Crusader_8 said:Can someone tell me what the hell it means to "cultivate masculinity"?
Well, Iunno, to me at least, the concept of masculinity in general is really just trying to develop and nurture traits that I see as "good." It's like an ideal vision of myself, so to speak, that I strive to achieve and live up to consistently, at which point I'd be comfortable considering myself a "man." So I associate it with elements like balancing out idealism and pragmatism when trying to achieve my goals, being reliable and hard-working, the ability to cope and deal with situations that are stressful and grit my teeth through it, and an ability to dig my feet into the ground and stand firm without being stubborn about it. Stuff like that, the type of person I want to be like.
So I think cultivating masculinity is basically just trying to develop and achieve that ideal vision, in a way. Fiction can communicate these ideals with its audience through its characters and narratives, and I think this thread is pretty much just asking for something along those lines. Something that can try to communicate values that can be reach the viewer enough to achieve this kind of self-vision, help develop their understanding of these values they're considering important or potentially communicating values that can be deemed admirable as a result of as much.
I do kind of think that masculinity tends to function as a relative concept, though. Different values and different traits that are deemed to be good and desirable are the concept of masculinity that somebody is adhering to. It could be aesthetic stuff like strength and power, it could be the psychological mechanisms involved in how they approach and deal with situations put before them, so on and so forth. I do kind of think that at heart it serves as a kind of ideal to try to live up to, though, and little more.
It's why I recommended Kaiji in this thread - it's the anime that probably displays the traits that I associate the most heavily with genuine masculinity in its protagonist, not really through its gar elements as much as how it portrays the MC's situational coping. Cairne Bloodhoof from the Warcraft series is another fictional character that I really admire for what I perceive to be a sense of masculinity, with a sense of "strength and firmness when needed, but not when it is unnecessary" type of deal, going in a bit of a different direction for traits I consider to be the most masculine in Kaiji, I guess. |