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For you males out there: Do you get both depressed and happy at the same time when you see a pretty girl?

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Oct 25, 2016 12:03 AM
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I do. Like immediately after seeing some hot girl, id feel amused, but then i feel somewhat sad for a bit for seemingly no reason. Do you?
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Oct 25, 2016 12:33 AM
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When I see a pretty girl it's like "dayummm" and thats the end of it.
Oct 25, 2016 12:53 AM
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I just check them out and continue on with my day especially since I know I won't be getting or talking with 99% of them. Make that 100% actually.
Oct 25, 2016 1:42 AM
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Id be sad because in most cases they are not virgin
Oct 25, 2016 1:50 AM
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sometimes i got that mix/contradicting feeling when i know the hot girl is out of my league
Oct 25, 2016 1:52 AM
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I just get depressed that real girls are so ugly and unbelieveably inferior comparing to our glorious 2D waifus.
Oct 25, 2016 6:46 AM
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It's called Elliot Rodger syndrome, don't get it
Oct 25, 2016 6:49 AM
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I don't feel feelings for random people.
Oct 25, 2016 11:29 AM
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I don't have time to pay attention to girls. My friend, on the other hand, looks at every single girl. It's annoying, and primitive behaviour.
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Oct 25, 2016 11:35 AM

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I'm incredibly bitter in these cases so most of the time I think "I bet she has cocks for breakfast, lunch, tea and dinner every single day.", but of course I am a male who possesses functional reproductive organs therefore I do briefly admire their looks to some extent.

But yeah for some reason I'm wired to assume such things in many cases until I actually interact with them, in which case this impression either gets stronger or it fades away.
Erg_OrgyOct 25, 2016 11:42 AM
Oct 25, 2016 11:38 AM

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It's only depressing when she doesn't swallow ´_ゝ`
Oct 25, 2016 11:53 AM

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I just observe her looks for an instant and that's it.I feel nothing.
Oct 25, 2016 11:55 AM

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No, I just look at her, appreciate her looks, and then move on with my life and immediately forget her existence.
Oct 25, 2016 11:58 AM

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As a female, when I see a pretty girl I'll admire her for a minute and then be sad because I'm an ugly piece of shit.
Oct 25, 2016 12:02 PM

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when i see pretty boys who make really cute girls or pretty girls who make really cute boys
it can be a little sad and happy at the same time, i guess
but for different reasons
and i dont see many people irl who look special
that also makes me sad
VoltiiOct 25, 2016 12:19 PM

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Oct 25, 2016 12:10 PM

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That's a sign of low self-confidence and self-pitying OP. You probably already know why you feel sad so whatevs.

I feel inspired. A pretty girl can really brighten up your mood if you're having a bad day.
Oct 25, 2016 1:07 PM

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why would seeing a pretty girl make you depressed lmao sounds a bit weird tbh
Oct 25, 2016 2:03 PM

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It would seem you first start thinking with your dick, and then you immediately after start using your brain and realize how you will never "tap dat". It would seem your penis bone is short wired to your spinal chord. Go see a doctor immediately.
Oct 25, 2016 2:12 PM

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Valenthius said:
It would seem you first start thinking with your dick, and then you immediately after start using your brain and realize how you will never "tap dat". It would seem your penis bone is short wired to your spinal chord. Go see a doctor immediately.


You crack me up XD
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Oct 25, 2016 2:14 PM

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DeplorableNico said:
It's called Elliot Rodger syndrome, don't get it


