-Anime fans are very open if they meet people like them ( like the rest of the world ) |
SeiryusAug 29, 2016 11:12 PM
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| In the "what anime is most like your real life" thread, most of the answers are NHK. Who knows it they're being serious or not. If there are a lot of them, you probably wouldn't know since you'd never meet somebody with no social life, but most of the people I've met at conventions or have found out are into anime are pretty weird and sweaty. I've also met fans who are perfectly normal, this is something that requires more than anecdotal evidence. |
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| It's true. but what can you say? people just loved what they do and mostly they estranged themself from something different than them. @Seiryus is right, anime fans would only open themself to another of the same hobby in a truest sense. they wear mask everyday if they talk 2 another outside their circle. |
| Mushoku Tensei is the best harem light novel out there and Rudeus is my man'. . . |
| Yes? But not when they have a wealth of anime meet ups and nerd friends near by. My life used to be like NHK. But it has turned into Genshiken and maybe Princess Jellyfish combined. Meeting up always with other anime fans on a regular basis doing nerd things. The period of my life that was like NHK was actually when I watched NHK and I was the same age as the protaganist. It was seriously my darkest hour. NHK inspired me to not have a life like NHK anymore. I live with nerdy people and do nerdy things and have a nerdy life where I am very social with nerdy people. I still look at anime like Neon Genesis and Video Girl Ai as if they were my own past. And Otaku no Video as closer to my present. |
Energetic-NovaAug 29, 2016 11:22 PM
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| That honestly depends on who you're talking to lmao. People like that do very much exist but a lot of anime fans are just regular people who watch anime as a hobby. There was a point in my life where I was very antisocial and only watched anime all day but for different reasons. |
| You can apply this to any medium. Escapism is found in hobbies and excessive amounts can lead to addiction, which is not a bad thing. Dedicating countless of hours to a single activity will eventually lead to anti social behavior and it`s simply human nature. Used to have a friend that was seriously suicidal due to his mother`s death, but he was amazing at soccer, because he used this to escape from reality and let out his frustration. |
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| I think it somewhat depends on the person. Me personally, some would call me an otaku or even a weeb, since I OBSESS about anime, figurines, other anime "weird" stuff. Honestly, I would VERY MUCH rather stay at home and watch anime than go out to some kind of family gathering or something. I do have 2 close friends I've known since freshman/sophomore year high school, and I've had more, but from high school to present day in college, I rarely ever talk to most of those old friends. I'm not very open and usually tend to myself during classes, even though I wish I could be more open and sociable. So for me, I would probably fit the stereotype of an otaku who's generally a loner. Sad, but true, although there are probably others who love anime, and can be an otaku, but are very open and active. |
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| That is exactly me you are describing... All i do is watch anime under my blanket but after joining mal i've been more open i guess... |
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Senpaoi said: This is very common among "nerds" and "nice guys" and anyone who fits this descriptionIn all seriousness, you're right... it disgusts me even more when guys act like perverted anime mains as if it's normal, and they think all girls that think they are gross are "tsun'dere's". Perhaps this is why the archetype was created, to play to the desperate hope that all those "mean" girls, secretly liked you or picked on you to look cool, or maybe I'm being a bit harsh. Whether or not the stereotype is true, it's kind of sad that people aspire to a life devoted to cartoons. Idiots_on_MAL said: And this, this isn't unique to anime, and I think it's more important to examine the reason for the behavior than lump every fan of something into a category.You can apply this to any medium. Escapism is found in hobbies and excessive amounts can lead to addiction, which is not a bad thing. Dedicating countless of hours to a single activity will eventually lead to anti social behavior and it`s simply human nature. Used to have a friend that was seriously suicidal due to his mother`s death, but he was amazing at soccer, because he used this to escape from reality and let out his frustration. |
merryfistmasAug 29, 2016 11:30 PM
