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Mar 6, 2017 1:42 AM
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i dont date women of color tbh

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



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Mar 6, 2017 3:57 AM
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Doesn't matter to me. It is just their preferences is dating someone of the same race with their own.
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What is there to think about them? Everyone has their own preferences. You date people you feel attracted to.
Mar 6, 2017 4:02 AM
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It's all about preference, really. Just because you're not attracted with a person because of their skin color doesn't mean you can't really treat them as a fellow human. To be honest, I rarely find black women attractive... but I'm pretty sure I can still interact with them like normal.
Mar 6, 2017 5:08 AM
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It's just preference, tbh. As a POC, I only dated white men because that's just what I like.
Mar 6, 2017 5:12 AM
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If they don't date them because they don't find them attractive I see no problem at all. If they don't date them because they see them as being inferior they are assholes.
Mar 6, 2017 5:48 AM
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ive heard in several places that its natural to be attracted to someone who looks like you, from facial structure/features to color so i dont think its racist at all. I think gator from the post above you pretty much nailed it

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Mar 6, 2017 6:09 AM
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Joido said:
I'll bite.

We all have our preferences — some more shallow than others. I imagine going around and announcing that you don't like a particular race wouldn't yield the most desirable results. Unless you're some kind of masochist.

How you express yourself is everything. Filter your foolishness to lead the most comfortable life. Directed at people in general, not you specifically OP.

i do that all the time
okay advice tbh

Onii-chan said:
Doesn't matter to me. It is just their preferences is dating someone of the same race with their own.
Lyree said:
What is there to think about them? Everyone has their own preferences. You date people you feel attracted to.

CapitalistGod said:
It's all about preference, really. Just because you're not attracted with a person because of their skin color doesn't mean you can't really treat them as a fellow human. To be honest, I rarely find black women attractive... but I'm pretty sure I can still interact with them like normal.
pink-mochi said:
It's just preference, tbh. As a POC, I only dated white men because that's just what I like.


i wasn't really expecting mal to respond this way

Gator said:
If they don't date them because they don't find them attractive I see no problem at all. If they don't date them because they see them as being inferior they are assholes.


but by definition, wouldn't they see them as inferior, since they're not attracted to them.
i dont think this btw, just wondering

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ArdanazMar 6, 2017 7:58 AM

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



Mar 6, 2017 6:15 AM
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I would date any girl (regardless of race or religion) as long as she is a sadist.



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Mar 6, 2017 6:18 AM

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Yomiyuki said:
but by definition, wouldn't they see them as inferior, since they're not attracted to them.
i dont think this btw, just wondering

I don't see the relation, just because I think someone is ugly doesn't mean that I think they are inferior. Stephen Hawking is not beautiful at all to me, but I would never see me as superior xD
Mar 6, 2017 6:31 AM

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It depends on where you're raised in my opinion. I'm Asian-Singaporean but I've spent too much time in America at this point where I'd probably date only white girls but my tastes are becoming more refined to where I'd probably only date European white girls because American girls are just unwifeable.

I've lived in Singapore a good portion of my life but I've always had very liberal thinking and I always said that the conservative views of the East makes life a lot harder than it needs to be. Since I've been in United States for a pretty long time, a decade maybe, and I've become even more liberal in my thinking compared to how the Eastern culture is. So for the life of me I can't date an Asian girl just because I don't want to go back to that culture again.

I have cousins though who live in Canada and they're from a very Indian-Asian oriented neighborhood and they love Indian/Asian girls just because they're raised in that specific culture. When they visit me in United States they're often disturbed or even appalled by how liberal non-Asian culture is. So when you guys tell me you REALLY REALLY want to date a Japanese/Asian girl I don't really see why because the culture (apart from the weeb shit) is just horrid to me.
Mar 6, 2017 6:36 AM

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I don't see nothing wrong with it, you can't force someone to date a person they don't find attractive.

Personally i would like to date someone with a different culture, the mother of my cousins is from Madagascar and my father lived in Tunisia until he was 20+ years old. I consider my family a bit multicultural.
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I must spend WAY too much time in fictional worlds. When I read the title, it took me a minute to realize you weren't talking about human x elf/etc. relationships.
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Mar 6, 2017 6:54 AM

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Sexual preferences are not politically correct (and never will be).

