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Nov 19, 2015 7:16 AM

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kiteen said:
If they're born with a penis, then they stay with a penis, simple. Vice versa too.
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Nov 19, 2015 8:53 AM
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RedArmyShogun said:
Disown?

No, I will stare at them with disappointment, then beat the shit out of them like this is an old catholic school untill they correct their way of thinking.


... this is both illegal and retarded.
Nov 19, 2015 12:57 PM

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Silverstorm said:
Supportive? I like to think I would but I know I wouldn't, I'd be wary about the whole thing because it would be hard for me not to laugh if they wanted to turn back.

Maybe if its certain conditions involved.


Yeah, pretty much the same with me. I'd love to think that I'd be open minded and happy but realistically I know I'd be doubtful and probably annoyed.
Nov 19, 2015 12:59 PM

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how the fuck is 'disowned' an option
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Nov 19, 2015 1:12 PM

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I don't believe in transgenderism so no.
Nov 19, 2015 1:17 PM

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pajamon said:
how the fuck is 'disowned' an option
disgusting
are you calling me disgusting?
Nov 19, 2015 1:28 PM

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FrancoGYFV said:
RedArmyShogun said:
Disown?

No, I will stare at them with disappointment, then beat the shit out of them like this is an old catholic school untill they correct their way of thinking.


... this is both illegal and retarded.


Its only illegal and retarded if you get caught, and I'd whoop your ass too.
Nov 19, 2015 1:29 PM

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If I had a kid and they felt like they were actually the opposite gender, I would be very supportive, but like others said, surgery and stuff like that is a big decision so I might wait until they're 18 to do it. If it were a boy who felt like a girl, I might not let her wear a skirt not because I'm an asshole, but because I'd hate to see her get bullied. People in schools are so cruel.
Nov 19, 2015 1:30 PM

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I wouldn't stop them, but I would be disappointed that they weren't able to be happy in life with what they were given.
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Nov 19, 2015 1:31 PM

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mayukachan said:
pajamon said:
how the fuck is 'disowned' an option
disgusting
are you calling me disgusting?


No sorry this is not about you
The fact that disowning your child is an option, that is disgusting.
I thought that was very clear actually.
Nov 19, 2015 2:12 PM

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aikaflip said:
My initial thought when seeing the title of this thread was, "hell no."

I've heard too many reports on transition regret: 20% regret transitioning, 40% attempt suicide, 60 - 90% struggle with mental illness. I have a lot of personal opinions on transgenderism as well. With all that said, I'm open to the possibility that some of us could be wrong about transgenderism.

Blah blah blah. Anyway. To get to the point. Despite my personal views, I don't want to shame my future kid(s) on their preferences, or identity. I'd try to put my biases aside and be supportive, but I'd probably try to talk them into postponing transitioning for as long as I could.
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Nov 19, 2015 2:20 PM
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Would honestly feel a little disappointed that they weren't happy with who they were. I'm pretty feminine, but I'm still comfortable being a guy. On the other hand, lots of girls are plenty happy being tomboyish. I don't know how I feel about someone feeling like they're "supposed" to be the opposite gender.

Honestly, in a way, doesn't that kinda go against the idea of equality? You feel like you'd be better off as the opposite sex, so you'll go so far as to change your own?

I really don't have a problem with the idea, as a whole. If it doesn't hurt anyone, people should do what makes them happy.

I don't think I'm to the point where I can agree with it though. It seems to be conflicting with the idea that everyone is important and special for being themselves, which is something we're taught from... like, birth.

Learn to love yourself. I suppose if you can't, go for more extreme options, but I can't understand someone leaping for that option right out of the gate. Especially not a 14-year old. They're not even really a "man" or a "woman" yet. How can they know they want to change?
Nov 19, 2015 2:22 PM

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People here care about their children's gender so much its almost like they want to fuck them.
Nov 19, 2015 2:24 PM
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Red_Keys said:
People here care about their children's gender so much its almost like they want to fuck them.


I'd fuck you, bae.
Nov 19, 2015 2:30 PM

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Interrrrrpetgyu said:
Thankfully, no one on MAL will ever reproduce.


Oh...do you really think so ??
Nov 19, 2015 2:31 PM

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No I wouldn't not at any age. If I have a child that will hate me forever, because I don't support their change. Then me and my child must have had a very bad life with disagreements.
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Nov 19, 2015 2:34 PM
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I wouldn't disown them or anything like that. As a parent, it's your duty to always support and care for your kids as long as they don't directly hurt somebody else. Because you are responsible for their existence in the first place. Parents who disown their own kids for such things are scum.

