Are beautiful girls mean?
| Now I might be wrong about this. But from what I've seen, majority of beautiful girls are mean. By beautiful, I mean girls who are very famous for their beauty in school, college, etc. They would always try to act cool and they have too much attitude. They always act like tsundere (except the dere part). It's quite hard to talk with them. I think the reason they are mean is because they get too much attention from other guys and those guys treat them like queen. Anyway, what do you guys think about this? Are beautiful girls really mean or is this an over-generalization? Also, if you think they are mean then please provide a reason too (No offense btw. I am just curious) |
swirlydragonMay 8, 2017 12:27 PM
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| Lol, simple. Because they can be and people will still like them. A lot of people tend to let things slide if you're pretty enough. It also adds to them having a certain image. |
| Eh. |
| Aka "The girls I find attractive don't like me so they are mean" Good to know there's more Nice Guys™ on MAL |
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Sivvi said: Lol, simple. Because they can be and people will still like them. A lot of people tend to let things slide if you're pretty enough. It also adds to them having a certain image. Exactly! I don't like mean girls even if they are pretty >.< The guys who forgive them because they are pretty are super dumb! ThrashMatto said: Aka "The girls I find attractive don't like me so they are mean" Good to know there's more Nice Guys™ on MAL No! It's not like I want to make them my girlfriend or something. I am just saying that if you usually just talk to them, they think you are hitting on them or something (since they are pretty) so they act mean |
swirlydragonMay 8, 2017 12:41 PM
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| being mean is all part of a hot bitch's personality :) They are like wild tigers, not easily tamed. There are girls who are hot and nice, by the way ;D buuut something tells me those are the type you are talking of... |
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| This is why Tsundere are just so adorable to a certain extent. |
| Where I live, the popular kids are popular for a reason, people like to be around them. The beautiful gals I've come across are always kind. It's the obnoxious, loud girls who think they are popular that are a pain to deal with. |
SeaCupMay 8, 2017 1:30 PM
| how would anyone of us know? we aren't beautiful kuudere kawaii girls. |
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| I'm lucky that my gf is both beautiful and nice then |
Lol Nice one! I like you already.. xD xrockxz89 said: being mean is all part of a hot bitch's personality :) They are like wild tigers, not easily tamed. There are girls who are hot and nice, by the way ;D buuut something tells me those are the type you are talking of... Well all the beautiful girls I've met till now are super mean >.< I guess my luck is shit :( |
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| It's not just attractive girls who are mean. They all are. |
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Seiya said: It's not just attractive girls who are mean. They all are. Lol That's a bit harsh but whatever xD SeaCup said: It's the obnoxious, loud girls who think they are popular. Well that's also quite true |
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swirlydragon said: Seiya said: It's not just attractive girls who are mean. They all are. Lol That's a bit harsh but whatever xD Well, I'm from Canada, the country with the highest amount of false rape allegations of any country in the world, so I'm sure you can understand why I do not trust women at all. |
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Seiya said: It's not just attractive girls who are mean. They all are. Lol That's a bit harsh but whatever xD So generalizing attractive girls is not harsh but ugly girls isn't, nice logic! |
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Seiya said: Well, I'm from Canada, the country with the highest amount of false rape allegations of any country in the world, so I'm sure you can understand why I do not trust women at all. Oh I see lol Though Canadian girls sure are hot <3 Hide-kun said: So generalizing attractive girls is not harsh but ugly girls isn't, nice logic! No one is ugly, dude Someone might look ugly to you but attractive to another. Btw I already provided my definition of beautiful on this thread. I did not mean all attractive girls Oh I see :( Though I would still appreciate it, if you would share your opinion lol |
swirlydragonMay 8, 2017 1:14 PM
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| Can't say I ever had a pretty girl be mean to me. Maybe I just give off a "he's harmless" vibe or something. Most of my friends were actually girls. |
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swirlydragon said: Well all the beautiful girls I've met till now are super mean >.< I guess my luck is shit :( aye man but don't let her get to you. She's probably one of those girls that once you challenge her and show you don't take her shit, she'll start being nice to you. |
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xrockxz89 said: aye man but don't let her get to you. She's probably one of those girls that once you challenge her and show you don't take her shit, she'll start being nice to you. Well thnx for the heads up :) I guess you might be right (though you could be wrong too lol) |
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swirlydragon said: xrockxz89 said: aye man but don't let her get to you. She's probably one of those girls that once you challenge her and show you don't take her shit, she'll start being nice to you. Well thnx for the heads up :) I guess you might be right (though you could be wrong too lol) if i'm wrong then no matter, you'll be slapped in the face and then thank her afterward xD |
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| its obviously because even if they are mean they wont get rejcted or bullied hence why i think its pretty obvious but dont worry i know theres cute girls that aint mean |
| I probably have people who think I am mean, and on rare occasions I genuinely am. At some point down the line, I started to give anyone who approached me on campus the cold shoulder because I kind of got sick of being approached all of the time. It just really started to feel exhausting. As for the rare occasions when I'm genuinely mean, they almost never happen. It only really happens when I have so many people bother me in one day that I kind of reach a "just leave me alone already!" state of mind. For example, I had a pretty cool outfit on one morning, which lead to a lot of people complimenting me on it and/or asking where I bought it. By the time I had the 7th girl ask me where my outfit was from, I lost my patience and told her it was none of her business. I felt bad about it later on, but god damn was I starting to feel exhausted. |