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Yakysann said: A5IAN said: I think it somewhat depends on the person. Me personally, some would call me an otaku or even a weeb, since I OBSESS about anime, figurines, other anime "weird" stuff. Honestly, I would VERY MUCH rather stay at home and watch anime than go out to some kind of family gathering or something. I do have 2 close friends I've known since freshman/sophomore year high school, and I've had more, but from high school to present day in college, I rarely ever talk to most of those old friends. I'm not very open and usually tend to myself during classes, even though I wish I could be more open and sociable. So for me, I would probably fit the stereotype of an otaku who's generally a loner. Sad, but true, although there are probably others who love anime, and can be an otaku, but are very open and active. Both of your comments made me feel sad :( I was kind of hoping such people are rare because I mean it's quite sad. Uhm am I mocking you in some way right now? If I do I'm sorry. Anyway I'll add here that people I described are indeed more open to other otakus like some have said already. Do you two have any anime loving people around your homeplace who you can become friends with? I luckily do have two and I gladly hang around with them :3 I don't feel like you're mocking me. I've already accepted it for what it is. I won't lie, but I am using the excuse that I go to a community college to try to avoid changing and being more open. When I do transfer, I realize if I want more friends or girlfriend, I'm going to have to change. It was my 2 close friends I hang with now that got me into anime in the first place :) My family however doesn't understand my love for anime. My sister knows of my antics and once said "You were so cool before. What happened?" and my parents often complain that I watch too much "Japanese cartoons". Just 2 weeks ago, my mom asked one of the 2 friends I chill with who was at my house if he liked anime as much as me, and then she asked me right after "Why are you so obsessed with that Japanese stuff? Are you crazy?". Oh well. Such is life. |
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Yakysann said: Oh, at least I'm not mocking you xD Sometimes I write things I don't think through first and end up hurting people's feelings. Your life is so sad T^T it must be hard if even your family doesn't accept anime. And for f*cks sake anime isn't cartoon xD But is there a way you could show your parents some awesome anime that could make them understand you? I think anything by Hayao Miyazaki is fine :/ Well I wish you good luck with your life I guess. HAH! No way changing them. Any type of mobile game, they call "baby games"... *Sigh*, and keep saying things like "Video games, games on phone, japanese carwtoons won't get you anywhere in life" (Even though I somewhat already know this, it's not like they're useless. They bring enjoyment into my life). Thanks anyways. Only thing I can do now is study hard, move out, earn that bank, and buy all the anime figures, products, and watch all the anime I want in peace. |
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merryfistmas said: Senpaoi said: This is very common among "nerds" and "nice guys" and anyone who fits this descriptionIn all seriousness, you're right... it disgusts me even more when guys act like perverted anime mains as if it's normal, and they think all girls that think they are gross are "tsun'dere's". Perhaps this is why the archetype was created, to play to the desperate hope that all those "mean" girls, secretly liked you or picked on you to look cool, or maybe I'm being a bit harsh. Whether or not the stereotype is true, it's kind of sad that people aspire to a life devoted to cartoons. Idiots_on_MAL said: And this, this isn't unique to anime, and I think it's more important to examine the reason for the behavior than lump every fan of something into a category.You can apply this to any medium. Escapism is found in hobbies and excessive amounts can lead to addiction, which is not a bad thing. Dedicating countless of hours to a single activity will eventually lead to anti social behavior and it`s simply human nature. Used to have a friend that was seriously suicidal due to his mother`s death, but he was amazing at soccer, because he used this to escape from reality and let out his frustration. after posting that stupid video I can't bring myself to take anything you say seriously. |
astrozombie84 said: I realize the video is stupid, which is why I posted it, because it's an example of people thinking they're victims, or "nice guys", it's the same reason I put those words in quotes. Everything in that video is just an excuse for being a big fat pussy, a lot like people thinking the world is unfair to basement dwellers or whatever they're complaining about.merryfistmas said: This is very common among "nerds" and "nice guys" and anyone who fits this description Perhaps this is why the archetype was created, to play to the desperate hope that all those "mean" girls, secretly liked you or picked on you to look cool, or maybe I'm being a bit harsh. Whether or not the stereotype is true, it's kind of sad that people aspire to a life devoted to cartoons. And this, this isn't unique to anime, and I think it's more important to examine the reason for the behavior than lump every fan of something into a category. after posting that stupid video I can't bring myself to take anything you say seriously. |
