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Apr 1, 2018 2:50 PM
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In life, what do you consider more important? Building relationships with friends and eventually finding love? Or building up a career and being well-off?

Personally, I'm not sure. I want to know what everybody else thinks.
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Apr 1, 2018 2:51 PM
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a career is really important. But if you find good friends, they'll still be with you when you're broke.

so idk.
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Apr 1, 2018 2:54 PM
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with this slow economic growth worldwide then its definitely career

economic insecurity drives people to do suicide and become more lonely because financial problems is one main cause of divorce and family problems
Apr 1, 2018 2:56 PM
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Get a career.
Get a dog.
Love the dog.
Apr 1, 2018 3:00 PM
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I'd say a career, love can't really be sustained if you're not happy/financially secure imo
Apr 1, 2018 3:01 PM
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You are more likely to die from being poor than from not being loved.


Career>Hobbies>Dreams>Friends>Love
Apr 1, 2018 3:03 PM
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Building a career and being well-off
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Apr 1, 2018 3:03 PM
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Being able to sustain yourself and your hobbies is more important.
You are not your body, you are your brain, the "self" that emerges from within it.
Apr 1, 2018 3:39 PM
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I’m not saying that a career is more important than love. All I’m saying is that if ur house gets foreclosed, love is not paying for it
Apr 1, 2018 3:46 PM

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love ofc, Y'all are too boring

i wouldn't wanna live without friends and love, i'm cool with being broke
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Apr 1, 2018 3:51 PM

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Love is more important, now this is a question of balance in order to not ending living in the street
Apr 1, 2018 9:39 PM
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What's More Important - Love or a Career?


Both, I guess? Maybe the more of the former than the latter? I honestly don't know. :/
Apr 1, 2018 10:27 PM

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zamandzoe said:
In life, what do you consider more important? Building relationships with friends and eventually finding love? Or building up a career and being well-off?

Personally, I'm not sure. I want to know what everybody else thinks.


Obviously I would go with love in this case.

You are talking about career instead of money right? As in, you might already be able to sustain yourself but you risk losing your friends and the potential to love someone to become even richer.

If I'm able to financially sustain myself then i wouldn't mind giving up on becoming rich in order to find that one good girl to settle down with.

If it was love vs money on the other hand, I would obviously pick money. Can't survive if you are broke.
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Apr 1, 2018 10:37 PM

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Love doesn't pay rent. Love doesn't pay taxes. Love also doesn't pay off loans.
Career all the way. According the maslow's hierarchy of needs we prioritize physiological and safety needs over love anyways.

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Apr 2, 2018 4:37 AM

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zamandzoe said:
In life, what do you consider more important? Building relationships with friends and eventually finding love? Or building up a career and being well-off?

Personally, I'm not sure. I want to know what everybody else thinks.


Considering the percentage of divorces I would say that love is only temporary. So I would say that career is more important. Love might be required in a family but it most certainly doesn't support it. A career can set up to be financially secure so that you can find love,and maybe raise a family and not be in the poor house.
Apr 2, 2018 4:44 AM

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Career. Love can come later. I prefer prioritizing something I might/will need in the future such as expensive medications, loans, taxes, etc,


Apr 2, 2018 4:50 AM

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A career, its what I've centered my life around and so far I've no ragrets.

Plus love comes and goes. You never know if the person you love will love you in a year or so. At least with a career comes money which can be used to improve your life.
Apr 2, 2018 4:52 AM

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Umm, not sure ideally both but I guess I'd prioritize my career.
Apr 2, 2018 5:38 AM

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I'd definitely go with my career, noone will live you if you're a poor hobo!
Apr 2, 2018 7:15 AM
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Of given choices I would go with career but honestly the most important things imo are health, stable income (which not equals successful career) and self-actualization (this is where you put your dreams and hobbies). If you have good results with these I would consider you a happy person.