No it is not. Most clusterfucked degenerate grow up to have such thoughts, usually because they are extremely antisocial and lock themselves up from social contact. Then depression, brain damage and intense feelings of sadness hits them. Soon they stick too closely to whatever gives them the joy they want, be it anime, video games or food. Their situation is actually pretty simple: When faced with the mystery of unknown, when challenged to face pain and hardships that life, they chose to flee, they run and huddle in self pleasures, pleasures that are safe, pleasures that know, pleasures that poison, the fact that with each year you grew more and more fearful of the outside while depending more and more on your box of pleasures that you frame your life on. But now, all that gave them pleasure is a numb bitter feeling, it no longer keeps them happy because it was never meant to be a life long solution to anything, it was just toys for the moment not for life, but they wasted so much time on them that your fear of the world is overwhelming and their tolerance to pain or hardship is nonexistent so then they stand face with a world they ran away from years ago and its standing before them far larger and more powerful then in the past and theyare far worse then what you were when it came knocking the first time.
no hope
no solutions
ruining their life because they were afraid
and now that fear has come to collect
it's time to pay the price.
Today a pretty girl causes you sadness
Tomorrow someone else's promotion can do the same
And the day after
Someone else succeeding in the journey known as life.
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Oct 25, 2016 2:36 PM

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Darek said:
I just get depressed that real girls are so ugly and unbelieveably inferior comparing to our glorious 2D waifus.


If only those silly 3D wenches could ever live up to mine glorious 2D animu waifus ~uguuu Kawaiii desu

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Oct 25, 2016 2:43 PM
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When I see hot girl I want to climb on her and rape her, worning out every piece of clothe, sniffing some, putting my huge ---- on her mouth and pushing it deep



Oct 25, 2016 2:52 PM

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I experience sexual attraction but not really sadness. at least not to the extent you have
Oct 25, 2016 3:47 PM

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Valenthius said:
It would seem you first start thinking with your dick, and then you immediately after start using your brain and realize how you will never "tap dat". It would seem your penis bone is short wired to your spinal chord. Go see a doctor immediately.

LOL.
teruu said:
DeplorableNico said:
It's called Elliot Rodger syndrome, don't get it


No it is not. Most clusterfucked degenerate grow up to have such thoughts, usually because they are extremely antisocial and lock themselves up from social contact. Then depression, brain damage and intense feelings of sadness hits them. Soon they stick too closely to whatever gives them the joy they want, be it anime, video games or food. Their situation is actually pretty simple: When faced with the mystery of unknown, when challenged to face pain and hardships that life, they chose to flee, they run and huddle in self pleasures, pleasures that are safe, pleasures that know, pleasures that poison, the fact that with each year you grew more and more fearful of the outside while depending more and more on your box of pleasures that you frame your life on. But now, all that gave them pleasure is a numb bitter feeling, it no longer keeps them happy because it was never meant to be a life long solution to anything, it was just toys for the moment not for life, but they wasted so much time on them that your fear of the world is overwhelming and their tolerance to pain or hardship is nonexistent so then they stand face with a world they ran away from years ago and its standing before them far larger and more powerful then in the past and theyare far worse then what you were when it came knocking the first time.
no hope
no solutions
ruining their life because they were afraid
and now that fear has come to collect
it's time to pay the price.
Today a pretty girl causes you sadness
Tomorrow someone else's promotion can do the same
And the day after
Someone else succeeding in the journey known as life.

I dont think its THAT bad tbh. I guess its just looking at something out of your reach? The sadness i get from that usually doesnt last long anyway.
Trance said:
That's a sign of low self-confidence and self-pitying OP. You probably already know why you feel sad so whatevs.

I feel inspired. A pretty girl can really brighten up your mood if you're having a bad day.

Huh, i guess its just me looking at something thats out of my reach. But, im teaching myself to be happy when im alone. And their are benefits to being alone. Im not severly sad or depressed or anything, its just odd that seeing a pretty girl sometimes both excites my mood and dampens my mood.
The peasant is bound by the king. The king is bound by the peasants and their kingdom. But the Viking is bound to nothing but themselves.


Oct 25, 2016 3:50 PM

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Why would I feel depressed about that?
Oct 25, 2016 4:08 PM

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KINGUBERMENSCH said:
Valenthius said:
It would seem you first start thinking with your dick, and then you immediately after start using your brain and realize how you will never "tap dat". It would seem your penis bone is short wired to your spinal chord. Go see a doctor immediately.

