ClaireApr 21, 2015 2:49 AM
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| i've never asked a girl out idk if thats bad for a 16 yr old but oh well. given my personality i think i would just ask, i give no fucks. |
| I don't know Degas, how often do you ask girls out? |
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| give him the curve, or friendzone his ass |
| save all the cute girls from ntr manga |
| Many guys seem to view girls as higher-beings, who don't get nervous. But most of the time, they never realise that they're usually just as nervous as you are. If you act confident and cheerful, then it makes things much easier. Even if it's just an act, it totally works. Just do it, I guess. |
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| lol nice gender roles there I agree, but what stopped you from getting his number? Was it because he asked you out on the date? He probably felt the same way you did and wasn't all that interested enough to get a number, that or he was way too interested/intimated and was shy to. |
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Claire said: This makes me sound like a man, I know. sorrynotsorry Claire said: This makes me sound like a man, I know. sorrynotsorry THE TRUTH HAS BEEN REVEALED. |
PoeticJustice said: We already knew that.Claire said: This makes me sound like a man, I know. sorrynotsorry Claire said: This makes me sound like a man, I know. sorrynotsorry THE TRUTH HAS BEEN REVEALED. |
| So you're gay rev? |
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| It's better when a guy starts off with small talk. If they're direct with what they want, some women might find that a turn off. If men were direct: Man: Do you want to fuck? We both know it's the end result but we expect some sort courting. |
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PoeticJustice said: Claire said: This makes me sound like a man, I know. sorrynotsorry Claire said: This makes me sound like a man, I know. sorrynotsorry THE TRUTH HAS BEEN REVEALED. screenshotted to the bank. |
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| As a 46 year old guy who has had his fair share of women and dates, I actually find that a lot of the women I deal with willingly seek me out. It's very flattering. |
7starkiller99 said: avelys said: It's better when a guy starts off with small talk. If they're direct with what they want, some women might find that a turn off. If men were direct: Man: Do you want to fuck? We both know it's the end result but we expect some sort courting. What if he just wants to learn more about her? ... ... ... Never the case. Men only want to fuck. #fakt |
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hotpants said: I agree, but what stopped you from getting his number? Was it because he asked you out on the date? He probably felt the same way you did and wasn't all that interested enough to get a number, that or he was way too interested/intimated and was shy to. He seemed like a shy person which is unusual given the fact that he's at least ten years older than me. cause said: It's more idiotic to want someone to do something, but knowing the fact they never will. It's not a problem with them. It's a problem with you for making it a "problem" instead of just getting over it. Like a battered wife who keeps getting beaten but says "he'll change for me". Despite how I sounded, I'm not affronted by his actions. I'm merely shedding light on what some girls think whenever men act like a pussy in front of a girl who they obviously have an interest in. A lack of boldness in life is a problem for many individuals because it stops them from getting what they want. |
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avelys said: 7starkiller99 said: What if he just wants to learn more about her? ... ... ... Never the case. Men only want to fuck. #fakt gurl plzz all I want to do is love |
| Yo, Claire, my man, mi amigo. You really are dedicated to being a girl yo, it is kind like crazy. |
7starkiller99 said: Cookie, apparently I'm no longer a man by that definition. What do I do? What happened did someone cut off your dick? It sall good man YOU ARE STILL A MAN AT HEART I SEE YOU |
| I've never found a girl that makes me interested in dating, so I don't really know. I thought meeting a girl with similar interests, which is my close friend now, would make me want to date, but it actually didn't. |
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avelys said: It's better when a guy starts off with small talk. If they're direct with what they want, some women might find that a turn off. If men were direct: Man: Do you want to fuck? We both know it's the end result but we expect some sort courting. "Do you want to fuck?" is not an acceptable way of showing your interest compared to, "Hey, wanna go to lunch this Thursday?" |
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Claire said: Despite how I sounded, I'm not affronted by his actions. I'm merely shedding light on what some girls think whenever men act like a pussy in front of a girl who they obviously have an interest in. A lack of boldness in life is a problem for many individuals because it stops them from getting what they want. Who are you to dictate how much a person takes initiative? Some people like bold. Some people like timid. People are people. An abundance of tastes and preferences. Goals and actions. You're pretty much saying your view on the world is the almighty view, and that men should always act in your own deemed standards. Situations like these are subjective. If the person on the other end liked more timid guys, it would be completely different. |
Crehscent said: i've never asked a girl out idk if thats bad for a 16 yr old but oh well. given my personality i think i would just ask, i give no fucks. Don't worry man, you still have plenty of time to do so. I guess they can be scared of rejection. |
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| Hes clearly just nervous and trying to get to know you. That shouldnt be something to complain about. |
7starkiller99 said: Naw. I just like talking with people; but apparently men are even simpler than that. It's sad but true :( But you can always fight your nature <3 |
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Dream on, guys. If you only knew. >_> |
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| Or maybe the girl should actually take the initiative if she is interested and not wait for the man to do it for her. |
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Shitposta said: PoeticJustice said: THE TRUTH HAS BEEN REVEALED. |
Morgan said: Or maybe the girl should actually take the initiative if she is interested and not wait for the man to do it for her. BUT MAH GENDER ROLES |
