. Though this anime is already better than the manga.
 
Oct 7, 2018 2:51 PM

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Why shounen-ai/yaoi anime always have stupid starts like this? And why rape/non-consensual stuff? Ugh. I'm always happy for more representation, but WHY DOES IT ALWAYS HAVE TO BE LIKE THIS. Can't we have a healthy relationship? More Doukyuusei and less Junjou Romantica, pelase.

Anyway... I'm gonna keep watching and... yeah. The usual. Try to ignore how unreal and rapey it is... Or something. Ugh.

Both male leads are cute (the uke-san, whats his name? Is the best). The seme-san is scary as fuck. PLEASE JUST WRITE NORMAL GAY PEOPLE WHAT THE ACTUALASDMIUEHGPWAokdsaflkasd

Anyway the actor stuff could be kind of cool. Idk... I'm super disappointed. Expected it to be less rapey and stuff, but I guess they never learn. Can't we get like, a Here U Are manhua adaptation? Pretty please?
 
Oct 7, 2018 7:25 PM
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Kanda rapey, but otaku beggers can't be choosers
 
Oct 8, 2018 2:41 AM

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tbh this was to rushed beggining. feels like they started and finnished anime in 1 episode. they could have added more teasing or any other char development before just trowing them in a bed.
ppl say ´´didnt expect anything else from shounen ai anime´´ but lots of shonen ai animes have good plot or at least good character development like for example hajitorime my hero. maybe laterwill be better but 1st episode was just plain and boring.
 
Oct 8, 2018 5:54 AM

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jTiKey said:
THIS IS AN ANIME ONLY DISCUSSION POST. DO NOT DISCUSS THE MANGA BEYOND THIS EPISODE.
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Is this how 12 year old girls think gay relationships/sex works? :/


This genre is not nor it was ever meant to be a realistic portrayal of gay males and their relationships. It is a type of romantic fantasy that caters to a rather specific demographic. As such, it has its share of quirks, oddities and weird fetishes. Of course, that may not be your cup of tea and you don't have to like it, but you don't have to hate it either just because you misunderstand its purpose and intent.

Btw, even though twelve year olds can be annoying, don't be too hard on them - it's the adults that are publishing the manga in question and producing its anime adaptations. ;)
 
Oct 8, 2018 9:14 AM

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Omg I love first episodeπŸ’œ Can't wait for a second oneπŸ’œ I read manga a long time ago but I think they had s*x in the begining after their drinking party. Or it wasn't like that? Not sure, but still love itπŸ’œ And now I'm just waiting for this and Ten Count to be aired.
 
Oct 8, 2018 4:05 PM
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stardew said:
IDK how this got a adaption(instead of a manga like Honto Yajuu) lol but i enjoyed the episode i guess
Omggggg exactly!!!! I was thinking the same
 
Oct 8, 2018 4:06 PM
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I liked the music and the animation was nice but the romantic progression was. I mean I've read the manga so it gets better. But the start of the relationship is just so unrealistic.
 
Oct 9, 2018 2:16 AM

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I want to love it because we don't have so many yaoi (even less if sex involve) but this felt wrong even if i like the uke.
 
Oct 9, 2018 9:11 AM

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wow, shounenai status has changed ALOT since I first began watching it. I would definitely consider this yaoi. 3 kisses in the first episode??? and sex??? Wow. I wasn't okay with the very rapey beginning but the last scene between them was sweet. Consent is sexy!

Looking forward to the rest of the series!
 
Oct 9, 2018 11:10 AM

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As expected, may the smut rest in peace lol at least they 'fixed' the rape
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Oct 9, 2018 2:15 PM

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For a first episode, it was meh but I'm gonna stick with it since its yaoi to see how it goes. I'm really glad they cut out that first rape scene from the manga tho
 
Oct 9, 2018 2:16 PM

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To be honest they adapted this better than the manga because im pretty sure (if im not confusing this with a different one),when they go to the bathroom it actually escalates into a rape-ish scene and thats when they first have sex.

i like how they changed it and the animation/style is pretty nice too.
And its so rare for BL/yaoi in 2018 to be a full series with full episodes,thats really good too


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Oct 11, 2018 3:58 AM

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Did they really just change a wild rape scene into a simple kiss? Are you kidding me? I mean that was the start of their whole relationship you can't just... change that???

