Lecoir said: Lolsebca said: At the contrary, I believe things like hypoglycemia (if it doesn't cause hurt to people, such as in fiction for comedy or else) are cute or funny. Wait, WTF. Do you even know what hypoglycemia is? It's a life-threatening blood value that can lead to coma, or even death if not taken cared of. I have diabetes 1 myself, so how the fuck is it cute or funny to be unconscious and all the other shitty symptoms attached to it? I think they meant they could laugh at dark jokes about things like it, despite not finding it funny in serious situations, but fuck man, that sucks. Lolsebca said: Well I indeed thought of it for a few weeks before going ahead and posting here, because back then I would care about what would be the reactions but I'm happy to see you weren't all just judgemental. I'm going to answer while quoting people but it's just because it's easier. @Heartcollar That may be true, that is the reality side of it. My psychology about this subject is certainly predatorish, because I'm not confronted with a lot of people everyday, but I would entirely trust you that someone with cancer would just pity me for saying such thing about that person... Let's say it feels awesome to me because it instantly gives depht, identity, weakness to a fictitious character, and the smallest default is enough to keep an idealization about someone while knowing the truth, that they hurt. I should probably say it again, sorry for all of you who manifested having such troubles, it wasn't really responsible of me but this discussion was for me to be had with others... @thegreatnathyboy It's been a while, hope you're doing fine, it is true I feel if it is severe... But I also find it even better the stronger it is part of one's psychology... Like, meltingly cute. I do think that in real life, it should be avoided getting along too deeply in relationship if it is severe, and I would never exploit someone, I believe so (as of now ?)... @Spades I think I'd be even more fond of a character if their disorder was displayed with severe consequences, perhaps I am just mean but I also tend to like dramatic development, or tragedy ending with confrontation between reality and one's expectations, or even worse. That is just to say, how it develops is a part of my interest. @traed That is true of any social science, and even philosophy is totally snapped on no real basis, and that's what makes it useful, because you can adapt any subject of abstraction to make your own reasoning, even in total loneliness. This may also be related to 'nurturing' or 'empathy' as was discussed in this thread. @GwaziMagnum Quirks also are the cutest thing in universe. While I did include asperger, real autism if it is so strong as to be impossible to speak with someone, I would avoid such person. This is incredibly mean from my side right ? Sorry so much... To be fair while I'm kind of influenced to think like this of real people, it was firstly about characters. No, it's not entirely about one person's condition that makes it cute, it has also to do with the fact that it is in my philosophy to be altruistic or holistic or at least optimistic, that is to say : I want to consider every single person like, with dignity of no other peak in this world. It may be empathy too... @mascarpone Surprisingly, that is one of the thing I fell in love with, massive depression is awesome. But that may be because of an association with a song that I truly loved, with such sadness and emotion in the voice... There's the 'broken girl' kind of archetype also... @O24 True enough, I seem to only think of girls cute with such syndroms or similar conditions. @Swagernator A mental disorder would be all that makes one person's identity suddenly or drastically different from other people around them. Or even how they defend themselves from sudden changes, like traumas. Or it could be chronical, like a girl in eternal despair. The first paragraph makes it seem like it isn't, but "Massive depression is awesome" sings bait. Lolsebca said: cleokei said: Mental illnesses, IMO, are hell, not cute at all. To me that's akin to saying diabetes or asthma is cute, which it isn't. At the contrary, I believe things like hypoglycemia (if it doesn't cause hurt to people, such as in fiction for comedy or else) are cute or funny. This one sentence also makes me think this entire thread is bait, not because you find jokes about hypoglycemia funny (my humour has tendencies to be just as shit), but because you keep referring to these things as cute. I suppose my suspicion comes from me not relating or understanding to your way of seeing things, despite having read through all of the replies. |
| Yeah bruh, anorexia is soo adorable |
| "No, son, you may not have your body pillow at the dinner table!" |
| Yes, but not as cute as the guy who made this thread. |
| Uhm. No. I've suffered (and still do) from some and they're certainly not pretty nor cute - and they can change some aspects of your life for worse. |
| No no no no no and even more no. As someone with some mental illnesses myself I can easily say that I would give them up at any given moment if I could, they make my life terrible and way harder than it needs to be. Nothing about mental illnesses are cute, people have them, but nobody truly wants them. They are not something quirky and cute. It's fine to accept someone with mental illnesses, but if you think it's cute for someone to have it, they will probably never fully recover, people need to stop romanticizing mental illnesses. |
| as someone who interned in a facility for severely psychotic adults, I can confidently say that mental disorders are among the least attractive traits I could ever think of. It's certainly not cute. It's very sad. Neither do I think that mental disorders should be encouraged by trying to view them in a positive light. There is nothing positive about them, the same way that there's nothing positive about cancer. |
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| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
| no how can they be cute? i mean i cant see how autism can be cute |
