| With the exception of being your job, extreme situation, or you owing favors to her, would you help out a chick who has a boyfriend? I mean, how would you feel if you were helping out this chick many many times, and then later, after helping her out so many times, you find out that she has a boyfriend? How would you feel about you doing all the non-happy work and then the boyfriend getting all of her? Would you tell her to tell your boyfriend to earn you, etc? |
| If a girl has a boyfriend, I consider her to be a man and all sexual attraction goes away. So I wouldn't be bothered. |
| if you're only helping someone out in order to get in their pants, you're an incredibly shallow person and don't deserve them in the first place. |
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| I'd help anyone if they needed it. I don't do all my thinking with my dick, you know. |
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| Nah, thats the boyfriend's job |
| Maybe you should be more forward in your dating game than by being a beta so that when she inevitably says no, you don't have to waste anybodys time and you both can move on |
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Ravioli_Ravioli said: if you're only helping someone out in order to get in their pants, you're an incredibly shallow person and don't deserve them in the first place. You can say that about anything. If you are nice to your boss because you want a raise, you shouldn't have the job in the first place. |
| I would, there is no malice in it. |
PoeticJustice said: Ravioli_Ravioli said: if you're only helping someone out in order to get in their pants, you're an incredibly shallow person and don't deserve them in the first place. You can say that about anything. If you are nice to your boss because you want a raise, you shouldn't have the job in the first place. and? |
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Ravioli_Ravioli said: PoeticJustice said: You can say that about anything. If you are nice to your boss because you want a raise, you shouldn't have the job in the first place. and? it isn't shallow, it is called getting ahead. Nobody wants to talk socrates to a girl they just met. Sometimes we want that give and take. u take my time and u give me da puanny. It is called equivalent exchange in FMA terms. |
| If you suddenly find that you like a girl and want to pursue a relationship, tell her. (Edit: If she has a boyfriend, you'll find out right then and there.) Being the dude that just hangs around saying and doing nice things isn't going to get you anywhere to begin with, either. This kind of situation can be avoided 100% of the time. But as for the question, yes if she's a friend, just as I would regularly help out any other person I knew. |
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| Why would her having a boyfriend interfere with the decision to help her ? |
| I do all the time if I care about them |
| absolutely fucking not |
Ravioli_Ravioli said: if you're only helping someone out in order to get in their pants, you're an incredibly shallow person and don't deserve them in the first place. |
| If she's a friend sure. You don't need to try and get into every single female's pants. |
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| Will help. Saw girlfriends mother. GFs Mother was single watdo |
| Twitter and it's consequences had been a disaster for the human race |
Paella_ said: Take the NTR route ofc ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)Will help. Saw girlfriends mother. GFs Mother was single watdo |
| Idc, more importantly is the female my friend or a stranger? |
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| As long as shes not trying to use me I offer my help to everyone regardless of the situation. |
Paella_ said: Will help. Saw girlfriends mother. GFs Mother was single watdo get the with mother. |
| I'll help out anyone who needs it. Especially a friend. I don't understand why having a boyfriend would change that. I am not looking for that kind of reward (or any reward, for that matter). |
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Mooncake said: PoeticJustice said: threesome?get the with mother. might as well invite the whole family at that point |
| thats a very thirsty way of looking at girls. |
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| As long as she isn't married, sure. |
PoeticJustice said: what a good way to celebrate Christmas tbhMooncake said: threesome? might as well invite the whole family at that point |
| Twitter and it's consequences had been a disaster for the human race |
Paella_ said: PoeticJustice said: what a good way to celebrate Christmas tbhmight as well invite the whole family at that point Family traditions are the best. |
| Why wouldn't you help anybody in need? What makes a difference if they are males or females? What ignorance u-u |
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PoeticJustice said: Ravioli_Ravioli said: and? it isn't shallow, it is called getting ahead. Nobody wants to talk socrates to a girl they just met. Sometimes we want that give and take. u take my time and u give me da puanny. It is called equivalent exchange in FMA terms. this was 10/10 I reject everything I have said ever and will sit in a corner rethinking my entire life brb. |
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| Probably, at least I wouldn't be more or less likely to help them than a male. |
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| I think you might like this, OP. OT: I would still help her. |
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| I think I would be just as likely as if she didn't or if it was a man . . . Not sure why I would give a shit if she has a boyfriend. Although I should mention that the probability of me helping someone is pretty damn low unless they ask and then it really depends what it is. |
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| I think I would get anxiety and be too fearful to be of assistance, helping out someone I don't know, but I don't think having a boyfriend has anything to do with the decision to help. |
| What's a female? What's a boyfriend? Where the fuck am I? |
| Why would I think differently. If a gal wants help I be a man an help. Not everything is about chasing tail... |
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zombie_pegasus said: I think you might like this, OP. OT: I would still help her. Lol this was great. I usually don't help out anyone in a big way unless we know each other pretty well and I trust them. If it's a random small favor like carrying something for 5 minutes and I'm not busy yea sure. |
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| Absolutely not |
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| Lol. |
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Yes said: >a female >implying I would help someone who isn't a friend. This. Also, >Implying I interact with females at all outside of work |
| I'm dead. Don't come looking for me. |
Ravioli_Ravioli said: if you're only helping someone out in order to get in their pants, you're an incredibly shallow person and don't deserve them in the first place. +1 |
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| Only if they're a friend, otherwise I ain't got time for this shit. |
| I'd still help her. Why not? Just because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her an ungrateful bitch. |
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| Help wont hurt right? |
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