I prefer a middleground; I don't like bossy people just like I don't like pushovers.
I'm a chill guy, so being controling wouldn't fit with my personality, but I wouldn't let someone take advantage of that and try to be dominant over me.
I don't know why men like those submissive women, maybe it is because those women do not fight back? And the men get what they want. Maybe it is also because of the question of pride, it is normal for people to think the male are stronger than female and if those people believed that fact, what will they say when they saw a stronger female but weak male?