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ItzYaBoiSatan said: no how can they be cute? i mean i cant see how autism can be cute Have you seen Sakurasou no Pet na Kanojo ? |
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Lolsebca said: ItzYaBoiSatan said: no how can they be cute? i mean i cant see how autism can be cute Have you seen Sakurasou no Pet na Kanojo ? not yet im going to watch...i saw few mins of it on youtube and the girl is sometimes annoying sometimes cute...the thing is its anime so they made it to look cute but i met people in real life with autism that just made me want to punch them into face |
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| well, it's not fun to be one of them, i can say by myself...., as one with Asperger and light OCD... it does have some benefits, i i studied how to utilized them and hide the disadvantages, and i gain success so much a people can't see it on myself..., but it was from hard work... and most of the people like my just suffer..., and i do have a lot of problems, and not much friends, although in my job i got the strongest position within less than half year. anyway, life aren't easy, i don't like when i go back from my way to work just to check if i turned the heater off, or that i locked the door etc, or that i can't make an eye contact, so no, it's not cute, and lot's of people like me going through hell, even bey myself as a teen for few years i had no friends at all, but i will admit that i find people with "mental disorder" as much more interesting people, as they think different, and it's nice to find someone that won't judge you. |
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| this is what i call romanticizing mental illness, i hate this because there is nothing pretty/cute about having a disorder. some people don't even have a proper control of their lives or actions due to their mental health. |
| No. Disorders are not a good thing. By definition it means something is wrong. I dated someone with a cluster-b personality and a lot of diagnosed mental problems from trauma. would not do it again. |
| Does this fit into the attracted to disabled people category? I do not dig this stuff. |
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| That's not cute but also this is not a reason to hate someone or avoid someone , alot of people with mental disorders sometimes just need a help or to talk I don't know maybe I am wrong ? Well I have something which idk I can say as mental disorder ( the least serious disorder which doesn't make any problems in living among the people ) with Aphantasia that's also succs when people say "Just imagine this , this , this car which I am talking to you " and answering that I can't do that just make on them a weird reactions. |
| No. Dealing with them for one thing can be personal hell for some people and I'm saying this as someone whose pretty passive about my own depression and anxiety. Not only that but having a partner with those mental hangups can really ruin a relationship if they're not dealt with or could just be a road block in your stability. Like I'm not judging you op. I think the reason in fiction they can be quote on quote "cute" and give the character personality in some respect. I guess I see those things making characters more grounded and more developed. But sometimes those metal illnesses being slapped on to a cute girl without rhyme or reason can be a little bs just to make them "obsessive" or "crazy" for people with those fetishes. It's a bit cheap lets be real. |
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| Oh yeah, things like schizophrenia and bi-polar are real cute OP. yomachi said: Got 'em. And I mean that sincerely. I don't think any of you guys here are cute... |
| No, definitely not cute. It would be much better if mental disorders did not exist, they tend to be harmful to those who have them and make their lives difficult. |
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| Almost certainly no. Personality quirks and unique traits that are somewhat out of the ordinary but completely harmless might be cute, sure However disorders are a no. |
| I'm not a lolicon, you're just projecting your tendency to lewd 2D characters. If your favourite character is Tsutsukakushi Tsukiko, you are my soul mate. Been a long time since I've been here, I'll continue expressing myself freely and believe everyone should too. My MAL Interview |
| I find Yandere characters somehow special and alluring but that's because I like when people in anime kill each other. There's no fun if no one's dying. But generally speaking, mental disorders in anime or real life aren't interesting at all. They're not cute for sure. |
 I'm watching anime since 2012. I also play games, sometimes. Don't bother me if you want to 'become friends' or things like that. It's tiresome. I know you just want to collect some meaningless numbers. Thought: How many people sparked H. Charlotta just for blue pot? |
| No, but what y'all saying is that it depends on the extent of the condition. Yandere might seem cute until murder is involved, otherwise it's basically stalking. Having mental health or dealing with someone who has mental health is really draining. |
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Ekaen said: hahahaa its not always like that you have alot of autistic ppl that can act 'normal' Have you ever met actual autistic people? those guys are freaks, always screaming,shouting and spitting, and most of them live with their parents until their 30's. You never know if you have to punch them in the face or go away. |
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Tanatloc said: Ekaen said: hahahaa its not always like that you have alot of autistic ppl that can act 'normal' Have you ever met actual autistic people? those guys are freaks, always screaming,shouting and spitting, and most of them live with their parents until their 30's. You never know if you have to punch them in the face or go away. If they act normal, why even call them autistic? |