They didn't have to show the whole scene but it literally didn't happen at all. They even say that it was only a kiss, they didn't even bang at all!!!!

I've never been so disappointed in ma laif!! If I don't get to hear at least some moaning what's the point of watching the anime instead of reading the manga Q_Q
 
Oct 12, 2018 3:22 AM

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I was curious about it since I saw a YouTuber review it. I haven't watched yaoi in a while although there some elements of shounen-ai in Banana Fish which I'm still watching.

I'm surprised they fucked on the first episode. I might continue to watch it just to add a yaoi series, a more recent one, to my list since I've seen a couple of yuris too.

I'm guessing their sex scenes will all be just implied with some slight sexy scenes to keep it safe for TV.
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Oct 12, 2018 12:40 PM

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It's definitely cute and funny. I'm curious if they keep it more shounen ai than yaoi.
 
Oct 12, 2018 7:36 PM

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meh........................... but i guess i'll watch another ep to see how it goes
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Oct 13, 2018 1:14 PM

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*sigh* i can't believe i fell for this Citrus mess again. nothing about this appeals to me but even if it was somehow cool or fun, WHY does it always have to be "oh yeah I was almost raped by someone of the same sex.......now I think I'm no longer straight I guess" with this type of show. this was pathetic and I'm not interested
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Oct 13, 2018 7:04 PM

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lmao this is the typical BL crap with the forced sex scenes but

yeah im kinda trash so i'll be watching more. the art style is to my liking.

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It's definitely cute and funny. I'm curious if they keep it more shounen ai than yaoi.
they pretty much cut out any explicit scenes the manga had.. so yeah, it'll be shounen-ai ish

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Is this how 12 year old girls think gay relationships/sex works? :/
you know, the sad thing is i've met some fujoshi on the internet that defend this kind of romance and say that the uke/bottom is asking for it and enjoys it despite saying no...

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Oct 15, 2018 11:27 AM
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Disgusting. Why does it have to be rape in these same-sex relationships in anime. Citrus had it and it was horrible. Now this. Doubt I will stick around although I am curious about how they will adapt the manga because it os straight up porn.


It wasn't rape though. The MANGA had a rape scene. The Anime thankfully didn't adapt it. But that's the purpose of these BL manga. To be straight up porn. There's softcore BL but they aren't as popular fpr obvious reasons and don't make as much money.

BL is a subgenre of Hentai. This shouldn't be surprising at all.
 
Oct 15, 2018 11:29 AM
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Kiibean said:
I absolutely regret not reading the summary of this thing...I really thought the shounen ai scene would've learned from its mistakes, apparently not. Oh well, my fault, I've seen enough of these types of manga and shows and how they usually end up being creepy, but still disappointing considering manga like Yuki no Shita no Qualia/Ichi Ni no San!/Ganbare! Nakamura-kun!! were so good with their portrayals of gay characters...

Well, what an absolute shitshow, time to cleanse myself with realistic portrayals of being gay in Japan ft Shimanami Tasogare/ This should've gotten an anime over Dakaretai Otoko or whatever the fuck it's called/


Boys Love isn't mean to show positive portrayals of same sex relationships. It's porn. Sex sells. Manga that show healthy gay relationships aren't as popular hencd why they don't get Anime adaptations. Blame horny fujoshi flr hAving shit taste lol But also blame yourself for having high expectations for a genre mainly reserved for porn. If you want good BL to get Anime adaptations, spread the word about them so more people will take interest instead of complaining about the lack of positive representation in drawn pornography.
 
Oct 15, 2018 11:35 AM

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first episode and they already fucked, marvelous

everything seems kinda dull but their character design make me low-key think of makoharu
welp, gotta read the manga and add it to the brainless BL trash folder
 
Oct 15, 2018 11:37 AM
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jTiKey said:
THIS IS AN ANIME ONLY DISCUSSION POST. DO NOT DISCUSS THE MANGA BEYOND THIS EPISODE.
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Is this how 12 year old girls think gay relationships/sex works? :/


This genre is not nor it was ever meant to be a realistic portrayal of gay males and their relationships. It is a type of romantic fantasy that caters to a rather specific demographic. As such, it has its share of quirks, oddities and weird fetishes. Of course, that may not be your cup of tea and you don't have to like it, but you don't have to hate it either just because you misunderstand its purpose and intent.