Yomiyuki said:
i dont date women of color tbh


We all have colour.
Mar 6, 2017 7:18 AM
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Yomiyuki said:
Onii-chan said:
Doesn't matter to me. It is just their preferences is dating someone of the same race with their own.
i wasn't really expecting mal to respond this way
Sorry to disappoint you. But, that's what I always think IRL when it comes to the situation that you asked.

Looking at your reaction post (quote); Maybe you have better point of view in that kind of situation, don't cha? If so, mind to share it? xD=
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Mar 6, 2017 8:17 AM

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It's all about preferences
Just because someone prefers certain people doesn't mean anything
Mar 6, 2017 8:29 AM

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Not that i care, never will.
evryone got their own taste opinions
Mar 6, 2017 8:35 AM

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you can't help what you are attracted to, and that's fine but if you won't even be friends with other races then maybe you've got a problem

my ex is an asian (korean) that onlly wanted to date white people because they thought white people were the most atttactive race and i was like bitch u cray bc middle eastern people are the most attractive race (but girl u on par i swear lol)
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I have dated more foreigners than locals, and only one in my adult life, for a single date.

But if you'd seen what most British women are like you would probably understand.
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Mar 6, 2017 8:47 AM

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It's their choice. I don't care. People should feel free to date whoever they want. Dating someone just because of their race would be a stupid thing.
Mar 6, 2017 9:30 AM

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Tokis86 said:
Sexual preferences are not politically correct (and never will be).

Yomiyuki said:
i dont date women of color tbh


We all have colour.

what color are white people
very light pink?

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



Mar 6, 2017 9:33 AM

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Onii-chan said:
Yomiyuki said:
i wasn't really expecting mal to respond this way
Sorry to disappoint you. But, that's what I always think IRL when it comes to the situation that you asked.

Looking at your reaction post (quote); Maybe you have better point of view in that kind of situation, don't cha? If so, mind to share it? xD=

im not sure what you mean
share my view of people not dating other races?
i dunno, it's preference really
im half-mexican and have been around enough insufferable hispanic women to not want to date them + i don't really find them as attractive as white girls.
the same goes for black girls.

or do you mean like why i thought mal would respond differently?
idk, i was expecting there to be more posts like "omg ur such a racist for not finding all races attractive" but mods spoiled that fun.

AnnoKano said:
I have dated more foreigners than locals, and only one in my adult life, for a single date.

But if you'd seen what most British women are like you would probably understand.

this is the peak of female beauty though, and she's british
YomiyukiMar 6, 2017 9:39 AM

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



Mar 6, 2017 9:35 AM

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Ginpika said:
you can't help what you are attracted to, and that's fine but if you won't even be friends with other races then maybe you've got a problem

my ex is an asian (korean) that onlly wanted to date white people because they thought white people were the most atttactive race and i was like bitch u cray bc middle eastern people are the most attractive race (but girl u on par i swear lol)

idk i dont have any friends of any color tbh

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



Mar 6, 2017 9:39 AM

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I don't have a preference, but at the same time, I don't have any variety to select from, because everybody is white where I'm from.

That being said, I don't date, ever. Today's people are too boring and ugly for me.

Mar 6, 2017 9:40 AM

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kaya scodelario, yea shes true 10/10 crew.
Mar 6, 2017 9:43 AM
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I don't think anything bad about them as I find it normal.

In fact, I find it very weird when I see a black woman and a white man together. I mean if it's a black man and white woman, let's say it's understandable that she may be in love with his horse-sized dick lol. But the other way around?? Plus, black people have that certain smell characteristic to them.

I generally think white girls are the most beautiful. Why would you go
for less when you can have more? I certainly don't see myself dating a black or dark-skinned girl.
Mar 6, 2017 9:46 AM

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I don't think anything bad about them as I find it normal.

In fact, I find it very weird when I see a black woman and a white man together. I mean if it's a black man and white woman, let's say it's understandable that she may be in love with his horse-sized dick lol. But the other way around?? Plus, black people have that certain smell characteristic to them.