Ekaen said: Tanatloc said: hahahaa its not always like that you have alot of autistic ppl that can act 'normal' If they act normal, why even call them autistic? Because they still have autism. Just because they don't show symptoms doesn't mean that their disorder is gone. |
I'm watching anime since 2012. I also play games, sometimes. Don't bother me if you want to 'become friends' or things like that. It's tiresome. I know you just want to collect some meaningless numbers. Thought: How many people sparked H. Charlotta just for blue pot? |
Ekaen said: Tanatloc said: hahahaa its not always like that you have alot of autistic ppl that can act 'normal' If they act normal, why even call them autistic? You just named the extreme cases. Autism comes in different forms and it is quite insulting that you think otherwise. A lot of people can function normally with autism. Me being an example. |
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Hakaminah said: Because they still have autism. Just because they don't show symptoms doesn't mean that their disorder is gone. Why is it even a disorder if there are no symptoms? It's like saying you have a tremendous cold while being completely fine... |
Ekaen said: Hakaminah said: Because they still have autism. Just because they don't show symptoms doesn't mean that their disorder is gone. Why is it even a disorder if there are no symptoms? It's like saying you have a tremendous cold while being completely fine... A pedophile that is able to take care of any kids without problems, doesn't watch child porn and doesn't try to interact with kids in sexual manner is still a pedophile because the thoughts are still in his head even though he's not allowing them outside. Many disorders have different types, like there's not just one type of depression. This type can change how much the illness affects a person, how they're showing symptoms of it and how hard it is to cure it. World isn't just black and white. |
I'm watching anime since 2012. I also play games, sometimes. Don't bother me if you want to 'become friends' or things like that. It's tiresome. I know you just want to collect some meaningless numbers. Thought: How many people sparked H. Charlotta just for blue pot? |
Hakaminah said: Ekaen said: Why is it even a disorder if there are no symptoms? It's like saying you have a tremendous cold while being completely fine... A pedophile that is able to take care of any kids without problems, doesn't watch child porn and doesn't try to interact with kids in sexual manner is still a pedophile because the thoughts are still in his head even though he's not allowing them outside. Many disorders have different types, like there's not just one type of depression. This type can change how much the illness affects a person, how they're showing symptoms of it and how hard it is to cure it. World isn't just black and white. Hakaminah said: Ekaen said: Why is it even a disorder if there are no symptoms? It's like saying you have a tremendous cold while being completely fine... A pedophile that is able to take care of any kids without problems, doesn't watch child porn and doesn't try to interact with kids in sexual manner is still a pedophile because the thoughts are still in his head even though he's not allowing them outside. Many disorders have different types, like there's not just one type of depression. This type can change how much the illness affects a person, how they're showing symptoms of it and how hard it is to cure it. World isn't just black and white. Thanks for the detailed explanation. |
Kuromii said: If you're trying to imply I'm some mad SJW or PC enthusiast you might wanna hold that thought because I'm as anti-SJW as they come. I hate seeing mental illnesses romanticised because there is nothing nice or positive about them. You: mental illnesses like anxiety are cute Person with anxiety: no You: omg its one of them ew yeah no mate for one you really just boiled down my statement to something completely inaccurate you don't even seem to understand why (some) people like people with these kind of problems doesn't matter how anti sjw you come that's still a mildly pc trait |
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| Haha yeah wanting to commit suicide sure is cute. |
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Kekophonic said: Kuromii said: If you're trying to imply I'm some mad SJW or PC enthusiast you might wanna hold that thought because I'm as anti-SJW as they come. I hate seeing mental illnesses romanticised because there is nothing nice or positive about them. You: mental illnesses like anxiety are cute Person with anxiety: no You: omg its one of them ew yeah no mate for one you really just boiled down my statement to something completely inaccurate you don't even seem to understand why (some) people like people with these kind of problems doesn't matter how anti sjw you come that's still a mildly pc trait I boiled it down to what you typed. The only information I have about you/your thoughts on this subject is what is written here; I don't know how you rationalise it in your head for obvious reasons. And now I'm curious as to why it took you 9 days to reply lol |
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| I bet you're the type of person that would masturbate to Katawa Shoujo hentai as well, OP! |
| so do you think i'm cute? please marry me |
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Kuromii said: I boiled it down to what you typed. The only information I have about you/your thoughts on this subject is what is written here; I don't know how you rationalise it in your head for obvious reasons. And now I'm curious as to why it took you 9 days to reply lol not really since it's inaccurate but ey i don't come on mal (specifically the forums) that much especially not compared to other "social media" places |
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| No. No they are not. I don't even know how one can even begin to think like this. You obviously haven't met anyone with a serious mental illness... in my opinion, this thread is pretty offensive. I understand liking mental illnesses in fiction, I like them myself but you seem completely detached from reality. |
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