I don't think that a complete sex change surgery is the optimal thing to do, and they would know that. But as I said, I wouldn't disown them or think lower of them in any case. If they just want to do a "social gender" change, it wouldn't bother me at all.


Nov 19, 2015 2:36 PM

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pajamon said:
mayukachan said:
are you calling me disgusting?


No sorry this is not about you
The fact that disowning your child is an option, that is disgusting.
I thought that was very clear actually.
Oh okay, because I would never disown my child under ANY circimstances lol.

I put it up for the people who'd pick it. I know people would pick it.

I know what people would pick, in general.

Interrrrrpetgyu said:
Thankfully, no one on MAL will ever reproduce.
I hope you're right
I don't wanna see little incisorrs running around here

Red_Keys said:
People here care about their children's gender so much its almost like they want to fuck them.
"I gave birth to this gender! They'd better fucking appreciate their gender I gave them!"
Nov 19, 2015 2:37 PM
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Not at all. Disowned.
Nov 19, 2015 2:37 PM

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I don't think I would care what they do with their own body. But I'm not buying the hormones and what not for them. They can do that with their own money. If they are not ready to work hard and pay for a permanent change in their body how could they be ready for the change itself?
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mayukachan said:
pajamon said:


No sorry this is not about you
The fact that disowning your child is an option, that is disgusting.
I thought that was very clear actually.
Oh okay, because I would never disown my child under ANY circimstances lol.

I put it up for the people who'd pick it. I know people would pick it.

I know what people would pick, in general.



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Nov 19, 2015 2:39 PM

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I'd probably make them wait until they turned 18 but yes I'd support them because I'm not a gigantic cucktard
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People here care about their children's gender so much its almost like they want to fuck them.
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Nov 19, 2015 2:40 PM

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Yuki-Shiro said:
It didn't occur to you that everyone on MAL is an Alpha-edgelord?
No, because the poll is almost tied between all four options.
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mayukachan said:
Yuki-Shiro said:
It didn't occur to you that everyone on MAL is an Alpha-edgelord?
No, because the poll is almost tied between all four options.


"Everyone" was hyperbole.

But I would be legitimately surprised if even half the people that voted for "disowned" actually felt that way. It's the nature of the internet for everyone to act like they have no soul.
Nov 19, 2015 2:43 PM

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Yuki-Shiro said:
But I would be legitimately surprised if even half the people that voted for "disowned" actually felt that way. It's the nature of the internet for everyone to act like they have no soul.
Well, they can feel that way. I doubt they can actually do it when they're faced with that situation. Just like how most people here don't want children or marry their lovers. lol What you say is not what you'll end up doing when you face reality.
Nov 19, 2015 2:45 PM
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mayukachan said:
Yuki-Shiro said:
But I would be legitimately surprised if even half the people that voted for "disowned" actually felt that way. It's the nature of the internet for everyone to act like they have no soul.
Well, they can feel that way. I doubt they can actually do it when they're faced with that situation. Just like how most people here don't want children or marry their lovers. lol What you say is not what you'll end up doing when you face reality because MAL is full of edgelords.


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Nov 19, 2015 2:46 PM

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Yuki-Shiro said:
mayukachan said:
Well, they can feel that way. I doubt they can actually do it when they're faced with that situation. Just like how most people here don't want children or marry their lovers. lol What you say is not what you'll end up doing when you face reality because MAL is full of edgelords.


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sure i guess

i don't really like labeling people as that but ok
Nov 19, 2015 2:47 PM
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mayukachan said:
Yuki-Shiro said:


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sure i guess

i don't really like labeling people as that but ok


I think you're taking it a bit too seriously.
Nov 19, 2015 2:47 PM

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Well, I wouldn't be filled with joy. I wouldn't be disappointed in them, just the situation.
As long as they were old enough to understand what they were doing, I'd support it. I wouldn't really support the decision, but I'd support their choice.

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My mother told me she would disown me if I joined the military. I still talked to the recruiters about it.
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Nov 19, 2015 2:48 PM

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Yuki-Shiro said:
I think you're taking it a bit too seriously.
i'm serious like 90% of the time and this is definitely one of them
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mayukachan said:
Yuki-Shiro said:
I think you're taking it a bit too seriously.
i'm serious like 90% of the time and this is definitely one of them


When people call other people edgy?

I mean... that's so edgy.
Nov 19, 2015 2:50 PM

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no thats retarded and its your duty as a parent to raise a kid properly

what the fuck to all the people that are gonna support their kid doing something so fucking dumb, rofl.

kids need guidance and "transgender"is fucking wrong and disgusting as fuck and all transgenders are retarded as hell

i acnt wake up tomorrow and say "im a girl" even tho i have a dick or "Im a guy" even tho i have a fucking vagina , it just doesn't work that way , if you let people like these do what they want , they will destroy this eath with their delusions and insanity, its a disease that should be fought
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Nov 19, 2015 2:50 PM

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Yuki-Shiro said:
mayukachan said:
i'm serious like 90% of the time and this is definitely one of them


When people call other people edgy?

