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Nov 22, 2017 10:34 AM
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And I'm talking about a someone who doesn't even know what anime is....like at all!

Is it even possible, or just a waste of time?
Nov 22, 2017 10:37 AM
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You mean your gf? Show them anime you like and watch it together... like how normal people communicate and exchange their interests.
Nov 22, 2017 10:43 AM
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Aquamirror said:
You mean your gf? Show them anime you like and watch it together... like how normal people communicate and exchange their interests.

Ever try watching sports with a girl and desperately try to explain the rules only to see a blank stare staring back at you?

I have.

Now....how the FUCK do I explain THIS!

Nov 22, 2017 10:46 AM
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--ALEX-- said:
Aquamirror said:
You mean your gf? Show them anime you like and watch it together... like how normal people communicate and exchange their interests.

Ever try watching sports with a girl and desperately try to explain the rules only to see a blank stare staring back at you?

I have.

Now....how the FUCK do I explain THIS!


Have some respect and don't force her to watch garbage then. There are enough genres to satisfy everyone's taste.
Nov 22, 2017 10:49 AM
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Just show them death note or AOT, those are always good beginner shows.

Not everyone is willing to watch heavily sexualized cartoons and you shouldn't force them to.
Nov 22, 2017 10:49 AM
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--ALEX-- said:
And I'm talking about a someone who doesn't even know what anime is....like at all!

Is it even possible, or just a waste of time?


Just show her Free! And you'll be fine.
Nov 22, 2017 10:53 AM
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show him some good anime like pingu and whatnot you should know her tastes better than us

without more info it seems possible yes... unless they have a vendetta against animation or japan or w/e it should be alright
Nov 22, 2017 10:54 AM
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@--ALEX-- you'd need to teach me how to find a girl Id like and have her be interested in me too to even give you a good answer
but for just a guess maybe just ask her and if she says no say you'll give her something she wants in exchange for doing something you want
Nov 22, 2017 11:06 AM
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Aquamirror said:
--ALEX-- said:

Ever try watching sports with a girl and desperately try to explain the rules only to see a blank stare staring back at you?

I have.

Now....how the FUCK do I explain THIS!


Have some respect and don't force her to watch garbage then. There are enough genres to satisfy everyone's taste.

lol, that's one of the greatest anime scenes of all time bro...

Anyways, I still think it'll be tough.... a lot of non-anime fans think anime is just regular cartoons pandering to children.....so yeah.
Nov 22, 2017 11:24 AM

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'Clockwork Orange'-style, of course.
+1 Perfect response.

In all seriousness, just find one that ties to her other interests. I watched "Kanojo to Kanojo no Neko: Everything Flows" with my girlfriend because she liked cats. And as expected, she was invested very quickly. Unfortunately, I didn't realize...

After that, she didn't wanna watch anime with me anymore.

Oh well.
Nov 22, 2017 11:33 AM
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I'd try to find a good match up on what they like in films or television series. At bare minimum get them to appreciate the work with some Satoshi Kon or Mamoru Hosoda.

If I can covert my much older coworkers into the anime life then I know it's possible.
Nov 22, 2017 11:34 AM

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Might be a waste of time, but it's not impossible either.





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Nov 22, 2017 11:38 AM

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LMAO it's not like your pillow has a choice
Nov 22, 2017 11:55 AM

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I'd suggest you try with quality anime first, or at least romcoms, and not with the ecchi harems plaguing your favorites list,OP. What does she like?

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LMAO it's not like your pillow has a choice

Harsh truth (^:
Nov 22, 2017 11:56 AM

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harshtruth said:
LMAO it's not like your pillow has a choice

HAHAHAHA!

Best response so far....
Nov 22, 2017 9:54 PM

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Find a better significant other. Don't settle for a normie.
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Nov 22, 2017 10:05 PM
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Which hand are you trying to watch anime with?
Nov 22, 2017 10:16 PM

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Nobody is giving good answers so I will start.

You probably already know her interests so... Start with that. She likes romcoms? Show her something like Ore Monogatari or Nodame Cantabile. She likes futuristic crime shows? Psycho pass. Animals? Polar Bear's Cafe.

