| I'd love to have a job where I get to beat the shit out of someone else's kid. |
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geniobastardo said: No parent is a parenting expert. ''When done right from a young enough age'' - that's assuming every parent would know what or what not the child will understand in words or what they'll have to instill through physical means. Science is not the holy grail or the one answer to all problems. There are a lot more errors in real life than science might be willing to accept. SOLID. +1 People just seam unaccepting of this fact. |
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Cookie said: Seems like half-assed parenting Very true. Hitting your child is a lazy punishment, and half assing it. |
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geniobastardo said: I posted a list of studies from over 20 years research that said the same things, tht it doesnt work and can be harmful. You can literally look up each individual one of you want. They describe all the procedures. But I know you wont.YandereTheEmo said: I hate to do this, since it voids all that you have written, but it's been shown that beating one's kids is not as productive to their maturational and psychological growth as positive reinforcement, which in essentiality, if done right from a young enough age, acts to force them into their own box of dysphoria when doing that which is displeasurable, without physical action being taken. It voids none of it. Scientific studies can only be carried out on one particular specimen. The research that you have brought up was, in all likelihood, carried out on kids from a certain locale. Or even if we go universal, not all kids are same. No parent is a parenting expert. ''When done right from a young enough age'' - that's assuming every parent would know what or what not the child will understand in words or what they'll have to instill through physical means. Science is not the holy grail or the one answer to all problems. There are a lot more errors in real life than science might be willing to accept. |
| beating? thats just intolerable parenting. |
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| 2016 dude Whatever they do, kid would never listen to their parents anymore |
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Seiya said: This is 2015, and here in North America, you don't strike your child, unless you want it taken from you. Yeah... quoting this old ass post. In the USA corporal punishment isn't against the law. So. Deal with it. |
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| Parents that hit their child as a punishment have no time to give a real punshiment so they go they easy way. |
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| What kind of beating? The kind that beats the fkn 30 charac limit? |
| Wrong or right its up to you.. just mind to be under control |
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| It's just parents see it as discipline, but it's just hitting your child and making them scared to do more bad stuff. Kids should want to behave on their own, not be behaving because they are scared. |
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| No one should never lay a violent hand on a child. If hitting a grown ass person is wrong I don't understand how hitting a child is okay. Makes no damn sense. We try to teach kids violence doesn't solve anything yet we hit our kids to get them to "listen". Why would you want to scare your child? Makes me sick. And for people saying they can't be reasoned with then is it okay to hit mentally challenged people? No? Okay then stfu. Be the damn adult you are and handle the situation without violence. |
| I got beat as a child, it only happen once because after that I had learned my lesson. It's not your child and unless they leave the child crippled or literally dying then that is not a punishment that is abuse. All I am trying to say is that beating a child doesn't directly or instantly equal abuse. IDK. |
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| I got my ass whooped when I was naughty as a kid. And I'm glad for it. I see some kids nowadays and you can just tell that their parents don't give them a good spanking when they need it. Honestly, I feel as though spanking children is by far the most efficient way to condition children into not being little shits. This also goes for other memorable unpleasant things. When I was like 8, I had bar soap put in my mouth to literally wash my mouth out after swearing. Shit tasted awful, and I didn't swear for about 7 or 8 years. This kind of stuff works, which is why I feel as though it's okay to do this stuff. Grounding me and the like did nothing for me. However, it is not okay when it crosses a certain line. I feel like spanking should be the only thing parents do in terms of 'violence'. Anything else reall just crosses the line into abuse. I work in retail and I have seen some evil mother slap their kids just like right in the face simply for being annoying or whatever. That kind of shit doesn't sit well with me. |
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| I was spanked a few times when I was a child, and that didn't traumatize me. On the other hand, punishments like not letting me watch TV or hang out with my friends were way more effective than physical ones. I don't think spanking a kid is a crime (I'm talking about light spanking, not beating the shit out of your kid), but I don't see it really effective. |
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| For the people that don't agree with spanking.. What's your solution for a child constantly mouthing off to you and getting into trouble with the police? Gonna give them a time out and send them to their room? LOL |
| I'm not for brutal beatings, but I was an asshole when younger and I agree with my parents for using the belts,cords, or switches when I was way out of line not for little things. I'm not messed up and I love them very much for keeping me in check. Btw I'm mexican and I believe too a point culture can make peoples opinion on punishment change. |
JunkYardHiro said: For the people that don't agree with spanking.. What's your solution for a child constantly mouthing off to you and getting into trouble with the police? Gonna give them a time out and send them to their room? LOL I see spanking useful in those situations, but not as an usual punishment . If you have to spank your kid every single day, you're doing something wrong. |
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| I think it's hypocritical too, why aren't you allowed to beat up your wife as well? |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| A little spanking isn't gonna kill anyone. Hitting with a belt is another matter, though. Anything that leaves a bruise, welt, or something similar is bad. |
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| There's a difference between beating and disciplining a child. When I was a child and I misbehaved, my mom would give me a warning to knock it off. And if I ignored her warning and continued to misbehave she'd spank me on the butt. Just one could smack on the butt, and I'd stop misbehaving. Getting spanked didn't hurt so much as it shocked and surprised me. And at the time I didn't think I deserved it, but now that I'm an adult and looking back on it, I did deserve it. I was acting like a spoiled brat in public and I didn't listen to my mother when she told me to stop. Her being the parent and me being the child, I should have listened to her after she told me to stop. But I didn't, which resulted in me being disciplined. However if a parent continues to spank their child hard and repeatedly, (Like after the second or third smack) Then that's being excessive, in which I would consider that abuse. |
| I hate doing it and I never got beat as a kid but it is a neccesary thing I may discpline my child with different methods I find spanking uncoventional even if its the most common way of discpline or weird I rather give them a backhand or something of that sort. |
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