Greetings everyone,
Bored with my day off I decided to do a little trolling and see what I find.
I haven't been in the MAL forums in more than a year. But anyhow...
I totally agree with what that article states about women and feminism.
But, don't be too quick to point a crooked finger at women, men are just self-fulfilling as women. Being selfish is a big part of our design, it drives us to survive and succed in live. If we weren't selfish, we would have no ambitions, we would have no desire to fulfill oursleves.
Currently, I am writting a book about beliefs and how those beliefs affect our decisions.
In that book, a few sections are on the psychological needs of mankind.
Here is an excerpt:
The Psychological Needs
At the core our existence and at the center of our lives are the needs of the inherent design. Because of its design, an automobile needs fuel and other fluids to maintain its performance and sustain its ability to function, so does mankind and all other living things in existence.
The Physical Needs are the needs of the physical body. These needs are required for us to continue living and sustain a relatively normal life span. These are our most basic human needs.
While of them like oxygen, nitrogen, water, food, sleep, warmth, and the correct of minerals are essential for us to even live a single moment of life; others like sexual and initiate contact, physical comfort, proper nutrition, and exercise are essential for us to be strong, fit, independent enough that we, as individuals, can seek to fulfill our higher needs.
The Six Psychological Needs, from which all other derive, can be thought of as a ‘higher set’ of needs than those of the physical level. It is not that they are more important. Rather, they are considered to be ‘higher needs’, due to the fact that if the basic needs are not met, meeting these ‘higher needs’ will not happen at all.
Even though we begin to need Psychological Needs at a very age most people are not ever aware that they are actually attempting to fulfill these ‘higher needs’ instead they are consumed by their methods of getting from ‘A’ to ‘B’. In short most people are not even aware what they are truly trying to fulfill, due to their lack of education. But worry not, its not their fault we don’t teach this in high school.
Significance & Connection
Do you know why women have to be excited about the guy they are with before they will spread their legs? Because every woman has the need to believe that she is apart of something special. That ‘special relationship’. They have the need to be with a man who is going to value them. And, why not? Women have the right to be with someone who is going to value them and take care of them.
It’s a need of the ego. Men have this need, too. We all do. Men need their women to make them feel valued and desired. But, for men it’s different. We don’t need to have that feeling that we are apart of something special, such as love, in order to have sex with a person. Men are designed differently. Men, on the other hand, need to feel that their mate looks up to them. That is why men try their hardest to empress their lady friends. Again its’ all about the ego. Men and women, both need to feel significant. We all want to feel valued and desired.
It’s not necessarily that we as individuals need to feel that we are above others—well some of us do but—all of us do need to feel that we have ‘value’. Together the need for connection and the need for significance (the ego) are two of the major forces in human society. It is human nature to feel a sense of connection of other people. It is human nature to feel a sense of significance or value around other people. These needs go all of the way back to our ancestral roots. Even dogs and monkey have the need for connection and significance. These needs are the purpose and meaning of their ‘pecking orders’.
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