LOL.
teruu said:


No it is not. Most clusterfucked degenerate grow up to have such thoughts, usually because they are extremely antisocial and lock themselves up from social contact. Then depression, brain damage and intense feelings of sadness hits them. Soon they stick too closely to whatever gives them the joy they want, be it anime, video games or food. Their situation is actually pretty simple: When faced with the mystery of unknown, when challenged to face pain and hardships that life, they chose to flee, they run and huddle in self pleasures, pleasures that are safe, pleasures that know, pleasures that poison, the fact that with each year you grew more and more fearful of the outside while depending more and more on your box of pleasures that you frame your life on. But now, all that gave them pleasure is a numb bitter feeling, it no longer keeps them happy because it was never meant to be a life long solution to anything, it was just toys for the moment not for life, but they wasted so much time on them that your fear of the world is overwhelming and their tolerance to pain or hardship is nonexistent so then they stand face with a world they ran away from years ago and its standing before them far larger and more powerful then in the past and theyare far worse then what you were when it came knocking the first time.
no hope
no solutions
ruining their life because they were afraid
and now that fear has come to collect
it's time to pay the price.
Today a pretty girl causes you sadness
Tomorrow someone else's promotion can do the same
And the day after
Someone else succeeding in the journey known as life.

I dont think its THAT bad tbh. I guess its just looking at something out of your reach? The sadness i get from that usually doesnt last long anyway.
Trance said:
That's a sign of low self-confidence and self-pitying OP. You probably already know why you feel sad so whatevs.

I feel inspired. A pretty girl can really brighten up your mood if you're having a bad day.

Huh, i guess its just me looking at something thats out of my reach. But, im teaching myself to be happy when im alone. And their are benefits to being alone. Im not severly sad or depressed or anything, its just odd that seeing a pretty girl sometimes both excites my mood and dampens my mood.


Except that it is. You are feeling this at 18+ , I am 7 and have never even thought in such a way.
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Oct 25, 2016 4:12 PM

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No, and why would I feel emotions just by looking at a pretty woman. If she's really a knock out, I'll think "Dang, she has some good genes." and that's about all.
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Oct 25, 2016 5:25 PM

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Darek said:
I just get depressed that real girls are so ugly and unbelieveably inferior comparing to our glorious 2D waifus.


this this this this

make anime real~
Oct 25, 2016 7:10 PM

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teruu said:


Except that it is. You are feeling this at 18+ , I am 7 and have never even thought in such a way.

You're only 7? I find that hard to believe, but if it is true, then its only natural you havent had such thoughts about Women/men (depending on your preference).
The peasant is bound by the king. The king is bound by the peasants and their kingdom. But the Viking is bound to nothing but themselves.


Oct 25, 2016 9:26 PM

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Trance said:
That's a sign of low self-confidence and self-pitying OP. You probably already know why you feel sad so whatevs.

I feel inspired. A pretty girl can really brighten up your mood if you're having a bad day.


How the individual looks to me has little effect, what improves my mood more the mood they are in, seeing people happy and smiling and laughing is more brightening IMHO.
^_^
Oct 25, 2016 9:26 PM
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I am the prettiest girl I have seen and I'm a male.
Oct 25, 2016 9:28 PM

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thanks MAL this thread had a lot of pathetic and funny answers :')
Oct 25, 2016 9:38 PM

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The only reason I'd get depressed is if that pretty girl happened to be the girl I like with a guy that could be her boyfriend.
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Oct 25, 2016 9:41 PM

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ModeratelyHuman said:
When I see a pretty girl it's like "dayummm" and thats the end of it.
s a m e
but only a moderately sized dayum, I aint no ho
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Oct 25, 2016 9:52 PM

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Once a lower part of mine goes up, my depression goes down
Oct 25, 2016 9:59 PM

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You know what, youre right guys im just being stupid, thanks!
The peasant is bound by the king. The king is bound by the peasants and their kingdom. But the Viking is bound to nothing but themselves.