Apr 2, 2018 7:59 AM

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Career, to later be able to pursue love in a stable household.
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Apr 2, 2018 8:13 AM

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For me it's my career. There are people way too important on my life that are depending on me and if I want sex I can just buy it with the money that I make out of it.
Apr 2, 2018 9:17 AM
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For me career is more important. One can find love later in their life. Career is difficult to build if you're getting older. But I also think that it is possible to be built them at the same time.
Apr 2, 2018 9:20 AM

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Love/friendship because I'm not a boring conformist salarycuck. I don't care about being poor, I'm used to it at this point and from the perspective of how the poor lived in the past it's actually not that bad, the poor now live better than the rich 200 years ago.
Apr 2, 2018 9:25 AM

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Career is more important. You can live without love but you can't live without money.
Apr 2, 2018 9:34 AM

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At first, when you have to go to Master's/PhD you'd just go to where you're accepted. If you had a relationship you then choose if you want to go long distance or break it up. I don't think it's fair to compromise your future for a relationship that might not work out.

After you have a job by then and you have flexibility on where you wanna go, then relationship takes the mantle. If you don't have flexibility, you can probably find someone in your city. If your city is too small... then you make a decision on what's more important.

Honestly this question depends on what point in your life is at.
Apr 2, 2018 9:43 AM

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We are forever changing it all depends on where you are in life, what you want at that particular time and what you need to do to get there. That also depends on what you mean by love, is this strictly romantic or is this both family and friends. If you throw away your social life and love life for your job you will be alone in the end.
Apr 2, 2018 11:48 AM

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Both are important. But I think career is a little bit much more important than love. Because it's the things that you'll have do in your life for a long period of time. For the record, you can't maintain your love without money. You'll get money by your career. Well, what can I say? That's happened in reality isn't it? Despite of it, love itself should balanced. It hard but at least we try ^^
Apr 2, 2018 1:31 PM

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SlipperySloth said:
Unless I find someone who really feels worth it, I'mma go career. For some reason I have a really hard time connecting with other people on a deeper level than "acquaintance" and as much as I try, sometimes it doesn't feel worth the effort because most other people just suck. I think I can be content alone. But if I miraculously find someone who really feels worth it and like we'll really make each other's lives better by being together, well, I'm not very ambitious anyway, I just wanna be happy, and I will try hard not to let that chance slip by.


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Apr 2, 2018 1:40 PM

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Fuck bitches. Get money. Obvious vote goes to job and money.

Apr 2, 2018 1:42 PM

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Hesi said:
Love doesn't pay rent. Love doesn't pay taxes. Love also doesn't pay off loans.
Career all the way. According the maslow's hierarchy of needs we prioritize physiological and safety needs over love anyways.

fam why base your life on some cunt named maslow
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Apr 2, 2018 9:17 PM

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sekai- said:
Hesi said:
Love doesn't pay rent. Love doesn't pay taxes. Love also doesn't pay off loans.
Career all the way. According the maslow's hierarchy of needs we prioritize physiological and safety needs over love anyways.

fam why base your life on some cunt named maslow

Why make the assumption that I base my life around some guy, I'm just stating a theory that revolves around human motivation and is the path that humans usually follow.

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Apr 2, 2018 11:27 PM

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Career, hands down. Love is tight I guess but it's kinda whatever for me. Better to build your career, you'll probably find friends along the way as well and then if anime still can't fill the void you can try and find love. (I'm assuming you're talking about romantic love and not platonic)

With most arguments like these I find the 'best' answer to be, a balance of both. It's probably not good to go without any love your entire life and also not good to never have a career.



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Apr 2, 2018 11:49 PM

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The success in your career can determine the success in your love relationships.
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Apr 3, 2018 1:00 AM

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I'd say career.

Successful career means money, money means women.

Money is everything as long as you don't show your true color during the process.
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Apr 3, 2018 1:01 AM

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I think whichever makes you happier. If career makes you happiest, then that. If love, then that.

Apr 3, 2018 2:59 AM
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Love will always win over any sort of career goal/choice as far as I’m personally concerned

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