I've gotten my mom to watch some Anime with me. Should be easier with a significant other LOL
Nov 22, 2017 10:22 PM

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Very possible... You just need to translate the medium... Ask them what movies, shows etc they like then chose an anime that best suits that... If they like it then low key recommend some good starters... And it all goes down hill from there
Nov 22, 2017 10:23 PM
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My husband likes anime, so I never had to worry about getting him into it. Most of my other relationships, I got the whole "eh I'm not really into cartoons" >.>

You can try some genres that they may like. But sometimes people just aren't into it. The important thing is that they try to understand your hobbies. You don't need someone who will look down on you for watching anime.

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Nobody is giving good answers so I will start.

You probably already know her interests so... Start with that. She likes romcoms? Show her something like Ore Monogatari or Nodame Cantabile. She likes futuristic crime shows? Psycho pass. Animals? Polar Bear's Cafe.

I've gotten my mom to watch some Anime with me. Should be easier with a significant other LOL


My mom has also watched some anime with me and my brother lol
Nov 22, 2017 10:26 PM

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Just describe an evening watching it as "anime and chill". Done and done.


In all seriousness pick shows that fit her interests and aren't too "out there" so as to not scare her away from the medium.
Nov 22, 2017 10:37 PM

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Ask him/her what kind of movies and tv series he/she likes to watch and then accordingly you can recommend the anime in that particular genre
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Nov 22, 2017 11:50 PM

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Barter with them. As in, if you watch __ with me, i'll do __ with you.

As far as not knowing what anime is, it doesn't really matter. It's entertainment. You don't need to know what it is to enjoy it. It'll also help if you don't pick something outrageous for the first viewing.
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Nov 23, 2017 12:21 AM

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There are always things better of unsaid. Same thing here, I'd probably not drag them further.

Anyway if you really want to, I can at least grab some hentai I have known that is not so bad....
Nov 23, 2017 12:27 AM

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Watch Toradora with them. Then she will probably be into rom-com anime
Nov 23, 2017 12:27 AM

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Take sex off the table and use it as an ultimatum.

Or put anal on the table.
Nov 23, 2017 12:33 AM

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I'd start out by watching something like Death Note with them. Death Note has been a great ice-breaker for me and other people.
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Nov 23, 2017 12:52 AM
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I once invited my friend (non animers) to watch hentai together in class.
and stupid they immediately gathered in front of my laptop
"Fuck off omaeraaa" was what I thought LOL
Nov 23, 2017 2:20 PM

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I already watch them in my screen so I dont think I can help.
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Nov 23, 2017 2:35 PM
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Well, they have to exist in the first place ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Nov 23, 2017 6:23 PM
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The best way is to find a significant other who likes anime.
Nov 23, 2017 8:11 PM

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I would suggest to start with a movie, so they can think "well, if I don't like it, at least I won't lose much time"
Something like Koe no Katachi, Bakemono no Ko, Paprika, Mai Mai Shinko to Sennen no Mahou, Hottarake no Shima, Colorful (Movie), Hotarubi no Mori e, Hal, etc.
Or even some Makoto Shinkai's work or some Studio Gibli s.
Something along the genres He/She/It likes.
Nov 23, 2017 11:53 PM

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I never tried to do so. I never bother explaining the difference between cartoons and anime or recommend them a show. I just don't wanna waste my time more than I already do.


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Nov 24, 2017 12:15 AM

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If by significant other you mean a lover then I don't have one of those however I did get my best friend to watch death note and she loved it. L became her husbando.
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Nov 24, 2017 12:30 AM

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--ALEX-- said:
Aquamirror said:
You mean your gf? Show them anime you like and watch it together... like how normal people communicate and exchange their interests.

Ever try watching sports with a girl and desperately try to explain the rules only to see a blank stare staring back at you?

I have.

Now....how the FUCK do I explain THIS!

Recreate that scene with her then show her where you got it from. Either she lets you hit and you got her into anime or she lets you hit and she's disgusted that you're into cartoon porn. Either way you hit it, amirite?

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