Usagi said: What I meant is that someone people who are in a relationship have less sex than you do so it's no reason to feel ashamed.It's Christmas and my birthday every week? Clearly I have been getting cheated out of many presents that I apparently should have been receiving. |
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zombie_pegasus said: What I meant is that someone people who are in a relationship have less sex than you do so it's no reason to feel ashamed. Oh, that's not quite as fun as the picture I had in my mind. :( Jokes aside, I don't think that having sex once a week is something someone should feel even remotely ashamed of. You don't have to hump like rabbits every single day or so to have an active and happy sex life with your partner. I also don't have that kind of free time every night, so being aroused that often would be a major pain in the ass. |
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Fintan said: Chiki said: Didn't I just say I'm not a virgin? You're not the sharpest tool in the shed are you? Why would need to be a virgin to be insecure or jealous? apparently you're not a sharp tool :( |
zombie_pegasus said: khunter said: Some people either can't have sex or don't want to. In Christianity you're not allowed to have sex unless you're married to the person you're having sex with. In some countries in the Middle East it's actually illegal to have sex with someone you're not married to. I personally wouldn't want to have sex with someone who I'm not romantically attached to because that just wouldn't seem as fun. I've never had sex before and I'm already 18 but I don't really think that's a problem.That argument goes both ways. "why jack off when you can have sex"-also, sex is much better than masturbating. Just saying I'm with you guy. Trust me. I just have happened to have sex a few times with strangers but I prefer sex with woman that I am romantically involved with. However, it's me idealizing, as I have yet to find a girl I care about emotionally. |
Chiki said: Claire said: "last week" lol get a real girlfriend Why do I need to have sex everyday? Lol. It's not something I need to be happy with my life. Claire fucks everyday. |
Fintan said: blessChiki said: I never said that. I've just proven that there's a correlation between mental illness and casual, impulsive sex. You didn't prove anything besides that you're an insecure jealous little man. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Usagi said: I guess I must be an imaginary girlfriend since I tend to have sex with my partner once a week on average myself. I'm just going to go pretend to exist in my corner. naw, i'm the same in relationships (or even less frequently than that). though i don't think i'm a good example of 'your average girlfriend' so idk if it matters don't feel insulted, people are just against him personally cause he's being a dick |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| If only Bloodcalibur was here. |
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khunter said: zombie_pegasus said: Some people either can't have sex or don't want to. In Christianity you're not allowed to have sex unless you're married to the person you're having sex with. In some countries in the Middle East it's actually illegal to have sex with someone you're not married to. I personally wouldn't want to have sex with someone who I'm not romantically attached to because that just wouldn't seem as fun. I've never had sex before and I'm already 18 but I don't really think that's a problem. I'm with you guy. Trust me. I just have happened to have sex a few times with strangers but I prefer sex with woman that I am romantically involved with. However, it's me idealizing, as I have yet to find a girl I care about emotionally. of course it's better with someone you're involved with. you can laugh more during sex, there's better communication, and making them unravel feels way more rewarding. but why is this thread turning into "let's defend ourselves from not sleeping around". it's not like anyone was being attacked for that [s]and being a virgin is completely normal at 18, i don't think many people would consider that a problem |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: khunter said: I'm with you guy. Trust me. I just have happened to have sex a few times with strangers but I prefer sex with woman that I am romantically involved with. However, it's me idealizing, as I have yet to find a girl I care about emotionally. of course it's better with someone you're involved with. you can laugh more during sex, there's better communication, and making them unravel feels way more rewarding. but why is this thread turning into "let's defend ourselves from not sleeping around". it's not like anyone was being attacked for that [s]and being a virgin is completely normal at 18, i don't think many people would consider that a problem No idea. This thread wasn't meant as bait. It was meant for an open discussion about what the stigma and double standards of men and women and the term "slut". People nit picked out of context sentences of mine and went into tangents |
| why is any word considered insulting or a big deal? Because of negative social connotations. There is a definition that exists outside of the exact literal definition that has nothing to do with promiscuity. |