I mean... that's so edgy.
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Nov 19, 2015 2:50 PM
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You made Pikachu cry.
Nov 19, 2015 2:51 PM

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Pikachu is an "edgelord" now :^)
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Yo, if we're playing the internet extremes game, Pikachu is actually a beta, not an edgelord.

I'll forgive you this time, but git gud.
Nov 19, 2015 3:00 PM

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incisorr said:
no thats retarded and its your duty as a parent to raise a kid properly

what the fuck to all the people that are gonna support their kid doing something so fucking dumb, rofl.

kids need guidance and "transgender"is fucking wrong and disgusting as fuck and all transgenders are retarded as hell

i acnt wake up tomorrow and say "im a girl" even tho i have a dick or "Im a guy" even tho i have a fucking vagina , it just doesn't work that way , if you let people like these do what they want , they will destroy this eath with their delusions and insanity, its a disease that should be fought
Gender dysphoria is a mental illness. That would be like saying anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, body dimorphic disorder and body integrity disorder are dumb and retarded.

Although just cross-dressing is not really included in that as that is just not really conforming to cultural dress.

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... this is both illegal and retarded.


Its only illegal and retarded if you get caught, and I'd whoop your ass too.
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Nov 19, 2015 3:02 PM

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I don't understand why people think you can solve a mental illness by making physical changes.
Nov 19, 2015 4:06 PM

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Why?

We're free to choose our heirs just like our gender.
Yeah I'm old school like that.
I'll make sure the adopted child is healthy and capable so I can rest in peace. + an adopted kid will be forever grateful and will never disappoint me.


What's so wrong about changing genders?
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Nov 19, 2015 4:11 PM

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If have to make sure they REALLY wanted to. Wouldn't want them to suddenly decide that it's not what they wanted in the middle of it.
Nov 19, 2015 4:12 PM

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Not overly. I don't have a lot of knowledge on trans and shit but I have no fucking clue how you could feel like a boy or a girl because they're just fucking genders. It's just your pee pee and vajayjay. ????????????????????????

But whatever, probably not. Well I wouldn't be having kids in the first place.

Nov 19, 2015 4:14 PM

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incisorr said:
no thats retarded and its your duty as a parent to raise a kid properly

what the fuck to all the people that are gonna support their kid doing something so fucking dumb, rofl.

kids need guidance and "transgender"is fucking wrong and disgusting as fuck and all transgenders are retarded as hell

i acnt wake up tomorrow and say "im a girl" even tho i have a dick or "Im a guy" even tho i have a fucking vagina , it just doesn't work that way , if you let people like these do what they want , they will destroy this eath with their delusions and insanity, its a disease that should be fought

Did a transgender rape you or something?


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Nov 19, 2015 4:19 PM

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I wouldn't be supportive, but I'd like to believe I wouldn't disown them.
Nov 19, 2015 4:29 PM
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Yes, I would be supportive by giving my child the mental help he or she needs instead of mentally abusing them by humoring their delusions.

If they were of legal age and they went ahead and went full tranny I'd just disown them and count my losses. Father of a tranny, fuck that cuckold leftist shit
Nov 19, 2015 4:33 PM

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LemonCup said:
Not overly. I don't have a lot of knowledge on trans and shit but I have no fucking clue how you could feel like a boy or a girl because they're just fucking genders. It's just your pee pee and vajayjay. ????????????????????????

But whatever, probably not. Well I wouldn't be having kids in the first place.
There are much more baffling mental conditions out there. There are some people who are incapable of recognizing faces. There are people who mix up their senses seeing sound and stuff. There are people who are blind to motion. There are people who feel like a limb of theirs is not theirs.
Nov 19, 2015 4:33 PM

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14...old enough to chop your dick off but not old enough to text a nude to your gf.

@ Topic - not in the slightest. I wouldn't go down the disown route, but there are some blasphemies against nature that I simply do not condone.
Nov 19, 2015 4:46 PM

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Ratohnhaketon said:
14...old enough to chop your dick off but not old enough to text a nude to your gf.
I don't understand this comparison. Sending nudes is dangerous as it's pretty much distributing child pornography and data isn't that secure.
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^Implying life threatening surgery isnt dangerous and that teenagers are children.
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traed said:
^Implying life threatening surgery isnt dangerous and that teenagers are children.


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