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Nov 6, 2014 6:33 PM
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Let's say you're in your 20s (20-29 years old). All this time you've bashed on other virgin guys for being losers, when in fact you yourself are actually a virgin too. Naturally, people just assumed that you're experienced, despite no evidence at all to the contrary. (No girlfriend, hesitating to engage in a cyber, no stories to offer, etc.) You understand girls "theoretically", but you haven't gone beyond flirting with another girl.

If you were in this situation, how would you go about losing your virginity? If you find someone, would you let them know that you're a virgin? Can a girl detect inexperience?

I know girls expect us, men, to be somewhat experienced when doing the deed. What are your surefire tips on feigning experience?

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Not for MAL users it isn't
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:35 PM

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A girl can detect the smell of virgin a mile away.It's like blood in the ocean and we are sharks. And then instead of going in for the kill we just start moving away instead slowly circling outwards until you're.....forever alone. Hopefully you might get picked up by the friend zone, but you might just end up dying out there.
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:35 PM

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Most people lose their virginity at 19. 20 isn't much of a stretch.

You can lose your virginity anytime you want. Just find an ugly girl.
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:36 PM

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Probably the easy way is to get $100 and go to backpage. lol
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:38 PM
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PoeticJustice said:
Most people lose their virginity at 19. 20 isn't much of a stretch.

You can lose your virginity anytime you want. Just find an ugly girl.
But what if a guy is 25-29 years old? Is it considered a "stretch"?
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:38 PM

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A whore bro
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:39 PM

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Is 20s not the average number or something? Most of my friends lost virginity once they started college and bragging about how easy it is to have sex at parties
 
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Nov 6, 2014 6:41 PM

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I think girls can detect it but I believe it wouldnt put you at a disadvantage 60% of the time. I've had girls disappointed when I said I wasn't, I mean shit if they told me they werent virgins I wouldnt make a fucking sad face hahaha.

Back on topic, you're puttin the pussy on the pedestal bro. Just focus on finding a chick to date that doesnt look like she'll pretend to want to wait for marriage and it will happen eventually.
 
Nov 6, 2014 6:44 PM

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I wouldn't I won't allow myself to be used for sex and im 23 on my way to wizard status.
 
Nov 6, 2014 6:50 PM

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Ive never bashed anyone for being a virgin. I also dont really see a point in just trying to get laid by a deadline i mean why not just make it with someone worthwhile and at a worthwhile timing not rushed.
 
Nov 6, 2014 6:54 PM

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I was 21 when I did, don't see the problem. Then again I wanted a long term comitment and a family.
 
Nov 6, 2014 6:56 PM

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Ive never bashed anyone for being a virgin. I also dont really see a point in just trying to get laid by a deadline i mean why not just make it with someone worthwhile and at a worthwhile timing not rushed.

Pretty much this, don't waste it while you have it, not worth it in the slightest.
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Nov 6, 2014 6:59 PM

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The best time to lose your virginity is when you feel like you're ready for it.

Don't lose your virginity just because you feel obligated to or you feel like you're "too young/old" to wait. That's just ridiculous.
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:00 PM

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Don't let them know you're a virgin unless they ask. Let your actions do the talking first before they even make disagreeable remarks. Gather your confidence and explore your partner's body. The determining factor for your sexual competence is when both of you enjoy what you're doing so if s/he is dissatisfied, you might want to change tactics. Though people may like pain, pleasure, etc. It's up to you and your partner's mutual understanding. Foreplay is always a good starting point. A skilled partner will have their way of knowing if you are, regrettably, inexperienced along the intercourse. Things may go downhill from there so try to be honest and sincere!

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Nov 6, 2014 7:05 PM

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Detect lack of experience?
I didn't even realize people tried to.
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:09 PM

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BDSM is great!

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Seemed pretty clear to me...
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:14 PM

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I don't understand this anxiety of being a virgin. Stop thinking about what others might think, the lesser you care the happier you'll be, and the people around won't care either.

Nisah said:
Don't let them know you're a virgin unless they ask. Let your actions do the talking first before they even make disagreeable remarks. Gather your confidence and explore your partner's body. The determining factor for your sexual competence is when both of you enjoy what you're doing so if s/he is dissatisfied, you might want to change tactics. Though people may like pain, pleasure, etc. It's up to you and your partner's mutual understanding. Foreplay is always a good starting point. A skilled partner will have their way of knowing if you are, regrettably, inexperienced along the intercourse. Things may go downhill from there so try to be honest and sincere!