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Usagi said: I probably have people who think I am mean, and on rare occasions I genuinely am. At some point down the line, I started to give anyone who approached me on campus the cold shoulder because I kind of got sick of being approached all of the time. It just really started to feel exhausting. As for the rare occasions when I'm genuinely mean, they almost never happen. It only really happens when I have so many people bother me in one day that I kind of reach a "just leave me alone already!" state of mind. For example, I had a pretty cool outfit on one morning, which lead to a lot of people complimenting me on it and/or asking where I bought it. By the time I had the 7th girl ask me where my outfit was from, I lost my patience and told her it was none of her business. I felt bad about it later on, but god damn was I starting to feel exhausted. Well you are mean, no doubt about it (No offense though) I mean, your replies are ruthless Anyway, I feel bad for that girl. You shouldn't have done that :( xrockxz89 said: if i'm wrong then no matter, you'll be slapped in the face and then thank her afterward xD Yeah, I think I'll just pass on that -_- YaoiMaster said: Beauty is subjective. You are also generalizing. You must have met the wrong people. I know beauty is subjective If you read what I meant by beauty, you would understand I am only talking about girls who are popular and get too much attention so they start acting mean. |
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swirlydragon said: Attention often gets to one's head. This is why certain celebrities feel the need to do illegal things, and they stop caring as much for their fans and more for the money. YaoiMaster said: Beauty is subjective. You are also generalizing. You must have met the wrong people. I know beauty is subjective If you read what I meant by beauty, you would understand I am only talking about girls who are popular and get too much attention so they start acting mean. |
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| Trying to understand women is like trying to merge Quantum Mechanics and Relativity. It's a lost cause. |
| maybe it's the female equivalent to 'nice guys finish last'. |
| Well there's ugly girls who are mean too. |
| i get mean a lot because people don't leave me alone when u go out, how often do strangers come u p and try talking to u? it happens constantly to me and itx annouing |
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| Honestly, most nice looking ladies have been the nicest I've met. I guess the two options here are taking care of yourself and looking good, or being a redneck slob. And if you treat yourself nicely you're more likely to do the same to others. I think. I know. Yes. |
| Yeah this is serious generalization here. You must have met some real bitches who did you wrong in life. |
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| How other people treat somebody changes their expectations. If a child gets everything they want they tend to be demanding and expect everything to be handed to them. Goes for popularity which whatever the reason for that popular is fairly irrelevant be it physical appearance, athletic ability etc etc however "mean" is a relative term. If you walk up to a girl you find attractive and start hitting on them out of shallow attraction as people do and they tell you to get lost I'd say that's way more than fair and I say you're lucky that they were nice enough not to taser you or spray Mace in your face. |
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| because they are used to smelly ugly dorito-eaters hitting on them they act mean to defer more noodlers from trying to get too comfy |
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| They can afford to be mean cause they can still get guys to fuck them (since they are beautiful). If they were ugly they'd need to be nice and beg. :D |
| Because they aren't interested in you. |
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DEVlL said: Because they aren't interested in you. It's ok, I know you have a grudge against me lmao |
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| Well from what I've seen in my super pretty female friends, sometimes they aren't exactly mean, but they are kind of cold to guys because they've had the experience that if they're just a little bit nice the guy will get the wrong idea right away. |
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tsuyokunaru said: Well from what I've seen in my super pretty female friends, sometimes they aren't exactly mean, but they are kind of cold to guys because they've had the experience that if they're just a little bit nice the guy will get the wrong idea right away. So they must act mean to those guys? Makes sense lmao |
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| You must be stuck in the early 2000's. The majority of pretty girls I've met were very nice and wholesome people. |
| @swirlydragon I never said my friends were mean? But let me give you an example, One of them had this classmate who bought her a necklace after they worked together in a project with another girl. The other girl liked the guy, but the guy liked my friend. My friend wasn't interested in the guy and she rejected his gift because she felt uncomfortable receiving it. She was called 'mean' and a 'bitch' because of this and the other girl also started hating her and talking shit behind her back over something she couldn't even control. She also constantly gets FB messages and comments from guys asking her out in posts where she talks to her family, for example. She doesn't like it so sometimes she blocks the guys or replies telling them just 'sorry, not interested' and they get offended! What counts as mean for you anyway? |
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swirlydragon said: Now I might be wrong about this. But from what I've seen, majority of beautiful girls are mean. By beautiful, I mean girls who are very famous for their beauty in school, college, etc. They would always try to act cool and they have too much attitude. They always act like tsundere (except the dere part). It's quite hard to talk with them. I think the reason they are mean is because they get too much attention from other guys and those guys treat them like queen. Anyway, what do you guys think about this? Are beautiful girls really mean or is this an over-generalization? Also, if you think they are mean then please provide a reason too (No offense btw. I am just curious) I'd like to say this is a generalization, but so often it's true. I think they each have their reasons however. Maybe it's because they've been used before by guys who only want their bodies. If I were a model type girl, I'd be fed up if that kept happening over and over again. I think all girls are the same in the sense we just want to be treated with value, dignity, and respect regardless of what we look like. Some women have more hurt than others so they might take it out on others. They just need to be treated with more patience, kindness, and love and they'll turn out ok. That's what I truly believe. |
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