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merryfistmas said: astrozombie84 said: I realize the video is stupid, which is why I posted it, because it's an example of people thinking they're victims, or "nice guys", it's the same reason I put those words in quotes. Everything in that video is just an excuse for being a big fat pussy, a lot like people thinking the world is unfair to basement dwellers or whatever they're complaining about.after posting that stupid video I can't bring myself to take anything you say seriously. Oh ok my bad. Yeah I agree though the whole nice guys finish last is a disgusting mentality. |
| Not me, I am functioning member of society. |
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| What is sociality nowadays anyways? You can be a politically correct honkey type of motherfucker and 'play the game' as it were. You can be a little bitch who can't say his piece. Or you can be real with a man. Perhaps #1 is more advisable when money is involved. I mean we all play the game even though its absolutely full of shit and pretty damned morally abhorrent. When dealing with friends and family #3 seems the way to go. Be real, speak direct, say your mind etc. etc. So what the fuck is it you want to know? Are anime viewers just a bunch of little bitches? How can anyone really fucking answer this you little twat? I can't speak for others, but I can tell you I'm not really bullshitting about anything outside of the work area. Ask me a more interesting question next time. |
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| I see a totally different reality in anime conventions. Either it's a Japanese thing, or the stereotype of "shut-in Otaku" is something people invented to feel good about themselves. Ha! All these anime watchers are shut-in! DAMN I feel good about myself now! |
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| I think a lot of unpopular or bitter people like to say anime fans are all anti-social losers. Not only is that mindset ignorant, it also says a lot about the individual saying it. If they are popular saying it - Pathetic. If they are unpopular saying it - Pathetic and likely 90%+ of the case. |
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Kagami said: I think a lot of unpopular or bitter people like to say anime fans are all anti-social losers. Not only is that mindset ignorant, it also says a lot about the individual saying it. If they are popular saying it - Pathetic. If they are unpopular saying it - Pathetic and likely 90%+ of the case. What's popularity got to do with anything, little man? If you're 'popular' with yourself, then you're pretty good to go as it is. Anyone worrying about the opinions of others is a chump at the end of the day. That's not to say friendship and family has no value though, so don't get that twisted either. |
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LayedBack said: Kagami said: I think a lot of unpopular or bitter people like to say anime fans are all anti-social losers. Not only is that mindset ignorant, it also says a lot about the individual saying it. If they are popular saying it - Pathetic. If they are unpopular saying it - Pathetic and likely 90%+ of the case. What's popularity got to do with anything, little man? If you're 'popular' with yourself, then you're pretty good to go as it is. Anyone worrying about the opinions of others is a chump at the end of the day. That's not to say friendship and family has no value though, so don't get that twisted either. I never actually said popularity has anything to do with the actual discussion at hand. I just don't buy all anime fans are either unpopular or anti-social. Like I said, I just believe mostly unpolular or bitter people like to say stuff like this to make themselves feel better. I also want to say, any anime fan who says we're all antisocial - please don't lump us in with your life. |
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| I haven't met an example but I believe they exist(and are plentiful) considering the evidence. I am not sure if they are the majority though. |
| I never met one so I can't really tell. But one thing tho, if they were antisocial and introvert, how the hell do they get all the money to keep buying those bluray and figure? If they had a job and a stable income, I don't think you could call them antisocial. |