(wtf am I saying)


Sounded like it came of experience, maybe you should take a job in sex education visit schools and shit


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Virgins these days.
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:19 PM
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you just need money and brothels if you are desperate for sex
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:20 PM

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I've come to the conclusion that it is physically impossible for anyone to ever lose their virginity in their 20s. May as well pack it up and hit that wizard status at 30
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:25 PM

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only one of my orifices still has virgin status ^_^
lewd is love, lewd is life !

 
Nov 6, 2014 7:25 PM
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Hugh Hefner lost his at 22
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:27 PM

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If you have sex you will get pregnant and you will die. Don't do do it.
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:37 PM

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Revelry said:
PoeticJustice said:
Most people lose their virginity at 19. 20 isn't much of a stretch.

You can lose your virginity anytime you want. Just find an ugly girl.
But what if a guy is 25-29 years old? Is it considered a "stretch"?


If the girl loves you then no. But most women don't find virgins attractive in my experience.
 
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My virginity is important, I have to protect it!

If you really want to let it go, hire a hooker. There, problem solved.

To lost it between 20 and 29 is completly normal, I know a lot of people over 25 y/o which are still virgins (they are not weeboos or freaks).
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:42 PM

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only one of my orifices still has virgin status ^_^
I'm not ready to take your nostrils virginity.
 
Nov 6, 2014 7:44 PM

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LegnaOnFire said:
My virginity is important, I have to protect it!

If you really want to let it go, hire a hooker. There, problem solved.

To lost it between 20 and 29 is completly normal, I know a lot of people over 25 y/o which are still virgins (they are not weeboos or freaks).


This isnt normal
 
Nov 6, 2014 8:03 PM

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MAL's weekly virgin thread.
 
Nov 6, 2014 8:05 PM

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oh boy another virgin thread.

whats next can you lose it at 12 although i had a friend who "lost" at 8 lol rip in piece daniel
you sound poor
 
Nov 6, 2014 8:08 PM
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Back on topic, you're puttin the pussy on the pedestal bro. Just focus on finding a chick to date that doesnt look like she'll pretend to want to wait for marriage and it will happen eventually.
I'm not really an outgoing guy in real life. Plus, I'm not into emotionally unstable girls, which reduces my dating pool by 70%.

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If you really want to let it go, hire a hooker. There, problem solved.
Everyone knows that hookers who cost $200 and below per hour are curvy girls. Eh, I like skinny women. And I certainly can't afford a high-end escort with my meager allowance. Maybe when I get a job at Google/Microsoft, I'll be able to do that.
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If I were in your situation I would wait for "that girl." I don't plan on losing it til marriage or probably before if I find a girl I really like. But if you really want to lose it that bad just go to a party and ask for a hook up it's real easy.
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Nov 6, 2014 8:16 PM

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I'm gonna stay a virgin forever.

 
Nov 6, 2014 8:24 PM
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Hashjaidel said:
Revelry said:
I'm not really an outgoing guy in real life. Plus, I'm not into emotionally unstable girls, which reduces my dating pool by 70%.

Everyone knows that hookers who cost $200 and below an hour are curvy girls. Eh, I like skinny women. And I certainly can't afford a high-end escort with my meager allowance.

Boy, you don't know real world out there. Besides, you've a credit card with a magic influx of money from nowhere.


You dedicated your 143th post to me. How lovely.

On the contrary, I understand the real world unlike women who wouldn't notice even if the world were to end today. You're a damn woman, Hash, so I won't listen to your advice.
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Nov 6, 2014 8:31 PM

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Yes. Though if you're acting like a little bitch and you're ashamed of it then maybe it will be harder.

If you're a fucking man and you realize that you don't need "experience" or some instruction book to make a girl feel good then you'll be fine. That shit is written in your genes.

Just remember the three easy steps:

1. Kiss her a lot.
2. Appreciate her body.
3. Stimulate the clitoris whilst simultaneously achieving deep penetration.

If you're still confused, be a man and ask her to let you know what feels good and what she wants you to do. Men should not whine and get embarrassed about talking to a woman about sex. If she's too embarrassed to tell you then just say you're number one concern is pleasing her and making sure she has a good time. Women love that kind of shit. As you get a little more into the process, try to read her body: if she's liking it, you'll probably know.

