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Dec 2, 2015 12:17 PM
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I wouldnt complain if I havent already tried EVERYTHING to find a girlfriend.

Few days ago I joined the biggest dating site in my country. I know a shitload of people who found their future partners there. I chatted to a few girls I liked, I just typed "hi, whats up?"...you know what happened?

Out of all these girls none of them even bothered to reply.
Instead I got a message from a pedo looking guy twice my age who tried to flirt with me

I screamed and deleted my account
Dec 2, 2015 12:19 PM
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Asterothx said:
sle91 said:


because no one hits on me, obviously


You're a guy aren't you?

Are you honestly suprised by the fact that no one hits on you?


1. yes
2. uhmm...yes? I feel like there is something I should know...why shouldnt I be surprised?
Dec 2, 2015 12:19 PM

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sle91 said:
I wouldnt complain if I havent already tried EVERYTHING to find a girlfriend.

Few days ago I joined the biggest dating site in my country. I know a shitload of people who found their future partners there. I chatted to a few girls I liked, I just typed "hi, whats up?"...you know what happened?

Out of all these girls none of them even bothered to reply.
Instead I got a message from a pedo looking guy twice my age who tried to flirt with me

I screamed and deleted my account
that's online dating, some girls are flooded with responses so they ignore most of it

don't take it so personally
Dec 2, 2015 12:25 PM
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Act like a humorous girl. Work everytime.
Someone believe I hv Fantasy Prone Personality, in short, FPP.
So I decided to live up to it, Yay!
Dec 2, 2015 1:30 PM

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Adopt the "haters gonna hate" attitude.

Dec 2, 2015 1:32 PM

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Personality is more important than what you might think.
Dec 2, 2015 1:37 PM

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Seriously, a shitty relationship with a controlling person is FAR worse than being single. Being single isn't so bad, seriously.
〜(^∇^〜)Life is meaningless! 〜(^∇^〜)
Dec 2, 2015 1:58 PM

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AnimuPerson420 said:
Seriously, a shitty relationship with a controlling person is FAR worse than being single. Being single isn't so bad, seriously.


Dec 2, 2015 2:33 PM

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Kyuss said:
get a gym membership
Dec 2, 2015 2:34 PM

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Drugs said:
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realize there's more to life than getting laid.
sounds like something somebody that isn't getting laid would say
Drugs said:
TheShepherd said:
realize there's more to life than getting laid.
sounds like something somebody that isn't getting laid would say
Dec 2, 2015 3:02 PM

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at least u have family!:)
Dec 2, 2015 3:04 PM

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TheShepherd said:
realize there's more to life than getting laid.


well life does come from having sex so that's a tough one.

I'm in this situation myself, but I'm still young, but I would just go to the gym a lot and hopefully meet someone there.
Dec 2, 2015 3:13 PM

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I knew who the OP was before I even opened up the thread.
Dec 2, 2015 3:18 PM

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live a meaningless existence without hot gf and cry

play games all day so you numb the pain the cheaper and better way (instead of alchohol or drugs)
lots of music -
Dec 2, 2015 3:20 PM

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incisorr said:
live a meaningless existence without hot gf and cry

play games all day so you numb the pain the cheaper and better way (instead of alchohol or drugs)


damn, that hit me hard ;__;
Dec 2, 2015 3:47 PM
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How old are you? If not that old, maybe don't worry about it so much atm...
Dec 2, 2015 3:54 PM
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DarkNectarMaster said:
How old are you? If not that old, maybe don't worry about it so much atm...


mid 20's
Dec 2, 2015 3:56 PM
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sle91 said:
DarkNectarMaster said:
How old are you? If not that old, maybe don't worry about it so much atm...


mid 20's
Hmm... I'm sure someone in your life, at one point, even had it been a man, showed attraction towards you? Right?
Dec 2, 2015 3:59 PM

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Find a hobby and move on. There's a lot more to life than people finding you unattractive.
Dec 2, 2015 4:05 PM

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Try not caring, like I do. Works for me. I know (or at least assume) that no girl out there will ever find me attractive, but I don't care. It's not a life or death situation, I can live and be happy without a girlfriend or wife. :D
Dec 2, 2015 4:20 PM

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Stop making posts about it cause then people see how desperate you are and don't want to be around you or talk to you?
Dec 2, 2015 5:38 PM

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unattractiveness = non-confidence
confidence = attractiveness
Dec 2, 2015 5:42 PM

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You can attract people with confidence. There have been many people that I didn't find physically attractive at first glance but now do because of their personality. It is hard to do of course, especially when you've been told you were ugly or whatever, but just keep in mind that visible insecurity can increase your unattractiveness exponentially. You can do this!
Dec 2, 2015 5:54 PM

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Cry and start worshiping Satan because god did you wrong.