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mayukachan said: Chiki said: Post of the year.She's basically a prostitute at that age if she slept with 8 people. Lmaaaaoooo |
Nilin said: read thru the rest of his posts for top experiencemayukachan said: Post of the year. Lmaaaaoooo |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: Nilin said: read thru the rest of his posts for top experienceLmaaaaoooo Did you get your psych major from Wikipedia or something? http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1452200&show=0#msg43230256 You can use reasoning whenever someone presents a fact. How well do you do in your classes? Lol I bet you barely even pass them. |
Chiki said: oooooomg you were that person who called someone a sociopath for eating meat or something. i completely forgot about that lmao then i shouldn't have even been surprised about anything in this threadkawaiiyuris said: read thru the rest of his posts for top experience Did you get your psych major from Wikipedia or something? http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1452200&show=0#msg43230256 You can use reasoning whenever someone presents a fact. How well do you do in your classes? Lol I bet you barely even pass them. ok let's look at facts: - your fact about promiscuity being a symptom of bpd was correct - saying that one should avoid people who sleep around because they might have bpd is completely ridiculous as your source was literally just about a correlation between having bpd and engaging in impulsive sexual behavior or w/e in people with bpd. so it was just giving support for it as a symptom. it cannot be generalized to the overall population. even your intro to psych course should have covered this also if you were seriously into psychology you would know not to be a massive piece of shit who contributes to stigma by telling people ~it's better to avoid~ people with mental illnesses. i find your whole talk less funny now that i know that you had some background in psych. just ew. but yesssssss, an opportunity to brag<3 i'm a cum laude (highest honours) student, thanks for asking |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: Chiki said: oooooomg you were that person who called someone a sociopath for eating meat or something. i completely forgot about that lmao then i shouldn't have even been surprised about anything in this threadDid you get your psych major from Wikipedia or something? http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1452200&show=0#msg43230256 You can use reasoning whenever someone presents a fact. How well do you do in your classes? Lol I bet you barely even pass them. ok let's look at facts: - your fact about promiscuity being a symptom of bpd was correct - saying that one should avoid people who sleep around because they might have bpd is completely ridiculous as your source was literally just about a correlation between having bpd and engaging in impulsive sexual behavior or w/e in people with bpd. so it was just giving support for it as a symptom. it cannot be generalized to the overall population. even your intro to psych course should have covered this also if you were seriously into psychology you would know not to be a massive piece of shit who contributes to stigma by telling people ~it's better to avoid~ people with mental illnesses. i find your whole talk less funny now that i know that you had some background in psych. just ew. but yesssssss, an opportunity to brag<3 i'm a cum laude (highest honours) student, thanks for asking If promiscuity is a symptom of BPD, then it's possible that someone who is promiscuous has BPD! That's what the word "might" means. Did they not teach you what possible and might mean in English class? I know a lot of psychologists who avoid people with mental disorders. Some people are in psychology to do research, they're not there to help borderlines with their problems. Cum laude isn't highest honors, summa cum laude is. Rofl, any moron can get cum laude honors. |
Chiki said: aww any moron can realise that it's not the same in every countryCum laude isn't highest honors, summa cum laude is. Rofl, any moron can get cum laude honors. the rest of your post is just a trainwreck |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Academic_grading_in_the_Netherlands google before embarrassing yourself c: |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Academic_grading_in_the_Netherlands google before embarrassing yourself c: First, just because I don't know the grading system of a country I've never been to doesn't mean I'm a moron. LOL Second, there are universities which offer magna cum laude in the Netherlands. http://www.thehagueuniversity.com/bachelor-studies/bachelor-degree-programmes/international-and-european-law/frequently-asked-questions If you're smarter than me, then address my arguments. |
