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Nov 20, 2017 8:23 AM

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L E T S H O P E I D I E S O O N
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Nov 20, 2017 8:36 AM

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It's a love / hate relationship whenever I am alone.
Nov 20, 2017 11:11 AM

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I spend a lot of time alone, and I could say I get lonely, but I'm also really happy by myself.

No drama, and you get all that time to yourself. I can do whatever I want.

Company is nice, and good for the soul aint that hipster. I do wish for friends or a partner sometimes but...

I'm happy this way, and I'm not going to go out of my way to change it. It's... therapeutic in a weird way.
Nov 20, 2017 12:13 PM
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The only time i felt lonley was when i was in a house arrest other then that not really :S
Thou i think we all feel lonley sometimes on the inside but i guess i just dont care about people enough to feel lonley so maybe try to give less of a damn about others and you will feel less lonley if that make sense.
as long as you do what you enjoy you shouldent feel lonley dosent matter if you do it with someone or by yourself..
Me for example i really enjoy motorcycles i worked 3 jobs to buy my bike and i couldent be more happier once i hit the road i feel only happiness be it with someone else or by myself.
Nov 20, 2017 1:44 PM

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I'm lonely a lot of the time. Usually when I'm too consumed in my thoughts or I'm just having a really rough day where all kinds of negative emotions swirl around in my mind. I don't have irl friends, pretty much my only social contact outside of work are my friends/people I know online.

I'm a naturally introverted person, and can be reclusive if able to. But I always day dream about having friends that actually have things in common with me that I genuinely want to spend time with, not just hang around for 2-3 hours and want to go home due to boredom, going out on dates, being a normal human being in general etc



Nov 20, 2017 2:10 PM

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Psajdak said:


Even if we are, I guess, hardwired to be social beings, do you ever consider being alone, or simply interacting as less as possible, as something, well, nice?

Have you ever found yourself thinking, even if you sometimes desire to be closer to other, people, there are more to solitude after all?

Yeah theres alot to solitude that is positive particularly for self reflection and self understanding and its not really something you can do in a group. There are two yous I would say a you that exists because of the perception of you by others and is performative then the internal you which exists when you are alone and solitude can be a good way of exploring this part of yourself.
“we all live with the objective of being happy, our lives are all different and yet the same.”
Nov 20, 2017 3:43 PM

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Friend wise no, I've been very lucky to have close friends I feel comfortable confiding in throughout my life. Romantically yeah.


Nov 20, 2017 4:03 PM

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It's not bad to be introverted.

A lot of alone time thinking and not finding any meaning can be dangerous though.
Nov 20, 2017 7:56 PM

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I'm a strong introvert. Though I long for the company of others sometimes, when I actually find myself in social gatherings my mind is back at home, wishing for the peace and quiet of a warm bed and a good book.

It really is just a matter of finding the right people to spend your time with; people who don't infringe on your personal time, and won't give you a headache after five minutes of conversation. They exist of course, but naturally, we won't exactly find them sitting in our house. (Unless finding your social circle online counts, and for many, that's all they need.)
Nov 20, 2017 10:48 PM

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I'm not physically alone, as I live with my family. Sometimes I can feel a lil bit sad even with them around tho, but it goes away when I talk to them. When it comes to my friends, I can feel lonely, not having a wide circle of contacts, so those few I have are extremely important to me, and I jump at the 1st opportunity to see them, but I quickly realize that a lot of communication tires me. I need to spend a big lump of time alone before I'm ready to mingle again.
But still often sadness comes back, since I don't have a boyfriend or someone I can call, the closest, the truest bff of my whole life.
Nov 21, 2017 6:52 AM

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I am lonley almost all the time but I love it lol, I like being by myself :) Of coarse that doesn't make me hate other people.
Nov 23, 2017 3:55 AM

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yeah lmao. i'm a clingy ass person. it's not enough for me to just see friends every second day. consequently loneliness got the best of me this year and landed me in a string of ): relationships w/ guys i'll never see again. 0/10 don't rec. if ur lonely, learn to live with it and appreciate urself.
the emotional consequences of getting involved w ppl (non-platonically) u don't care about just because u're lonely isn't worth it.
Nov 23, 2017 6:09 AM

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I don't like socialising for too long, or being outside for too long for that matter, but I wouldn't consider myself lonely. I'm by myself, yes, but it's not a bad thing and I always have friends to hang out with me if I want them to.

Being truly alone is dangerous.




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Nov 23, 2017 6:26 AM
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I choose to keep most things to myself because its easyer and no one can do you wrong if you dont tell anyone
Nov 23, 2017 6:32 AM

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Yes, a little bit. But i think everybody is kind of lonely.
"There's nothing worse in life than being ordinary" - American Beauty
"We were made to be very convenient, right?" - Monster
"You humans think greed is just for money and power. But everyone wants something they don't have" - Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood
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Of course i do. After all, i work with microscopic things" - 20th Century Boys
Nov 23, 2017 6:36 AM

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Yes,I feel lonely most of the time because I don't have friend to talk with.. (I'm bad at making friends so that's why I don't have any friends.)
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Nov 23, 2017 8:09 AM

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No I'm not lonely, I have friends and a heterosexual life partner. I'm alone however, but sometimes I want solitude. It's just an introvert thing.
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