Dec 2, 2015 5:59 PM

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sle91 said:
tell me











lewd is love, lewd is life !

Dec 2, 2015 10:53 PM

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If a person only likes you for your looks, she/he ain't worth keeping
Dec 2, 2015 10:55 PM

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Rat said:
incisorr said:
live a meaningless existence without hot gf and cry

play games all day so you numb the pain the cheaper and better way (instead of alchohol or drugs)

How are games "better" than drugs?


Drugs gives endorphins without any effort and that's not fun
Dec 2, 2015 11:00 PM

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get some plastic surgery
Dec 2, 2015 11:01 PM

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Rat said:
Kneku said:
Drugs gives endorphins without any effort and that's not fun

I don't remember putting any effort in games.
Only flight simulators when you're up for a combat pilot test require effort (and dark souls).


Try starcraft, addictive,rewarding and way better for brain than chess and sudoku
Dec 2, 2015 11:05 PM
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You shouldn't take advice from me, sle. :U

First thing you do is update your anime list with the ratings and everything. You might think this is worthless, but it actually tells you a lot about yourself. What do you like? What's important for your list? Care about when you started or finished? And so on.

After you find yourself, you start going around seeing what all those things mean for you in the real world. How do the things you like in shows and in your list reflect how you interact with things or people?

After you figure out who you are, it doesn't really matter if no one finds you attractive or not; you'll be so absorbed in pursuing and learning even more about yourself that you won't even have time to get to know and love anyone else. If someone actually does come around, you can stop and go for them.

You're best friend should be you; so spend time searching for you when there isn't anyone else to search for.

Enjoy your anime! | Witch Cafe Wisteria
Dec 2, 2015 11:09 PM

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Get a 2D waifu and realize that you don't need real women.

Thanks, person who gave me this on another site a long time ago, lol.
Dec 2, 2015 11:14 PM

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Go on a shooting rampage I suppose. That seems to be the trend...

Please don't say this, there might be idiots who take this seriously

that was.... oddly prophetic lol.
Dec 2, 2015 11:20 PM
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My close friend is missing all of his front teeth and has a cleft lip and drools but he knows a few girls who would sit on said cleft lip. There's always hope! :D
Dec 2, 2015 11:31 PM
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sle91 said:
DarkNectarMaster said:
How old are you? If not that old, maybe don't worry about it so much atm...


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Enough. You need to stop this foolishness and focus on being a wizard. Once you've abstained from sex for thirty years, you become eligible to obtain this status. You're so close to this chance that I can't even imagine why you'd pass it up.

There are benefits to not being attractive, friend. I will be joining you in the path of wizardry, so don't feel that you're alone.

Enjoy your anime! | Witch Cafe Wisteria
Dec 2, 2015 11:48 PM

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sle91 said:
Asterothx said:


You're a guy aren't you?

Are you honestly suprised by the fact that no one hits on you?


1. yes
2. uhmm...yes? I feel like there is something I should know...why shouldnt I be surprised?


Most girls won't go out of their way to hit on you unless you're ATLEAST above average looking
Dec 3, 2015 12:14 AM

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Get a hooker dude.
Dec 3, 2015 2:22 AM
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DarkNectarMaster said:
Hmm... I'm sure someone in your life, at one point, even had it been a man, showed attraction towards you? Right?


Well, no...I mean, I would notice if someone hits on me...what makes you so sure?

Asterothx said:

Most girls won't go out of their way to hit on you unless you're ATLEAST above average looking


Thats not true at all. Two of my friends are average looking and get hit by girls all the time. They never make the first move.
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Immerse yourself in your passions.
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