| universities of applied sciences are on a lower educational level (HBO) than research universities (WO). in dutch, the former are refered to as "higher schools" while the latter are "universities". so basically what you've linked doesn't even count as a university. but by this point we are completely off topic and i feel bad for derailing it this far. this is gonna be very arrogant but i don't find you inspiring enough to bother explaining things to you. if you see nothing ethically or morally wrong with talking about mentally ill people like that, then gl hf, i hope i don't run into many people like you irl |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Chiki said: kawaiiyuris said: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Academic_grading_in_the_Netherlands google before embarrassing yourself c: First, just because I don't know the grading system of a country I've never been to doesn't mean I'm a moron. LOL Second, there are universities which offer magna cum laude in the Netherlands. http://www.thehagueuniversity.com/bachelor-studies/bachelor-degree-programmes/international-and-european-law/frequently-asked-questions If you're smarter than me, then address my arguments. It shows a lack of intelligence and shows a huge amount of arrogance to just assume something when kawaii clearly proved you otherwise. She was suggesting you learn before making incorrect statements |
| is this thread STILL going >___< |
tit said: is this thread STILL going >___< I will never understand people who comment on threads to say this. Like, all you're doing is contributing to said thread you are amazed is still going. That is so counter productive. You're still a cool mother fucker though |
khunter said: tit said: is this thread STILL going >___< I will never understand people who comment on threads to say this. Like, all you're doing is contributing to said thread you are amazed is still going. That is so counter productive. You're still a cool mother fucker though I am contributing to the thread. I made an intelligent, witty, well thought out and researched post. You should be happy that I'm helping your thread out so much. Instead, I get vitriol :( And isn't commenting on my comment about how the thread is still going on JUST as counter productive. Don't call the kettle black y'all. Thanks. |
Chiki said: kawaiiyuris said: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Academic_grading_in_the_Netherlands google before embarrassing yourself c: First, just because I don't know the grading system of a country I've never been to doesn't mean I'm a moron. LOL Second, there are universities which offer magna cum laude in the Netherlands. http://www.thehagueuniversity.com/bachelor-studies/bachelor-degree-programmes/international-and-european-law/frequently-asked-questions If you're smarter than me, then address my arguments. You've gone further to show you're insecure about more then just your sexuality. Maybe stop looking down on others and take a look at the issues you have? Might help. |
tit said: khunter said: I will never understand people who comment on threads to say this. Like, all you're doing is contributing to said thread you are amazed is still going. That is so counter productive. You're still a cool mother fucker though I am contributing to the thread. I made an intelligent, witty, well thought out and researched post. You should be happy that I'm helping your thread out so much. Instead, I get vitriol :( And isn't commenting on my comment about how the thread is still going on JUST as counter productive. Don't call the kettle black y'all. Thanks. I never said you weren't contributing to the thread, obviously a comment is. & No, a comment responding to yours is not counter productive because I'm not bitching about the thread still going. |
kawaiiyuris said: universities of applied sciences are on a lower educational level (HBO) than research universities (WO). in dutch, the former are refered to as "higher schools" while the latter are "universities". so basically what you've linked doesn't even count as a university. but by this point we are completely off topic and i feel bad for derailing it this far. this is gonna be very arrogant but i don't find you inspiring enough to bother explaining things to you. if you see nothing ethically or morally wrong with talking about mentally ill people like that, then gl hf, i hope i don't run into many people like you irl So the only thing you can do is lecture me on the specifics of the education system of your country? I want to talk about psychology, I don't give a damn about the education system of the Netherlands. I left my psychology major two years into it, and I graduated summa cum laude as a philosophy major having taken 12 PhD courses in philosophy, linguistics and math. Not only do I know psychology better than you, you don't even know the meaning of "might" and "possible." It shows how wide the gap is between us. You can only be enlightened by talking to me if you stop being so arrogant lol. khunter said: Chiki said: First, just because I don't know the grading system of a country I've never been to doesn't mean I'm a moron. LOL Second, there are universities which offer magna cum laude in the Netherlands. http://www.thehagueuniversity.com/bachelor-studies/bachelor-degree-programmes/international-and-european-law/frequently-asked-questions If you're smarter than me, then address my arguments. It shows a lack of intelligence and shows a huge amount of arrogance to just assume something when kawaii clearly proved you otherwise. She was suggesting you learn before making incorrect statements Uh, do you realize that she "corrected" me AFTER I made a supposedly "incorrect" statement, not before? I'm pretty sure the only reason you're defending her is because she's a girl lol. |
