| Women know what they're wearing and why they're doing it. It's never for comfort. Same reason why in shape guys wear tank tops or tight fitness clothing. It's to receive attention, to feel good when you see people noticing your physique. We put so much emphasis on the sexuality of the human body, both males and females. Which is why fitness, models and physical beauty is considered such an important attribute in our world. When we see women in booty shorts with a plump booty, and a crop top showing a lot of cleavage, we're all thinking the same thing. We're thinking about sex. "It's just a butt" or "it's just breasts" is an argument I always hear. If they were as meaningless and as unimportant as people say they are, porn, strip clubs, modeling, fitness etc etc wouldn't be as impactful on our society as it actually is. There's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. When we see an attractive body we start to fantasize and think about sex. No other way around it. My point being you can wear whatever you want but if you receive attention from some one you didn't want it from, or in a way you didn't want it, or are treated like a whore then just know you were asking it for it and can't blame any one but your self |
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| consider a woman's "promiscuity" is actually for herself—wanting to dress nice because she wants to feel confident, cool, and sexy—rather than thinking "oh today i just really want someone to stare at my ass, and treat me like meat" |
| Isn't this the same guy who made a thread about dating minors or something? Woman can dress how they want? |
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| Exactly. Get your ass in a burqa tbh. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
| Although I know this is meant as gr8 b8, I sorta agree with OP. And I'm a girl. I tried to explain my reasoning, but I couldn't put it into proper words lol |
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| Because they want to wear what they want without other people bothering them. |
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| At times it might not be for comfort, but most girls dress for comfort. Also, they'd dress in cute clothes, and they could wear it for themselves, or for someone else either way no wants to be objectified by random strangers. |
| This man speaks the truth. If a girl wears clothes that make her look hot, she shouldn`t complain about people checking her out, because it`s nature. Science has shown that there is a tendency to always pass on traits that will increase the rate of reproduction (Sexual selection) and this is the same when a girl is displaying her tits or ass. Females do this most likely intentionally if they make them stand out through clothing. |
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| Why is this question on every single possible social network? It's clothes. Also I can't take you seriously when you use the phrase "she was asking for it". |
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| There's positive and negative forms of attention in this regard ;) Like you can't just go around treating women or men like dumb bimbos... you have to treat them like demi goddesses or something. And hopefully be godlike enough yourself haha. |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| gr8 b8 but for what it's worth: No, women dress however they like because they want to feel more confident and cool for themselves. And no, you cannot stare at someone and make them feel uncomfortable and awkward just because you are horny af. Have some respect for others and their boundaries. You have a brain so use it instead of blaming your rude behavior on your 'impulses'. |
| the objetification comes from the one objectifying, assuming it comes from the one being objectified is so dumb.. |
| Remember guys, I AM NOT A PARAGON OF TASTE. I HAVE SHIT TASTE LIKE THE REST OF YOU. |
grimace said: Theres other ways to dress nice and feel good in the clothes you wear. Wearing less of it is no longer about the clothes but more about the body that one is clearly trying to show off. If I walk out in public with my penis out, I expect people to look and stare.consider a woman's "promiscuity" is actually for herself—wanting to dress nice because she wants to feel confident, cool, and sexy—rather than thinking "oh today i just really want someone to stare at my ass, and treat me like meat" |
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Rei said: the only one here who looks like an idiot is you cause your lack of a legitimate argumentThis topic makes you look like an idiot, can't blame anyone else but yourself. Also, this topic has been done already, move on please. |
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21 said: penis =/= cleavage though wha don't compare genitals with that stuffgrimace said: Theres other ways to dress nice and feel good in the clothes you wear. Wearing less of it is no longer about the clothes but more about the body that one is clearly trying to show off. If I walk out in public with my penis out, I expect people to look and stare.consider a woman's "promiscuity" is actually for herself—wanting to dress nice because she wants to feel confident, cool, and sexy—rather than thinking "oh today i just really want someone to stare at my ass, and treat me like meat" |
Sorakaa said: i clearly said they are allowed to dress however they want, I'm not here to stop them of their rights. But don't go crying cause you were groped at a bar cause you wanted to show off your ass and tits to the entire worldIsn't this the same guy who made a thread about dating minors or something? Woman can dress how they want? |