I generally think white girls are the most beautiful. Why would you go
for less when you can have more? I certainly don't see myself dating a black or dark-skinned girl.


woulda been pretty crazy in here had you created the topic and lead off with that lol
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Yomiyuki said:
Ginpika said:
you can't help what you are attracted to, and that's fine but if you won't even be friends with other races then maybe you've got a problem

my ex is an asian (korean) that onlly wanted to date white people because they thought white people were the most atttactive race and i was like bitch u cray bc middle eastern people are the most attractive race (but girl u on par i swear lol)

idk i dont have any friends of any color tbh
i'll be your friend. you now have a white friend. hello yomikun
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orario_ said:
I don't think anything bad about them as I find it normal.

In fact, I find it very weird when I see a black woman and a white man together. I mean if it's a black man and white woman, let's say it's understandable that she may be in love with his horse-sized dick lol. But the other way around?? Plus, black people have that certain smell characteristic to them.

I generally think white girls are the most beautiful. Why would you go
for less when you can have more? I certainly don't see myself dating a black or dark-skinned girl.


woulda been pretty crazy in here had you created the topic and lead off with that lol
It would've been locked by the moderators before it reached the 10th reply lol
Mar 6, 2017 10:00 AM

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Different people like different things. Nothing wrong with being into specific races. It's the same as wanting to date a red head or something like that.

It'd be worse to lie and say you like someone when they confess for the sake of being accepting.

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Yomiyuki said:


this is the peak of female beauty though, and she's british


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But if you'd seen what most British women are like you would probably understand.


And I don't even agree with you that this woman is the peak of female beauty. Better looking than the average woman perhaps, but compared to actresses, models etc? Pfff.
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Mar 6, 2017 10:35 AM

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I actually prefer women of color. White women tend not to do it for me, though, I like to keep an open mind.

It's all preferences. Like what you like, don't like what you don't like. It doesn't matter really :l
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AnnoKano said:
Yomiyuki said:


this is the peak of female beauty though, and she's british


AnnoKano said:
But if you'd seen what most British women are like you would probably understand.


And I don't even agree with you that this woman is the peak of female beauty. Better looking than the average woman perhaps, but compared to actresses, models etc? Pfff.



she is an actress though...lol. its kaya scodelario, shes in skins that uk tv show and that movie mazerunner

she looks better inother pics though imo
Mar 6, 2017 11:41 AM

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Other races? It depends, but I have a big blacklist
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Just do whoever you want, geez :v White guys for me, and it's nothing I'd be ashamed of.
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It's not necessarily racist, but superficial. Of course, appearance is one of many important traits, but there are good looking from every race.
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i like those kind of people. personally i wouldn't date outside my own race as well even though some east asian girls are quite good looking.

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If I lived in Africa for 10 years I would probably come to find them more attractive.

unless you discover some voodoo magic they won't become more attractive.
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Nothing. Everyone is free to date whoever they want.
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or do you mean like why i thought mal would respond differently?
idk, i was expecting there to be more posts like "omg ur such a racist for not finding all races attractive" but mods spoiled that fun.
Oh, nevermind. I apologise for misinterpret what you said.
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People can not help who they are attracted to or not, however I personally
think all races have attractive people
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Mar 11, 2017 6:39 AM

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There's nothing wrong with preference, but racism is obviously wrong. It can be a fine line sometimes here.
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As long that I'm not the one they date everything is fine.
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It's just preference. I'm half German and half black. I prefer mixed men but also like Caucasian. Don't like dark dark men. For women, skin color doesn't matter to me.
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I don't care if it's just a preference but if it's a total rejection on just race not actual appearance id find that more stupid but it really only effects themselves so I don't care more than by principle.
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Don't really care, that's their business. Limiting yourself to only a certain amount of people you're willing to date based on their ethnicity, is not fun and only affects them. So that's on them. It's always better to have more options, there's good looking people everywhere.
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As long as you don't push your "why are you dating people outside of your own race" agenda on me or other people (yes these idiots exist in my life) , I don't really give a fuck what you do lol

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Marrone said:
I'm only attracted to Caucasoid facial features. Europeans, middle eastern people and south asians are all caucasian. I don't mind going out with any of those races. But I'm not attracted to black or eastern asian people.

Generally you're attracted to people of your own race/people you're exposed to the most. If I lived in Africa for 10 years I would probably come to find them more attractive.

I lived in Jamaica for an extended period of time and I don't find blacks generally attractive; if anything it made me support colonization even more.
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Choosing a person based on their colour due to preconceived notions of superiority/inferiority is disgusting.

More shallow reasons like preference is a-okay.
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