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Nov 28, 2017 4:38 AM

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hell na ....

Women aren't as proactive either
Nov 28, 2017 5:48 AM

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Seeing these amusing stories are the evidence themselves

In my case, I'm either overthinking things or can't respond in a proper way at all
Nov 28, 2017 6:01 AM
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Not at all .. if you press your boobs against me , i'll know you like me .
Nov 28, 2017 6:20 AM

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What if ..... there was somene has a crush on me and i've never noticed?! or there wasn't any ......

How would I know I am dense or not. .....
Maybe I am too dense to realize that I am dense.
Nov 28, 2017 6:26 AM

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pretty sure if a girl likes a guy ... they dont confess or anything... they usually plot on how to make the guy like her back
Nov 28, 2017 6:28 AM

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Dudes asked me out... I had even been pinned to my bed asking if I wanted it.... (He had a girlfriend and I had never been kissed) And said no. I asked out plenty of guys who weren't interested. But other guys asked me mostly for weird sexual favors... *Sigh*

And I married my first boyfriend. But I did have a girlfriend before him....


I was called innocent a lot... But I watched a lot of not so innocent behavior. I think being invited to watch as kink by friends was interesting....

Are they as dense....? I mean, there were a few. And they were really cute to be honest. They were more innocent than me and they would never do naughty things like ask me to watch them fool around for exhibitionist pleasure. There was this one boy(he was 16) that was especially cute that didn't know what we meant when we asked him how big his penis was and he went to go measure it and he measured it soft. XD So cute. Honestly, cutest. Funny thing, he grew up to be a total naughty sex fiend. Furries and all that.

Since Japan is filled with virgins over 20 I guess.... maybe this is more common.
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Nov 28, 2017 6:45 AM
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Yes, they actually very much are. Your average under 18 boy is one thirsty ass motherfucker, no matter how much of a Chad or Hachiman they proclaim they are IRL. That's not really clever.
Nov 28, 2017 8:36 AM

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Now I think think back to when I was at high school, I am definitely as dense as anime character.
It is like Yuuki Rito type of dense by being extra polite with girls even when they are trying to have body contact with me.
Nov 28, 2017 8:48 AM

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its quite the opposite actually...

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Nov 28, 2017 9:15 AM

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Nico- said:
Yes, they actually very much are. Your average under 18 boy is one thirsty ass motherfucker, no matter how much of a Chad or Hachiman they proclaim they are IRL. That's not really clever.


in what dictionary are the definitions of thirsty and dense inherently related? I don't see the connection. Of course teens are horny, but why does that mean they are dense?
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Nov 28, 2017 9:36 AM

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Nov 28, 2017 12:35 PM

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Pullman said:
Fo said:
how a girl's eyes can say a lot more than her words.


That kinda sounds like what a rapist would say. 'Her words were saying no, but her eyes were saying yes, I swear!' :>

I'm just kidding but it does sound like dangerous 'no doesn't have to mean no' territory. I don't think actually trusting the words of another person over whatever you interpret into their eyes should count es being dense. It's the fault of the person not saying what they really think or feel in such a situation.
When I think of "dense" guys there's an immediate situation that comes to mind and it's not at all a point where things are escalated to quite that point.

I'm thinking more day to day interaction and young guns not noticing how her body language is clearly like "omg you're so hot I can't even look at you for more than five seconds without blushing" hand gestures that signal nervousness, touching their hair, what her eyes actually are trying to say even thoughthe conversation could be anything from oh my gosh this snow is annoying to my day's just fine how's yours.

The mystery begins and ends with no, think we can all agree there.
Nov 29, 2017 4:30 AM

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Yeah, every guy is dense. Just like every girl is either a loli, a cold badass or a tsundere.


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Nov 29, 2017 4:33 AM

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I don't think males that aren't suffering from some level of autism or any other mental condition misses social cues that much. I mean I'm an introvert but I can read social cues quite easily.
Nov 29, 2017 5:55 AM
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According to real men on this forum they are that dense. Sad.
Nov 29, 2017 7:21 AM

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Nope. When the opportunity comes then you have to take it. 2d>3d is still better though.
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Nov 29, 2017 7:51 AM

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Hmmm... I guess I'm about Lawrence (Spice and Wolf) level of dense. Our only difference is that he can at least read a women which is the thing I'm not good at. I don't even know what they are angry about when they got mad. But I can say at least that I can tell when a girl likes me.
Nov 29, 2017 8:05 AM

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the reverse, men in average is way more overconfidence in most thing than women.
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Nov 29, 2017 4:21 PM

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Looking back into my romantic history. I might have been, though in a completely different way you guys expect. Like when I was a kid I completely bought into that romance crap and the whole story about 'buy her flowers and be a gentleman'. And nobody told me that I have to first be atractive to her or at least a nice friend to her going on dates with her before I did all of that. The fact that I was shy around girls(other than on those extremely cheezy occasions) didn't help either.

Why isn't there a tutorial for that? :P
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Nov 29, 2017 4:33 PM
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I mean I can be dense, but I think myself and most males aren't half as dense as harem anime makes men out to be. I think its just a way that anime can cash in on the whole "nice guy" phenomenon. Only replace "nice" with "oblivious".
Nov 29, 2017 7:46 PM

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Not to the level of hearm protagonists no.
Nov 29, 2017 8:00 PM

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Yes there are dense kids (current generation/2000 kids) who always watch anime and play games all day.
And I'm not one of you them, I always knew who likes me but I never want them to notice that I know.
In the end I regretted not doing anything about it when I saw them being in a relationship or married and with family of their own now.

Haters always gonna hate.
Nov 30, 2017 12:03 AM

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It really depends on the situation and type of person.

for instance, some even when having clues thrown in their face really are as they're not looking for it and their mind isn't consciously taking in the information. (normally passing it off as some sort of joke, this can come from lack of self-confidence, or that they're generally not interested in a relationship at the time)

Some may understand fully but feign ignorance as they think that's best for the person who likes them, perhaps to preserve a friendship due to fear of something going wrong whether they're into them or not.

Honestly, it really depends on a lot of factors, but those two scenarios tend to be the most common.

Nov 30, 2017 1:43 AM

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my girlfriend said he already give me hint for 2 years... only starting to noticed when she literaly jump to my lap.... she also said i give false hope to lot others girl when they realize i simply good to everyone, not special to them.. i also not realize this until my girlfriend had to explain it to them in front of me....

yeah, i am your average danse male protag....
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Nov 30, 2017 5:26 AM

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Many males may be dense in another way, as they aren't able to understand that the pretty woman that looked their way or smiled at them isn't especially interested to sleep with them.

That's a type of density too.

Women often try to not be straight forward at all when they're interested in someone though, and that type of way may indeed easily lead more innocent/autistic peoples to completely miss the signs. It's their own fault for not being more straight forward though. Why the hell can't you just gather your courage and ask directly?
But the kind of "signs" given in most harem anime/manga? Yeaaah no that would be obvious even for dense peoples.


Also, no one can be as dense as Touma or that guy from IS. that kind of density would make the Earth and all the stars around gravitates around them instead, breaking everything in this part of the galaxy.

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Nov 30, 2017 6:25 AM

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you'd be surprised by how many brick boys roam the earth
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Dec 9, 2017 2:27 PM
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I've got a friend who is dense as heck.
He's pissed off so many chicks in his lifetime kekeke
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