Chiki said: kawaiiyuris said: universities of applied sciences are on a lower educational level (HBO) than research universities (WO). in dutch, the former are refered to as "higher schools" while the latter are "universities". so basically what you've linked doesn't even count as a university. but by this point we are completely off topic and i feel bad for derailing it this far. this is gonna be very arrogant but i don't find you inspiring enough to bother explaining things to you. if you see nothing ethically or morally wrong with talking about mentally ill people like that, then gl hf, i hope i don't run into many people like you irl So the only thing you can do is lecture me on the specifics of the education system of your country? I want to talk about psychology, I don't give a damn about the education system of the Netherlands. I left my psychology major two years into it, and I graduated summa cum laude as a philosophy major having taken 12 PhD courses in philosophy, linguistics and math. Not only do I know psychology better than you, you don't even know the meaning of "might" and "possible." It shows how wide the gap is between us. You can only be enlightened by talking to me if you stop being so arrogant lol. khunter said: It shows a lack of intelligence and shows a huge amount of arrogance to just assume something when kawaii clearly proved you otherwise. She was suggesting you learn before making incorrect statements Uh, do you realize that she "corrected" me AFTER I made a supposedly "incorrect" statement, not before? I'm pretty sure the only reason you're defending her is because she's a girl lol. Nah, the only reason I'm defending her is because you're a fucking retard |
tit said: 8 is the average for how much girls have in their entire lifetime. ....Chiki said: She's 19. She's basically a prostitute at that age if she slept with 8 people. I'm guessing you're probably basically a prostitute too? Looking at your Twitter it sure seems like it. Uhhh 8 people, and if she started being active at 16 then it's like less than 3 people per year. That's not a lot by any means. What kinda sad virginal life do you live? I'm not a prostitute wtf! Prostitutes sleep with 8 people in like 3 working days, not 3 years! I'm so shocked at yall people out of touch with reality. |
traed said: tit said: 8 is the average for how much girls have in their entire lifetime. ....Uhhh 8 people, and if she started being active at 16 then it's like less than 3 people per year. That's not a lot by any means. What kinda sad virginal life do you live? I'm not a prostitute wtf! Prostitutes sleep with 8 people in like 3 working days, not 3 years! I'm so shocked at yall people out of touch with reality. Where the hell did you hear that? Whatever dumb study you saw that in is incredibly inaccurate. |
traed said: tit said: 8 is the average for how much girls have in their entire lifetime. ....Uhhh 8 people, and if she started being active at 16 then it's like less than 3 people per year. That's not a lot by any means. What kinda sad virginal life do you live? I'm not a prostitute wtf! Prostitutes sleep with 8 people in like 3 working days, not 3 years! I'm so shocked at yall people out of touch with reality. Is it really? Girls everywhere? That's interesting. Provide a source please, mister traed |
traed said: tit said: 8 is the average for how much girls have in their entire lifetime. ....Uhhh 8 people, and if she started being active at 16 then it's like less than 3 people per year. That's not a lot by any means. What kinda sad virginal life do you live? I'm not a prostitute wtf! Prostitutes sleep with 8 people in like 3 working days, not 3 years! I'm so shocked at yall people out of touch with reality. maybe like 30 years old? |
Fintan said: traed said: 8 is the average for how much girls have in their entire lifetime. .... Where the hell did you hear that? Whatever dumb study you saw that in is incredibly inaccurate. Traed is more reliable than you. |
Fintan said: traed said: 8 is the average for how much girls have in their entire lifetime. .... Where the hell did you hear that? Whatever dumb study you saw that in is incredibly inaccurate. Okay, I just looked at three different sites. Numbers are not as high as you would think. In fact, one very very specific question pertaining to males 30-44 in NA reported 6-8. But surveys and statistics are crap anyway |
PoeticJustice said: Fintan said: Where the hell did you hear that? Whatever dumb study you saw that in is incredibly inaccurate. Traed is more reliable than you. That's subjective |
khunter said: Fintan said: Where the hell did you hear that? Whatever dumb study you saw that in is incredibly inaccurate. Okay, I just looked at three different sites. Numbers are not as high as you would think. In fact, one very very specific question pertaining to males 30-44 in NA reported 6-8. But surveys and statistics are crap anyway I don't care about surveys, I see people having sex with far more people than that irl. Plus if you factor in people who just don't have sex/very low sex drive, they bring the numbers down dramatically. People with normal sex drives and social lives would create far different results. |
