Getting touched without permission

Nov 18, 2016 1:34 PM

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I have a really sensitive sense of touch, so when people randomly touch me it genuinely makes me jump and feels weird. I also don't like people touching me for this reason because I'm easily aroused. It's annoying.

I'm not good at physical contact in general.

Nov 18, 2016 4:00 PM

#52

hertittys

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when I don't comprehend the reason behind the touch... then I hate it especially my hair, I have my space, and I'll allow you into it if there is a reason.

Yeah and I don't like to touch others either, unless I have a reason

“If you believe it to be a sea of bitterness, then a sea of bitterness it is. If you believe it to simply be scenery on the path of life, then scenery it is…. The sea of bitterness never ends, but the scenery does."
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Nov 18, 2016 4:50 PM

#53

Jinxy

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If we're friends or more then I don't care.. unless it comes to my hair then I'll let you touch it only on special occasions.
If it's strangers/acquaintances then the only touching I do is to shake hands but nothing more. I like having my own personal space.

What creeps me out most is meeting a stranger and him kissing you on the hand.. It makes me feel so uncomfortable..

"The other day I met this man, a nice guy, y'know?
And we had a really good chat. Then I slit his throat and ripped his heart out through his chest.
Does that make me a bad person?"

Nov 18, 2016 9:09 PM

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GarlandReese

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I shall refer to the great Chris Jericho on this one...

Mrs. Landingham, what's next?

Nov 19, 2016 11:55 AM

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blackk_rose

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I don't really like getting touched in general. I am okay with hugging friends and family to say hello/goodbye, but I already feel uncomfortable when they start taking my hand or hug me for a long time or something like that. Cuddling on a sofa is okay with me though.
So obviously I'm even worse when it comes to strangers. I hate that you have to shake hands with people in a lot of situations (at least in my country). I don't want to touch the hand of a stranger, I can't stand it. Once I was with a group of people and a guy I didn't know came and hugged everyone because most or all of them were his friends. So I think he wanted to include me, but when he tried to hug me, I flinched. He just awkwardly shook my hand and I stood there like a weirdo. But I just didn't want to hug someone I didn't know and I didn't expect the hug, which made it worse. The worst thing are guys in clubs that just grab your ass without permission and don't (want to) understand it when you signal them that you don't want them.

Nov 19, 2016 1:42 PM

#56

psycho_chipmunk

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Mar 2016

I personally don't like being touched too. So when I happen to meet people that are touchy I basically just say that I don't have any issue with them and that I just don't like being touched by people. It might be my luck or maybe I talk to kindly but nobody took it personally.

Nov 19, 2016 2:03 PM

#57

Mayling

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We don't really have that issue here, as most people in my country have huge comfort zones so people rarely touch you a lot unless wasted.

"In this world, evil can arise from the best of intentions. And there is good which can come from evil intentions"

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