shylovegrisha said:A photo of myself is in the About Me section of my profile. When I first came to the site I did have my photo up as profile pic but noticed most didn't, and most especially I didn't like the search factor showing it up all the time, or if I posted comments to have it there on people's pages.
If someone wants to see me, they can come to my page and read about me as well. Just having my pic up among a group of people where lot of judgements can be quickly made for good or ill based solely on appearance, I decided against having it up generally. It's just a matter of personal privacy and preference, plus what kind of website it is. On almost every other website I am a part of, I place my photo up as profile pic no problem at all, but then those are travel websites or specifically for friends I can control who views my info and pics, like Facebook.
mightykid218 said:[
maykipz said:
Every time I see someone who has a picture of themselves as their profile picture I kind of snort and ignore them. No one wants to see your attempt at being attractive.
Well that's a silly, almost douchey assumption. I could name hundreds of reasons for using your own picture in your profile, forum, etc. that don't involve that kind of egotism at all. The only one worth listing though, is "just because." Not everyone who uses their face gives a shit if the other users find them attractive. Speaking as someone who used their own face, something about it being my profile made me think I should use my own face on it, especially since there was plenty of anime on the page itself already. The majority of comments I've gotten on the picture are actually bad. But I don't really give a shit at all.
maykipz response is just the typical of immature, and extremely juvenile crap of why I don't have my photo up generally. Because everyone is not like that. Seems maykipz has some self-esteem issues and is trying to put other people down. Mightykid made interesting truth reply. Some of us could care less what other people think, because what possible difference will their online opinion have in our life??! ha!
I will also say, since I go to different language websites, English (American, Australian), German, Russian, Japanese, Finnish, whatever I find of interest...I've noticed that on more American sites people tend to NOT put up their own photos, while compared to German websites for example, people do put up their own photos. Comparatively I think they accept how they look, good or bad, their individuality, etc. and don't care as much what others MIGHT think or assume about them.