Btw, even though twelve year olds can be annoying, don't be too hard on them - it's the adults that are publishing the manga in question and producing its anime adaptations. ;)


Finally someone with common sense. Why watch a Boys Love anime and expect anything else? Some of these people have been in the Anime scene to know that this specific stucf turns a profit more than the soft and subtle BL. " Its not positive representation " It's not meant to be. Why would you look to porn for positive rep? I dont even like this Anime but these complaints over the obvious are so annoying.
 
Oct 15, 2018 11:38 AM
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Pacing fo r the show was weird. Episode was bad. The boys are ugly ( Seme straight up looks like an ugly version of Makoto from free ) But this was fun to laugh at. I watchedboth the first and second episode with a friend and we had a blast making fun of this.

So bad its good because it doesn't make sense and everything feels unearned. Will continue to watch it for laughs though.

Props to the Anime though for removing the straight up rape scene that was in the Manga.
 
Oct 17, 2018 9:02 PM

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Well, that certainly happened fast. I've never read the Manga, as I don't read stuff with explicit sex, but things are definitely toned down here, so I can tolerate it. The blonde one is a hottie.

I wonder what's going to happen next?

 
Oct 18, 2018 1:39 AM
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I couldn't help but laugh at the sex scenes, the black hair guy's personality changed in a split second.

I don't know why it's always the porn without plot that gets adapted into a trashy show with bad script-writers, there are so many good shounen ai manga out there yet the only one that got adapted is Doukyuusei. This is just giving BL an even worse reputation than before.
 
Oct 18, 2018 1:41 AM
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This is what happens when I expect anything from a BL anime, isn't it? Can't we get a yaoi series that isn't rapey for once? Hell the worst part is it's not even porn, if you're gonna adapt a rapey yaoi douijin the least you could do is adapt the sex scenes you cowards!
 
Oct 18, 2018 3:07 PM

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Ugh, like half of this is kinda charming but the other half is your standard issue garden variety rapey BL garbage. The MC is the only reason I could even finish the episode.
 
Oct 20, 2018 7:48 AM

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I picked it up because of MAL's post on Facebook, without reading the synopsis, and without any expectations and it still let me down.
I'm an old BL fan, but all those borderline rape plotlines just don't stand with me.
Why do they have to make it so intense? Consent is sexy, this bullcrap is totally not. I literally cringed at the first scene and laughed at the second, because it was so ridiculous.
Sorry, I'm just so upset at this. So many beautiful BL mangas, and this is what they pick for an anime?
 
Nov 5, 2018 2:07 AM

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The animation is truly amazing, love it so. Takato is especially interesting with his viewpoints and so is Junta in terms of coming across as an angel but having a strong cunning streak. Master meets master really, they have excellent dynamics.

Did write a review for some context for this episode and the series in general, yaoi series have always done whatever the heck they wanted, never mind what anyone else says. Also, like I say love both people, they are precious.
 
Nov 5, 2018 3:51 PM
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It's an ok anime, I didn't really like the 1st ep but I think the later ones are better... still cliche though
 
Nov 6, 2018 3:37 AM

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It's an ok anime, I didn't really like the 1st ep but I think the later ones are better... still cliche though


I guess it's good that it fully embraces what it sets out to do, not sure it's a case of being a cliche, rather a I'm making the anime this way never mind what the prudes say kind of thing.

It's a good advancement in that it has realistic bodies for people, and certainly agree the later episodes are better, and it was great to begin with!
 
Nov 9, 2018 8:40 PM
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Damn I was laughing so hard. They changed it so much to take out as much non/con as possible. And though I listened to the CD Drama, it was cringe as possible to sit through the dialogue. I’m watching this for the trash ride it is, best comedy of the season.


Lmao couldn’t have said it better myself. Definitely watching this for the lols.


Agreed. I laughed the whole way through.
 
Nov 11, 2018 9:20 AM
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Damn didn't expect mafumafu to do the op song.
 