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| What is the purpose of this glorious yet weird thread? Oh, I'm sorry..Is this anonymic alcoholics club? Don't be so fuckin' sad, you're your own person and be happy with it... I'm frckin' "Ginger/redhead"( no I'm not a stepchild :p ), already 23 years old...I have a fucking boring job in my own country, smoking since 15 (don't do that kiddos), only got 1 pussy since highschool ( I was drunk af, #dontjudge )....my life is not that bad (fuck you Pokemon Go)..good salary, close friends, great cooworkers...but damn...sometimes I feel the need to do something greater than living the same way over snd over....anime can't keep my hype to do something great...(yeah, all anime are shit nowadays)...the world isn't just about cartoons....we have sports/brutal fights irl/parties ( no more pussy ;( )...you just need to find something else to do...everyone have different hobbies and shit...my main hobby is to annoy people (that's fun until I get cought)...you can do whatever you want...if you don't want it/ u act like a pussy...I won't judge you (maybe, maybe not)...just u know that you're miserable human being lower than a cockroach |
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Kagami said: I never actually said popularity has anything to do with the actual discussion at hand. I just don't buy all anime fans are either unpopular or anti-social. Like I said, I just believe mostly unpolular or bitter people like to say stuff like this to make themselves feel better. I also want to say, any anime fan who says we're all antisocial - please don't lump us in with your life. Nah man, you're still on some popularity contest shit. Otherwise it wouldn't even factor in as a word/concept of any real value. Its okay though, you'll understand eventually. Until then, go buy yourself a dress and be a beauty queen or some shit. They'll love you for it >.> |
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LayedBack said: Kagami said: I never actually said popularity has anything to do with the actual discussion at hand. I just don't buy all anime fans are either unpopular or anti-social. Like I said, I just believe mostly unpolular or bitter people like to say stuff like this to make themselves feel better. I also want to say, any anime fan who says we're all antisocial - please don't lump us in with your life. Nah man, you're still on some popularity contest shit. Otherwise it wouldn't even factor in as a word/concept of any real value. Its okay though, you'll understand eventually. Until then, go buy yourself a dress and be a beauty queen or some shit. They'll love you for it >.> I assume you're either a troll or just dealing with a low IQ so I'll end it there. No good is going on with this. |
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| not really, but most of in japan probably. But yeah we mostly less-social but not anti-social |
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Yakysann said: I'm speechless and I want to cry ._. But has anime changed you in some way? My example would be after watching YuruYuri I saw how good friends the characters there were (unlike me and my friends who basically just talk trash about each other and when coming over to eachothers placed just end up staring at ouf phones and stuff) I wanted to change and become more of a real friend. First step was whem talking online I didn't just reply with "Yo, cool, K" and such things but actually gave them a full sentence. Also now I treat them more nicely not calling them stupid even if it's supposed to be a joke. So that's how anime has made me a better person and YuruYuri isn't only example. If anime has changed you like that too then maybe your parents may give at least tiny liking to it. I don't think one particular anime has had a significant impact on me, but rather anime as a whole. Before, I didn't really have a true thing I was working towards. Yea, I had the goal of getting a good job for money, but money for what? Now, with anime in my life, and I truly have a reason for myself to want to work hard, other than $$. Plus, anime has brought me to want to do things that I didn't really like. When I was a kid, I was forced to play piano even though I hate it. Anime made me want to relearn how to play piano so I could play the openings and closings I like. Now I'm in the process of walking towards my new goal, which is learning how to transcribe a piece of music, playing by ear, and just playing the music that I love to listen to. So I guess that's how anime has helped me for the better. |
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Kagami said: I assume you're either a troll or just dealing with a low IQ so I'll end it there. No good is going on with this. You try to teach some people man... lol. Store it in your brain somewhere, you'll understand one day when you realize how absolutely fucking stupid it is to care about 'popularity'. For real though, your ignorance is kinda cute. All part of being human I suppose. Surely enough I've learned everything the hard way myself. |
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| To talk about my social circle only, I know guys that openly watch and are centers of social networks, guys that openly watch and just about catch up with their surroundings, closet anime fans with high social status and closet anime fans with low social status. I know none of the pillow marrying variant. The answer seems to be depends. |