Claire said: hotpants said: I agree, but what stopped you from getting his number? Was it because he asked you out on the date? He probably felt the same way you did and wasn't all that interested enough to get a number, that or he was way too interested/intimated and was shy to. He seemed like a shy person which is unusual given the fact that he's at least ten years older than me. I understand how someone can find that odd, given that usually people who are older have more experience with things. But we need to remember, anyone can lack social skills. Claire said: Despite how I sounded, I'm not affronted by his actions. I'm merely shedding light on what some girls think whenever men act like a pussy in front of a girl who they obviously have an interest in. A lack of boldness in life is a problem for many individuals because it stops them from getting what they want. ok so why were u being a pussy tho "Act like a pussy", again, some people are shy and lack the skill. Honey you could have went and got his number too. Men can be shy pieces of shits and that's fine. So instead of waiting and depending on ur gender role bullshit, you should have got it first instead of being annoyed since this is something that upsets you for some reason. |
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Morgan said: Or maybe the girl should actually take the initiative if she is interested and not wait for the man to do it for her. Very true! Girls should do this more, I agree. |
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Crehscent said: i've never asked a girl out idk if thats bad for a 16 yr old but oh well. given my personality i think i would just ask, i give no fucks. mmm same there isn't anyone really in mind that I would ask out 7starkiller99 said: Naw. I just like talking with people; but apparently men are even simpler than that. Then go talk to ppl bruh fuck what these niggas say Morgan said: Or maybe the girl should actually take the initiative if she is interested and not wait for the man to do it for her. Morgan you are the real Gawd |
| so you want it straight to the point? i thought woman underestimate the intentions of man since woman value long term relationships more http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Error_management_theory#Sexual_Underperception |
Kisuke_ said: thanks my man, honestly i'm not worried at all, maybe later ill care more lolCrehscent said: i've never asked a girl out idk if thats bad for a 16 yr old but oh well. given my personality i think i would just ask, i give no fucks. Don't worry man, you still have plenty of time to do so. I guess they can be scared of rejection. |
cause said: Claire said: Despite how I sounded, I'm not affronted by his actions. I'm merely shedding light on what some girls think whenever men act like a pussy in front of a girl who they obviously have an interest in. A lack of boldness in life is a problem for many individuals because it stops them from getting what they want. Who are you to dictate how much a person takes initiative? Some people like bold. Some people like timid. People are people. An abundance of tastes and preferences. Goals and actions. You're pretty much saying your view on the world is the almighty view, and that men should always act in your own deemed standards. Situations like these are subjective. If the person on the other end liked more timid guys, it would be completely different. You seem to be forgetting that an overwhelming majority of women prefer fearlessness in a man. Your agenda of "Oh guys! Let's just be ourselves! I'm sure without putting in the effort to adhere to the standards which is known to raise our level of desirability, we'll still find a girl! (rainbows, kisses, xoxo)" doesn't get the average man real results. |
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Claire said: You seem to be forgetting that an overwhelming majority of women prefer fearlessness in a man. Your agenda of "Oh guys! Let's just be ourselves! I'm sure without putting in the effort to adhere to the standards which is known to raise our level of desirability, we'll still find a girl! (rainbows, kisses, xoxo)" doesn't get the average man real results. If you like fearlessness, then go find fearlessness. Don't expect it and then bitch about it. Lol. I'll reiterate: "Oh I hate how he hits me, but I know he'll change one day." |
hotpants said: ok so why were u being a pussy tho "Act like a pussy", again, some people are shy and lack the skill. Honey you could have went and got his number too. Men can be shy pieces of shits and that's fine. So instead of waiting and depending on ur gender role bullshit, you should have got it first instead of being annoyed since this is something that upsets you for some reason. I've already mentioned this in my OP, but I have no hesitations asking a man out if I like him, and I've already done this multiple times in the past. And I'm not upset at all. Deep down, I'm indifferent as to whether or not he's going to ask me out because I'm also indifferent to him as a person. I'm more concerned about the fact that some men don't realize that their fear of rejection is not that big of a deal to stop them from asking out a girl that they like. |
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cause said: If you like fearlessness, then go find fearlessness. Don't expect it and then bitch about it. Lol. Keep saying such bullshit platitudes without realizing that we all have to act in a certain way to get what we want. |
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Claire said: cause said: If you like fearlessness, then go find fearlessness. Don't expect it and then bitch about it. Lol. Keep saying such bullshit platitudes without realizing that we all have to act in a certain way to get what we want. Your close-minded narcissism is an ugly trait. |
| MAL giving me advice. I can dig it. |
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cause said: Claire said: Keep saying such bullshit platitudes without realizing that we all have to act in a certain way to get what we want. Your close-minded narcissism is an ugly trait. Your extreme open-mindedness indicates a slothful approach in life. |
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Claire said: cause said: If you like fearlessness, then go find fearlessness. Don't expect it and then bitch about it. Lol. Keep saying such bullshit platitudes without realizing that conformists all have to act in a certain way to get what we want. |
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| Release the kraken |
| Better to be open to others personalities, feelings and thoughts then to be shut in with my own narrow view on how I think others should act. |
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