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21 said: Women know what they're wearing and why they're doing it. It's never for comfort. Same reason why in shape guys wear tank tops or tight fitness clothing. It's to receive attention, to feel good when you see people noticing your physique. We put so much emphasis on the sexuality of the human body, both males and females. Which is why fitness, models and physical beauty is considered such an important attribute in our world. When we see women in booty shorts with a plump booty, and a crop top showing a lot of cleavage, we're all thinking the same thing. We're thinking about sex. "It's just a butt" or "it's just breasts" is an argument I always hear. If they were as meaningless and as unimportant as people say they are, porn, strip clubs, modeling, fitness etc etc wouldn't be as impactful on our society as it actually is. There's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession. When we see an attractive body we start to fantasize and think about sex. No other way around it. My point being you can wear whatever you want but if you receive attention from some one you didn't want it from, or in a way you didn't want it, or are treated like a whore then just know you were asking it for it and can't blame any one but your self I like the way you think. I personally think human sexuality is a beautiful thing and our bodies should be flaunted when they're in shape cause they're something to be proud of. After all, your body is a temple and the better you take care of it, the better impression that makes for yourself. It becomes a problem however when people are harassed for their choice to dress a certain way. That really scares people, ya know? I like to wear booty shorts all the time, but I'd be really uncomfortable if people stared at me too much or tried to hit on me. I dunno. I say live and be free. |
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Thebigofan said: Riiight, they dress in skimpy clothing explosing the bottom of their butt cheeks, explosing their stomach and cleavage because they don't want to be bothered, they're wanting the opposite of attention. In fact wearing less clothing is only a camaflouge in hopes of blending in to thier surroundings and being unnoticed. Makes perfect sense to me.Because they want to wear what they want without other people bothering them. |
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21 said: Sorakaa said: i clearly said they are allowed to dress however they want, I'm not here to stop them of their rights. But don't go crying cause you were groped at a bar cause you wanted to show off your ass and tits to the entire worldIsn't this the same guy who made a thread about dating minors or something? Woman can dress how they want? I'm not a girl but if I was and was hot I sure as fuck would be showing my tits and ass off |
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tofu said: its just clothes? It's just tits and ass? As if the human body has no control over othersWhy is this question on every single possible social network? It's clothes. Also I can't take you seriously when you use the phrase "she was asking for it". |
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| Because it's the same thing black people go through for. They'll get judged/mistreated either way. Have a black man with his pants pulled up in a suit he's just as liable to get shot as a black man in tombs with his pants down to his knees |
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Fellener said: If I walk into a police station with a fake gun in a threatening matter, I'm asking to get shotthe objetification comes from the one objectifying, assuming it comes from the one being objectified is so dumb.. We're allowed to wear and say whatever you want, but there's always consequences so choose wisely |
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21 said: your logic makes no sense whatever.Fellener said: If I walk into a police station with a fake gun in a threatening matter, I'm asking to get shotthe objetification comes from the one objectifying, assuming it comes from the one being objectified is so dumb.. We're allowed to wear and say whatever you want, but there's always consequences so choose wisely girls are not wearing revealing clothes and asking people to grope them. they're just wearing clothes. that's like saying if someone is wearing muslim traditional clothes in public, they're asking to get arrested for possessing bombs. |
21 said: Sorakaa said: i clearly said they are allowed to dress however they want, I'm not here to stop them of their rights. But don't go crying cause you were groped at a bar cause you wanted to show off your ass and tits to the entire worldIsn't this the same guy who made a thread about dating minors or something? Woman can dress how they want? Dressing in any way, whether provocative or not, does not warrant sexual assault. |
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| ever heard of the saying "u can look, but u can't touch"? ;) |
Nvortex said: retweetxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxDressing in any way, whether provocative or not, does not warrant sexual assault. |
21 said: Sorakaa said: i clearly said they are allowed to dress however they want, I'm not here to stop them of their rights. But don't go crying cause you were groped at a bar cause you wanted to show off your ass and tits to the entire worldIsn't this the same guy who made a thread about dating minors or something? Woman can dress how they want? If a person goes around sexually harassing people then it's clear that he has a serious problem. Wearing clothes of your preference is no one's business but yours. It does not mean you are giving your consent to be treated disgustingly, as if other people own you. |