BrandNew_Lanz said: hm.. now that you mention it, the most social people i know are more into manga than animeTo talk about my social circle only, I know guys that openly watch and are centers of social networks, guys that openly watch and just about catch up with their surroundings, closet anime fans with high social status and closet anime fans with low social status. I know none of the pillow marrying variant. The answer seems to be depends. perhaps correlates with having less alone time |
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| It's a sterotype. All sterotypes have some truth to them, but using them to justify generalisations and other sweeping statements are bad. I would say that almost all "otaku"/"weeaboos"/whatever have more anti-social tendencies compared to those with more mainstream hobbies and interests, but that doesn't mean that they are all basement-dwelling neckbeards, only idiots say that to try and make themselves feel better when confronted with the fact that they too have become an anime fan. |
| Otakus? What are those?? If you mean the Japanese NEET type otakus, then yeah. Of course they're a little antisocial. Though not that much... Anime fans =/= Otakus |
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| Very similar situation as well. Have a few close friends that I hang out with and sometimes I'd rather stay home. There were times where I could go days without going outside (except to the store and stuff like that). Kinda weird since before I actively started watching anime I couldn't spend a whole day in house. |
 "So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us." |
| Please, be mindful of those who are indeed suffering from actual mental disfunctions, do not merely assume for someone to be making this up. I would essentially fit this descriptive stereotype, were we to look at the extent of me being unsociable. However, it is not because of anime (or any other type form of escapism; I do play a lot of videogames, read, and watch regular television series too) itself that I am seclusive and introverted. As someone with Asperger syndrome and a Generalized anxiety disorder, I can barely leave my home at the very moment. The provocations and fears have risen to their very peaks, and it has become almost unrealistically impossible for me to interact with actual human beings outside of my familiar area, which points only to my direct family, as I genuinely do not have a single friend. In my current state of mind, I cannot attend college or endure a work-environment, and I am undergoing a process that includes three different autism-focused therapists, simultaneously. Being pinned to my home, anime has simply been one of the elements that assists me in surviving yet another day. |
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| I was anti-social before I know anime So stop blaming anime for your personal problems ,anime is like any other medium |
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| In "what anime is most like your real life",quite a lot answer Welcome to NHK and Watamote so apparently it's quite true. Why is that a lot of anime fans seem to be social outcasts? https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110728145632AAj7XuM Lots of people certainly notice this trend where anime fans are social outcasts/awkward type of people. Compare to other form of medium, anime fans certainly has one of the highest social awkward people. Mainstream hobby such as sports fan for example, a lot of times are sociable. It makes sense though since when you want to play sports(soccer,basketball,football,baseball), you need to go out meet other people in real life to play it together. This is in contrast to anime fans (or video game fans) who shut themselves in their room and being couch potato watching anime. Maybe Pokémon Go can change things and make those hikkikomori going outside? |
ZapredonAug 31, 2016 12:44 AM
But it's important to remember that a movie review is subjective;it only gives you one person's opinion. http://www.classzone.com/books/lnetwork_gr08/page_build.cfm?content=analyz_media&ch=30 It doesn't matter if you like LoGH,Monster etc.If you are a jobless or college/school dropout living in your mom basement, you are still an unintelligent loser. Taste in anime does not make you a better person.If elitist don't exist, casual pleb and shit taste also don't exist. |
| Pretty much, yeah. It's just how we nerds are. However I'm positive that the majority of us are very lovable individuals, that can't find others who share the same passions or hobbies. The most socially common and acceptable "nerd" in the current society are videogamers. Unfortunately, anime doesn't make you look any better to the eyes of a... "Normie" |
| I didn't know there were anime fans that weren't unsocial losers? |
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