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How important is virginity/purity to you?
Mar 11, 2015 10:56 PM
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How much would it influence your decision to date someone, like if you know that person isn't a virgin would you still give them a chance?

Could you live happily knowing that there is someone out there who has had their way with the boy or girl that you are currently dating?
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Mar 11, 2015 10:58 PM
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Id prefer it but never really require it.
Mar 11, 2015 10:59 PM
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I don't care
Mar 11, 2015 11:00 PM
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As long as they don't talk about it. Admittedly, this used to bother the living shit out of me, but it's one of the few times where I just got over something. Getting upset over something like that will only lead to unnecessary suffering on your behalf and hurt the relationship.
Mar 11, 2015 11:00 PM
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I don't care. I don't understand why people idolize virginity so much.
Mar 11, 2015 11:01 PM
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I don't care as long as they've been responsible with their previous partners.

What I mean to say is, as long as there is nothing festering or crawling down there.
Mar 11, 2015 11:01 PM
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I really don't care. If I like someone, I like someone.

If they are virgins that's totally chill, if they're not, that's chill too.
Mar 11, 2015 11:03 PM
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I don't care anyways
Mar 11, 2015 11:03 PM
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Sure.
[right]
"The big secret to breaking the rules is to make it look as though you're following them."
Mar 11, 2015 11:04 PM

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Ughh another one of these threads
Sure whatever.
Mar 11, 2015 11:06 PM

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There's nothing wrong with it!
Mar 11, 2015 11:13 PM

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Virginity- Not necessary
Purity- necessary as fuck.
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
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Mar 11, 2015 11:15 PM

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yes virgins are especially favorable.
Mar 11, 2015 11:17 PM

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hey look another virginity thread

Mar 11, 2015 11:21 PM

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Cosmicbeing said:
yes virgins are especially favorable.
MAL is just the place for you then.
Mar 11, 2015 11:24 PM

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It's a desirable trait to paedophiles/lolicons.

HEHE.
Mar 11, 2015 11:29 PM
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"If you're going to eat a sandwich, you would just enjoy it more if you know no one had fucked it." Vladislav, What We Do In the Shadows.
Mar 11, 2015 11:48 PM
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Bambi_ said:
It's a desirable trait to paedophiles/lolicons.

HEHE.

You motherfuckin' master baiter.
Mar 11, 2015 11:54 PM

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Just the sight of me is enough to break the hymen of anything that has one. No big deal
Mar 12, 2015 1:20 AM

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xEmptiness said:
sexist


Are you assuming that the virginity fetish thing applies only to males regarding females? Because that's sexist of you. There are most definitely females that get off on the same thing. Sexism is not in the picture
Mar 12, 2015 1:23 AM
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cause said:
I don't care
Mar 12, 2015 1:25 AM

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I will lost it only after Ilm married!
Mar 12, 2015 1:25 AM

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I was going to say i don't care - heck, i may have already somewhere upstream.

But considering how adorable I find "puppy dogs" with little to no experience and some innate desire to "show them the ropes" i suppose it does actually matter to some extent.
Mar 12, 2015 1:28 AM

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As someone who's introduced men and women to sex, it's too much damn work. If you care even a bit for the person you want them to have a good experience. That's a lot of pressure. (Self imposed I know, but still.)

So I prefer experienced partners, though I've had sex with virgins before and would do so again if I know them well.
Mar 12, 2015 1:29 AM
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preferred but not a neccesary
Mar 12, 2015 1:33 AM

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Why would I care about that? Personality is what counts
Mar 12, 2015 1:38 AM

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xEmptiness said:
Sexism is directly in the picture because in almost all societies (especially traditional ones), female virginity is far more important than male virginity. Instead of reflecting my view, it reflects how society tends to see it.


I RAVAGE AND DEFILE ALL THAT I SEE
Mar 12, 2015 1:40 AM
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FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY
HER
RIGHT
IN
THE
PUSSY
Mar 12, 2015 1:41 AM

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as much as I know it's stupid and not very probable I would prefer my first girl to be a virgin
Mar 12, 2015 1:42 AM
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Oh and guys who expect "boyfriend-free girls" to come flocking to them are all autistics, be ashamed! :)
Mar 12, 2015 7:45 AM

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For me, yes, it's very important.
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Mar 12, 2015 7:56 AM
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Let's ask a better question, Daniels-chan!

We shall be asking "Do you consider YOUR virginity/purity to be a desirable trait?"
Mar 12, 2015 7:59 AM

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I prefer virgins. Although after I take their virginity, they don't become less desirable.




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Hitler was good, objectively.
Mar 12, 2015 8:16 AM
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I don't care.


Mar 12, 2015 8:18 AM
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geniobastardo said:
Virginity- Not necessary
Purity- necessary as fuck.
Mar 12, 2015 8:22 AM

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I don't feel it's that big of an issue, morals and values are different now a days.

If the person had slept around a fair bit I'd probably be a bit reluctant to date them but not opposed to it. I guess it depends more on who they are as a person. If they slept around and cheated on people they were in relationships with no I wouldn't go there but if it was while they were single or not committed to anyone but wouldn't if they had a SO then no it wouldn't bother me as much.
Mar 12, 2015 8:28 AM

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If someone had one or two long-term relationships (talking about age ~18-25 here which I guess most of us are?) I don't think it should matter whether they are a virgin when you start dating them, since after all they have proven to be loyal already and relationships can't always work out.

However if someone has slept around like crazy I can see how that would make them less desirable for some.
Mar 12, 2015 8:31 AM

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I like their souls to be as pure as possible, when I extract it from them., so purity is a plus. (◕‿◕✿)
Mar 12, 2015 8:34 AM

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for virginity:

desirable, not necessary in any way
you could call it a 'bonus' but anything else is going to be kind of silly

purity is...
lovable
not the only lovable thing, but it's something

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Mar 12, 2015 8:35 AM

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I wouldn't say virginity/purity is important... but I would say that not having made the rounds all around town is kind of important.
Mar 12, 2015 8:49 AM
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I'd honestly be lying if I said I didn't prefer it. I think it's ideal for men and women though. I dunno, I just really like the idea of sharing that together.

If I really cared for someone though, it wouldn't matter all that much.
Mar 12, 2015 9:00 AM

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it doesn't really matter




Mar 12, 2015 10:21 AM

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As long as the person I'm with doesn't bring up their past partners or use it against me as a comparison, I honestly don't care.
Mar 12, 2015 10:26 AM

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I will admit that there is something more attractive about purity. If I had the option to date someone who either was a virgin or a nymphomaniac, I'd probably go with the former.

It doesn't matter too much though, but sex isn't the most important thing I'm looking for in a relationship, and I'd be more compatible with someone who shared my same values in that regard.
Mar 12, 2015 10:26 AM

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I don't give a fuck.


Mar 12, 2015 11:32 AM

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It's honestly overrated to me.
Mar 12, 2015 11:34 AM

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I really don't care.
Mar 12, 2015 11:48 AM

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I do prefer it a little bit, but obviously I wouldn't say no to a really nice girl just because she's sexually experienced.

That said, her having a high sex drive, regardless of experience, is probably more important for me. I'd have difficulty loving a girl if she's unwilling to do 'fun' and intimate things. And if she's only interested in vanilla stuff then I'm likely to grow bored of it and go back to my hand.
Mar 12, 2015 11:50 AM

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Just like everyone else I don't care. If I lose it, I lose it. In the meantime I will read more doujinshi.

Mar 12, 2015 12:17 PM

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it's a plus but it's not necessary
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