Nov 18, 2018 9:05 PM
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Confused. It won't let me watch... But i watched it on my sister's laptop it was good.
 
Nov 24, 2018 5:37 PM
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WTF? This is an outright rape. Forced yes is not a yes and not many people in real life would respond to it the way MC did.

Junta is an insensitive rapist who does not give a shit about Takato. That's an unhealthy obsession and outright creepy. He should be locked up.

This series is giving wrong message and trying to normalize rape. Just no. Worst part is how many viewers actually see it as normal and romanticize it. What is wrong with you? You are only encouraging real rapists out there who don't take no for an answer and force themselves on you until you give in out of fright.
 
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Kanda rapey, but otaku beggers can't be choosers
Kinda rapet? I remember this manga now which I only read the first chapter of a few years ago. Black haired actor totally got raped in that bathroom and he treated it as such saying he didn't want to be raped. Seme does so anyways so black haired actor tells him to delete that video after the deed is done only for the creep to tell him he loves him and wants to do it over properly in the bed. He apologizes for being "a little violent" but not sorry at all he just raped him. At that point I dropped the manga but long forgot it. Needless to say, I will be dropping this too. The only 3 shows I've dropped on MAL have been this kind of awful yaoi. The other was Super Lovers season 1 and 2 that involved a 24 tear old man grooming a 13 year old. No thanks.

Things like this is why I will forever hate TV Tropes for removing the tropes like "Victim Falls For Rapist" when you know 11 year olds are reading and watching this crap.
 
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Scary rape episode just like everyone else says. How come it has such a high score? I guess I will drop this, but I am guessing that perhaps something happens further along the story to sort of "redeem" the show or keep people hooked? Does anyone know?
 
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Kawaritai said:
Scary rape episode just like everyone else says. How come it has such a high score? I guess I will drop this, but I am guessing that perhaps something happens further along the story to sort of "redeem" the show or keep people hooked? Does anyone know?


The target demographic is people who enjoy seme/uke stuff or like stuff that's more "trashy", it's sort of a fetish? It's not appealing to LGBTQ crowds or anything so if that's why you're watching you should drop it.

If you're like me and enjoy to laugh at weird things, I'd say continue it, but otherwise, this anime isn't really for you.


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Kawaritai said:
Scary rape episode just like everyone else says. How come it has such a high score? I guess I will drop this, but I am guessing that perhaps something happens further along the story to sort of "redeem" the show or keep people hooked? Does anyone know?


The target demographic is people who enjoy seme/uke stuff or like stuff that's more "trashy", it's sort of a fetish? It's not appealing to LGBTQ crowds or anything so if that's why you're watching you should drop it.

If you're like me and enjoy to laugh at weird things, I'd say continue it, but otherwise, this anime isn't really for you.


Oh okay, I understand. Thanks for the info! I guess the genre tags here on MAL sometimes aren't very specific ^^ Or rather, they're general.
 
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Fujoshit with gay shit anime = fuck
 
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Another one of those story. I was expecting something different. Can't we have an anime/manga that depicts a homosexual relationship accurately?? Not everything is about sex, y'know.

Btw, I skimmed through the manga of this anime. It's even worse. The blond raped the mc in the very first chapter. Yet, the mc still fell for him. Wtf.

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IDK how this got a adaption(instead of a manga like Honto Yajuu) lol but i enjoyed the episode i guess
i can't agree more. Honto Yajuu is one of the better yaoi mangas and no studio bothered to adapt it.

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I watched the first episode to make this as my first shounen-ai/yaoi anime, but it gave me a bad impression. Horrible characters.

Oh you've made the wrong wrong choice man. There's only one decent yaoi anime that I've seen out of dozens that I forced myself to watch and that's "Love Stage" (the manga is better though)

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Another season, another shitty BL got adapted.


I mean. It's not as if there is a large pool of quality BL stories to adapt either. I'd be more shocked if they did.


there're more good yaoi mangas than yaoi animes. they just picked the wrong ones to adapt. i can name at least ten good yaoi mangas off of the top of my head (manhwa included)
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The writing is bad even for a BL mamga.
The seme is straightforward terrifying, a real sociopath.
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