| Whant you guy's do when whant speek whit some on, or what you do when you are sade |
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| Me to Kabuterimon said: Heko said: Whant you guy's do when whant speek whit some on I feel depressed because I can't Heko said: or what you do when you are sade I wait for it to go away hope that helped Me to,dat sucks. I lisening rock or somting what make me ralax,wathing comedy or reading somting funy (manga) dat can make me laugh and bing smile |
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Heko said: Whant you guy's do when whant speek whit some on I only speak to others when I really need to. Otherwise I don't at all. This usually happens about once per 2 weeks. And I usually have to gather all sorts of courage and experience high level anxiety and stress before I do that. But hey, we're all different, so.... Heko said: what you do when you are sade Sugarcoat it with music. Can be depressing ones, intentionally to make me cry. Can be lively ones. Or I read manga or watch anime. In other words, I flee this world mentally and go to fantasy world whether it'd be manga, anime or games. Not a good thing to do but I'm just not strong enough to stand against this rotten world. |
| ''俺はいつになったら自由になれるんだろう…'' |
| all of these posts are from november, but i'm replying anyway. there's this girl i work with that i would wanna be friends with, but i can't really think of any opportunity to say anything to her. every time i think i might like someone, i end up getting really irritated by them and hating them or i try to talk to them and something shitty happens. like there was this one girl that i thought was cool and i guess since i don't know how to talk to people, i just blurted something out. i asked her where she was from, cos' the way she talked wasn't like city people, so i thought maybe she was from california. well, she suddenly says "america"...because she thought i was being racist. i was like...whelp, this ends that chapter. |
| The posts are sometimes replied to slowly heh Well either she was a bitch or it was your tone of voice. Did you ssy it with a smile? I mean a real one hah no smile is better than a creepy fake smile. If it were me i woulda laughed and said "nah I mean state" and just say what you said here how your reason for asking. I get nervous around people and say stuff too late but it helps a little to have a few pre thought out lines to pull out but dont stick to them strongly you have to be flexible. |
| I normally just have conversations with myself...no, I'm not mad. Or am I? @@@@@@ |
Eulenspiegel said: I normally just have conversations with myself...no, I'm not mad. Or am I? @@@@@@ yam i do dat to |
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| I've got a pretty good support network of a few very close friends that I can confide in. As well as a therapist to speak to... So when I am feeling depressed (and have something triggering this depression) I will talk it out with people. I prefer to stick to text rather than voice chat, though. Otherwise, if I'm sad for no reason (which is usually the case) then I just wait for it to pass. I'll lay in bed all day, watch TV, play video games, read manga... just basically do anything to keep my thoughts from accumulating. |
| I use text more too but i enjoy seeing someones face on cam and just doing our own things in eachothers webcam company hej |
| It goes like... Open mouth, take a deep breath-- suffer a wave of self-conscious hesitance... Step back, get your bearings. Go over your lines again, waver between saying it and being quiet... And, chance missed, tell yourself you could have said it with a better opportunity, glad that's over. Or if they talk to me: Are they talking to me? Look at them -- glance at their eyes -- oh crap, eye contact! Uh, what do they want? Um, uh, hi--! Yes or no question, please... Try to smile or something. Oh, uh-- well-- think of-- words and-- respond as quickly as possible look down. Wish that had gone better. |
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