Anyway, the idea that women can "smell" that shit, or just know is fucking stupid. Can she know if you're a whiny little cunt about it, or if you play it off all like you're hot shit and then get all defensive? Sure. Will she know if you act like a fucking man and be confident yet humble? Maybe, but who cares because your fucking demeanor will tell her that you're a boss and that your natural instinct is better than most guy's "experience". Make her feel like a champion and then, if anything, your lack of experience becomes a badge of honor.

yes yes yes yes!!!
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Nov 6, 2014 8:32 PM
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Oh, wait.


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It cant be that hard now can it? I never really tried, but Ive managed to make a few girls fall in love with relative ease. Which was not actually my intent, I was just having fun with them and casually flirting and before you know it they fucking like you. Damn pain in the ass. But yeah I guess I'll see how hard it really is as soon as I move out and dont have to respond to my super christian controlling mother. Dont think sex is worth making the disparity between me and my mom even bigger. I can wait.
 
Nov 6, 2014 10:11 PM

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But why, just wait another 10 more year and you can finally become a wizard.
 
Nov 6, 2014 10:12 PM
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Nope. Once you hit 20, virgins magically lose sex organs. Damn it all!
 
Nov 6, 2014 10:22 PM

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Who honestly cares. Virgin or not. There's no reason to worry about some kind of trivial thing. Will that really matter to someone who cares about you? No. Virgin isn't some kind of genetic disease. You're completely normal. Just not experienced in the act. Most of the time (even you guys) regret losing their virginity to others at a young age. A girl I dated at one point broke down and started apologizing because she wasn't a virgin. So...? It's just sex. Not a disfiguring. Same with virginity. No one who matters gives a shit. Because it's your life. Not theirs.
 
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Elvellonwen said:
A girl can detect the smell of virgin a mile away.It's like blood in the ocean and we are sharks. And then instead of going in for the kill we just start moving away instead slowly circling outwards until you're.....forever alone. Hopefully you might get picked up by the friend zone, but you might just end up dying out there.
Haha, seriously?

My little sister just got married. The guy's my age, she's a couple years younger. Both nice religious young people, most likely virgins before they got married. Though I haven't asked them... lol

There are a lot of young people in the church my parents go to. And most of them, seemingly at least, are also virgins. It's a pretty old-fashioned church with very conservative old fashioned people and huge negative stigma for acts of sexual immorality.

So yeah, there are nice pure love stories like this that still happen in the modern world. It's not all Sex in the City and HBO, people.
 
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Doesn't matter whether your a virgin or not, you don't need to lose your virginity for the sake of losing your virginity. The time will come.
 
Nov 6, 2014 10:34 PM
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Doesn't matter whether your a virgin or not, you don't need to lose your virginity for the sake of losing your virginity. The time will come.


Not always.
 
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Elvellonwen said:
A girl can detect the smell of virgin a mile away.It's like blood in the ocean and we are sharks. And then instead of going in for the kill we just start moving away instead slowly circling outwards until you're.....forever alone. Hopefully you might get picked up by the friend zone, but you might just end up dying out there.
"There's no such thing as a friendzone but there's such a thing called being a little bitch"- Filthy Frank
 
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Elvellonwen said:
A girl can detect the smell of virgin a mile away.It's like blood in the ocean and we are sharks. And then instead of going in for the kill we just start moving away instead slowly circling outwards until you're.....forever alone. Hopefully you might get picked up by the friend zone, but you might just end up dying out there.
"There's no such thing as a friendzone but there's such a thing called being a little bitch"- Filthy Frank


 
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Hashjaidel said:
Anyways, a tip; never involve yourself with a woman using too much makeup. You never know what devils may hide behind a Michelangelo's fresco.
That is some good advice right there.

Anyways, it's starting to look like I'll be into my early 30's before I even start looking for a partner. It is causing me a little bit of concern.
 
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Not always.


Well once you're dead it won't bother you anymore.
 
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Just before you go down on her, get up and cry in the corner for 40 minutes.
 
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Naturally, people just assumed that you're experienced, despite no evidence at all to the contrary. (No girlfriend, hesitating to engage in a cyber, no stories to offer, etc.)

Pardon?


Losing your e-virginity is a big step for some people.
 
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Feyfray said:
fluffy_maus said:

Pardon?


Losing your e-virginity is a big step for some people.


One must not hesitate to engage in a cyber.
 
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