21 said: grimace said: Theres other ways to dress nice and feel good in the clothes you wear. Wearing less of it is no longer about the clothes but more about the body that one is clearly trying to show off. If I walk out in public with my penis out, I expect people to look and stare.consider a woman's "promiscuity" is actually for herself—wanting to dress nice because she wants to feel confident, cool, and sexy—rather than thinking "oh today i just really want someone to stare at my ass, and treat me like meat" women dont walk about with their sexual organ hanging out for your gratitude. women can dress any way they want u fool |
| It makes me sad to think theres people who actually thinks this way and arent even trolling. |
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grimace said: consider a woman's "promiscuity" is actually for herself—wanting to dress nice because she wants to feel confident, cool, and sexy—rather than thinking "oh today i just really want someone to stare at my ass, and treat me like meat" Yeah like- honestly ? Women want to wear what they think looks good on them- they want to look good for themselves. We've all got opinions on what colors / clothes / ect. we think we look best in- fav shirts, outfits, shorts, whatever... It's not up to you what women wear. They can and should wear whatever they want. Agree w u 100% Grimace my pal..... |
| Sure, no one can stop you from watching. But that should be the only thing you can do. You're not an animal unable to control your instincts, you're a human being capable of rational thinking. So, just because a woman is showing her body doesn't mean you can grope her or touch her, you're in no way entitled to her body just because some parts of it are exposed. Just like you're not entitled to eat food you see just because someone is cooking it; or to take shoes from a store just because they're on a display. If people can't control their urges then they're no better than animals. |
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| A little lost here, who has said you can't ogle someone? Is it polite? No. Is it creepy? Yes. However I don't recall it being any type of crime. Same with opinions you form of them, if you see a person walking around in a shirt full of food stains, and a pair of sweats, you can damn sure think they are a slob even if in reality they just took part in the world's largest food fight and decided to wear some already old and torn clothing. Same with if someone is walking around scantily clad, you can even go as far as thinking "wow that person is a @#$%", nobody is policing your thoughts. However keep your hands and thoughts to yourself. |
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21 said: tofu said: its just clothes? It's just tits and ass? As if the human body has no control over othersWhy is this question on every single possible social network? It's clothes. Also I can't take you seriously when you use the phrase "she was asking for it". The body parts you mentioned do have a lot of importance in the current world, but you know, there is a difference between porn/prostitution/whatever and a girl wearing less clothes in a situation that has nothing to do with some random men. I mean, you can objectify anyone in your mind, it's not like it's forbidden. But I'm sure that some of the girls who wear stuff for attention only want others to look at them, not to get assaulted. Then again, it's just SOME girls -- the others dress up for themselves only. Either way men just have to control themselves. Literally just that. Is that so hard to do? Dressing up a certain way is not an invitation nor a permission for you to do anything, unless you're completely sure it is. Wearing something is not 'asking for it', asking for it is when she comes to you and asks for it. |
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| Yea I don't get it. You make yourself look nice, then complain when someone compliments you. They probably do want people to look at them subconsciously, but they only want attention from certain people. |
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UnpopularAnime said: yeah groping and cat calling is compliments sureYea I don't get it. You make yourself look nice, then complain when someone compliments you. They probably do want people to look at them subconsciously, but they only want attention from certain people. sure |
| > Why do women dress promiscuous and get upset when they're objectified? Because they're not objects... |
| Because sexualization is different from objectification and anyone who can't make that distinction is a lamp post. |
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Goofs said: grimace said: I agree with your overall sentiments and how women dress how they want for them, I just have a problem with that one part, how can someone want to feel sexy, yet not want people to treat her like she's sexy?consider a woman's "promiscuity" is actually for herself—wanting to dress nice because she wants to feel confident, cool, and sexy—rather than thinking "oh today i just really want someone to stare at my ass, and treat me like meat" lmao makes no sense. would be like me trying to dress in a way to show off my muscles and not wanting women to stare. I dress that way specifically so women will stare lol its like when people want to dress up when they've got nothing to do. they want to look good and feel good. its empowering. |
