I er what? Equality...wth colleges?

Spooks said:
Who comes up with these retarded posters forcing further segregation and fear among the sexes.

Astros said:
It's fine, just claim you didn't consent to it either. Oh wait...

Lothloran said:

Don't forget there are scores of feminists (Laci Green being one of them) who will argue till they pass out that women cannot rape men. EVER.
That rape is something ONLY men can do because some SJW double think, bullshit mental gymnastics, etc etc etc. Something about power and privilege or some shit

Spooks said:


Well they are legally correct here its impossible for a woman to rape a man, there's no law against it. women can't be charged with it. Nobody seems to be in a hurry to fix that law though you know...equality!

Lothloran said:

It's times like these where I wish my mother was more into blowjobs, maybe I could have been swallowed instead.

RedRoseFring said:
This is apparently the equality that some feminists want. The irony is lost on them. In fact, irony is just a tool of the patriarchy.

Eminem said:
Maybe he should stop drinking. Problem solved.

Tachycardic said:
http://www.dailydot.com/lifestyle/anti-rape-poster-reddit-conversations/

Apparently this poster is from 2008...
Hopefully, things have changed since then.

FreshPrinceofMAL said:

They haven't changed, this is still a relevant thing.

A guy can have 15 shots and drink 12 beers, while the girl can have only 1 beer, then be invited back to her place have consensual sex and still be charged with rape if the girl so chooses to do so. This is an extreme example that probably wouldn't hold up in court but this is just how ridiculous it's gotten.

truisms said:

it's not an example if it's never happened tho. can you give actual examples of something similar happening that resulted in charges being laid? edit: i agree it makes very little sense in some of the contexts in which it is applied.

FreshPrinceofMAL said:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-watch/wp/2015/06/02/why-do-high-profile-campus-rape-stories-keep-falling-apart/

http://www.wsj.com/articles/former-cornell-student-sues-school-alleging-he-was-falsely-accused-for-sexual-assault-1426799783

http://time.com/100091/campus-sexual-assault-christina-hoff-sommers/

truisms said:


wtf? the wsj link is a paywall, the time link has nothing to do with examples of people being charged for mutually drunk sex, and the first also has nothing to do with it.
the first one cites several prominent stories, none of which resulted in charges from the college... they were false, but don't support your point. in addition the rolling stone story was not rape because she was drunk. it was rape because she was drugged.
like, i agree that the notion that drunk sex is inevitably rape, for the woman, is stupid. but i don't think you can prove a consistent application of the law w/r/t drunk sex that inevitably favors women either. i do think there are major flaws with the current system that ignores the legal system. it's substantially more complicated than you're making it out to be though. idk. maybe if i saw more examples that actually represented what you say they do.

cause said:


accusing someone of rape, even if found innocent, still has social impact on your character. take for example those football players who were accused of gangraping a girl at a frat party about a year ago. media blew it up condemning these guys, they lost their credibility. even with the police coming out and saying "there was no evidence of a crime" and the girl basically changing her story 3 different times because it was found there wasn't a party on the day in question. they still lost pretty much their lives to this. how can anyone ever look at you the same way when you're accused of rape.

truisms said:

i agree with you but am unsure what that has to do with college specifically. one of the links above relates to that story i think, and they weren't named afaik? like, i agree with you.

cause said:


college is the hallmark of kids trying new things and partying. so it makes sense you have a lot of these things happening in that environment. and some people regret it when that morning after happens.

truisms said:

yeah i agree. i do think there's an issue if that many people choose to take action tho - but it's not solely men's fault. i think the issue is that there's no way to see the number of assaults that essentially add to we were both drunk vs. the number of actual assaults through i.e. violence, drugging, or somebody drunk and saying no, etc. personally i suspect the latter outweigh the former.

cause said:


any sort of figure on the topic is usually skewed. people say 1 in 4 women will be a victim of rape in college. when the study that is used for that figure included things that were not rape. things that weren't even sexual harassment. figures are loaded.

traed said:
Well a double rape would be a bit silly wouldn't it? Both people being "victims" and both being "rapists". Either both are or neither are except in the cases of one being quite incapable of responding from being nearly passout drunk then its pretty obvious. Alcohol only loosens inhibitions, it does not put ideas in your head that do not already exist. If someone consents to sex while a little drunk they really do want it on at least some level.

cause said:

accusing someone of rape, even if found innocent, still has social impact on your character.

Writing in a blog, he argued that the overwhelming majority of people ‘don’t have to be taught to not be a rapist’ – and that men inclined to commit the crime would be unlikely to attend such a workshop.

He added that he found his invitation to one of the sessions ‘incredibly hurtful’.

George Lawlor, 19, driven out of lectures and bars with shouts of ‘rapist’

the student faced a fierce backlash from radical feminists. He was attacked on Twitter and Facebook by student activists branding him a ‘rapist’ and ‘misogynist

The abuse was so bad that he stopped going to lectures

Mr Lawlor said Warwick student paper The Boar ‘got all their writers together to gang up’ on him with two one-sided articles. Others deleted him as a Facebook contact and sent abusive messages.

He added: ‘In real life, the bus to university was the worst … I heard people talking to each other saying, “I really want to hit that kid”. Walking through campus, people would go silent as I walked past. It was really scary … it got really nasty.’

He said that when he ran in student union elections, someone wrote on his Facebook page, ‘I want to give this guy minus one vote’, followed by another user adding, ‘I want to give this guy minus 100 per cent oxygen’.

He said he was driven out of a bar in Leamington after some students overheard his friend mention his name. ‘These six guys just crowded round me and started shouting at me … calling me a rapist, a misogynist, and threatening me … I had to get out of there,’ he said.

‘I don’t want to play the victim card, but afterwards I cried.’

Mr Lawlor suggested his ordeal will have a chilling effect on other students. He said many had told him they agreed with the article but were afraid to back him publicly.

‘It’s all part of this no-platforming agenda, where they try and create “safe spaces” … but no-one ever thought to question whether I was in a “safe space”,’ he said. ‘People were calling for me to be expelled. You’re only allowed to talk about certain issues, it seems.’

He added: ‘When you search my name all you find is my name next to the word “rapist”. If you want to be a doctor or a lawyer you don’t want to risk having this sort of reputation

traed said:
Well a double rape would be a bit silly wouldn't it? Both people being "victims" and both being "rapists". Either both are or neither are except in the cases of one being quite incapable of responding from being nearly passout drunk then its pretty obvious. Alcohol only loosens inhibitions, it does not put ideas in your head that do not already exist. If someone consents to sex while a little drunk they really do want it on at least some level.

Nilin said:
This poster was from over 7 years ago m8.

I remember hearing about this tbh. Dumb af, but...7 years ago though