Oct 26, 2016 7:39 AM

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I always get depressed because I know there's nothing I can do. What the hell - sexuality is for the privileged few.
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Oct 26, 2016 8:12 AM

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KINGUBERMENSCH said:

Huh, i guess its just me looking at something thats out of my reach. But, im teaching myself to be happy when im alone. And their are benefits to being alone. Im not severly sad or depressed or anything, its just odd that seeing a pretty girl sometimes both excites my mood and dampens my mood.


You don't need to be depressed in order to have low self-esteem. I'm not your psychiatrist so I cannot tell exactly what is your problem (looks, communication, some trauma -- I don't know) but I can tell you one thing: Don't reach any conclusions about yourself while your confidence is this low. Focus only on building up your self-esteem. And the easiest way to do that is to work on yourself by learning new and useful skills (cooking, programming, swimming, anything), and by generally investing time in how you look and how you behave. The more time you spend on yourself, the more confidence you'll gather. If you keep looking at others and where they are, you'll never be able to walk your own path.
Oct 26, 2016 8:20 AM

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I do not, if I see a pretty girl I might check her out briefly but nothing more then that.
Oct 26, 2016 9:17 PM

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I look and then get depressed because Im forever alone. Also whenever someone jokes about having no friends I want to kill them since I actually have none. Im pretty depressed if u couldnt tell :(
Oct 26, 2016 10:22 PM

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ModeratelyHuman said:
When I see a pretty girl it's like "dayummm" and thats the end of it.


Haha same, I don't think about much else after that.
Oct 26, 2016 10:46 PM

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It's never been sadness, no. Lately however, it's been... jealousy.
Oct 27, 2016 10:03 AM

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No. However I will experience feelings of sexual attraction and minor sexual arousal. Especially if said female is wearing either a mini skirt, short shorts or a crop top.
Oct 27, 2016 10:52 AM

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No. Mostly because I can't bring myself to retain any opinion of them for long. They are a passing thought that I forget about in minutes.
Oct 27, 2016 11:02 AM

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Blahkabelison said:
As a female, when I see a pretty girl I'll admire her for a minute and then be sad because I'm an ugly piece of shit.

Lol. Don't worry we're all super kawaii online ;)
Oct 27, 2016 11:09 AM
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Clebardman said:
Blahkabelison said:
As a female, when I see a pretty girl I'll admire her for a minute and then be sad because I'm an ugly piece of shit.

Lol. Don't worry we're all super kawaii online ;)

Watashi ha kawaii desu :)
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Oct 27, 2016 11:26 AM

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@lolsebca wait... "watashi ha kawaii desu" = she's cute? Please teach me your ways sensei, I'll get all the weebettes with that knowledge :3
Oct 27, 2016 11:34 AM

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DaveNot8814 said:
Yes, and I always cry while fapping.


Haha, just picturing this........
Oct 27, 2016 11:50 AM

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Trance said:
KINGUBERMENSCH said:

Huh, i guess its just me looking at something thats out of my reach. But, im teaching myself to be happy when im alone. And their are benefits to being alone. Im not severly sad or depressed or anything, its just odd that seeing a pretty girl sometimes both excites my mood and dampens my mood.


You don't need to be depressed in order to have low self-esteem. I'm not your psychiatrist so I cannot tell exactly what is your problem (looks, communication, some trauma -- I don't know) but I can tell you one thing: Don't reach any conclusions about yourself while your confidence is this low. Focus only on building up your self-esteem. And the easiest way to do that is to work on yourself by learning new and useful skills (cooking, programming, swimming, anything), and by generally investing time in how you look and how you behave. The more time you spend on yourself, the more confidence you'll gather. If you keep looking at others and where they are, you'll never be able to walk your own path.

Thanks fam, ill remember that, seriously~
The peasant is bound by the king. The king is bound by the peasants and their kingdom. But the Viking is bound to nothing but themselves.


Oct 27, 2016 11:53 AM

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Noooo, that's pretty weird. Maybe not happy either, unless im talking to her
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