| I am of the opinion that women know exactly what they are wearing, spend much time in the mirror making sure it is exact before they leave the house. I assume then, that what I see will be what she is. If she is dressed like a prostitute, then I assume she is one. If she is dressed respectable, I assume she is respectable. If she dresses like a muslim, I will assume she is one. If she dresses like a teenager, I will assume she is one or has the mentality of one. If she dresses like trailer trash, I will assume she is trailer trash. If she dresses like royalty, i will assume she is royal. I will treat all of these women differently based on the assumptions they have given me in the way they choose to present themselves. Any man with an IQ over 87 should be able to keep his thoughts and hands to himself. Women need to realize that more than half of the world's male population is under 87. Don't assume that you can dress as you wish in the presence of sub 87 IQ men and think that everything will be fine, or that other men will have to jump in and rescue you for your own stupidity. |
| idk about you but the closer a girl gets to looking like ronald mcdonald, the more aroused i become. CAV where can we cast our eyes to @PoruMairu who thinks of himself a member of the true church. Helion. |
| They have the right to be angry, considering that you're disrespecting them and dehumanizing them by making them look like tools or objects designed to surrender to the creeps who do that kind of stuff out in public. I understand someone's frustration towards the fact that someone is degrading and being all creepy towards them. Blaming the way someone chooses to wear for creepy people to oogle you and degrade you is such a dumb and ignorant argument. You're only targeting just another symptom, not the actual issue of "sick" people doing questionable things. That's the real root of the problem. Same idea applies to the media blaming violence with video games and lack of common sense when playing games such as pokemon go leading to accidents and fatalities. Crazy people in our society, man. |
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Fellener said: the objetification comes from the one objectifying, assuming it comes from the one being objectified is so dumb.. Pretty much this is right answer...... |
PoruMairu said: I am of the opinion that women know exactly what they are wearing, spend much time in the mirror making sure it is exact before they leave the house. I assume then, that what I see will be what she is. If she is dressed like a prostitute, then I assume she is one. If she is dressed respectable, I assume she is respectable. If she dresses like a muslim, I will assume she is one. If she dresses like a teenager, I will assume she is one or has the mentality of one. If she dresses like trailer trash, I will assume she is trailer trash. If she dresses like royalty, i will assume she is royal. I will treat all of these women differently based on the assumptions they have given me in the way they choose to present themselves. Any man with an IQ over 87 should be able to keep his thoughts and hands to himself. Women need to realize that more than half of the world's male population is under 87. Don't assume that you can dress as you wish in the presence of sub 87 IQ men and think that everything will be fine, or that other men will have to jump in and rescue you for your own stupidity. so you will treat a woman as a prostitute if she looks like one. wow. 150 iq right here guys. I'm sure no girls that aren't hookers like to wear that type of stuff. nope. |
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| And any man not wearing a shirt is obviously a male whore. Sorry everyone, but this definitely is a circumstance of double standards, whether we like it or not. |
Mayuka said: i never said I was talking about groping......UnpopularAnime said: yeah groping and cat calling is compliments sureYea I don't get it. You make yourself look nice, then complain when someone compliments you. They probably do want people to look at them subconsciously, but they only want attention from certain people. sure |
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Thrashinuva said: Men don't wear shirts for comfort, while women will wear things like high heels, which aren't comfortable. Also, men not wearing shirts are likely to want to be noticed for it.And any man not wearing a shirt is obviously a male whore. Sorry everyone, but this definitely is a circumstance of double standards, whether we like it or not. |
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UnpopularAnime said: Thrashinuva said: Men don't wear shirts for comfort, while women will wear things like high heels, which aren't comfortable.And any man not wearing a shirt is obviously a male whore. Sorry everyone, but this definitely is a circumstance of double standards, whether we like it or not. That's beyond the point. The user was pointing out a double standard based on ignorantly judging people on appearance. |
UnpopularAnime said: Thrashinuva said: Men don't wear shirts for comfort, while women will wear things like high heels, which aren't comfortable. Also, men not wearing shirts are likely to want to be noticed for it.And any man not wearing a shirt is obviously a male whore. Sorry everyone, but this definitely is a circumstance of double standards, whether we like it or not. Men don't wear jock straps for comfort either. Not all women are the same. Not all men are the same. Plenty of men live in the world of sports while plenty of women live in the world of glamour. If we want to be more universally objectifying and stereotypical against men, we can say that all men who wear pants below their waist are just begging to get shot by a cop. If they look like a thug committing violent crimes, then they probably are one, right? We could go on all day. Point is, there's one sided judgement going on here, while all the male side gets a pass. |
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