khunter said: Fintan said: Where the hell did you hear that? Whatever dumb study you saw that in is incredibly inaccurate. Okay, I just looked at three different sites. Numbers are not as high as you would think. In fact, one very very specific question pertaining to males 30-44 in NA reported 6-8. But surveys and statistics are crap anyway i mean there's also shit like this http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a5725/whats-your-sexual-score/ but anyway, from my own personal experience, and talking to girls around my age (which is conveniently 18/19), 8 really isn't a high number. |
tit said: khunter said: Okay, I just looked at three different sites. Numbers are not as high as you would think. In fact, one very very specific question pertaining to males 30-44 in NA reported 6-8. But surveys and statistics are crap anyway i mean there's also shit like this http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a5725/whats-your-sexual-score/ but anyway, from my own personal experience, and talking to girls around my age (which is conveniently 18/19), 8 really isn't a high number. Most people I know, guys and girls slept with around 3-6 people just by senior year in highschool. |
| i think that statistic's definitely real, i've seen it come up multiple times. but it's one of those that should really be put into context. usually they take people from a very large age range (ie. 15-55) so you can imagine that not many 15/16/17 year olds have had that much sex. then people from older generations also tend to have less sexual partners. also, a lot of times you see wording like "an average person" but an average person is like a 37 year old or something (don't quote me on this though). we'll have to wait like 2 decades to seriously see how we compare to the average of people our own age it's all about the sample in things like this. i think comparing yourself to a wide circle of people around you makes for a better idea of what's normal and not tbh |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Fintan said: tit said: i mean there's also shit like this http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a5725/whats-your-sexual-score/ but anyway, from my own personal experience, and talking to girls around my age (which is conveniently 18/19), 8 really isn't a high number. Most people I know, guys and girls slept with around 3-6 people just by senior year in highschool. yea, well we also have to account into the fact that we don't really know what is actually true. our experience does not apply to everyone's. That's what 'general' means. or 'average'. I see the same as you fintan but that doesn't mean I'm right in saying, oh idk, girls have fucked 12 men by the time they graduate high school. |
| It feels like some of you still live in the 50s. Promiscuity is the norm now, heck people nowadays (from my experience) will go like "WOAH WHAT THE HELL" in reaction to someone who just revealed that they've only slept with like 3 people lol. And trust me, girls like tit (very sexually active) are very very common and there's honestly nothing wrong with that. People shouldn't be demeaned/shunned/insulted for embracing their sexuality. |
NudeBear said: It feels like some of you still live in the 50s. Promiscuity is the norm now, heck people nowadays (from my experience) will go like "WOAH WHAT THE HELL" in reaction to someone who just revealed that they've only slept with like 3 people lol. And trust me, girls like tit (very sexually active) are very very common and there's honestly nothing wrong with that. People shouldn't be demeaned/shunned/insulted for embracing their sexuality. tru, but they need to bang me bruh. Its a drought out here. |
| My cat is a slut, she gets raped by other cats constantly and likes it. |
PoeticJustice said: NudeBear said: It feels like some of you still live in the 50s. Promiscuity is the norm now, heck people nowadays (from my experience) will go like "WOAH WHAT THE HELL" in reaction to someone who just revealed that they've only slept with like 3 people lol. And trust me, girls like tit (very sexually active) are very very common and there's honestly nothing wrong with that. People shouldn't be demeaned/shunned/insulted for embracing their sexuality. tru, but they need to bang me bruh. Its a drought out here. clubs man clubs I fucking hate them but they're the best place to find a hook up. |
NudeBear said: It feels like some of you still live in the 50s. "Come on its 2015!" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_novelty (that may be wrong fallacy since i cant remember the name of it but its similar) NudeBear said: Promiscuity is the norm now, heck people nowadays (from my experience) will go like "WOAH WHAT THE HELL" in reaction to someone who just revealed that they've only slept with like 3 people lol. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argumentum_ad_populum NudeBear said: People shouldn't be demeaned/shunned/insulted for embracing their sexuality. Yeah. There is no reason promiscuity should be encouraged or not discouraged though. |
traed said: NudeBear said: People shouldn't be demeaned/shunned/insulted for embracing their sexuality. Yeah. There is no reason promiscuity should be encouraged and not discouraged though. It should not be encouraged OR discouraged... Peoples sex lives are their own business. You were the one who messaged someone telling them the amount of sex they've had in a few years is "the average one person has in their lifetime" then putting "..." as if to imply they should be ashamed. |
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